sometime in the coming hours, mom will succumb to Covid...

[TalenaGor]

Update to - https://www.democraticunderground.com/100214663292


they tried all they could, even experimental treatments but she is far too weak at this point - they are taking the tube out now - and making her comfortable....

I hate this...

[LizBeth]

1. I am sorry. You are not alone in all ways....

[SoonerPride]

2. I am so terribly sorry.

No words are adequate.

I truly am sorry for your loss.

[beaglelover]

3. So sorry to hear this development.

[cry baby]

4. So sorry. 😞

May she pass in peace.

[blogslut]

5. Peace to you

I am so sorry

[CentralMass]

6. :-(

[pwb]

7. Peace to you and yours.

.

[LaMouffette]

8. I'm so very sorry!

My deepest condolences to you and your family, and please stay as safe as possible!

[OLDMDDEM]

9. I hate this for you

I am so sorry to hear about your mother. Please know you have a wonderful support group here at DU.

[rustysgurl]

10. I am so sorry

we hate this for you as well.

[tavernier]

11. I'm a mom...this won't be helpful

but I guarantee that she is happy it wasn’t the other way around. When my mom was ill with cancer she told us that had always been her biggest fear, having a child go first. She didn’t have to suffer that pain.

Wishing her a gentle crossing and peace to you.

[Peacetrain]

12. I am so sorry you are having to say goodbye..

As your Mom crosses over, just keep in your heart.. her spirit is a part of you..

[bluestarone]

13. So sorry to hear this

[FM123]

14. I am so sorry,

Sending you a little extra love today

[Freedomofspeech]

15. Sending you love and peace...

So very sorry about your Mother. RIP

[MineralMan]

16. I'm so sorry to read this.

[RANDYWILDMAN]

17. so sorry for your loss.

[Nevilledog]

18. ...

[Wicked Blue]

19. This is terrible

I am sorry for her suffering and for the pain it is causing you.

Be at peace.

[gademocrat7]

20. So very sorry,TalenaGor

[mercuryblues]

21. I know every ounce of pain and anguish

you are going through. We went through this a few weeks ago.

My heart aches with you.

[malaise]

22. I hate this too

The only good news I can give you is that in time the pain recedes and we are flooded with memories

[irisblue]

23. 🕯️I am so sorry

[Gilbert Moore]

24. Your Mother's Love for You

Will never cease, only grow. As you age she will look over you and fill you with hope and peace.

[Nululu]

25. So sorry to hear nt

[iluvtennis]

26. My heart aches for you.

sent up a prayer for you and family.

[notKeith]

27. I feel your pain, I really do

My Republican brother and sis-in-law (in Cincinnati suburb) had a big family get-together the Sunday before Thanksgiving.
Kids, grandkids, my mom, the whole local family in Ohio.
No masks - of course not, they're GOOD Republicans!
By the following Monday, almost everyone was sick - apparently one adult son had COVID-19 and didn't know yet.
By Wednesday, mom was in the hospital. She died about a week later. She was 91 years old.
My uncle talked me out of sending flowers to the funeral with this message:

I love you mom - sorry that your son and daughter-in-law committed manslaughter.

Rage doesn't begin to describe..

[mgardener]

35. I cannot even imagine.

[Duppers]

37. I can imagine your rage.

Hope they feel intense guilty the rest of their lives.

[MissB]

28. words fail

but I am so very sorry.

[OneBlueSky]

29. prayers and good thoughts for you and your mom . . . God bless . . . (n/t)

[UpInArms]

30. oh no ....

I am sooo sorry, TalenaGor

[onecaliberal]

31. I am so very sorry... This is awful.

[BigmanPigman]

32. "I hate this" sums it up for me.

Fuck 2020...worst year ever. Team tRump purposely allow this to happen and must be held accountable! This didn't have to happen, if tRump weren't POTUS there is a good chance your mom would still be with you... I hate this!!!

[mgardener]

33. I am so sorry

It is so hard, know you and your mom are in my thoughts and my prayers.
I had to go through this with my mom several years ago.

[Hugin]

34. ...

I'm sorry.

[Duppers]

36. I'm so very sorry.

Sending cyber hugs.

And a 🌹 for your Mom.

[helpisontheway]

38. I'm so sorry. 😢Nt

[Evolve Dammit]

39. I am so sorry. I wish I had better words.

[BlueIdaho]

40. I'm not sure there are words

For this, but know that we re all thinking of you and your family. May you find peace and comfort.

