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New York Gov. Cuomo accused of sexual harassment by former development aide
A former aide to New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo who is now running for Manhattan borough president accused him of sexual harassment in a series of tweets Sunday, saying he made inappropriate comments about her appearance.
Lindsey Boylan tweeted that the Democratic governor "sexually harassed me for years. Many saw it, and watched."
"I could never anticipate what to expect: would I be grilled on my work (which was very good) or harassed about my looks. Or would it be both in the same conversation? This was the way for years," she continued.
Boylan, 36, worked for the Cuomo administration from March 2015 to October 2018, serving first as executive vice president of Empire State Development, and then as a special adviser to Cuomo for economic development.
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Dream Girl
(5,111 posts)no_hypocrisy
(55,079 posts)peggysue2
(12,554 posts)Regardless of where you stand on a Cuomo appointment, I think the majority realize that Trumpers and the alt-right know that Cuomo would not shirk from coming after all of them. That would include the King Corruption at the tippy-top of a very rotten pyramid. There's no love loss between Cuomo and Trump, the latter resenting Cuomo's star presence in his daily Covid-19 briefings.
Cuomo tends to put the fear of God (and the law) in lots of these people. So . . . bring him down a peg or two.
Of course, I could be wrong and the complaint could be legitimate. But until we see evidence of another harassment complaint (think Tara Read vs Biden), I'll remain suspicious. Even the timing is . . . curious, to say the least.
IsItJustMe
(7,012 posts)Boogiemack
(1,406 posts)brooklynite
(96,882 posts)Hav
(5,969 posts)with made up nonsense. Why would that surprise you when it happened before?
LizBeth
(11,222 posts)and can well be right. Cuomo and many men think they have the right, and so they do and we all sit back and watch. What was the piece abut DR Jill Biden?
Disaffected
(6,476 posts)Iron clad innuendo.
Hang'em high I say!
LizBeth
(11,222 posts)That is what you got from the very very little I dared to say out loud? I think there may be some reflective that is needed here.
Yeehah
(6,567 posts)'Cuomo thinks he has the right and so he did' is a reasonable interpretation of your post.
LizBeth
(11,222 posts)And it still doesn't hit : "Iron clad innuendo. Hang'em high I say!"
Dream Girl
(5,111 posts)We all know that
LizBeth
(11,222 posts)Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)Never again.
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rzemanfl
(31,411 posts)Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)not a Republican.
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forthemiddle
(1,459 posts)Except if I happen to like the guy?
Just saying, this seems to be an ongoing theme. Either we believe women, or we dont.
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forthemiddle
(1,459 posts)So according to you, we only believe women if the accuse men that we dont agree with politically.
Ok got it!
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uponit7771
(93,532 posts)... we're still clarifying this crap years later.
ahoysrcsm
(1,167 posts)How many days, weeks, months, years... do we wait for an accusation to appear? Does $metoo have an unlimited statute of limitation? Do we accept all $metoo accusations without merit or validation?
Should Biden appoint a $metoo czar, and we investigate all men "just because they are men?"
Did you vote for Biden after he was accused by a woman, aka Biden's $metoo accusation?
dsc
(53,416 posts)they don't have a right to have their word treated as divine writ. She claims that many people witnessed this. Well, get them under oath and see what they say.
forthemiddle
(1,459 posts)My post was to point out that #METOO means we take them seriously, and investigate. Unforetunately the automatic response from some is if they support the accused, the accuser automatically has ulterial motives. But if it's a Republican, we believe it right away.
I just ask that we take EVERY accusation seriously, and go from there.
Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)and wasnt chosen yet. Cuomo deserves to be presumed innocent until proven guilty. The woman accusing him is a liberal democrat currently running for Manhattan Borough president in NYC. If she produces no evidence, no one should hold it against Cuomo. But if she does he should be held accountable.
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Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)so it is too soon to pass judgment in either direction. And everyone regardless of who they are should be held to the same standard.
brooklynite
(96,882 posts)Dream Girl
(5,111 posts)uponit7771
(93,532 posts)... invovled
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)And question the timing
Caliman73
(11,767 posts)People are reacting to the situation from what appears to be an emotional and/or realpolitik perspective. Some pointing out that men have a pattern of this behavior, therefore... others saying that right wingers have weaponized the sexual harassment claim, implying that perhaps the woman has been compromised.
The way to go about this is to report the allegations, allow for the investigation (without speculating)to be conducted, then based on the evidence, draw the conclusions and proceed with what is needed to be done to hold someone accountable.
Because we are emotional, tribal, and no always rational, people will continue to either proceed like Cuomo is guilty, or to trash the name of his accuser.
2naSalit
(103,304 posts)Prove it.
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onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Maybe repukes should care about that. Its sad but I seriously doubt this.
Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)it wont matter.
If other women start coming forward it will have an affect.
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Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)While he deserves the presumption of innocence, we shouldnt pass judgment on this woman or any others who may or may not come forward in the future. If none do, this will be quickly forgotten.
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Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)Reread my post.
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Dream Girl
(5,111 posts)Fuck them.
Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)Dream Girl
(5,111 posts)Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Obvious inferences can be difficult.
Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)there is no evidence to back them up.
ahoysrcsm
(1,167 posts)Book deal by the accuser be damned.
TheBlackAdder
(29,981 posts).
Two races in the same year, with nearly the same results.
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hamsterjill
(17,662 posts)First and foremost, NO ONE should ever have to tolerate sexual harassment.
