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no_hypocrisy

(55,079 posts)
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 04:26 PM Dec 2020

Sit down Everyone. Here we go . . . .

New York Gov. Cuomo accused of sexual harassment by former development aide

A former aide to New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo who is now running for Manhattan borough president accused him of sexual harassment in a series of tweets Sunday, saying he made inappropriate comments about her appearance.

Lindsey Boylan tweeted that the Democratic governor "sexually harassed me for years. Many saw it, and watched."

"I could never anticipate what to expect: would I be grilled on my work (which was very good) or harassed about my looks. Or would it be both in the same conversation? This was the way for years," she continued.

Boylan, 36, worked for the Cuomo administration from March 2015 to October 2018, serving first as executive vice president of Empire State Development, and then as a special adviser to Cuomo for economic development.

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Sit down Everyone. Here we go . . . . (Original Post) no_hypocrisy Dec 2020 OP
In case he's thinking of running in 2024, may as well rough him up now. Dream Girl Dec 2020 #1
Also to prevent Biden from nominating Cuomo for USAG. no_hypocrisy Dec 2020 #2
Got a feeling this is figuring into the complaint peggysue2 Dec 2020 #23
That was my first thought. Bloody him up before he has a chance. IsItJustMe Dec 2020 #68
Well, if he is talking about women's looks, he must be qualified to be President. Trump set the bar Boogiemack Dec 2020 #51
So, you're saying Democrats want to "rough him up"? brooklynite Dec 2020 #32
It's possible. Just like Democrats tried to rough up Biden Hav Dec 2020 #81
What woman would be surprised with this conversation. Yes, we know what she is talking about LizBeth Dec 2020 #3
That's what we need: Disaffected Dec 2020 #18
Who said a damn thing about "Iron clad innuendo. Hang'em high I say!" LizBeth Dec 2020 #20
You expressed that Cuomo is guilty as accused Yeehah Dec 2020 #42
Cuomo and many men think they have.... conjecture and you damn well know it. LizBeth Dec 2020 #43
Cuomo is guilty cuz he's aman and many men are guilty. Dream Girl Dec 2020 #44
Read what you want into... I am done. LizBeth Dec 2020 #48
Good. Shades of Al Franken Drahthaardogs Dec 2020 #77
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #4
+1. n/t rzemanfl Dec 2020 #5
The woman accusing him is a liberal democrat Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #10
MeToo for everyone forthemiddle Dec 2020 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #24
I am just trying to figure out the rules forthemiddle Dec 2020 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #33
Believe the accuser doesn't mean guilty accused it means go through the process. I don't believe uponit7771 Dec 2020 #52
Statute of limitations. ahoysrcsm Dec 2020 #73
she and all accusers have a right to be taken seriously dsc Dec 2020 #57
I absolutely agree with you forthemiddle Dec 2020 #67
He was being considered Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #30
True none of us know Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #37
So we should immediately discount any sexual harassment claim? brooklynite Dec 2020 #34
At this point, yes. It has so obviously been weaponized. We can't keep falling for this shit. Dream Girl Dec 2020 #46
Believe the accuser doesn't mean the accused is guilty and never has no matter who was... uponit7771 Dec 2020 #55
Nope. But we should assume innocent until proven guilty Drahthaardogs Dec 2020 #78
No. There is a third way. Caliman73 Dec 2020 #82
Two words for her... 2naSalit Dec 2020 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #11
We have an ACTUAL rapist in the White House and in the Supreme Court onecaliberal Dec 2020 #8
If it is just her accusing him Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #14
The woman accusing him is a liberal democrat. Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #31
I said he deserves the presumption of innocence Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #39
They probably have them lined up. This is right out of their playbook. Dream Girl Dec 2020 #47
Who has them lined up? Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #56
Guess. Dream Girl Dec 2020 #58
You tell me Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #59
Goodness gracious. LanternWaste Dec 2020 #63
Only difficult if Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #66
We MUST investigate every $metoo accusation. ahoysrcsm Dec 2020 #75
She ran against Jerry Nadler & for Manhattan Borough President in 2020. Both times got 21% of vote. TheBlackAdder Dec 2020 #12
I tire of this. hamsterjill Dec 2020 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #15
+1, and part of the claim is it was out in the open and "many saw it and watched" but no one has ... uponit7771 Dec 2020 #49
She doesn't want to talk to journalists stillcool Dec 2020 #16
Basically, she seems to be saying he commented on her looks. tblue37 Dec 2020 #17
that's what she appears to be saying and while that's a form of harassment LymphocyteLover Dec 2020 #71
This surprises me not at all. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2020 #19
If we're going somewhere, shouldn't we be standing up? Baclava Dec 2020 #21
"Harassed about my looks" BGBD Dec 2020 #25
"You look nice today" harassment Dream Girl Dec 2020 #50
Acually, it is kcr Dec 2020 #61
Sorry, not buying this. smirkymonkey Dec 2020 #27
What annoys me about this discussion ... brooklynite Dec 2020 #35
Great point Dem4Life1102 Dec 2020 #40
Nina Turner Renew Deal Dec 2020 #53
what about her? LymphocyteLover Dec 2020 #70
The timing is too much of a coincidence she was paid off. Dream Girl Dec 2020 #54
"You have the option of not reading them..." LanternWaste Dec 2020 #64
Exactly this Dorian Gray Dec 2020 #69
Where's Roger Stone? Chin music Dec 2020 #36
I'll wait until I hear more. demmiblue Dec 2020 #41
Like a certain dose of Neanderthal DNA Beringia Dec 2020 #80
It's not particularly fair to herself or Cuomo to level vague accusations in public Buckeyeblue Dec 2020 #45
From the NYT octoberlib Dec 2020 #60
I'm sitting down. Once I was harrassed beyond my limit to accept. I quit immediately. There I went. Judi Lynn Dec 2020 #62
Obviously, somebody doesn't want Andrew as Attorney General?? kentuck Dec 2020 #65
According to this KTLA article, She has some issues of her own mackdaddy Dec 2020 #72
"This was the way for years..." - she worked for him for 3 years.... George II Dec 2020 #74
Justice Democrats' Tara Reade Redux AmericanCanuck Dec 2020 #76
She is saying he made inappropriate comments about her appearance. marie999 Dec 2020 #79

