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BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:04 AM Jan 2021

My dog died tonight



Just a little over an hour ago. I have to wait until tomorrow at 7 am for the pick up service from the crematorium.

Lola was nearly 13 and had been with me for 11 years and 3 months of that time. I loved her dearly. She became suddenly ill a week ago, and the vet told me she was dying but not in pain, so I took her home to die with me rather than in a vets office where I couldn't be with her because of COVID. It was a stressful week, but I'm glad I was able to give her lots of love during this week's time. She certainly gave me a great deal of soul-healing love during our years together.

This picture is from just a couple of days ago.
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My dog died tonight (Original Post) BainsBane Jan 2021 OP
She is in doggie heaven DBoon Jan 2021 #1
I just hope I'm good enough BainsBane Jan 2021 #10
Hugz... LizBeth Jan 2021 #20
Thank you LizBeth BainsBane Jan 2021 #33
There is a New Yorker cartoon DBoon Jan 2021 #23
such a sweet cartoon BainsBane Jan 2021 #31
i'm truly sorry. i remember all too well how difficult it is parting company with orleans Jan 2021 #116
OMG i Cried when I saw this cartoon...... onecent Jan 2021 #225
Rainbow Bridge bdamomma Jan 2021 #154
You will be Withywindle Jan 2021 #162
You took her in and gave her a loving home. WinstonSmith4740 Jan 2021 #194
My daily prayer is "May I be the man my dog thinks I am." lagomorph777 Jan 2021 #196
BAINS, MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. I BLIEVE all pets go to heaven trueblue2007 Jan 2021 #56
Maybe Lola is playing with your cats BainsBane Jan 2021 #110
Gracie and Sophie were sisters. They were rescue kittys trueblue2007 Jan 2021 #262
Thank you for this beautiful posting. Liberal and Proud Jan 2021 #280
I'm so sorry. RIP pretty girl. LuckyCharms Jan 2021 #2
Thank you. BainsBane Jan 2021 #21
Oh I am so sorry zeusdogmom Jan 2021 #3
Yes it is BainsBane Jan 2021 #143
I am so sorry. She had a good life with you. nt spooky3 Jan 2021 #4
thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #112
I'm so sorry. I'm glad you were able to be with her. Phoenix61 Jan 2021 #5
Yes, I am glad we had this week together BainsBane Jan 2021 #144
I'm so very sorry for your loss. MontanaMama Jan 2021 #6
So Sorry, Bains.. Cha Jan 2021 #7
Thank you, Cha. BainsBane Jan 2021 #39
I'm so sorry. She was lovely. Long may she live in your heart. yankeepants Jan 2021 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2021 #9
I am sorry for your loss. pennylane100 Jan 2021 #11
I am so sorry. BlueIdaho Jan 2021 #12
I was the lucky one BainsBane Jan 2021 #36
*hugs* sakabatou Jan 2021 #13
❤️✿❧🌿❧✿❤️ Lucinda Jan 2021 #14
I am so very sorry. You made sure she felt secure and loved until she crossed the Rainbow Bridge. skylucy Jan 2021 #15
I tried BainsBane Jan 2021 #145
So sad, so sorry. Look at that beautiful face. The eyes. That had to be so hard. LizBeth Jan 2021 #16
Awww, I'm sorry about your sweet girl. BusyBeingBest Jan 2021 #17
I'm so sorry for your loss of Lola. Backseat Driver Jan 2021 #18
I'm so sorry, BainsBane LeftInTX Jan 2021 #19
All sentient animals go to heaven. Ziggysmom Jan 2021 #22
What would be the point of heaven if we didn't? BainsBane Jan 2021 #26
Will Rogers said, "If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die, I want to go where they went." Tanuki Jan 2021 #46
Oh, no! She's beautiful! I know you'll feel lost...we remember it's time to feed or let them out, Karadeniz Jan 2021 #24
thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #29
It was I who was fortunate BainsBane Jan 2021 #136
I knew you'd say that... That's how we all feel! Karadeniz Jan 2021 #189
Sorry Bains. Take care still_one Jan 2021 #25
Thank you, Still one. BainsBane Jan 2021 #146
And she loved you to the very end. Botany Jan 2021 #27
You can tell she was a sweetheart. I'm so sorry for Lola's passing and pain you're feeling. SaveOurDemocracy Jan 2021 #28
I am sorry for your loss Gothmog Jan 2021 #30
She's beautiful Bluethroughu Jan 2021 #32
I really feel for you, Thay are part of our family. William769 Jan 2021 #34
My heart goes out to you too BainsBane Jan 2021 #43
I've never seen that. Thanks for putting it here, it's just perfect and so beautiful. halobeam Jan 2021 #129
nt bdamomma Jan 2021 #155
Me too and I don't think they'd all get along with each other Withywindle Jan 2021 #163
Would that it were not so... Blue Owl Jan 2021 #35
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful dog Lola. lucca18 Jan 2021 #37
Such a sweet doggie face PlanetBev Jan 2021 #38
the best people Demonaut Jan 2021 #40
I am so sorry. I'm assuming you took this picture while she Maraya1969 Jan 2021 #41
I knew she was dying when I took it BainsBane Jan 2021 #51
... Nevilledog Jan 2021 #42
so very sorry, Lola was lovely Skittles Jan 2021 #44
... tosh Jan 2021 #45
I'm sorry for your loss. gldstwmn Jan 2021 #47
We lost our best friend and leader of the pack last month Normanart Jan 2021 #48
I'm so sorry for your loss as well. BainsBane Jan 2021 #53
Iʻm crying as I write this Normanart Jan 2021 #69
I'm very sorry. H2O Man Jan 2021 #49
Oh, sweet Lola. May she cross easy nolabear Jan 2021 #50
I'm so sorry karin_sj Jan 2021 #52
What a beautiful sweetheart! Goodheart Jan 2021 #54
So sorry. It's been two years and I am still not over the loss Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2021 #55
Thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #61
Only thing that made me smile was a comedian who said " Lock Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2021 #81
One of our vets once said to me that we welcome... 3catwoman3 Jan 2021 #57
Yes, it's very true. BainsBane Jan 2021 #75
I'm sorry to hear this. She's crossed over the rainbow bridge into doggy heaven. jalan48 Jan 2021 #58
If anyone deserves heaven BainsBane Jan 2021 #96
I am so sorry. mnhtnbb Jan 2021 #59
