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Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 01:41 PM Jan 2021

Forgive my rage

My daughter, age 31 and all I have, we lost her mom to cancer when she was 10, is now extremely sick from Covid. She is an ICU nurse, and was attacked by a male rabid denier on in her unit while trying to help him. She was in full PPE and still got the virus from him. He forcefully punched her in the breast. And spewed while shouting.
7 days in and got positive test Tuesday.
I have no patience left. I served this country for 8 years and now the enemy is right here, egged on by Trump and Fox News. Attacking my country, and now attacking my daughter just trying to give medical help.
I am fighting like hell to not take my skills, a special set of skills, gubment paid for skills to go honor my oath.
I hate to see the flag, I hate the chanting USA, I hate the GOP. Never will I salute, take my hat off, or honor that God damned song until justice and prison for all these treasonous asses are accomplished. Especially congress, Trump and his minions.
If I lose her, this soldier will go back to soldiering.
This snowflake is now boiling water and about to scald some brain dead Trump zombies.
And Comey thinks Biden should pardon Trump for unity😡🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡🤬.
Benghazi, who ordered the stand done while watching the attack that killed for? Those attackers did not shit and smear it all the building. Our home grown white terrorists did just that in our capital. In GODS name, Pillow Guy! Fuck GOP. Fuck every damn one of them. Jail that 5 foot white Glock Qanon Princess that assisted the attack.
Ok, I am done for now. Thanks for allowing steam from this boiling pot to rise and cool.