peggysue2

(12,554 posts)
23. Got a feeling this is figuring into the complaint
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:14 PM
Dec 2020

Regardless of where you stand on a Cuomo appointment, I think the majority realize that Trumpers and the alt-right know that Cuomo would not shirk from coming after all of them. That would include the King Corruption at the tippy-top of a very rotten pyramid. There's no love loss between Cuomo and Trump, the latter resenting Cuomo's star presence in his daily Covid-19 briefings.

Cuomo tends to put the fear of God (and the law) in lots of these people. So . . . bring him down a peg or two.

Of course, I could be wrong and the complaint could be legitimate. But until we see evidence of another harassment complaint (think Tara Read vs Biden), I'll remain suspicious. Even the timing is . . . curious, to say the least.

 

Boogiemack

(1,406 posts)
51. Well, if he is talking about women's looks, he must be qualified to be President. Trump set the bar
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:32 PM
Dec 2020

Hav

(5,969 posts)
81. It's possible. Just like Democrats tried to rough up Biden
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 03:14 PM
Dec 2020

with made up nonsense. Why would that surprise you when it happened before?

LizBeth

(11,222 posts)
3. What woman would be surprised with this conversation. Yes, we know what she is talking about
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 04:37 PM
Dec 2020

and can well be right. Cuomo and many men think they have the right, and so they do and we all sit back and watch. What was the piece abut DR Jill Biden?

LizBeth

(11,222 posts)
20. Who said a damn thing about "Iron clad innuendo. Hang'em high I say!"
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 05:59 PM
Dec 2020

That is what you got from the very very little I dared to say out loud? I think there may be some reflective that is needed here.