I have tears in my eyes.... BlueDawn Jan 2021 #60
Thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #99
Hi Bains. sheshe2 Jan 2021 #62
thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #63
Now I am crying. BigmanPigman Jan 2021 #64
I'm so sorry for your loss as well. BainsBane Jan 2021 #66
It's so hard. BigmanPigman Jan 2021 #70
Oh I am so sorry for your loss! Tumbulu Jan 2021 #65
I am so sorry to hear this. Jazzgirl Jan 2021 #67
Unconditional love BlueInPhilly Jan 2021 #68
All dogs go to heaven. world wide wally Jan 2021 #71
What a lovely dog! I'm so sorry for your loss. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2021 #72
What a beautiful baby. StarryNite Jan 2021 #73
There are no words I can say that will make you feel any better. Arthur_Frain Jan 2021 #74
Ah shit. I'm so sorry ismnotwasm Jan 2021 #76
Thanks, Ism BainsBane Jan 2021 #87
It's like a wake Withywindle Jan 2021 #164
I am so sorry for your loss. Gore1FL Jan 2021 #77
What a sweet little lady. Very sorry for the loss of your friend. flibbitygiblets Jan 2021 #78
Oh wow. That's so hard BainsBane Jan 2021 #88
So sorry, BainsBane. ❤ nt littlemissmartypants Jan 2021 #79
You made the right, hard call More_Cowbell Jan 2021 #80
She will always be with you and will make her presence known Cozmo Jan 2021 #82
Thank you, Cozmo BainsBane Jan 2021 #90
Bains, my heart is with you tonight. herding cats Jan 2021 #83
Thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #92
She's still going to be there with you. herding cats Jan 2021 #126
I'm so sorry. mountain grammy Jan 2021 #84
dog love msdogi Jan 2021 #85
I'm sorry for your loss. She was beautiful. IrishEyes Jan 2021 #86
I'm sorry, Corgigal Jan 2021 #89
I don't think it's silly BainsBane Jan 2021 #91
I've Had My Golden Retriever's Ashes Since June of 1998 COL Mustard Mar 2021 #292
So deeply sorry for your loss SheltieLover Jan 2021 #93
She was a gift BainsBane Jan 2021 #94
So sorry. NanceGreggs Jan 2021 #95
Thank you, Nance. BainsBane Jan 2021 #113
BainsBane, I am so sorry about Lola. Dem2theMax Jan 2021 #97
Thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #100
I'm so sorry radical noodle Jan 2021 #98
What an incredibly sweet face she has. I'm so very sorry for your loss. :( chia Jan 2021 #101
Noble beast Schmice3 Jan 2021 #102
The price for a dog's unconditional love is paid in our tears as they cross over Rainbow Bridge Stinky The Clown Jan 2021 #103
thank you, Stinky. BainsBane Jan 2021 #106
She's a beautiful girl. enki23 Jan 2021 #104
that's true BainsBane Jan 2021 #105
... Zorro Jan 2021 #107
That's so sweet BainsBane Jan 2021 #108
Beautiful Pup kangandkodos Jan 2021 #109
I'm so sorry to hear about Monty BainsBane Jan 2021 #111
Lola has such a sweet face 💕💕 marlakay Jan 2021 #114
Thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #236
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Lola. Niagara Jan 2021 #115
No greater pain. ✨✨💕✨✨ OhNo-Really Jan 2021 #117
So sorry to hear this, Bains. R B Garr Jan 2021 #118
Crap! I'm sorry. AmyStrange Jan 2021 #119
What a lovely girl. So sweet. CountMyVote4Reality Jan 2021 #120
Gets me everytime I see this Hestia Jan 2021 #121
I'm sorry, BainsBane SunSeeker Jan 2021 #122
My sympathies BainsBane denbot Jan 2021 #123
Sending healing hugs occupant Jan 2021 #124
Good, good girl. jeffreyi Jan 2021 #125
So sorry Bains. She was beautiful. c-rational Jan 2021 #127
Oh, look at that face. So sorry to hear... electric_blue68 Jan 2021 #128
I'm so sorry, Bains. It's true what they say halobeam Jan 2021 #130
6 months ago for mine. Took me 3 months to climb out of the fog of grief. Hermit-The-Prog Jan 2021 #131
You can see in her eyes how much she loves you, colorado_ufo Jan 2021 #132
it is always difficult llashram Jan 2021 #133
So sorry and I feel your samplegirl Jan 2021 #134
Ahhhhh. So sorry. peggysue2 Jan 2021 #135
So sorry to hear that, BainsBane. OnDoutside Jan 2021 #137
Aww, she looks like a sweetie. octoberlib Jan 2021 #138
Oh such a look of sweetness and being loved, protected. Heart-breaking. So sorry. You emmaverybo Jan 2021 #139
. greyl Jan 2021 #140
Ohhh! I am so very sorry for your loss, BainsBane! smirkymonkey Jan 2021 #141
Sorry, you have my condolences misanthrope Jan 2021 #142
Bless your heart, so sorry for your loss... Raster Jan 2021 #147
I'm so sorry. Solly Mack Jan 2021 #148
Sending love and awwwsss..... Chicago1980 Jan 2021 #149
So very sorry your Lola has left you. Fla Dem Jan 2021 #150
So sorry for your loss, my little guy died a year and a half ago.... UCmeNdc Jan 2021 #151
thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #172
That's horrible. I'm so sorry to hear that. TheBlackAdder Jan 2021 #152
Aww bdamomma Jan 2021 #153
Goodbye to your friend blogslut Jan 2021 #156
She was BainsBane Jan 2021 #173
The good ones should live forever! I know how you feel.... I've been there... nt albacore Jan 2021 #157
i'm sorry. Demovictory9 Jan 2021 #158
What a sweetheart ❤ I'm so sorry 💔 Raine Jan 2021 #159
Losing a pet is losing family malaise Jan 2021 #160
I'm so so sorry Withywindle Jan 2021 #161
What have we done as humans North Shore Chicago Jan 2021 #165
RIP Lola. It's so cruel that our doggos don't live as long as we do... Violet_Crumble Jan 2021 #166
So sorry hugs TEB Jan 2021 #167
I am so sorry 😿 Meowmee Jan 2021 #168
Such a beautiful spirit. So very sorry. Roisin Ni Fiachra Jan 2021 #169
My condolences. It is so hard losing a loved family member. Liberal In Texas Jan 2021 #170
I am sorry for your loss of Lola mercuryblues Jan 2021 #171
Thank you, mercuryblues BainsBane Jan 2021 #174
My sympathy & a virtual hug to you kpete Jan 2021 #175
Take Care, BB ProfessorGAC Jan 2021 #176
My heartfelt condolences. I know how tough it is. panader0 Jan 2021 #177
They just picked her up BainsBane Jan 2021 #178
To cherish a pet is to have your heart broken. cab67 Jan 2021 #179
I am so sorry. You can just see by the look in her eyes, that she was bullwinkle428 Jan 2021 #180