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Forgive my rage (Original Post) Traildogbob Jan 2021 OP
Rage, rage against the lying of the right. BSdetect Jan 2021 #1
A perfect retort Sucha NastyWoman Jan 2021 #101
+1 Raster Jan 2021 #132
I hope your daughter recovers quickly. madaboutharry Jan 2021 #2
And propaganda through hate radio and fox/nmax/oann. BComplex Jan 2021 #6
For Covid - it is also the 'Christian' networks spewing dangerous lies. Tommymac Jan 2021 #17
True that. When is the left going to finally figure out how to take on all the lying groups? BComplex Jan 2021 #34
Right on, Tommymac.. Permanut Jan 2021 #102
Indeed Evolve Dammit Jan 2021 #31
Bothe quicklly and fully. soldierant Jan 2021 #77
Your rage is definitely justified Bradshaw3 Jan 2021 #3
Thank you Traildogbob Jan 2021 #9
Hope she's going to be OK. Your rage is justified. We have identified the enemy within. nt Evolve Dammit Jan 2021 #33
Thank you for sharing this with all of us, Traildogbob. Aristus Jan 2021 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2021 #5
No Unity for Peace RANDYWILDMAN Jan 2021 #7
good on you.:) havent said the pledge or sang the national anthem for years . AllaN01Bear Jan 2021 #8
I hope your daughter recovers quickly. Freedomofspeech Jan 2021 #10
I love Traildogbob Jan 2021 #12
I refused to display the flags during the Bush and trump years. Freedomofspeech Jan 2021 #15
Without Comey's pernicious interference we wouldn't be... NNadir Jan 2021 #11
❤️ Traildogbob Jan 2021 #13
DITTO! Cozmo Jan 2021 #40
This story makes me so sad. And angry. Livbaker Jan 2021 #14
And please Traildogbob Jan 2021 #16
Yes, way to many single cheap masks being worn in public, KS Toronado Jan 2021 #41
I not only forgive your rage cyclonefence Jan 2021 #18
🤜🤛🤜🏾🤛🏻🤜🏿🤛🏼🤜🏽🤛🏿 Traildogbob Jan 2021 #21
Best wishes for your daughter's full recovery. In_The_Wind Jan 2021 #19
I'm so sorry BainsBane Jan 2021 #20
I could see 1 lawsuit per Covid for Donnie, etc. rickyhall Jan 2021 #22
Your rage is justified. Hoping the best for your daughter. TNNurse Jan 2021 #23
SHE says that. Traildogbob Jan 2021 #26
IIRC, the "ass" in question GopherGal Jan 2021 #116
Correct Traildogbob Jan 2021 #117
Your daughter is a courageous wonderful person people Jan 2021 #24
God bless you, your wonderful daughter, and you dear late wife. colorado_ufo Jan 2021 #25
Kinda hope Traildogbob Jan 2021 #28
I am so sorry for your daughter, denvine Jan 2021 #27
Oh God, I am so sorry. I hope your daughter will fully recover. LiberalLoner Jan 2021 #29
Sending all the love and support and healing I can, for both of you. Rage as much as you need to, niyad Jan 2021 #30
Your rant strikes a chord with all of us. It helps explain why, as 45's departure is imminent, many dameatball Jan 2021 #32
Can not fathom DemUnleashed Jan 2021 #35
I am so sorry and hope your daughter makes it through with her health intact. 58Sunliner Jan 2021 #36
Stay angry. Allow yourself the anger. And use the anger. Tech Jan 2021 #37
In this leighbythesea2 Jan 2021 #86
Hope she recovers quickly and fully nt Nululu Jan 2021 #38
So sorry to hear your daughter was attacked & is now very ill! SheltieLover Jan 2021 #39
She is at home Traildogbob Jan 2021 #45
So sorry to hear about her losing pup. That's rough! SheltieLover Jan 2021 #58
Your rage is totally understandable... electric_blue68 Jan 2021 #42
I'm with you, its time to destroy Trumpism... Jon King Jan 2021 #43
Any Doctor or Nurse who catches the virus should be entitled to the special treatments KS Toronado Jan 2021 #44
Her first scheduled Traildogbob Jan 2021 #48
I know, the GOP deniers in my red state & county all jumped in the 1st round with healthcare workers KS Toronado Jan 2021 #62
Hang in brother. Traildogbob Jan 2021 #64
No "forgiveness" needed for that righteous rant. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2021 #46
Promise! Traildogbob Jan 2021 #50
I hope they find arrest and send this clown to 20 to life ! VladmireTrumpkins Jan 2021 #47
We share your rage. I am hoping and praying fervently that your precious comes through quickly. onecaliberal Jan 2021 #49
Sorry about your daughter. Jay25 Jan 2021 #51
Vent all you like. You have every right to be angry. crickets Jan 2021 #52
I'm sorry about your daughter. You have every reason to be outraged. GentryDixon Jan 2021 #53
I am so upset for your situation. I worry about everyone now, including my daughter who is a Doctor. Paper Roses Jan 2021 #54
... Nevilledog Jan 2021 #55
How is she? wryter2000 Jan 2021 #56
Thank you Traildogbob Jan 2021 #61
Your rage is totally understandable. Niagara Jan 2021 #57
You have every right & reason to be raging. These people on the far R need to be brought to justice Vivienne235729 Jan 2021 #59
Many well wishes to you and her Lithos Jan 2021 #60
Understandable and righteous rage cp Jan 2021 #63
Yes, alone Traildogbob Jan 2021 #66
this llashram Jan 2021 #65
Nothing to forgive. AirmensMom Jan 2021 #67
I'm so Sorry.. Best Healing Vibes Cha Jan 2021 #68
I'm so sorry I hope your daughter recovers soon with no after effects. blueinredohio Jan 2021 #69
All of us are with you in spirit, traildogbob UpInArms Jan 2021 #70
This video may have some good suggestions to aid her recovery Orange Buffoon Jan 2021 #71
Rage on as much as you need to. We are your digital family. alwaysinasnit Jan 2021 #72
You are so right seta1950 Jan 2021 #73
wishing you both well Skittles Jan 2021 #74
Send all kinds of good wishes for your daughter's recovery. Lonestarblue Jan 2021 #75
I'm so sorry, Traildogbob karin_sj Jan 2021 #76
To all Traildogbob Jan 2021 #78
Is there anything you can do to make sure she's received all the special treatments out there? As an Karadeniz Jan 2021 #79
Love to you Traildogbob Jan 2021 #82
We're plugging for her...and you! My eyes are tearing up...and I'm not a crier because it doesn't Karadeniz Jan 2021 #91
❤️❤️❤️ Traildogbob Jan 2021 #93
Best wishes for your daughters full recovery leighbythesea2 Jan 2021 #80
Promise Traildogbob Jan 2021 #83
Will leighbythesea2 Jan 2021 #89
Let off steam all you want here, however I think it's way past time Fox Freaking Noise got their lambchopp59 Jan 2021 #81
"Thanks for allowing steam from this boiling pot to rise and cool." jaxexpat Jan 2021 #84
❤️❤️❤️✌🏼 Traildogbob Jan 2021 #85
A lot of us are going through a lot of moral/ethical quandry these days, for different reasons... marble falls Jan 2021 #87
+1 myohmy2 Jan 2021 #88
My best to your daughter and you. cry baby Jan 2021 #90
I hope your daughter will be okay! redwitch Jan 2021 #92
You have every right to rage and I am so so so hoping that she recovers quickly! Tumbulu Jan 2021 #94
I understand your rage. stage left Jan 2021 #95
All my thoughts and hopes for your courageous daughter's complete recovery. sarge43 Jan 2021 #96
Love and healing vibes to you and your daughter. sheshe2 Jan 2021 #97
I know how you feel. mercuryblues Jan 2021 #98
One cheerful note - the soldiers who are protecting the Capitol now have PatrickforO Jan 2021 #99
That is hard to bear. I hope the man is charged, convicted, & jailed. Little comfort, but needed. nt Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2021 #100
Bob, your anger is completely justified Wicked Blue Jan 2021 #103
Received Traildogbob Jan 2021 #104
So sorry. I hope your daughter makes a speedy recovery. nt ecstatic Jan 2021 #105
Best wishes to your daughter for a full and speedy recovery GeoWilliam750 Jan 2021 #106
Righteous rant, Sir. pdxflyboy Jan 2021 #107
I hear you. Snackshack Jan 2021 #108
🤜 Traildogbob Jan 2021 #109
I rage with you dear Traildogbob MLAA Jan 2021 #110
Rant on - righteous! Wawannabe Jan 2021 #111
I agree with you. You have a right to be angry. demigoddess Jan 2021 #112
i forgive you. barbtries Jan 2021 #113
✌🏼 Traildogbob Jan 2021 #114
Well said and on target for these times. Healing vibes to your daughter and good thoughts to you. c-rational Jan 2021 #115
No Justice, No Peace. KNOW Justice, KNOW Peace. TigressDem Jan 2021 #118
My god Traildogbob Jan 2021 #120
Thanks. Just wanted you to know you aren't alone. TigressDem Jan 2021 #122
Don't give up Traildogbob Jan 2021 #123
That is my every day prayer. Truth, Justice and back to reality. What a concept. TigressDem Jan 2021 #126
I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles Jan 2021 #119
I will Traildogbob Jan 2021 #121
This is why I think any belligerent denier patient should be discharged immediately. roamer65 Jan 2021 #124
All my heart is with you and your daughter, Bob. SergeStorms Jan 2021 #125
Traildogbob.... Upthevibe Jan 2021 #127
Holding your beautiful dear daughter in the light mahina Jan 2021 #128
I am horrified; so sorry for this assault on your sweet daughter, peacebuzzard Jan 2021 #129
Best wishes for your daughter. I identify with this. JDC Jan 2021 #130
Well said Thank you. I hope your daughter gets well soon Tribetime Jan 2021 #131
Healing vibes sent for your daughter. Heartstrings Jan 2021 #133

Raster

(20,998 posts)
132. +1
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 11:47 AM
Jan 2021

Many of us, and most without those skills, are at the same place.