Yeehah

(6,567 posts)
42. You expressed that Cuomo is guilty as accused
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:10 PM
Dec 2020

'Cuomo thinks he has the right and so he did' is a reasonable interpretation of your post.

LizBeth

(11,222 posts)
43. Cuomo and many men think they have.... conjecture and you damn well know it.
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:15 PM
Dec 2020

And it still doesn't hit : "Iron clad innuendo. Hang'em high I say!"

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forthemiddle

(1,459 posts)
22. MeToo for everyone
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:10 PM
Dec 2020

Except if I happen to like the guy?

Just saying, this seems to be an ongoing theme. Either we believe women, or we don’t.

Response to forthemiddle (Reply #22)

forthemiddle

(1,459 posts)
28. I am just trying to figure out the rules
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:25 PM
Dec 2020

So according to you, we only believe women if the accuse men that we don’t agree with politically.

Ok got it!

Response to forthemiddle (Reply #28)

uponit7771

(93,532 posts)
52. Believe the accuser doesn't mean guilty accused it means go through the process. I don't believe
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:33 PM
Dec 2020

... we're still clarifying this crap years later.

ahoysrcsm

(1,167 posts)
73. Statute of limitations.
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 12:52 PM
Dec 2020

How many days, weeks, months, years... do we wait for an accusation to appear? Does $metoo have an unlimited statute of limitation? Do we accept all $metoo accusations without merit or validation?

Should Biden appoint a $metoo czar, and we investigate all men "just because they are men?"

Did you vote for Biden after he was accused by a woman, aka Biden's $metoo accusation?

dsc

(53,416 posts)
57. she and all accusers have a right to be taken seriously
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:36 PM
Dec 2020

they don't have a right to have their word treated as divine writ. She claims that many people witnessed this. Well, get them under oath and see what they say.

forthemiddle

(1,459 posts)
67. I absolutely agree with you
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 08:03 AM
Dec 2020

My post was to point out that #METOO means we take them seriously, and investigate. Unforetunately the automatic response from some is if they support the accused, the accuser automatically has ulterial motives. But if it's a Republican, we believe it right away.

I just ask that we take EVERY accusation seriously, and go from there.

 

Dem4Life1102

(3,974 posts)
26. He was being considered
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:23 PM
Dec 2020

and wasn’t chosen yet. Cuomo deserves to be presumed innocent until proven guilty. The woman accusing him is a liberal democrat currently running for Manhattan Borough president in NYC. If she produces no evidence, no one should hold it against Cuomo. But if she does he should be held accountable.

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Dem4Life1102

(3,974 posts)
37. True none of us know
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:40 PM
Dec 2020

so it is too soon to pass judgment in either direction. And everyone regardless of who they are should be held to the same standard.

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
46. At this point, yes. It has so obviously been weaponized. We can't keep falling for this shit.
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:24 PM
Dec 2020

uponit7771

(93,532 posts)
55. Believe the accuser doesn't mean the accused is guilty and never has no matter who was...
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:35 PM
Dec 2020

... invovled

Caliman73

(11,767 posts)
82. No. There is a third way.
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 03:33 PM
Dec 2020

People are reacting to the situation from what appears to be an emotional and/or realpolitik perspective. Some pointing out that men have a pattern of this behavior, therefore... others saying that right wingers have weaponized the sexual harassment claim, implying that perhaps the woman has been compromised.

The way to go about this is to report the allegations, allow for the investigation (without speculating)to be conducted, then based on the evidence, draw the conclusions and proceed with what is needed to be done to hold someone accountable.

Because we are emotional, tribal, and no always rational, people will continue to either proceed like Cuomo is guilty, or to trash the name of his accuser.

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onecaliberal

(36,594 posts)
8. We have an ACTUAL rapist in the White House and in the Supreme Court
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 05:18 PM
Dec 2020

Maybe repukes should care about that. It’s sad but I seriously doubt this.

