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Wicked Blue

(5,821 posts)
Wed Dec 9, 2020, 12:02 PM Dec 2020

Columnist explains why Trump needs to be treated like a child

Raw Story
December 9, 2020
By Alex Henderson, AlterNet
https://www.rawstory.com/2020/12/columnist-explains-why-trump-needs-to-be-treated-like-a-child/

Countless pundits have compared President Donald Trump’s refusal to accept the 2020 presidential elections to the temper tantrums of a spoiled child. Washington Post opinion columnist Kate Cohen, however, believes that comparing Trump’s post-election behavior to a child’s temper tantrums “underestimates the damage he has done and could still do.” But Cohen goes on to say that if a Trump/spoiled brat analogy is going to be used, it is important that Trump’s childish behavior not be rewarded.

“Thinking of this problem in terms of parenting might be useful as we struggle to solve it,” Cohen writes. “The first thing, of course, is not to give in. As a parent, you simply cannot reward your child when he whines for an extra cookie, a later bedtime, another Georgia ballot recount.”

According to Cohen, indulging Trump’s temper tantrums “would teach him that sort of behavior works.” And she is glad to see that some people aren’t indulging him.

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“As every good parent eventually learns, it’s not enough to ignore the misbehavior — and it’s not enough to refuse to reward it,” Cohen explains. “You have to punish it. Or it will never stop. In our house, that meant putting whichever child was trying to overturn a free and fair election into a room by himself. Rep. Bill Pascrell, Jr. (D-N.J.) has called for disbarment of Rudolph W. Giuliani and 22 other members of Trump’s legal enablers team. But what to do with the 74-year-old child himself? Clearly, someone’s got to take away his phone. The only question is, which parent has to play the heavy while the other pretends to be deeply absorbed in washing the dishes?”

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Columnist explains why Trump needs to be treated like a child (Original Post) Wicked Blue Dec 2020 OP
Can we give him a time out? Send him to bed without supper? tinrobot Dec 2020 #1
I vote for "throw him in jail" Wicked Blue Dec 2020 #3
One could follow the advice of the Dutchess JenniferJuniper Dec 2020 #2
A hard paddling might make us feel better Wicked Blue Dec 2020 #5
When my son was little, I used to recite PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2020 #7
I hope that Twitter takes away his phone once he's no longer President. n/t Laelth Dec 2020 #4
Deny him the unofficial perks of an ex-President. rickford66 Dec 2020 #6

JenniferJuniper

(4,507 posts)
2. One could follow the advice of the Dutchess
Wed Dec 9, 2020, 12:10 PM
Dec 2020

in Alice Wonderland:

Speak roughly to your little boy.
⁠And beat him when he sneezes:
He only does it to annoy,
⁠Because he knows it teases.

Or the Ramones:

Beat on the brat, beat on the brat
Beat on the brat with a baseball bat,
Oh yeah

Wicked Blue

(5,821 posts)
5. A hard paddling might make us feel better
Wed Dec 9, 2020, 12:13 PM
Dec 2020

but it's not good or effective parenting.

Besides, what if he enjoys it?
He might be a tad kinky; remember the pee incident in Moscow.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,817 posts)
7. When my son was little, I used to recite
Wed Dec 9, 2020, 01:26 PM
Dec 2020

the Alice in Wonderland verse to him every time he sneezed.

Imagine his surprise when he got around to reading the book when he was an adult.

rickford66

(5,522 posts)
6. Deny him the unofficial perks of an ex-President.
Wed Dec 9, 2020, 12:24 PM
Dec 2020

Also do not award him any official perks until he admits defeat. Example: No Pension, because he believes he is still in office. See ? Simple.

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