I don't care anymore about tRump* voters, their lies, their stupidity, THEIR FUCKING INSURRECTION and attempt to overthrow the United States government. I have a sibling deep in the tRump* cult. I don't care.

I have other immediate family members on the Covid front lines and I am terrified for them.

Whenever I encounter a #Maskhole, it is all I can do to refrain/restrain myself. Be a dumb, science-denying fool all you like, but you have NO RIGHT to hurt others.

Best to you and good, healing vibes to your daughter.

madaboutharry

(40,210 posts)
2. I hope your daughter recovers quickly.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 01:45 PM
Jan 2021

Don't apologize for being angry. This nation has been abused by a lack of leadership.

Peace and hugs.

BComplex

(8,050 posts)
6. And propaganda through hate radio and fox/nmax/oann.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 01:52 PM
Jan 2021

It's the propaganda and lies that have to stop. Twitter and FB are FINALLY doing a small part after being the main platforms on social media, but the disease has metastasized.

Tommymac

(7,263 posts)
17. For Covid - it is also the 'Christian' networks spewing dangerous lies.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:30 PM
Jan 2021

Masks don't work.

The charlatans are taking much more then money from fools - they are contributing to the spread of a deadly disease.

BComplex

(8,050 posts)
34. True that. When is the left going to finally figure out how to take on all the lying groups?
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:24 PM
Jan 2021

Evangelicals
School Boards that keep kids from learning critical thinking skills and social studies/civics

Conservatives have really screwed this country.

Permanut

(5,604 posts)
102. Right on, Tommymac..
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 07:44 PM
Jan 2021

Just today a group of "christians" on Bible thumper talk radio decided to inform us that even though they may not approve of what happened at the capitol last week, they are absolutely positive that their dear leader had nothing to do with it.

Bob Dutko
John Stonestreet
John Rush
Roger Marsh

Still drinking koolaid by the gallon. Not sure if Jesus would approve.

Bradshaw3

(7,521 posts)
3. Your rage is definitely justified
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 01:47 PM
Jan 2021

They just keep hurting people and our country because of their hatred and unfounded anger, spurred on by media and scumbag pols. Now they have hurt your loved one. I feel that kind of anger most days, without anywhere near the kind of justification you have. However you don't want to go to jail, so please reach out to someone who can listen. You can rant anytime on here. You and your daughter have served their country and are appreciated.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
9. Thank you
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:03 PM
Jan 2021

I need to be free to protect her as long as I am alive. And the release of steam keeps this boiler from exploding. 3 brothers and a dad, all trumpers and “Christians”. No reaching out to that. My oldest brother sent me 5 praying hands images. No text, I told him Tots and Pears are useless. Especially if you are praying to Pillow Guys God, or Paula Whites God.
So thank you fine people here on Du for being here to reach out to.
Go out to get food about 3 weeks apart. I stay apart, wash hands and proudly wear my “Shut the F**k up Donny” mask from the Stephanie Miller Show. I wear my old Special Ops Navy hat, with glaring angry eyes, no one says anything for some reason. Thanks for you kind response. She has pre existing lung issues as her mom did, so we are on edge. Not self inflicted. Genetics.

Aristus

(66,344 posts)
4. Thank you for sharing this with all of us, Traildogbob.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 01:48 PM
Jan 2021

I hope your daughter will get well soon, and have no more of those monsters to put her at risk.

I also hope you will continue to confide in us here at DU. We can offer you a place to vent and think things through.

I'm very grateful that you haven't acted on your highly-justified anger. You are living proof that we are better than they are.

This fellow vet says "Keep on keeping on..."



Response to Traildogbob (Original post)

RANDYWILDMAN

(2,672 posts)
7. No Unity for Peace
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 01:53 PM
Jan 2021

cause they are never gonna let it go !

Only 10 voted for impeachment in the house yesterday about 150 reps voted for the BIG LIE last week,

When they all give up the lie and yell at their supporters to stand down and go away, then and only should we work with them, MAYBE!!



Sorry about your Daughter

AllaN01Bear

(18,201 posts)
8. good on you.:) havent said the pledge or sang the national anthem for years .
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 01:54 PM
Jan 2021

and i wont untill all of these traitors are in jail , executed and or sent to gitmo. we need to apolojise to the blacks etc.

Freedomofspeech

(4,224 posts)
10. I hope your daughter recovers quickly.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:10 PM
Jan 2021

What a horrifying story how she was attacked. You have earned your rage! I have refused to say the pledge of allegiance for years...I too hate to see the flag and hear that stupid USA chant.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
12. I love
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:17 PM
Jan 2021

The National Women’s Soccer Team. And Since 2016 when trump scum started chanting, I get sick seeing it while watching those amazing ladies. And if Olympics happen amid Covid, we will have to endure that and all the red white and blue garb wearing stars and strips. Now, to me that brings up trumpism. The world may ban our ignorant Covid asses from participating.

Freedomofspeech

(4,224 posts)
15. I refused to display the flags during the Bush and trump years.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:24 PM
Jan 2021

I would put it out on occasion during President Obama's years but I hhave never been a big flag waver.