 

Dem4Life1102

(3,974 posts)
9. If it is just her accusing him
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 05:19 PM
Dec 2020

it won’t matter.

If other women start coming forward it will have an affect.

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Dem4Life1102

(3,974 posts)
29. The woman accusing him is a liberal democrat.
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:26 PM
Dec 2020

While he deserves the presumption of innocence, we shouldn’t pass judgment on this woman or any others who may or may not come forward in the future. If none do, this will be quickly forgotten.

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TheBlackAdder

(29,981 posts)
12. She ran against Jerry Nadler & for Manhattan Borough President in 2020. Both times got 21% of vote.
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 05:26 PM
Dec 2020

.

Two races in the same year, with nearly the same results.

.

hamsterjill

(17,662 posts)
13. I tire of this.
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 05:30 PM
Dec 2020

First and foremost, NO ONE should ever have to tolerate sexual harassment.

Now, that said, this woman continued to work there for three years and did not report this. I realize that this happens and that there are reasons for it. But the timing of her accusation is certainly suspicious.

I still think the best defense against sexual harassment in a professional environment at least is to stand up, scream out “I will not tolerate that type of behavior toward me” and walk away. I’m not sure credibility isn’t damaged by waiting two years from departure from a job to accuse someone of harassment.

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uponit7771

(93,532 posts)
49. +1, and part of the claim is it was out in the open and "many saw it and watched" but no one has ...
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:30 PM
Dec 2020

... spoken up by now!?

I'll wait

stillcool

(34,407 posts)
16. She doesn't want to talk to journalists
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 05:32 PM
Dec 2020

she obviously didn't report it. So what does she want? She's making accusations to validate the
abuse of other women. The logic eludes me.

She did not provide details of the alleged harassment and didn't immediately respond to messages from The Associated Press. Boylan later tweeted, "To be clear: I have no interest in talking to journalists. I am about validating the experience of countless women and making sure abuse stops."
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Boylan's sexual harassment allegation against Cuomo comes after The Associated Press and others reported that the 63-year-old governor is under consideration for the job of attorney general in the administration of President-elect Joe Biden.
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LymphocyteLover

(9,950 posts)
71. that's what she appears to be saying and while that's a form of harassment
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 10:12 AM
Dec 2020

a lot depends on the details and it's a pretty low level of offense. It shouldn't be considered on the same level as physical harassment and worse. It sounds like they had a bad relationship.

I'm no Cuomo fan but this seems like small potatoes right now.

 

BGBD

(3,282 posts)
25. "Harassed about my looks"
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:22 PM
Dec 2020

means what exactly. Talking about how someone looks or is dressed is not in and of itself sexual harassment.

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
50. "You look nice today" harassment
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:32 PM
Dec 2020

Probably some shit like that which explained why she doesn’t want to be interviewed by journalists.

kcr

(15,522 posts)
61. Acually, it is
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:43 PM
Dec 2020

Don't talk about the looks of your co-workers. How is that hard?

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
27. Sorry, not buying this.
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:25 PM
Dec 2020

"She did not provide details of the alleged harassment and didn't immediately respond to messages from The Associated Press. Boylan later tweeted, "To be clear: I have no interest in talking to journalists. I am about validating the experience of countless women and making sure abuse stops."

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
35. What annoys me about this discussion ...
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:33 PM
Dec 2020

...is the immediate jump to "It's the Republicans" based on no evidence at all.

This is someone who worked for Cuomo in a senior position, and is a Democratic candidate. Are you suggesting she's a mole?

 

Dem4Life1102

(3,974 posts)
40. Great point
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:44 PM
Dec 2020

Cuomo deserves the presumption of innocence but this woman also deserves to be heard. In the end the truth will come out.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
64. "You have the option of not reading them..."
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 08:11 PM
Dec 2020

If annoyed, you stay by choice, or ignore by choice, yes? That seemed quite the bumper sticker last month. I imagine this month isn't too different.