It's such a unique intimacy that we reach with our noat cherished animal companions Tom Rinaldo Jan 2021 #181
So sorry. sinkingfeeling Jan 2021 #182
May Lola gently cross the Rainbow Bridge to play and wait for the day you are reunite. pazzyanne Jan 2021 #183
So very sorry. 40RatRod Jan 2021 #184
What a sweet girl lillypaddle Jan 2021 #185
Sorry for your loss. Alacritous Crier Jan 2021 #186
I read once that in dreams, dogs symbolize friendship nuxvomica Jan 2021 #187
My thoughts are with you Ferrets are Cool Jan 2021 #188
Awww, I'm so sorry. Trueblue Texan Jan 2021 #190
Lady of the Beasts, please take Lola gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace and niyad Jan 2021 #191
Remember what you had not what you lost twodogsbarking Jan 2021 #192
I am so very sorry, BainsBane UpInArms Jan 2021 #193
So sorry, BainsBane mcar Jan 2021 #195
Touched by your post scrabblequeen40 Jan 2021 #197
I'm very sorry seta1950 Jan 2021 #198
Beautiful CommonHumanity Jan 2021 #199
Oh BainsBane, my deepest condolences Wicked Blue Jan 2021 #200
I'm so sorry BainsBane Jan 2021 #202
So sorry, BainsBane. RIPO, Lola. It's a challenging time to have older dogs and cats. Gidney N Cloyd Jan 2021 #201
That's good BainsBane Jan 2021 #203
Hugs to the BainesBane family.... Tikki Jan 2021 #204
I am sorry for the loss of your friend. PatrickforO Jan 2021 #205
What soulful eyes. I'm sorry for your loss. cry baby Jan 2021 #206
Sorry to hear this bluestarone Jan 2021 #207
I am so sorry for the loss of Lola pandr32 Jan 2021 #208
One of the worst losses there is. shrike3 Jan 2021 #209
Epitaph to a Dog; Byran Hotler Jan 2021 #210
thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #239
So sorry for your loss. A beautiful soul. 58Sunliner Jan 2021 #211
the best BainsBane Jan 2021 #240
I'm so sorry. I'm glad you got to be with her. MissMillie Jan 2021 #212
I know it is so difficult to say good bye cate94 Jan 2021 #213
She was a beautiful friend no doubt randr Jan 2021 #214
Her sweetness shines in her eyes. stage left Jan 2021 #215
So Ingersollman Jan 2021 #216
Sweet doggie wryter2000 Jan 2021 #217
I am grieving with you. My dog was my best and most loyal friend. BigBearJohn Jan 2021 #218
Dogs are the best BainsBane Jan 2021 #231
Lola had a wonderful life thanks to you. Kimber432 Jan 2021 #219
I am so sorry. onecaliberal Jan 2021 #220
Don't usually comment but this sounds like us Mrhyde719 Jan 2021 #221
I'm sorry for your loss of Sophie BainsBane Jan 2021 #230
... orangecrush Jan 2021 #222
Very sorry.. Goblue50 Jan 2021 #223
So sorry to hear of the passing of your pup woodsprite Jan 2021 #224
So very sorry... Freedomofspeech Jan 2021 #226
thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #238
Yes... Freedomofspeech Jan 2021 #242
I am so, so sorry to hear of you losing your pup. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2021 #227
Those tender of heart.... Billytee Jan 2021 #228
Thank you, Billytee. BainsBane Jan 2021 #234
I am so sorry,,,, KarenS Jan 2021 #229
I'm so sorry, BainsBane. intheflow Jan 2021 #232
What a sweetheart bear is BainsBane Jan 2021 #233
What a sweet face. I am so sorry. tblue37 Jan 2021 #235
thank you, tblue37 BainsBane Jan 2021 #237
My heart goes to you for your loss of such a precious dog. Doreen Jan 2021 #241
It is a good picture - she looks like she was a great dog! jimlup Jan 2021 #243
She was! BainsBane Jan 2021 #245
thanks for sharing. from one dog lover to another... NRaleighLiberal Jan 2021 #244
Virtual hugs are not enough...😪💔 BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2021 #246
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful Lola. virgdem Jan 2021 #247
What a beautiful little doggie.. Permanut Jan 2021 #248
So sorry for your loss BrtovaNe Jan 2021 #249
I'm so sorry. The are best friends, family, and they are with us for such a brief time. Voltaire2 Jan 2021 #250
I hope you are holding up, I've thought of you often. Sending you kind thoughts Cozmo Cozmo Jan 2021 #251
My heart goes out to you leighbythesea2 Jan 2021 #252
So sorry to hear this. RIP pretty girl. SunDrop23 Jan 2021 #253
My heart goes out to you Star-Thrower Jan 2021 #254
So Sorry. COL Mustard Jan 2021 #255
I'm so very sorry. catbyte Jan 2021 #256
Ohhhh.... AngryOldDem Jan 2021 #257
I'm so sorry, Bains. brer cat Jan 2021 #258
Oh what a sweet and beautiful girl! MLAA Jan 2021 #259
Many years ago when my 10 yr old giant Golden Retriver, Charlie, passed I found a site on line.. samnsara Jan 2021 #260
Oh my gosh!...I'm so sorry you lost Lola sdfernando Jan 2021 #261
your beautiful dog pamdb Jan 2021 #263
I am right there with you mahina Jan 2021 #264
She is beautiful, I am so sorry for your loss. peacebuzzard Jan 2021 #265
I'm so sorry. volstork Jan 2021 #266
I'm sorry to hear that Ellipsis Jan 2021 #267
so sorry to hear this, losing a pet is so rough.. Celerity Jan 2021 #268
I'm sorry JustAnotherGen Jan 2021 #269
Thanks. BainsBane Jan 2021 #274
They leave such a HUGE hole in our lives when they are gone. dixiegrrrrl Jan 2021 #270
He's playing on the other side of Rainbow Bridge now benld74 Jan 2021 #271
So sorry to hear this brokephibroke Jan 2021 #272
Thank you BainsBane Jan 2021 #276
Lola, beautiful girl 🦴 spanone Jan 2021 #273
What a sweet face! rhiannon55 Jan 2021 #275
I am so sorry for your loss, it's so hard to and any words I could say would be meaningless. Texin Jan 2021 #277
I'm so sorry BainsBane MustLoveBeagles Jan 2021 #278
Nice picture. Hugin Jan 2021 #279
I am so very sorry for your loss. NoRoadUntravelled Jan 2021 #281
I'm sorry for your loss as well BainsBane Jan 2021 #283
Thank you. NoRoadUntravelled Jan 2021 #286
Bless your heart! BlueTexasMan Jan 2021 #282
So sorry this happened to you. She looks beautiful Flash953 Jan 2021 #284
I have avoided your post Wawannabe Jan 2021 #285
I understand how hard it is BainsBane Jan 2021 #287
Such a sweet face KT2000 Jan 2021 #288
I'm so sorry for your loss. nt Progressive Jones Jan 2021 #289
Oh, MAN, BainsBane... calimary Jan 2021 #290
I'm sorry to hear that. Sapient Donkey Jan 2021 #291