NNadir

(33,517 posts)
11. Without Comey's pernicious interference we wouldn't be...
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:14 PM
Jan 2021

...discussing how to treat a criminal in the White House.

Hundreds of thousands of dead Americans would still be alive.

He has the credibility of a turnip, not that I wish to denigrate turnips with the comparison.

I'm sure all of us hope for daughter's complete recovery.

Livbaker

(23 posts)
14. This story makes me so sad. And angry.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:19 PM
Jan 2021

I sincerely hope your daughter recovers quickly.
And I sincerely hope Dump and his minions rot in prison for encouraging such dangerous response to a global pandemic. That should be criminal. And SO much more.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
16. And please
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:25 PM
Jan 2021

Everyone, do not have a sense of security with pretty cloth masks. She was in full PPE, N95 and Shield. I wear an N95 UNDER my “Shut The F**K Up Donny” mask.

KS Toronado

(17,231 posts)
41. Yes, way to many single cheap masks being worn in public,
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:47 PM
Jan 2021

Been noticing more & more people on TV news wearing two masks, we should encourage everyone to do so.
Just said a prayer for your daughter......

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
20. I'm so sorry
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 02:38 PM
Jan 2021

How horrible for you and your daughter. I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
23. Your rage is justified. Hoping the best for your daughter.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:00 PM
Jan 2021

I would understand if she left nursing after this. This is not one of the requirements of her job, to be attacked and infected. I know some will say he was not in his right mind. I understand that, but he was led into the dark place in his mind.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
26. SHE says that.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:11 PM
Jan 2021

Got her moms passion and heart. Told her Nightingale would only take so much. She loves what she does, her undergrad was Psychology from Tennessee. She likes the REAL crazies.
As we all know, most nurses are brave hero’s. Except the ones like the ass that tried to destroy 500 Viles of Covid Vax. Nuts are everywhere. Even Navy Seals we’re in on attack. That really pisses me off.

people

(624 posts)
24. Your daughter is a courageous wonderful person
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:02 PM
Jan 2021

You raised a wonderful person. She is a real bona fide hero. Sorry to hear what both of you are going through. Hopefully in a few weeks she will be well on the mend.

colorado_ufo

(5,734 posts)
25. God bless you, your wonderful daughter, and you dear late wife.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:09 PM
Jan 2021

If you jail that 5' Glock carrying traitor, send the key to me. I will bury it deep in the Colorado mountains where it will never be found! And I hope the jerk that injured your daughter gets arrested, also.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
28. Kinda hope
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:13 PM
Jan 2021

His Covid puts him in pain for life and too weak to hurt anybody ever.
Thank you for kind words.

denvine

(800 posts)
27. I am so sorry for your daughter,
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:13 PM
Jan 2021

I hope she fully recovers soon. No need to ask forgiveness for your rage because you are fully justified. We are in the mist of dealing with what only can be described as an episode of Invasion of the Body Snatchers. Instigated by the GOP and their King Turd, we have a mindless, ignorant and hate filled army or morons flexing their muscles and threatening our Democracy. There is definitely reason for rage. Truly wishing your daughter has a speedy recovery.

LiberalLoner

(9,761 posts)
29. Oh God, I am so sorry. I hope your daughter will fully recover.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:19 PM
Jan 2021

I am sending vibes, prayers, everything I have that she will get better.

I understand your rage and think it is completely appropriate.

niyad

(113,302 posts)
30. Sending all the love and support and healing I can, for both of you. Rage as much as you need to,
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:19 PM
Jan 2021

your DU family is here for you.

There is so much wrong in our country right now, it is a wonder that any of us have any sanity left.i don't know if we can recover, but I know that we will do our damnedest to try.

Is the insane bio terrorist who attacked your daughter in custody? Charged with anything?

dameatball

(7,397 posts)
32. Your rant strikes a chord with all of us. It helps explain why, as 45's departure is imminent, many
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:20 PM
Jan 2021

of us are experiencing equal parts joy, sadness and rage. Joy that at least the White House will be cleansed, but rage and sadness for what is left and where we are as a country....not to mention the extreme sadness that it didn't have to be this way.
I too have daughters, one a left leaning, exuberant, science teacher. If she experienced what your daughter did I would feel as you do. The thing is, that could happen tomorrow if some delusional student, parent or even co-worker goes off the rails.
We all hope your daughter has a quick recovery and will eventually see a return to "normalcy" during a long and happy lifetime. Many thanks to both of you for your service.

DemUnleashed

(633 posts)
35. Can not fathom
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:25 PM
Jan 2021

I am so, so very sorry for what your daughter is going through. I can't imagine how you are dealing with this. I can not fathom what these a*#holes are doing to our country...I am livid!! I am hoping for the very best outcome for your dear daughter

Tech

(1,771 posts)
37. Stay angry. Allow yourself the anger. And use the anger.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:29 PM
Jan 2021

I have one child, a daughter who is also 31. I know I would be at least as angry as you. I would be crushed.

I say rant away whenever you need to. Stay strong for you both.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
39. So sorry to hear your daughter was attacked & is now very ill!
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:42 PM
Jan 2021

Your anger is absofuckingloutely justified & I am so glad you came to the community here to vent.

Was the maskhole pos charged legally for attacking her? Is she hospitalized?

I share every single sentiment you shared about these useless pieces of shit.

I know you are very angry & afraid for your daughter but, imho, the best thing you can do for her & yourself is to focus on sending her positive thoughts of healing.

Please keep us updated!