Goalpost movements are an option too.

Dorian Gray

(13,850 posts)
69. Exactly this
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 09:56 AM
Dec 2020

She has a good reputation. Is it really SO OUTSIDE THE SCOPE OF POSSIBILITY that Cuomo would be capable of this? I don't think so.

She is stating her experience. Is this disqualifying? I guess we can have a longer discussion. Having said that, "republican mole" is ridiculous.

demmiblue

(39,834 posts)
41. I'll wait until I hear more.
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 06:46 PM
Dec 2020

Not gonna lie, there is a machismo factor that I have sensed from him.

Buckeyeblue

(6,387 posts)
45. It's not particularly fair to herself or Cuomo to level vague accusations in public
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:24 PM
Dec 2020

Not fair to her because it makes her sound like she is not telling the truth. Not fair to Cuomo because how can he defend himself against such a thing.

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
60. From the NYT
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:39 PM
Dec 2020

She has been a frequent critic of Mr. Cuomo and has long hinted at tensions with the governor’s office on social media. In 2019, Boylan, whose daughter was 5 at the time, tangled with a former Cuomo aide, Jim Malatras, about the extent to which the office accommodated working parents.

In another Twitter thread earlier this month, Ms. Boylan described her experience working for Mr. Cuomo as “beyond toxic” and “endlessly dispiriting.”

And on Saturday, after The Associated Press reported that President-elect Joe Biden was considering the governor for attorney general, Ms. Boylan pleaded with Mr. Biden to reconsider.

“There are fewer things more scary than giving this man, who exists without ethics, even more control,” she said on Twitter. “I saw how he wielded power for years. He takes advantage of people, including me. I hope ⁦@JoeBiden⁩ & ⁦⁦@KamalaHarris⁩ don’t do this.”

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/13/nyregion/cuomo-sexual-harassment.html

Judi Lynn

(164,155 posts)
62. I'm sitting down. Once I was harrassed beyond my limit to accept. I quit immediately. There I went.
Sun Dec 13, 2020, 07:53 PM
Dec 2020

It took no time at all to make that choice.

Better luck in your future post choices.

Here I go.

mackdaddy

(1,985 posts)
72. According to this KTLA article, She has some issues of her own
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 10:18 AM
Dec 2020

According to this KTLA article, She has some issues of her own.


Personnel memos written in 2018, obtained by The Associated Press, indicate that Boylan resigned after she was confronted about complaints about her own office behavior.

Several women complained to Empire State Development’s human resources department that “Ms. Boyland had behaved in a way towards them that was harassing, belittling, and had yelled and been generally unprofessional,” wrote the administration’s ethics officer, Julia Pinover Kupiec in one memo.

Boylan resigned after meeting with officials including Cuomo’s top lawyer, Alphonso David, to be “counseled” about the complaints.

David said in a follow-up memo that Boylan had contacted him several days later and said she had reconsidered her resignation and wished to return to work, but he discouraged her from doing so.



https://ktla.com/news/nationworld/former-aide-accuses-ny-gov-cuomo-of-sexually-harassing-her-for-years/

George II

(67,782 posts)
74. "This was the way for years..." - she worked for him for 3 years....
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 12:56 PM
Dec 2020

Anyone who isn't "grilled" on their work has a lousy boss.

I wonder how many people out there have been "harassed" about their looks? I know I was, and didn't consider it "harassment".

A few other observations:

1. If she didn't like the comments she could have, or should have said something at the time
2. She hasn't mentioned anything about physical contact
3. She chose to do this publicly on Twitter
4. She refuses to speak to journalists

 

marie999

(3,334 posts)
79. She is saying he made inappropriate comments about her appearance.
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 01:37 PM
Dec 2020

What inappropriate comments. Did he call her ugly or just say he thought the dress she was wearing was nice. I guess I could have been accused of making sexual harassment comments when I told a guy I liked his new tie. Tell us what he said or shut up.

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