DBoon

(22,340 posts)
23. There is a New Yorker cartoon
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:11 AM
Jan 2021

Guy is at Saint Peter's gate, having just passed away

Behind Saint Peter is a dog furiously wagging its tail

Dog says, "where were you? I've been waiting over 30 years for you"

orleans

(34,040 posts)
116. i'm truly sorry. i remember all too well how difficult it is parting company with
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:22 AM
Jan 2021

furry beloveds. your lola is beautiful.

i tried to find that cartoon for you that i think the above poster might have been thinking of.

take care of yourself in the days ahead; you know, love is so important--it's basically the only thing that really matters and we don't lose it when we die. i don't think our fur friends lose it either. we all keep it with us and that's what holds us together--even across that veiled divide.




lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
196. My daily prayer is "May I be the man my dog thinks I am."
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 10:50 AM
Jan 2021

Looks like Lola thought a LOT of you.

My warmest condolences to you and yours.

trueblue2007

(17,193 posts)
56. BAINS, MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. I BLIEVE all pets go to heaven
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:23 AM
Jan 2021

your girl is friends with my 3 cat girls, GRACIE, SOPHIE AND SNICKERS.


BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
110. Maybe Lola is playing with your cats
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:12 AM
Jan 2021

as we speak. Thank you for your kind worlds and the picture. I'm sure you still miss your furry girls a great deal.

trueblue2007

(17,193 posts)
262. Gracie and Sophie were sisters. They were rescue kittys
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:12 PM
Jan 2021

Lola is certain friends with my 3 girls. Gracie was 10 and Sophie was 15 when they went to Cat Heaven.
Our lovely Maine Coon girl Snickers was only 5. I miss them every day

Hubby cares for Feral Cats. Annie and Taffy are sisters. Inky was a feral kitten These 3 are 10 years old.
Sadie and our boy SALLY were also feral kittens from hubby's feral cat colony.
If we had not rescued these kitty cats.... i don't think they would be healthy and happy today.

BainsBane, Again i offer my condolences to you.

280. Thank you for this beautiful posting.
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:12 AM
Jan 2021

We have lost many beloved pets over the years, and I truly believe we’ll all be together someday.

Phoenix61

(16,993 posts)
5. I'm so sorry. I'm glad you were able to be with her.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:07 AM
Jan 2021

I can’t imagine my life without pets but dang it’s hard sometimes.

MontanaMama

(23,295 posts)
6. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:07 AM
Jan 2021

Lola is a beautiful girl. May her memory someday be a blessing. Until then...

Response to BainsBane (Original post)

BlueIdaho

(13,582 posts)
12. I am so sorry.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:08 AM
Jan 2021

Lola was lucky to live with you in a home filled with love for such a long time. I know she is at peace and I hope you find comfort in remembering your time together.

Take Care.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
16. So sad, so sorry. Look at that beautiful face. The eyes. That had to be so hard.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:09 AM
Jan 2021

I am glad you were able to give her comfort this last week too. I am sorry Bains... 13 does not seem that that old. I love that face.

Backseat Driver

(4,380 posts)
18. I'm so sorry for your loss of Lola.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:10 AM
Jan 2021

I can see she had lots of soulful expression in those beautiful eyes, and I'm so glad you two could spend her last days together.

Ziggysmom

(3,394 posts)
22. All sentient animals go to heaven.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:11 AM
Jan 2021

Pope Francis even said several years ago, “ One day, we will see our animals again in the eternity of Christ. Paradise is open to all of God’s creatures,”

I’m not a practicing Catholic, but I believe what he said. I’m very sorry for your loss.

Tanuki

(14,914 posts)
46. Will Rogers said, "If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die, I want to go where they went."
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:19 AM
Jan 2021

I'm sorry to hear that your sweet doggie passed away. It always seems unfair that their days on earth are so brief, when they are so full of love and goodness.

Karadeniz

(22,470 posts)
24. Oh, no! She's beautiful! I know you'll feel lost...we remember it's time to feed or let them out,
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:12 AM
Jan 2021

Then remember, no, she's not here. So the loss just stays fresh for quite a while. Day in, day out, they're part of our lives... and often the best part! I'm sorry for your loss. Lola was fortunate to have you!

Botany

(70,447 posts)
27. And she loved you to the very end.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:12 AM
Jan 2021

Just remember the more you hurt now will show you how much you loved each other.



SaveOurDemocracy

(4,400 posts)
28. You can tell she was a sweetheart. I'm so sorry for Lola's passing and pain you're feeling.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:13 AM
Jan 2021

It was good you saw her through to the end.

Lola

BainsBane Love and Peace to you.

Gothmog

(144,919 posts)
30. I am sorry for your loss
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:13 AM
Jan 2021

It is hard saying goodbye to a member of the family. Six years ago, we had to say goodbye to my bearded collie. He was 15.5 years old which is very old for this breed. My son and youngest daughter were able to say goodbye to Spenser earlier and my middle child was in law school in Iowa. I ended up flying her home picking her up at the airport and driving to the vet's office. Spenser was fully alert and was happy to see my middle child. She was there when they gave my friend the shot and she flew back to law school the next day. Last year we drove up to Wisconsin to pick up two beardie puppies who are littermates. I have to admit that my dog has really helped me during the quarantine.

Again, I am sorry for your loss.

William769

(55,144 posts)
34. I really feel for you, Thay are part of our family.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:14 AM
Jan 2021

My pet 0f 14 1/2 years is sick and can go at any moment. I leave you with this.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
163. Me too and I don't think they'd all get along with each other
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 06:00 AM
Jan 2021

I often imagine myself walking over the Bridge with two in particular in my arms hissing at each other. They were both feisty. Fortunately it's the afterlife and any scratches I get would quickly heal.

lucca18

(1,239 posts)
37. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful dog Lola.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:15 AM
Jan 2021

Thank you for loving her, and giving Lola a wonderful life.❤️

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
38. Such a sweet doggie face
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:16 AM
Jan 2021

So hard to go through this. Pets bring so much joy to our lives, but so much sadness when we have to let them go.

My condolences to you.

Demonaut

(8,914 posts)
40. the best people
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:16 AM
Jan 2021

Last edited Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:12 AM - Edit history (1)

I understand your pain and it is terrible but you have to remember you gave her a good life, my dog Otto died in my arms and wept more than when my father died, so visceral, so deep

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
51. I knew she was dying when I took it
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:21 AM
Jan 2021

I wanted something to remember her as she was at the end of her life. She was beautiful when she came to me 1.5 yrs and was beautiful until her last day. Her spirit was incredible. Everyone said she was the sweetest dog.

Skittles

(153,113 posts)
44. so very sorry, Lola was lovely
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:18 AM
Jan 2021

Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears,

but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you

I loved you so — ’twas Heaven here with you


- Isla Paschal Richardson

tosh

(4,422 posts)
45. ...
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:18 AM
Jan 2021

Hugs

You were truly blessed with the years you had with Lola. She looks like a real sweetie. 💔

Normanart

(279 posts)
48. We lost our best friend and leader of the pack last month
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:20 AM
Jan 2021

It still hurts to think about him, with us for almost 14 years. I know what you are feeling, much sympathy to you.

Normanart

(279 posts)
69. Iʻm crying as I write this
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:30 AM
Jan 2021

Itʻs horrible to wake up and not see him beside the bed. But we had a lot of fun and adventure together, and that time was priceless. His name was Ula. Take care, and cherish the memories.

karin_sj

(808 posts)
52. I'm so sorry
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:22 AM
Jan 2021

What a pretty girl. I know how hard it is to lose your beloved companion. We lost our German shepherd in May and are still missing her so much. Rest in peace, Lola.

Goodheart

(5,308 posts)
54. What a beautiful sweetheart!
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:22 AM
Jan 2021

My own dog is 12 and a half, and I'm noticing for the first time that she's slowing down, can't hear quite as well, can't see quite as well. She's such a little trooper.

Thank you for your post. I'm going to hug on my own a little longer tonight in your honor.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
55. So sorry. It's been two years and I am still not over the loss
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:23 AM
Jan 2021

of my dog.

Loved him more than I care about 75% of humans I know. So feel your pain.