[William769]

41. Know that you are in our thoughts.

[Atticus]

42. No words. Hugs. nt

[wryter2000]

43. How horrible

I'm sure they'll keep her comfortable. I hope she has an easy passing.

[pazzyanne]

44. Prayers on their way from my house to yours!

[sdfernando]

45. Oh jeez! I'm so so sorry.

I too hate this!

[sinkingfeeling]

46. I'm very sorry.

[ancianita]

47. So sorry for your impending loss.

[JustFiveMoreMinutes]

48. I'm so sorry for you and yours! My husband's aunt's family will decide tonight...

... to remove the respirator.

She's only 63.

[denvine]

49. I am so very sorry!

This is awful!

[electric_blue68]

50. So very Sorry for your loss

and Strength to endure the pain



Been 12 yes for me
What got me through besides the support...
As she was in her early '80's I started to think
"she wouldn't want me to be too sad for too long"

I was concerned I'd end up in the hospital even
briefly with a devastating depression. I did make
it through without getting to that level of emotional pain.

Strength to all who love her.

[EndlessWire]

51. Adding my condolences to you

I just feel rage that you are put through this because of Trump and his agenda.

My prayers go out to you and your family.

[herding cats]

52. I'm so deeply sorry.

Sending you light and love.

[marble falls]

53. You and mom are on my mind. I wish you both peace of mind. Bless you two!

[NNadir]

54. I'm very sad to her this. You had to make some tough decisions.

In my experience, any decision one makes will be the right one, but any decision one makes will feel wrong, because there is no way to feel right about losing some one you love.

In the time hereafter have mercy on yourself.

Deepest condolences.

[Blue_playwright]

55. God, I'm so sorry!

Take care of yourself as you grieve.

[kag]

56. Keeping you and your mom in my thoughts.

I hate this, too. Just nothing good about it.

[RexLipton]

57. So very sorry

[littlemissmartypants]

58. So sorry. ❤

For Mom...







I lost my Dad last Wednesday. I understand.

[Stinky The Clown]

59. OMG, Sooooo very sorry she and you have to suffer.

[Lonestarblue]

60. I'm so sorry. Sending many wishes for strength and solace your way.

[smirkymonkey]

61. I'm so sorry, TalenaGor.

May she pass in peace.

[zeusdogmom]

62. Oh I am so sorry

Of course no words ease the pain but know you are in many people's thoughts

[uppityperson]

63. I am so sorry.

[Hekate]

64. I am so sorry. Gentle crossing to her, and peace to you...

[Fla Dem]

65. My heart goes out to you and your family. So many and it didn't have to be.

[BainsBane]

66. How awful

I'm so sorry.

[happy feet]

67. I'm so sorry for you

[cate94]

68. I'm very sorry

[shrike3]

69. Sorry, and all the best to your family. n/t

[Karadeniz]

70. I'm so sorry! I know you've been trying to prepare yourself and finding you can't. I hope she's not

In pain. Deepest sympathy....

[niyad]

71. So very sorry to hear this. May your ?Mom be at peace. Sending vibes for healing and

comfort and strength for you and yours. Your DU faMily is here for you.

[renate]

72. everyone tried really hard to make her better... I'm so sorry you and she have been through so much

Heartbreaking. It must be so hard to take it all in. I'm so sorry.

[blm]

73. ((Talena))

[barbtries]

74. I'm sorry for your loss.

[lunatica]

75. This is tragic.

Hugs to you. And to everyone who loves her.

[LiberalArkie]

76. Bad time.. I was the one who had to sign the papers to take my sister off life support

a few years ago. Her son nor husband would/clould do it. They left it to the guy with Aspergers to do it, he don't feel anything.


I do feel your pain.

[alphafemale]

77. So very sorry.

Hugs to you

[onecent]

78. I'm so sorry. I will say a prayer for you and your mother.

[Hortensis]

79. We're so sorry and hope it's gone as well as can be for her, Talena.

Peace to you and yours.

[demmiblue]

80. I'm so sorry, TalenaGor.

[brer cat]

81. I'm so sorry, TalenaGor.

May she pass in peace.

[Arazi]

82. Terrible days. I am so so sorry

[sheshe2]

83. My heart goes out to you and yours.

I am so sorry.