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
45. She is at home
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:56 PM
Jan 2021

She got sick a few days after her 12 hour night shift. She got the test after 4 days of extreme sickness the day before her next shift. So we did not know he, who was positive, had infected her. Do not know what his status is and probably have to see what hospital will do after her return and if charges are brought. I just go over everyday and take meds and liquids or anything she can possibly eat, and leave it on her porch. We had to euthanize her precious best buddy little dog a month ago After cancer diagnosis. She just adopted two kittens to help from the heartbreaking loss, and those 2 little boys are loving her non stop. Other wise she would be alone in there.
Thank all of you soooo much. All these supportive and kind responses have helped me tremulously and I have shared all the love with her.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
58. So sorry to hear about her losing pup. That's rough!
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:23 PM
Jan 2021

Glad she has kitties and you to take her what she needs!

Yale is offering very popular Science of Well Being course free. It is very good stuff & can help you both. Perhaps take it at the same time & discuss?

Objective medical research has shown that journaling (James Pennebaker), reading positive material such as Chicken Soup for the Soul-type books significantly raises immune system. Guessing the Yale course would as well, but have not seen that written anywhere.

Here is link:

https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being?utm_source=gg&utm_medium=sem&utm_campaign=09-ScienceofWellBeing-US&utm_content=09-ScienceofWellBeing-US&campaignid=9728548210&adgroupid=102459401907&device=m&keyword=yale%20online%20courses&matchtype=b&network=g&devicemodel=&adpostion=&creativeid=428943978404&hide_mobile_promo&gclid=Cj0KCQiA9P__BRC0ARIsAEZ6irg1Bb6Ja1v0znYuXUZWRAiuZ06lDKUQfuOd0G9kybAZTPKcBkUgheQaAo-hEALw_wcB

The 1st videos are available immediately upon completing a very brief, non-intrusive registration.

I post frequently about this freebie & numerous folks say it has really helped them!

electric_blue68

(14,891 posts)
42. Your rage is totally understandable...
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:54 PM
Jan 2021

I'm SO sorry she, and you are enduring this. 😥

My hopes for your daughter on making a Full Recovery without any lingering effects, or later pop up conditions!

Jon King

(1,910 posts)
43. I'm with you, its time to destroy Trumpism...
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:54 PM
Jan 2021

This is the time. Destroy everything Trump. Progressives control the swing states and demographic trends. We are 80% of the economy. Enough is enough. Get them all off social media, charge them, boycott everyone who supports them. You can either support America or Trump. Pick one and if you choose Trump, we will destroy you economically and criminally if you step over the line.

They have killed so many and almost destroyed the democracy.

KS Toronado

(17,231 posts)
44. Any Doctor or Nurse who catches the virus should be entitled to the special treatments
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:55 PM
Jan 2021

that Walter Reed hospital gave to our #1 traitor who's destroying lives not saving them.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
48. Her first scheduled
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:00 PM
Jan 2021

Vaccine was due two days after sickness. That warp speed shit took this long for front line nurses to get Vax. Yet Pence and all GOP deniers got theirs a month ago.

KS Toronado

(17,231 posts)
62. I know, the GOP deniers in my red state & county all jumped in the 1st round with healthcare workers
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:35 PM
Jan 2021

Fu@kers claim it's a hoax, no worse than regular flu, masks don't help, etc etc and then the repug politicians
jump in front of us older vets. Army 71-73 11B, need these @ssholes out of office.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
64. Hang in brother.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:40 PM
Jan 2021

My VA in Asheville just cancelled my second shingles Vax Tuesday because and Vax within 2 weeks For Covid shit is not allowed. So that tells me maybe 2 weeks out, and now 65 and up are priorities. Hope your Vet Hospital is on it like ours.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
46. No "forgiveness" needed for that righteous rant.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:57 PM
Jan 2021

I think that, if anything, you were rather restrained, under the circumstances.

I really, really hope it doesn't come down to you feeling an overwhelming need for vengeance - however richly deserved - and you committing an act that would disappoint your daughter. Please.

onecaliberal

(32,854 posts)
49. We share your rage. I am hoping and praying fervently that your precious comes through quickly.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:00 PM
Jan 2021

It’s all so fucking ridiculous.

Jay25

(417 posts)
51. Sorry about your daughter.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:02 PM
Jan 2021

Your rage is understandable. Sending positivity and universal love/energy, prayers to you and your daughter. Hope she’s doing well soon.
Also, please continue to vent on DU, in order to keep your stress and BP down.

crickets

(25,976 posts)
52. Vent all you like. You have every right to be angry.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:09 PM
Jan 2021

I'm so sorry your daughter is sick and I hope she recovers soon.

GentryDixon

(2,950 posts)
53. I'm sorry about your daughter. You have every reason to be outraged.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:11 PM
Jan 2021

I'm thinking I saw her post on Twitter. So many of our caregivers are being abused by these rabid deniers. 😬

I hope she bounces back quickly. ❤️

Paper Roses

(7,473 posts)
54. I am so upset for your situation. I worry about everyone now, including my daughter who is a Doctor.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:11 PM
Jan 2021

She is now working in a large regional hospital with only Covid patients. Works from about 7AM to about 7 PM.
She has a family to worry about. Goes home, has a shower, a sandwich or soup and goes to bed. Off again in the AM to treat more patients.

Thankfully she has not met with the situation that your daughter has. I damn those who take the medical workers for granted. I have not seen my family since last March, that is how hard these people are working. Not only are they exhausted and subject to idiots, they can't even go anywhere. They are being cautious but so many others are not. I bet the no-maskers and other idiots will be demanding help because they are "entitled"!

My thoughts are with you and all other health care providers. We thank you and I wish your daughter well.

wryter2000

(46,045 posts)
56. How is she?
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:18 PM
Jan 2021

Is she really sick, or will she be okay.