It feels like hell! I am so sorry.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
61. Thank you
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:25 AM
Jan 2021

and I'm sorry for your loss as well. I live alone, so she was my closest relationship. I'll miss her terribly.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
81. Only thing that made me smile was a comedian who said " Lock
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:40 AM
Jan 2021

up your dog and your spouse in the trunk for three hours. Who will be happy to see you when you let them out?

Dogs are the most forgiving species ever.

Better shut up... Have zero to make it any less painful for you.

3catwoman3

(23,947 posts)
57. One of our vets once said to me that we welcome...
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:23 AM
Jan 2021

...our critters into our lives knowing that we will outlive them, but we do it anyway because life is so much better with them in it.

mnhtnbb

(31,374 posts)
59. I am so sorry.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:25 AM
Jan 2021

I went through losing Snowy last June when she was 14 and had been with me for almost 11 years. I found a vet who would come to my apartment to help her pass at home with me rather than let her be alone at the vet because of Covid restrictions.

Lola knew how much she was loved. Hugs to you as you carry on. She will be with you, in your heart.



BlueDawn

(892 posts)
60. I have tears in my eyes....
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:25 AM
Jan 2021

Last edited Tue Jan 12, 2021, 07:07 AM - Edit history (1)

Lola is so beautiful!

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Hugs to you and gratitude for Lola’s special place in your heart.....❤️

(Edited once for a typo.)

sheshe2

(83,654 posts)
62. Hi Bains.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:25 AM
Jan 2021

I am so sorry for you loss.

Lola was a beauty.

St. Francis of Assisi, patron saint of animals and ecology, was born in Italy around 1181-1182.

“It is my hope that the inspiration of Saint Francis will help us to keep ever alive a sense of ‘fraternity’ with all those good and beautiful things which Almighty God has created. And may he remind us of our serious obligation to respect and watch over them with care, in light of that greater and higher fraternity that exists within the human family.”

—From Pope John Paul II, Message of His Holiness Pope John Paul II for the Celebration of the World Day of Peace: Peace with God the Creator, Peace with all of Creation, 1 January 1990, paragraph 16.





BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
64. Now I am crying.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:28 AM
Jan 2021

My baby died June 2 and I haven't stopped grieving. She was with me all the time and my apt is so dead without her.

I hope you handle this better than I have. It is horrible to lose your baby since no amount of time is ever enough. I know what you are going through and it sucks!!!!!

Jazzgirl

(3,744 posts)
67. I am so sorry to hear this.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:29 AM
Jan 2021

I know what its like to lose a baby (pet). I have lost a few and I still think about them. My heart goes out to you.

BlueInPhilly

(870 posts)
68. Unconditional love
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:30 AM
Jan 2021

At its purest. I always say that if there were really angels amongst us, they are the dogs who love us just for who we are

I’m very sorry for your loss.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,587 posts)
72. What a lovely dog! I'm so sorry for your loss.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:32 AM
Jan 2021

She will be welcomed by my two cats, Milo and Jeoffry, who crossed the Rainbow Bridge this summer. Our pets are our family and we mourn them as family.

"We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle; easily and often breached. Unable to accept its awful gaps, we would still live no other way. We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully understanding the necessary plan." - Irving Townsend

Arthur_Frain

(1,839 posts)
74. There are no words I can say that will make you feel any better.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:33 AM
Jan 2021

When my lab mix Tango passed, I marvelled at how the loss of one small black dog could leach all the color from my life.

I hope I get to see her at the rainbow bridge someday. But not yet.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
87. Thanks, Ism
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:55 AM
Jan 2021

I appreciate it. One of the things I didn't mention in the OP is that I've got her body in the kitchen until 7 am when the cremation service comes. That's where she died. Earlier tonight she walked to the back door, like she wanted to get out, but lay down because she was too weak. A bit later she tried to walk into the other room but couldn't make it past the middle of a very tiny kitchen. She lay there for a long time. That's where she died. I moved her closer to the back door after she died. It's not like having a strange animal's body in the house, though. She's still my girl, even if her soul has gone.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
164. It's like a wake
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 06:06 AM
Jan 2021

Stay with her, if you want to.


It's so so hard, but I'm glad she got to pass away peacefully at home. That's so much easier than a vet's office.

Gore1FL

(21,098 posts)
77. I am so sorry for your loss.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:36 AM
Jan 2021

Dogs are a wonderful source of love. Their passing is a pain well felt.

Thank you for taking care of her all o these years. You were her everything.

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
78. What a sweet little lady. Very sorry for the loss of your friend.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:37 AM
Jan 2021

My girl of 14 years is nearly ready to go as well. Lap of love will be here on Friday to help her pass over.

It's heartbreaking. I'm so glad you got to be with her to the end. Peace to you both.

More_Cowbell

(2,190 posts)
80. You made the right, hard call
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:40 AM
Jan 2021

I'm sad to say that I know people who would have left their pet to die without them.

She looks like a sweetheart.

Cozmo

(1,402 posts)
82. She will always be with you and will make her presence known
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:44 AM
Jan 2021

This is a tough thing we pet owners must face. But you loved her and you made her life full as she did for you. Cherish the memories, she'll return in your dreams. With kindest thoughts for you both, I will light a candle, Cozmo

herding cats

(19,558 posts)
83. Bains, my heart is with you tonight.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:44 AM
Jan 2021

Lola was a beautiful lady, and the love in her eyes looking at you... that's why we have fur kids. That pure love given in return for ours without judgment for our foibles. ❤️

I'm sorry, I know it's won't truly help, but know I'm thinking of you and Lola tonight while I snug my geriatric fur kid extra close.

herding cats

(19,558 posts)
126. She's still going to be there with you.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:49 AM
Jan 2021

You'll hear her feet walking her normal path when you're into your ritual, and catch her out of the corner of your eye where she should be.

I, personally, embrace this as my beloved leaving me gently with kind and loving memories, until we meet up again.

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
89. I'm sorry,
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:57 AM
Jan 2021

Thank you for being strong for her. She knew you were there.

I lost my best friend doggie at that age too. You might find this silly, but I do think I hear her bark now and then. I have her ashes, and she will go with me one day.

Again, I’m sorry. They don’t live long enough, and they treat us so well.

COL Mustard

(5,870 posts)
292. I've Had My Golden Retriever's Ashes Since June of 1998
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 08:29 PM
Mar 2021

And he'll go with me (or I'll go with him) when it's time.

And after all this time, I still get misty eyed when I think of him.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
93. So deeply sorry for your loss
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:59 AM
Jan 2021

Nothing hurts as much as when our beloved companions transition.

Lola is a beautiful girl. And what a gift to have had her with you for so many years, and especially for that last week.

Healing vibes on the way to you! 💗💗💗

Dem2theMax

(9,637 posts)
97. BainsBane, I am so sorry about Lola.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:02 AM
Jan 2021

They are always our best friends. They always know when we need some extra love or some extra space. Somehow, they just know.

I'm so glad you were able to keep her with you at home, and love her to the very end.

I have to believe that wherever we go when we pass on, our furry family members are waiting for us. May Lola be waiting for you.

