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Mr.Bill

(24,716 posts)
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 02:53 AM Jan 2021

I want to tell the whole world this,

and under the current circumstances, you folks are pretty much my whole world, so here goes...

I have spent nearly the past whole year in an 800 sq.ft. mobile home with my wife. We met late in life when we were about 40. She is now 70 and I am 67. I can't imagine another person on this planet that I could be so happy doing this with than my wife. Yes, we have family nearby who we have seen, and they have been an important part of this, as have our neighbors. We just spent New Years Eve alone and enjoyed it very much. We also spent her 70th birthday, my birthday and our 25th wedding anniversary together and alone. We have enjoyed every minute of it.

If you have someone in your life like this, you know what I mean. If you don't yet, I hope you find that person.

Oh, yeah, a couple of really good dogs have helped also.

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I want to tell the whole world this, (Original Post) Mr.Bill Jan 2021 OP
That's wonderful. StarryNite Jan 2021 #1
Well, I was single until I was 42 Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #2
It sounds like you have a wonderful life. StarryNite Jan 2021 #6
Same to you! Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #13
I have spent the last year "trapped" in the house iemitsu Jan 2021 #3
Thank you. Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #4
Me too. iemitsu Jan 2021 #5
Congratulations Mr. Bill. Very similar circumstances here also, similar square footage and a tad c-rational Jan 2021 #7
Thanks Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #9
Happy New Year to you and Mrs.Bill too. yonder Jan 2021 #8
Happy New Year to you and your soul mate. Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #10
A beautiful wife and four cats, in my case. PatrickforO Jan 2021 #11
Thank you. Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #12
Nice share. cilla4progress Jan 2021 #14
My husband rather abruptly retired two months ago and I was worried it would be betsuni Jan 2021 #15
Nice! lillypaddle Jan 2021 #16
Sounds like a great life to me! Congratulations on finding one another! Karadeniz Jan 2021 #17
Thanks to all of you for your kind words. n/t Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #18
This resonates with me greatly. Aussie105 Jan 2021 #19
Wishing you and your wife a very Happy New Year, Mr. Bill! smirkymonkey Jan 2021 #20
Happy New Year to both of you malaise Jan 2021 #21
With us, different and yet same circumstances. DFW Jan 2021 #22
Same here snowybirdie Jan 2021 #23
We are married 45. When we retired we sold off our life and moved to Costa Rica. LakeArenal Jan 2021 #24
It's good to hear so many people Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #25
Great to hear. I've felt all along some of the people sounding the alarm about lockdowns causing brewens Jan 2021 #26
Happy New Year MustLoveBeagles Jan 2021 #27
Sincere (not sarcastic) congratulations. Some of us lost that one to the C19 and UTUSN Jan 2021 #28

StarryNite

(10,657 posts)
1. That's wonderful.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 02:57 AM
Jan 2021

I'm very happy for the two of you and your dogs. I don't really consider 40 as late in life though. Maybe because I'm way past that and right about now 40 sounds pretty young!

Mr.Bill

(24,716 posts)
2. Well, I was single until I was 42
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 03:04 AM
Jan 2021

and before I met my wife I was beginning to think I would never find my mate. I never had children of my own and lived alone. She, meanwhile was going through two broken marriages and raising two kids. So I pretty much married a ready-made family with two adult children. I now have four great grandchildren and I've never changed a diaper. Her family is now my family and I love them all dearly.

Sometimes I joke that I never had children because I relied on my looks and personality for birth control which always makes people (except for my wife) laugh.

iemitsu

(3,888 posts)
3. I have spent the last year "trapped" in the house
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 03:08 AM
Jan 2021

with my wife (of 40 years) and my best friend. If you don't count the plague and Trump it has been a wonderful year.
Congratulations on your good situation.

c-rational

(2,844 posts)
7. Congratulations Mr. Bill. Very similar circumstances here also, similar square footage and a tad
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 03:25 AM
Jan 2021

more years together as we married more towards 30. We feel very lucky as do you. Happy New Year. To another 30+.

yonder

(9,992 posts)
8. Happy New Year to you and Mrs.Bill too.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 03:26 AM
Jan 2021

It's great to have a solid soul mate to share the journey around old Sol each year. I DO know what you mean.

Sure glad to see 2020 get away.

Best wishes for the next year to all.

PatrickforO

(15,072 posts)
11. A beautiful wife and four cats, in my case.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 03:37 AM
Jan 2021

I can also add a number of other wonderful blessings.

I am glad for you and your wife. And the dogs.

cilla4progress

(25,622 posts)
14. Nice share.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 04:32 AM
Jan 2021

40 years married in September!

Don't let anybody tell you young whippersnappers that getting old is a bummer.
We are having more fun together than ever!

And yes, privileged to make it through a horrible year intact!

Wishing life's gifts to all!

betsuni

(27,255 posts)
15. My husband rather abruptly retired two months ago and I was worried it would be
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 04:35 AM
Jan 2021

weird being together all the time because he's a high-energy person and I prefer to rest. But it's been fine. He's the only person I never feel uncomfortable with, at some point, including my own family. He makes everything interesting. I'm so grateful.

Aussie105

(6,161 posts)
19. This resonates with me greatly.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 05:00 AM
Jan 2021

Second marriage for both of us, and the world suddenly made sense again.

Now married for 33 years, we have our little spats, but not a problem.

Yes, good dogs help too.

DFW

(56,326 posts)
22. With us, different and yet same circumstances.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 08:05 AM
Jan 2021

We met when we were both 22. That was in 1974.

There has been much water under the bridge since then. She had never met an American who spoke her language, figured she‘d never see the place. We still don‘t speak English with each other, but at least now she‘s comfortable speaking it. Our daughters are 100% bilingual, and live on opposite sides of the Atlantic. After 46 years together, the concept of living with anyone else is more remote than the planet Neptune.

LakeArenal

(29,721 posts)
24. We are married 45. When we retired we sold off our life and moved to Costa Rica.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 12:42 PM
Jan 2021

We only wanted to hang out together for ever and rescue a dog. So far so good.
Our difference is our lock down is in Paradise. We are the luckiest folks in lockdown anywhere.

2021. 2021. 2021......Yay.

Mr.Bill

(24,716 posts)
25. It's good to hear so many people
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 04:55 PM
Jan 2021

who are making the best of the situation and doing so with someone they love.

 

brewens

(15,359 posts)
26. Great to hear. I've felt all along some of the people sounding the alarm about lockdowns causing
Sat Jan 2, 2021, 02:46 AM
Jan 2021

depression, stress, suicidal thoughts and whatever other horrors were disingenuous. By no means am I saying those real concerns are not serious, it's the phony assholes that really couldn't give a shit using that as a scare tactic.

It's that telling people how depressed and suicidal they should be over precautions was not helpful. How about handling the pandemic responsibly and doing everything possible to help people avoid those problems?

UTUSN

(72,214 posts)
28. Sincere (not sarcastic) congratulations. Some of us lost that one to the C19 and
Sat Jan 2, 2021, 03:07 AM
Jan 2021

the unfit president's criminal incompetence and outright malfeasance.






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