[MLAA]

84. 💖💖💖💖💕💕💕💞💞💞💖💖💕💕💞💖

[TheBlackAdder]

85. That's just tragic. I'm so sorry this is happening.

[peacebuzzard]

86. I am so sorry TalenaGor,

so sorry. I will be thinking of you and your mom.

[FirstLight]

87. Oh dear... so very sorry

There's nothing to say or do to help you with that grief... :hugs:

(My mom is having hospitalization issues right now and I'm afraid she's gonna catch it... They also asked to make sure about DNR orders ...I've been a wreck all week too)

If you need anything let us know.

[Heartstrings]

88. My sincere condolences to you and your family....

Assuredly, she’ll rest peacefully, forever in your hearts.

[liberal_mama]

89. I am so sorry to hear about your mother

[tiredtoo]

90. So sorry

You are not alone we are all here with and for you.

[TalenaGor]

91. ty everyone - she passed a mere 15 minutes after I posted this :(

[Bettie]

93. I'm so sorry

I hope you can find peace in the coming days.

[MustLoveBeagles]

97. I'm so sorry TalenaGor

[Demonaut]

98. losing a parent is a void, stay strong for her

I'm so sorry for your loss

[grantcart]

116. Very sorry for your loss

[healthnut7]

118. So sorry.

[sarge43]

122. Peace and comfort in the days to come, TalenaGor

for you. for your mother

[yardwork]

92. I am so sorry.

[flying-skeleton]

94. 🙏🙏

[TygrBright]

95. A terrible loss, and a terrible ordeal... holding you and your Mom in the Light. n/t

[DSandra]

96. I am so sorry 😞

These are terrible times we are going through, but for some of us it’s especially devastating 😢. May God help us all.

[LuvJoesPartner]

99. So very sorry

[demtenjeep]

100. I am so so very sorry

I know all too well about Grief.

My prayers are with you

[hamsterjill]

101. Sending prayers, light and love.

I hate this, too.

I am so very sorry...

[BobTheSubgenius]

102. I can't tell you how much I hate hearing this and similar.

Hate hearing that another person, another family has been torn up by this terrible and at least largely unnecessary horror. NOT that I am REMOTELY suggesting you hold it in. I hope I made the distinction clear. Everyone here wants to offer support, if they can.

I also really hate having nothing to offer other than what are more or less worthless words.

But I sincerely am so sorry.

[Moostache]

103. I am terribly sorry...

My mother lost her battles on 10-Nov-2020 with COVID-19 being the last straw for her ravaged body. I hate that anyone else has to feel this same pain and emptiness. I hope you have people in your life that you can lean on and gain strength from in the hours and days ahead.

It's not fair and it did not have to be this way...its no consolation, but you are not alone. Reach out to me if you need a sounding board or just want to be heard.

[stuffmatters]

104. I am so sorry for you.

[calimary]

105. I'm so sorry, TalenaGor.

I'm so sorry to hear this.

I'm so sorry to hear that you have to go through something like this - especially now. It's never easy. But it's so much more painful during the holidays.

I'm so sorry.

We'll be here to keep you company during this excruciating ordeal.

[Meowmee]

106. I am so sorry 😿

That is the worst💔 I hope she is comfortable and you can communicate with her.

[SheltieLover]

107. So sorry to hear this

May she cross gently.

[peggysue2]

108. Sad to read this

Blessings to you and your family.

[N_E_1 for Tennis]

109. ...

[EarthFirst]

110. I'm so very sorry...

May she find peace in the universe.

[Judi Lynn]

111. So sorry for what has happened. May love guide you through this moment.

[chia]

112. So very sorry. :( My heart goes out to you.

[Trueblue Texan]

113. I am so sorry....

This is happening to too many families in our nation and across the globe. I am sending you thoughts of peace and healing.

[lark]

114. I am so sorry you are having to go through this.

I can't imagine the pain of not being able to be there with her during her last moments. I had to make the decision to pull the tube from my mom as well and it was totally gut wrenching, the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. I hate that you are having to go through this, it was really awful for my family. I hope your whole family is supportive, it's even worse when they're not.

Prayers for you and your family!

[virgdem]

115. So very sorry for your loss. Peace to youl.

[Daphne08]

117. I'm so sorry to hear about your mother

your mother

[Beringia]

119. I'm very sorry for this

[myccrider]

120. My heart hurts for you and your family.

[crickets]

121. I am so sorry.

My heart goes out to you and your family for your loss.