Stinky The Clown

(67,761 posts)
103. The price for a dog's unconditional love is paid in our tears as they cross over Rainbow Bridge
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:07 AM
Jan 2021

This is for you

enki23

(7,786 posts)
104. She's a beautiful girl.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:07 AM
Jan 2021

I'm sorry for all the pain. We lost ours just before Halloween, so I have some good idea. She was 15, but it still came as a surprise. She had seemed to be doing pretty well. But we came home from a rare trip out, and she was gone. She was still warm, even tiny weak little breaths, but no heartbeat. I hope she heard and felt us loving her as she went. I know that hope doesn't matter to her. But the the way that hope feels matters to me.

I know not all dogs are wonderful. But good dogs, which is most of them? We don't deserve them. They're way better than we are.

kangandkodos

(1 post)
109. Beautiful Pup
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:11 AM
Jan 2021

Man, I could get lost in those eyes for many lifetimes. I lost my Monty of 10 years last August. Still dealing with it. Harder than most people I’ve lost.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
111. I'm so sorry to hear about Monty
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:14 AM
Jan 2021

I know about what you mean about its being harder than for most people. I lived alone with Lola. She was my closest relationship. I'm miss her terribly, as you miss Monty.

Niagara

(7,558 posts)
115. I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Lola.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:19 AM
Jan 2021

It was 2 months and 3 days ago that we had to euthanize our beloved cat Bermuda, and we were both allowed to be with him in his last moments here on earth.


Even though we have a remaining cat that is still with us, Bermuda's presence is still here and with us. There are certain things and noises that he use to do and make that still continue to happen on occasion. I believe it's his way of letting us know that he's checking up on us. If you pay attention you will most likely notice typical things happening that Lola use to do at home. Unconditional love between a human and their pet family members is a powerful energy.


Sending you virtual hugs during this difficult time.

OhNo-Really

(3,985 posts)
117. No greater pain. ✨✨💕✨✨
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:23 AM
Jan 2021

I’m so sorry. Beautiful Lola
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Time helps but I still shed a tear from time to time.

 

occupant

(166 posts)
124. Sending healing hugs
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:31 AM
Jan 2021

I'm sending healing (((Hugs))) your way. Lady Lola was a beautiful pup to love and you can see the love right back atcha. So many pups need a loving home like yours. Don't take too long to think about giving another pup a chance...

electric_blue68

(14,818 posts)
128. Oh, look at that face. So sorry to hear...
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:00 AM
Jan 2021

In the past 3+ months 2 people close to me lost their
fur babies; one illness, one old age. So yeah.

Sounds like he had a ❤️ good life w you.

halobeam

(4,873 posts)
130. I'm so sorry, Bains. It's true what they say
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:04 AM
Jan 2021

The more you hurt tells you how strong the love you share together. It never, ever leaves us and thank God


Hang in there. Just as in life, she will still bring you smiles... every time you think of her.




Hermit-The-Prog

(33,254 posts)
131. 6 months ago for mine. Took me 3 months to climb out of the fog of grief.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:04 AM
Jan 2021

May your cherished memories carry you gently through this time.

colorado_ufo

(5,730 posts)
132. You can see in her eyes how much she loves you,
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:11 AM
Jan 2021

and being with you made her happy. What a beautiful picture!

I am so, so sorry for your loss!

llashram

(6,265 posts)
133. it is always difficult
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:12 AM
Jan 2021

to lose a fur buddy. Hopefully, the time spent together over those 11+years will ease the pain of loss.

samplegirl

(11,462 posts)
134. So sorry and I feel your
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:12 AM
Jan 2021

pain. Lost my cat after 19 years and it still hurts.
It takes so long to heal.

peggysue2

(10,823 posts)
135. Ahhhhh. So sorry.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:12 AM
Jan 2021

The very worst of having puppies (of any age). Never gets easier. Always breaks your heart.

Take care.

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
139. Oh such a look of sweetness and being loved, protected. Heart-breaking. So sorry. You
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:18 AM
Jan 2021

were there for, in doggie terms, her whole life almost and her old, old age. May you feel her still near. I do know the pain.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
141. Ohhh! I am so very sorry for your loss, BainsBane!
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:23 AM
Jan 2021

I know how broken hearted you must be. What an adorable little angel! She has such a sweet, soulful little face. My heart breaks for the both of you.

Sending you condolences and healing thoughts. May your little Lola rest in peace.

misanthrope

(7,408 posts)
142. Sorry, you have my condolences
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:24 AM
Jan 2021

Dogs can be such wonderful companions. If you've known the love of a good dog, you've had one of the finest things life has to offer us.

Raster

(20,998 posts)
147. Bless your heart, so sorry for your loss...
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 03:46 AM
Jan 2021

...dogs are one of life's treasures. And our relationships with our canine companions can be some of our most rewarding relationships.

Here's to Lola

Fla Dem

(23,587 posts)
150. So very sorry your Lola has left you.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 04:10 AM
Jan 2021

It’s never easy losing a pet. Such an empty place in your heart. You at least were with her to the very end, giving her so much love, and she knew it. Peace be to you.💕

Raine

(30,540 posts)
159. What a sweetheart ❤ I'm so sorry 💔
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 05:20 AM
Jan 2021

dogs are special Angel's on earth and family, it's hurts so to lose them. Lola will be waiting to greet you at the rainbow bridge one day, it will be a beautiful reunion.

Violet_Crumble

(35,955 posts)
166. RIP Lola. It's so cruel that our doggos don't live as long as we do...
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 06:28 AM
Jan 2021

I'm so glad you got to spend her last week with her, and after the worst of the grieving passes, yr going to have great memories of her for the rest of yr life...


*hugs*

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
168. I am so sorry 😿
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 07:59 AM
Jan 2021

She was gorgeous... she is waiting for you now 🌈🐾

I just lost my beloved Georgie Boy, one of my outdoor kitties who we managed to get inside, I tried everything to save him but it was too late, he was crashing... and had suddenly gone blind with so many things going on. I am devastated 😭💔 He deserved a life inside loved and protected.

Run free Lola 💕🐾

Roisin Ni Fiachra

(2,574 posts)
169. Such a beautiful spirit. So very sorry.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:01 AM
Jan 2021

Dogs have been the very best friends I've had over the course of my lifetime.

"He danced for those at minstrel shows and county fairs
throughout the south
He spoke through tears of 15 years how his dog and him
traveled about
The dog up and died, he up and died
And after 20 years he still grieves"

Mr. Bojangles
Jerry Jeff Walker



Liberal In Texas

(13,531 posts)
170. My condolences. It is so hard losing a loved family member.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:06 AM
Jan 2021

Remember that you had 11 great years together gave her a good and secure home and are a better person for it.

mercuryblues

(14,522 posts)
171. I am sorry for your loss of Lola
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:18 AM
Jan 2021

I love it when I dream of my pets that are long gone. May you have the same dreams of Lola.

kpete

(71,961 posts)
175. My sympathy & a virtual hug to you
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:55 AM
Jan 2021

This is an especially hard time to lose a dog.
I lost my companion Roo in June. Never cried so hard in my life, not even when my dad died earlier in April. I think our emotions are raw this year and loss is very, very difficult.