My God, what a hideous bastard that guy is. I'm so sorry. You deserve to feel this rage. I hope everything works out for your daughter. This is an abomination.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
61. Thank you
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:34 PM
Jan 2021

For kindness. Extremely exhausted, days of nausea, chest congestion, out of breath just to stand. Sleeping for 18-20 hours at a time. Body aches all over. Never lost smell or taste. And no real fever. So many have so many different symptoms. That is dangerous, I could not get her to get a test because some of the common symptoms were not exhibited. She HAD to get test before going back to hospital, so it was rushed for results. So we have about a week before we can feel a little confident she is recovering.
Again thank all of you so much. You guys here at DU rock. I was a late 60’s teenager musician before joining NAVY. So I know good Rock. You guys are ALL good Rock. My daughter thanks you. I call her and read these well wishes to her. We are best friends and all each other have. Families are warped and evil. All Christians.GOP style.

Niagara

(7,605 posts)
57. Your rage is totally understandable.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:22 PM
Jan 2021

We're here to help support each other and lift each other up, especially during difficult times like this.

I'm sending healing vibes and positive energy to you and your daughter. Here's hoping for her speedy recovery.

Vivienne235729

(3,384 posts)
59. You have every right & reason to be raging. These people on the far R need to be brought to justice
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:31 PM
Jan 2021

and I truly feel in the next couple of years, we are going to see just that. As LE entities start to reign it in, we'll hopefully see a leveling of the insanity. That's what I am hoping and praying for anyways. Prayers for a speedy recovery for your daughter.

Lithos

(26,403 posts)
60. Many well wishes to you and her
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:33 PM
Jan 2021

Please let us know how she does. Hopefully she'll be through this quickly with no lingering effects.

L-

cp

(6,628 posts)
63. Understandable and righteous rage
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:37 PM
Jan 2021

We share your fury and pain. Glad you could vent here.

Please channel your energy into helping your daughter and your own self-care.
It wasn't clear if she is living alone; please do not hesitate to take her to hospital (Covid can worsen in very short times, as you know). Don't wait.

We will hold you and your daughter in our hearts. May she be well.
Keep us posted.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
66. Yes, alone
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:48 PM
Jan 2021

Too damn independent for a man in her way. I ruined her, never wanted a relationship after her mom passed, I wanted ti raise her without any distractions. Tried a few but they did not like my 100 percent attention on her. That was a tie breaker for me. So I learned to love my own freedom, with ability to focus on one thing, so she kinda followed my life style.
Plus, I can hike, explore all these mountain trails and no trails with my Black Lab, (number 5) without approval from a wife.
FREEDOM!!!😁

AirmensMom

(14,642 posts)
67. Nothing to forgive.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 05:07 PM
Jan 2021

Your rage is righteous. I just hope your daughter improves. Best wishes to you both.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
69. I'm so sorry I hope your daughter recovers soon with no after effects.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 05:14 PM
Jan 2021

I'm with you and hope they all get prosecuted. Someone, somewhere has to figure out a way to stop the lies from getting out there. Besides people hating and killing each other I believe its truly driving people crazy.

UpInArms

(51,283 posts)
70. All of us are with you in spirit, traildogbob
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 05:14 PM
Jan 2021

Hang in there, so so sorry your daughter was unnecessarily exposed in such a dangerous job ...

I will offer all my strongest hopes for her full recovery

Am not certain that we will get past our anger for the horrors inflicted

Hugs hugs hugs

Lonestarblue

(9,988 posts)
75. Send all kinds of good wishes for your daughter's recovery.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 05:50 PM
Jan 2021

I can understand your rage! Attacking someone who is selflessly trying to help you is the act of an idiot! I’m about to the point of saying that anyone who is in denial that they have Covid and gets angry toward their doctors and nurses should just be sent home without treatment. If they think its a hoax, they should don’t need treatment for something that doesn’t exist.

I still am furious every time I think about the attack on the Capitol last week, so I can well understand how much worse it would be to have an attack by a rabid wing nut on your daughter.

karin_sj

(808 posts)
76. I'm so sorry, Traildogbob
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 05:55 PM
Jan 2021

I hope that your daughter recovers quickly and completely. It is unthinkable that this deranged, ignorant monster would go after her when she is only trying to help him. Try to keep calm for her and your sake. Everyone here at DU is here for you.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
78. To all
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:02 PM
Jan 2021

I Can not tell you how much every single response here today has lifted my soul, my spirits and positive hopes of recovery for my precious daughter, my lifeline. Thank every one of you. And you guys that direct messaged me with such passionate concern, forgive me for not figuring out how how direct back to you, a heart felt thank you. In college, we still were taught on electric typewriters. I have come a long way, self taught, but still hack around this digital forum.
Much love and wishes of good health and happiness to each of you.
Traildogbob
Your bother in arms.

Karadeniz

(22,513 posts)
79. Is there anything you can do to make sure she's received all the special treatments out there? As an
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:03 PM
Jan 2021

ICU nurse, contaminated on duty, she should be getting every conceivable medical help available. I'm just sick that she encountered this nut case and got hurt. Your anger is completely understandable. And the rest of the family... what's wrong with people? We're always just a keyboard away!!!

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
82. Love to you
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:10 PM
Jan 2021

We will seek out every available treatment. Unfortunately no gubment Helo transport or Trump/Christy/Gooliani treatment. I fully believe the hospital will go all in. Though a profit Corp hospital, just 3 months ago employees overwhelmingly voted to unionize. We have that suppprt.