Now, that said, this woman continued to work there for three years and did not report this. I realize that this happens and that there are reasons for it. But the timing of her accusation is certainly suspicious.
I still think the best defense against sexual harassment in a professional environment at least is to stand up, scream out I will not tolerate that type of behavior toward me and walk away. Im not sure credibility isnt damaged by waiting two years from departure from a job to accuse someone of harassment.
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uponit7771
(93,532 posts)... spoken up by now!?
I'll wait
stillcool
(34,407 posts)she obviously didn't report it. So what does she want? She's making accusations to validate the
abuse of other women. The logic eludes me.
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Boylan's sexual harassment allegation against Cuomo comes after The Associated Press and others reported that the 63-year-old governor is under consideration for the job of attorney general in the administration of President-elect Joe Biden.
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tblue37
(68,444 posts)LymphocyteLover
(9,950 posts)a lot depends on the details and it's a pretty low level of offense. It shouldn't be considered on the same level as physical harassment and worse. It sounds like they had a bad relationship.
I'm no Cuomo fan but this seems like small potatoes right now.
WhiskeyGrinder
(27,076 posts)Baclava
(12,047 posts)BGBD
(3,282 posts)means what exactly. Talking about how someone looks or is dressed is not in and of itself sexual harassment.
Dream Girl
(5,111 posts)Probably some shit like that which explained why she doesnt want to be interviewed by journalists.
Don't talk about the looks of your co-workers. How is that hard?
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)"She did not provide details of the alleged harassment and didn't immediately respond to messages from The Associated Press. Boylan later tweeted, "To be clear: I have no interest in talking to journalists. I am about validating the experience of countless women and making sure abuse stops."
brooklynite
(96,882 posts)...is the immediate jump to "It's the Republicans" based on no evidence at all.
This is someone who worked for Cuomo in a senior position, and is a Democratic candidate. Are you suggesting she's a mole?
Dem4Life1102
(3,974 posts)Cuomo deserves the presumption of innocence but this woman also deserves to be heard. In the end the truth will come out.
Renew Deal
(85,265 posts)LymphocyteLover
(9,950 posts)Dream Girl
(5,111 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)If annoyed, you stay by choice, or ignore by choice, yes? That seemed quite the bumper sticker last month. I imagine this month isn't too different.
Goalpost movements are an option too.
Dorian Gray
(13,850 posts)She has a good reputation. Is it really SO OUTSIDE THE SCOPE OF POSSIBILITY that Cuomo would be capable of this? I don't think so.
She is stating her experience. Is this disqualifying? I guess we can have a longer discussion. Having said that, "republican mole" is ridiculous.
Chin music
(24,999 posts)And has anyone dusted this accusation for his fingerprints?
demmiblue
(39,834 posts)Not gonna lie, there is a machismo factor that I have sensed from him.
Beringia
(5,537 posts)Buckeyeblue
(6,387 posts)Not fair to her because it makes her sound like she is not telling the truth. Not fair to Cuomo because how can he defend himself against such a thing.
octoberlib
(14,971 posts)She has been a frequent critic of Mr. Cuomo and has long hinted at tensions with the governors office on social media. In 2019, Boylan, whose daughter was 5 at the time, tangled with a former Cuomo aide, Jim Malatras, about the extent to which the office accommodated working parents.
In another Twitter thread earlier this month, Ms. Boylan described her experience working for Mr. Cuomo as beyond toxic and endlessly dispiriting.
And on Saturday, after The Associated Press reported that President-elect Joe Biden was considering the governor for attorney general, Ms. Boylan pleaded with Mr. Biden to reconsider.
There are fewer things more scary than giving this man, who exists without ethics, even more control, she said on Twitter. I saw how he wielded power for years. He takes advantage of people, including me. I hope @JoeBiden & @KamalaHarris dont do this.
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/13/nyregion/cuomo-sexual-harassment.html
Judi Lynn
(164,155 posts)It took no time at all to make that choice.
Better luck in your future post choices.
Here I go.
kentuck
(115,461 posts)Wonder who that could be??
mackdaddy
(1,985 posts)According to this KTLA article, She has some issues of her own.
Personnel memos written in 2018, obtained by The Associated Press, indicate that Boylan resigned after she was confronted about complaints about her own office behavior.
Several women complained to Empire State Developments human resources department that Ms. Boyland had behaved in a way towards them that was harassing, belittling, and had yelled and been generally unprofessional, wrote the administrations ethics officer, Julia Pinover Kupiec in one memo.
Boylan resigned after meeting with officials including Cuomos top lawyer, Alphonso David, to be counseled about the complaints.
David said in a follow-up memo that Boylan had contacted him several days later and said she had reconsidered her resignation and wished to return to work, but he discouraged her from doing so.
https://ktla.com/news/nationworld/former-aide-accuses-ny-gov-cuomo-of-sexually-harassing-her-for-years/
George II
(67,782 posts)Anyone who isn't "grilled" on their work has a lousy boss.
I wonder how many people out there have been "harassed" about their looks? I know I was, and didn't consider it "harassment".
A few other observations:
1. If she didn't like the comments she could have, or should have said something at the time
2. She hasn't mentioned anything about physical contact
3. She chose to do this publicly on Twitter
4. She refuses to speak to journalists
AmericanCanuck
(1,102 posts)marie999
(3,334 posts)What inappropriate comments. Did he call her ugly or just say he thought the dress she was wearing was nice. I guess I could have been accused of making sexual harassment comments when I told a guy I liked his new tie. Tell us what he said or shut up.