I still miss her.

peace,
kp

bullwinkle428

(20,628 posts)
180. I am so sorry. You can just see by the look in her eyes, that she was
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 09:26 AM
Jan 2021

the kind of dog that wanted to be everybody's friend! Please take care of yourself, and continue to stay in touch with the DU community, because you know that you have so many that care about you here.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,911 posts)
181. It's such a unique intimacy that we reach with our noat cherished animal companions
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 09:30 AM
Jan 2021

Losing one is a pure blow to the heart . Our "pets" are our mentors, if we let them be, in facing aging and our own mortality. Most old dogs I have known have such wonderful spirits. I'm so glad you could be together at the end. I know that this is hard for you.

pazzyanne

(6,543 posts)
183. May Lola gently cross the Rainbow Bridge to play and wait for the day you are reunite.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 09:34 AM
Jan 2021

Great memories will heal the pain as you grieve your loss.

nuxvomica

(12,410 posts)
187. I read once that in dreams, dogs symbolize friendship
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 10:05 AM
Jan 2021

Yes, even in our dreams. My condolences on the loss of your great friend Lola.

Trueblue Texan

(2,419 posts)
190. Awww, I'm so sorry.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 10:14 AM
Jan 2021

I know you have lost a precious friend and family member. It takes a long time to heal. I wish I could make it better. Know that there are those of us who know your pain. Glad you were able to give her a transition full of love.

niyad

(113,055 posts)
191. Lady of the Beasts, please take Lola gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace and
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 10:15 AM
Jan 2021

comfort to her grieving loved ones.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Lola.

twodogsbarking

(9,674 posts)
192. Remember what you had not what you lost
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 10:28 AM
Jan 2021

A day for humans is a week for dogs. Thank you for being so kind.

scrabblequeen40

(334 posts)
197. Touched by your post
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 10:53 AM
Jan 2021

May you find peace and bask in the memory of your faithful companion. Sending a virtual hug to you.

CommonHumanity

(246 posts)
199. Beautiful
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 11:01 AM
Jan 2021

She is so beautiful and soulful. I love her just from looking at the photo. Glad you had your time together. Such a precious thing on both your paths through the world.

True indeed that dogs are our very best friends. My dog is my own little buddha/teacher because she embodies those most God-like and life-affirming qualities of unconditional love, perpetual forgiveness and unbounded joy.

I am so glad you had your time together!

Wicked Blue

(5,819 posts)
200. Oh BainsBane, my deepest condolences
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 11:04 AM
Jan 2021

What a sad loss to you. I feel for you.

We have a beloved 13-year-old dog on oxygen support at the vet's right now because he can't breathe on his own. He might go any time, but we can't bring him home. It's our daughter's dog and she is taking this hard.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
202. I'm so sorry
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 11:23 AM
Jan 2021

That is very difficult.
Thank you for your sympathy and I wish the best for your family's healing.

Gidney N Cloyd

(19,819 posts)
201. So sorry, BainsBane. RIPO, Lola. It's a challenging time to have older dogs and cats.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 11:07 AM
Jan 2021

I'm on a slo-mo watch with my dog, too. My vet's doing curb service during covid but he assured me he'd sneak me in to be there when the time comes to let him go.

PatrickforO

(14,558 posts)
205. I am sorry for the loss of your friend.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 11:35 AM
Jan 2021

She was beautiful and has now crossed over the Rainbow Bridge.

pandr32

(11,553 posts)
208. I am so sorry for the loss of Lola
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 11:39 AM
Jan 2021

She looks like a very sweet girl.
Our pets are family and their lives are so short. May you smile through your tears with her memories.

Hotler

(11,396 posts)
210. Epitaph to a Dog; Byran
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 11:48 AM
Jan 2021

To mark a friend's remains these stones arise;
I never knew but one—and here he lies.

https://poets.org/poem/epitaph-dog

A toast to all of man's best friends past and present.
I've many life journeys with many fine dogs, a couple were butt heads, and some were just the best you could ask for.

I hope you fiend a new forever friend.

cate94

(2,810 posts)
213. I know it is so difficult to say good bye
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 12:02 PM
Jan 2021

It sounds like she was a wonderful pup and you a wonderful parent.

randr

(12,409 posts)
214. She was a beautiful friend no doubt
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 12:26 PM
Jan 2021

We lost two of the best labs I have ever owned last year. So painful to watch them suffer while they still express all their love back at you. You be well now.

Ingersollman

(204 posts)
216. So
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 12:43 PM
Jan 2021

sorry for your loss. Our four-legged friends give everything they have to us, and ask for nothing in return. They are the gifts that keep on giving. She's gone but never to be forgotten.

Kimber432

(74 posts)
219. Lola had a wonderful life thanks to you.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:03 PM
Jan 2021

So sorry to hear of her passing. I just hope that your memories help you cope with the grief of losing her.

Mrhyde719

(212 posts)
221. Don't usually comment but this sounds like us
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 01:17 PM
Jan 2021

Our Shepherd of 8 years was put down in November from a nerve disease. It was the humane thing to do. Thought I was prepared, I wasn’t. My philosophy has always been when there is a emotional hole in your life you need to fill it. I know there will never be another Lola for you just as there will never be another Sophie for us. After about a week of suffering, my wife and I decided to get another Shepherd in the spring. Too hard to train a puppy in the winter was our thinking. My daughter observed us apparently and brought us a beautiful Shepherd puppy before Christmas! After living with Lucy for a few weeks I cannot fathom why we waited That long! I hope this doesn’t sound insensitive but trust me fill the hole.

woodsprite

(11,904 posts)
224. So sorry to hear of the passing of your pup
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:00 PM
Jan 2021

Glad she was not in any pain and that you were able to be with her until the end.



We're going down the same path now with our German Shepherd, Noelle, who came to live with us over 13 yrs ago.

Freedomofspeech

(4,221 posts)
226. So very sorry...
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:19 PM
Jan 2021

We lost our beloved rescue beagle, Emme, the day after the election. We only had her for 3 years and she gave us so much love. I am crying now as I look at the picture of your beautiful Lola. Sending you love and peace.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,559 posts)
227. I am so, so sorry to hear of you losing your pup.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:23 PM
Jan 2021

They are so sweet and loyal, and deserve everything we can give them.

We almost lost ours a week ago last Sunday, but the animal hospital pulled him through. Again. My wife and I had a pretty miserable time until the vet called at 5:30am on Monday morning. Ozzie, Cairn Of Steel comes through again.

I wish you had had the same miracle. Again, my deepest condolences.

Billytee

(106 posts)
228. Those tender of heart....
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:28 PM
Jan 2021

always pay a higher price.
....Herman Hess
It's always difficult to lose a member of your family. Deeply sorry for your loss.

KarenS

(4,062 posts)
229. I am so sorry,,,,
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:30 PM
Jan 2021

A dog becomes a child. It is so painful when they go.

I still miss ours. Miz Molly was our girl's name.


Sending ((hugs))

intheflow

(28,442 posts)
232. I'm so sorry, BainsBane.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:38 PM
Jan 2021

I had to put my dog Bear down almost exactly two years ago. He was about 15 and had been with me since 2006. I've since adopted two dogs (bonded pair, Burt, age 7, and Ernie, age 5), and while I'm enjoying getting to know the, and already love them,, I still sometimes ache for my sweet Bearbaroo. Sending sweet dreams to you, of Lola meeting up with Bear and chasing squirrels together over the rainbow bridge. And of course, I wish that for Lola, as well as an eternity of limitless bacon and cheese.