Karadeniz

(22,513 posts)
91. We're plugging for her...and you! My eyes are tearing up...and I'm not a crier because it doesn't
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:44 PM
Jan 2021

Help the problem much. But, years ago someone said that tears weren't usually sadness...frustration. That stuck with me. Now when I feel sad, I try to figure out what's frustrating me. In this case, what isn't frustrating! A psychopath president who was worse than useless in this crisis. If there was a step to be taken in the wrong direction, he took it. He left the states stranded. While he sabotaged everything, he was rescued daily by his enablers. Somewhere in the million things this cretin did to frustrate medicine, government, laws, decency, truth... somewhere is the frustration point that you can feel you can fight against. A sign in the yard. Joining the local Democratic party...
Strength in numbers. A letter to the editor... your letter to us was pretty darned effective!

Take care of yourself!!!!

leighbythesea2

(1,200 posts)
80. Best wishes for your daughters full recovery
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:05 PM
Jan 2021

Traildogbob. & rant all you need here. Please don't do anything, as your daughter needs you, but it's understandable rage.

My best childhood friends (twins) are--1st is paramedic now swabbing people 8 hours day @ a clinic, and 2nd is ICU nurse. One told me they are experiencing "empathy fatigue " due to the quantity of a%*holes being abusive while "being helped". It enrages me to hear.
They wear all that protective gear too, but their younger sister, also ICU nurse, got covid. With all PPE in place, these HC workers are still risking their lives. Please keep us updated on your daughter.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
83. Promise
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:15 PM
Jan 2021

Please keep us informed on your family as well. We can’t end this nightmare behind bars, WE do not get Pardons and release like Rhittenhouse Murdering punk. One skill I also got in the military was restraint. I will use that. Thank you, means so much.

leighbythesea2

(1,200 posts)
89. Will
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:28 PM
Jan 2021

The sis is a gym regular, no underlying health issues so that is a help.
Just alllll that gear, it really does give one pause. It's a reminder to stay home, stay the course.

lambchopp59

(2,809 posts)
81. Let off steam all you want here, however I think it's way past time Fox Freaking Noise got their
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:07 PM
Jan 2021

collective rear ends suit right off the air for endangering health, safety, sanity and lives based on compound, stupid and greedy LIES. They've had a major hand in mesmerizing the RWNJ cult, in bringing on this incomparable calamity of "leadership".
We will have the majority in office to make some sort of good law in truth in media that has had these deadly consequences, thank you Raygunites for repealing the Fairness Doctrine that started the whole nauseating division in the country. I'm not certain the Gipper himself would believe how far off the rails it's gone.

jaxexpat

(6,822 posts)
84. "Thanks for allowing steam from this boiling pot to rise and cool."
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:17 PM
Jan 2021

Appreciate the "condensed " version.

Distilling the outrage and saving the righteous heart.

marble falls

(57,081 posts)
87. A lot of us are going through a lot of moral/ethical quandry these days, for different reasons...
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:25 PM
Jan 2021

... I'm sure. If we don't do this in times like these we risk loosing track of who we are and what we believe.

Plus a bit of awareness of what we might need to confront in the future is necessary, too.

You aren't alone. Along with a lot of other all around I'll be thinking about your daughter and you, and wish she escapes this thing being well.

myohmy2

(3,162 posts)
88. +1
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:26 PM
Jan 2021

...I think we all feel your pain...

...and 127 of them in the House want to keep it going...

...sad...

Tumbulu

(6,278 posts)
94. You have every right to rage and I am so so so hoping that she recovers quickly!
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:48 PM
Jan 2021

This is hell to be going through and if something is not done about the right wind hate media that brought this entire disaster onto our country, I see no future that is not even more hellish.

Please know that you are not alone in coming here for company.



sarge43

(28,941 posts)
96. All my thoughts and hopes for your courageous daughter's complete recovery.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:54 PM
Jan 2021

The bravery and dedication of all the medical personnel on the front line humbles me.

That creature that harmed her should be charged and convicted of attempted murder.

Please try to remember these goons are not this country This country is your daughter and all like her.

sheshe2

(83,754 posts)
97. Love and healing vibes to you and your daughter.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 07:14 PM
Jan 2021

Wishing her a swift recovery. You take care of yourself as well, Traildogbob.

mercuryblues

(14,531 posts)
98. I know how you feel.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 07:20 PM
Jan 2021

Just after my Dad died from Covid, my daughter's best friend got it. I was beside myself with worry. Thankfully she recovered.

Anyhow, I sent her this cup. She loved it.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08693VVZ2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

PatrickforO

(14,573 posts)
99. One cheerful note - the soldiers who are protecting the Capitol now have
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 07:26 PM
Jan 2021

live ammunition. So if these insurrectionists attack again they will be met with lethal force.

Wicked Blue

(5,832 posts)
103. Bob, your anger is completely justified
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 07:54 PM
Jan 2021

I'm sending my best blessings and good vibes for your daughter to recover and heal.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Snackshack

(2,541 posts)
108. I hear you.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:44 PM
Jan 2021

I have had it with these fuckers. COVID should have should have tapered off for the most part by now if we had had real leadership that had made the tough calls needed in the beginning of this. But here we are a year later and seeing record deaths per day because of these MF’s and their “rights” BS. My tolerance level is at zero for them and I will never forgive what they have done.

I understand your anger and I hope & pray your daughter heals soon fully.

🕯

barbtries

(28,793 posts)
113. i forgive you.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 10:51 PM
Jan 2021

please keep us posted about your daughter! I hope she recovers quickly and completely.

also i hope the man who assaulted her can be prosecuted.

c-rational

(2,592 posts)
115. Well said and on target for these times. Healing vibes to your daughter and good thoughts to you.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 12:13 AM
Jan 2021

Hope your daughter gets well soon so you can continue your hikes with the Lab. Time well spent.