Here's Bear, about six months before he left me.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
233. What a sweetheart bear is
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 02:39 PM
Jan 2021

and I love the idea of their chasing squirrels together.
Thanks so much for your kindess.

Permanut

(5,561 posts)
248. What a beautiful little doggie..
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 04:43 PM
Jan 2021

Hurts so deeply to lose these little fur critters. I just lost my little Joey a month ago, 17 year old Jack Russell terrier. Treasure the time you had, the memories, and the opportunity to spoil Lola rotten.

BrtovaNe

(682 posts)
249. So sorry for your loss
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 04:47 PM
Jan 2021

I love dogs. I couldn't live without them. We lost 4 dogs in 2 years. 3 very old, one killed by a German Shepherd. She bleed to death in my arms. I share your sorrow.

Star-Thrower

(309 posts)
254. My heart goes out to you
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 06:51 PM
Jan 2021

in this painful time. A loss of a loved companion is the loss of a family member. AS one who has, through the years, lost several dogs, you as am I will never forget their presence, the joy they bring, the antics and personalities they have, their unique habits. So sorry for the loss of your pal.

COL Mustard

(5,870 posts)
255. So Sorry.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 06:55 PM
Jan 2021

My neighbors had to put their dog to sleep today. It hurts and will for a while. Remember that you will grieve for her just like any other creature you've loved. And there is no right or wrong way to grieve. You don't get over it, you just go through it and day by day it gets easier.

My dog died in 1998, and I still miss him. Haven't gotten another one because I just don't want to go through that again. (And no, I'm not Mr. Bojangles).....

Peace

brer cat

(24,523 posts)
258. I'm so sorry, Bains.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 07:21 PM
Jan 2021

Lola will be leaving a big hole in your life and your heart. I was with one of my dogs when she passed and it was very bittersweet. I was grateful to be with her, remind her of how loved she was and how much joy she brought to my life, but it was tough when she took her last breath. I hope your memories of Lola will be a comfort for you.

MLAA

(17,250 posts)
259. Oh what a sweet and beautiful girl!
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 07:54 PM
Jan 2021

💖💖💖💕💕💕💖💞LOLA💞💖💕💕💕💖💖💖

samnsara

(17,605 posts)
260. Many years ago when my 10 yr old giant Golden Retriver, Charlie, passed I found a site on line..
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 07:57 PM
Jan 2021

...called The Rainbow Bridge. Its a site where folks can pay a small fee to have their beloved fur child remembered with a tribute page. The pet owners post stories and poems and photos along with music. Its there for other folks to visit and leave condolences as well. I started reading all the stories and tribute pages and I cried and cried until I had no more tears. All those tears helped with the healing. The next day I brought home two 8 week old litter mate Goldens and they were with me for 7yrs (Sam) and his sister (Sara) for 12 years.

I never created tribute pages for any of my own beloved pets but I do volunteer as a bereavement counselor for the site.

Please know you are in my thoughts and close to my heart as you say good bye to your best friend and fur child. Godspeed, precious Lola.. what a GOOD girl you are!

(((hugs)))


sdfernando

(4,925 posts)
261. Oh my gosh!...I'm so sorry you lost Lola
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:11 PM
Jan 2021

She looks so so sweet. I'm comforted by the fact that you could stay with her and help her cross over.

Peace to your heart and to Lola.

pamdb

(1,332 posts)
263. your beautiful dog
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:20 PM
Jan 2021


As a dog parent, I am so sorry. We've gone thru this twice, our first was a 12 year old pit mix, smartest dog I've ever had and I grew up with dogs. She had bone cancer with a big
tumor. Our second, BooBoo died from old age at 14. Which isn't bad for a lab tripod mix.
It is always so hard when they die. All we can cling to is that they have had a good life with their human family All our dogs have been rescue dogs so we pretty much know their fate if we hadn't adopted them. We now have an 8 year old lab boxer mix. know it's too soon, but there's always another dog out there looking for a home...

peacebuzzard

(5,148 posts)
265. She is beautiful, I am so sorry for your loss.
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:39 PM
Jan 2021

My heart aches for you rest in peace, dear Lola.
She was an angel on earth.

Ellipsis

(9,124 posts)
267. I'm sorry to hear that
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 08:43 PM
Jan 2021

Good run for a "Woof" though... and probably because of you, Lola hung out for so long.

brokephibroke

(1,883 posts)
272. So sorry to hear this
Tue Jan 12, 2021, 09:27 PM
Jan 2021

We lost our 14 yo lab 2 weeks ago. Miss her everyday.

Losing your dog is really a tough thing.

NoRoadUntravelled

(2,626 posts)
281. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:13 AM
Jan 2021

My heart goes out to you. This happened to me right before Christmas. It's heart breaking.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
283. I'm sorry for your loss as well
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:35 AM
Jan 2021

That's very recent. The house feels so empty without Lola. I expect you feel the same.

NoRoadUntravelled

(2,626 posts)
286. Thank you.
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:47 AM
Jan 2021

I miss her sweet presence so much. My almost 21 year old cat, Tundra. She slept next to my pillow every night and woke me each morning with her little paw pads on my cheek.
Those are the hardest times of day for me to get used to her absence.

BlueTexasMan

(165 posts)
282. Bless your heart!
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:25 AM
Jan 2021

I've had many dogs in my long life and know how hard it is losing one. I send you peace and healing vibes.

Wawannabe

(5,632 posts)
285. I have avoided your post
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:42 AM
Jan 2021

I am still not over my Zeus dying April 2018.

Kills me to read these. But this OP has been staring me down while it climbed the trending and greatest. So I knew it was special. Doggone. I am so sorry for ya.
RIP Lola

The vet did a paw casting of Zeus and the gals dressed it up with special stuff. He knew them only a short while but he made one helluva impression. I have his ashes. I miss him. We were a pack. Feel ya.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
287. I understand how hard it is
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:47 AM
Jan 2021

when you're still grieving for your own furry friend.
Thank you for your kind words. I hope Zeus and Lola are currently playing up in heaven.

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
288. Such a sweet face
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:48 AM
Jan 2021

I am really sorry for your loss. I know it hurts so much but please find peace in the memories and the knowledge you gave her love.

calimary

(81,110 posts)
290. Oh, MAN, BainsBane...
Wed Jan 13, 2021, 12:53 AM
Jan 2021

I'm so sorry to hear this. Makes me think of our beloved Goldie - sweet shepherd mix who was with us about 14 years. Nobody knew how old she was when we fell in love with her at the local shelter and made her OURS.

Lola, wherever you are, it's my pleasure to introduce you to Goldie! And several cats - Barney, dB, Mousetrap, Dub, and Ernie. They're all hanging out at the Rainbow Bridge where you'll find you have many new friends. (Getting teary-eyed as I write this. DAMN I miss Goldie...)

Hope if there's a hereafter that I can eventually visit the Rainbow Bridge and love 'em all up, all over again. Your Lola will undoubtedly be settling in comfortably.





I HATE saying goodbye to fur babies...

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