TigressDem

(5,125 posts)
118. No Justice, No Peace. KNOW Justice, KNOW Peace.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 12:37 AM
Jan 2021

You are angry and rightfully so. And you are right, we won't have REAL justice until we get results based on facts and using the law as it is supposed to be used, to protect American citizens from hate crimes, sedition and attack by deranged followers of the orange man.

I pray so hard that your daughter not only survives but comes back 110% and thrives.

SHE is on the front lines just as you were, just a different battle zone.

It's so hard to be a parent when we can't reach out and fix whatever is hurting our child.

Or if we can, but shouldn't due to legal and moral considerations.

I somewhat know how you feel. Not exactly, but when I found out when my son was young that his Dad had sexually abused him I wanted to get in a car and go kill the bastard at that exact moment. He's dead now, not by my hand, but by his own. But there are days I would like to dig up his grave, stomp on him and throw him back in.

We had separated and were still fighting about custody because he couldn't stay sober long enough for me to trust him. He'd tried to kill me many years prior which led to separation, but he wanted joint custody and I just couldn't do it. I didn't know he was actually hurting my son. He gave up his parental rights rather than admit what he'd done.

When people hurt our children, they rip at our very souls.

Stay strong. You deserve the justice you seek, just don't go vigilante.

These assholes will get what is coming to them.







Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
120. My god
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 12:46 AM
Jan 2021

That is horrible. I hope your son is coping, he was blessed to have such a strong loving mom.
Thank you for your support.
I can’t even hug and console her, breaks my heart.
And all that have lost loved ones, also breaks my heart. Did not have to be.

TigressDem

(5,125 posts)
122. Thanks. Just wanted you to know you aren't alone.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 12:58 AM
Jan 2021

I thought I did ok.

Then he grew up. LOL.

He's drinking the tRump Koolaid.

So now I lose him and his family in a lot of ways.

Maybe someday when the truth is allowed to seep into his brain, he will get it and then it will be like when he turned 25.

He called me up, "Mom, I am so sorry." Out of the blue.

"For what?" I asked.

"For everything I ever did as a kid." He said. Then at my stunned silence, he continued. "Mom, I have 2 of ME. I now know why I drove you crazy sometimes and how hard it is to keep kids safe. I didn't GET IT. I do now."

We laughed and he admitted he had turned into me and was saying "parent stuff" he never thought he would.


Someday. Things may change, but I can't listen to him go on about the "proof" he finds on Newsmax and some crazy woman who is supposedly neutral but peddling tRump lies morning noon and night.


Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
123. Don't give up
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 01:08 AM
Jan 2021

Those fools will ruin him like Trump has the lives of so many. Lots of those attackers thought they would walk away free. Like Rhittenhouse, the 28 year old murderer. Like people on death bed before intubation screaming I do not have Covid, it’s a hoax.
When he sees justice and truths, he will come back to reality?

TigressDem

(5,125 posts)
126. That is my every day prayer. Truth, Justice and back to reality. What a concept.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 02:28 AM
Jan 2021

Sometimes I am so sick of tRump, I go find an old Obama speech, just to hear a President talk that cared about the people in this country not just himself.





I bought his book too.


I have to leave my son in God's hands, like I said before. I have a bit of a temper.

He starts spouting and I want to find somewhere to deprogram him... but he's a grown up. He makes his own choices now.

He can live with the consequences too.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,605 posts)
119. I'm sorry
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 12:42 AM
Jan 2021


Sending good vibes to your daughter and I hope she makes a full recovery. The person that attacked her should be prosecuted for assault. You have every right to be angry. Keep us posted on her condition.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
124. This is why I think any belligerent denier patient should be discharged immediately.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 01:19 AM
Jan 2021

Rolled out the front doors of the hospital and left for family.

SergeStorms

(19,201 posts)
125. All my heart is with you and your daughter, Bob.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 01:38 AM
Jan 2021

I can't imagine how I'd keep it together if something like that happened to my daughter. You're a better man than I. Nothing but my most heartfelt wishes for her full, speedy recovery. Please keep us posted on any developments. Take care of yourself too, please.

Upthevibe

(8,046 posts)
127. Traildogbob....
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 02:41 AM
Jan 2021

I'm so sorry to hear that your daughter's sick. Please keep us posted regarding her situation.

What you've said is absolutely how I feel. They MUST pay and go to prison......The whole lot of them.

Thinking of you and hoping for the best.....

mahina

(17,652 posts)
128. Holding your beautiful dear daughter in the light
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 04:26 AM
Jan 2021

And I read you all the way on the rest. Hearts with you. Please let us know how she’s doing. I hope she can sue that fucker and I hope he has a really nice house to lose to her.

Good luck mate

peacebuzzard

(5,170 posts)
129. I am horrified; so sorry for this assault on your sweet daughter,
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 09:39 AM
Jan 2021

everyday my head spins, and now this occurrence with your daughter.
you are right about F Comey, when he or anyone else speaks of unifying I shudder.
There is no unifying with citizens who identify or dismiss the mob of ass-jerk hillbillies that ransacked the capitol.
There is no conversation to be had with those in our midst who are not shaken or disturbed by recent events and the by-product personalities infiltrated in our communities.

You have my complete sympathies for your rant, and further, my concurrence and outrage.

your daughter is an angel soldier in our midst. I am so sorry this occurred. I am thinking of this outrage as I send my well wishes for a complete recovery soon. This has got to be stopped.

Stay well, friend. I will look for updates...



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