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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy brother died today. Covid.
We were not close.
PLEASE be careful out there.
malaise
(295,130 posts)Nevilledog
(54,958 posts)OregonBlue
(8,187 posts)DFW
(60,043 posts)Metatron
(1,260 posts)lkinwi
(1,530 posts)Close or not, its sad that your brother was a casualty of tRumps fail.
NoRoadUntravelled
(2,626 posts)chance to become close. Thinking of you today.
SallyHemmings
(1,960 posts)Ohiogal
(40,316 posts)Even if you werent close .... losing a family member really brings it home.
Damn this virus .....
MaryMagdaline
(7,960 posts)My condolences for your loss.
PJMcK
(24,984 posts)Part of your life is gone. I'm sorry.
LiberalLoner
(11,467 posts)Stinky The Clown
(68,948 posts)Demsrule86
(71,531 posts)mercuryblues
(16,338 posts)Cha
(318,352 posts)jmbar2
(7,914 posts)Even if you weren't close, loss of a sibling has an impact. Take care of yourself. And thanks for taking Covid seriously.
Ohio Joe
(21,897 posts)RIP
Hugin
(37,760 posts)I'm doing my utmost out here.
You too, k?
Doreen
(11,686 posts)Celerity
(54,116 posts)RIP
Buckeye_Democrat
(15,522 posts)Different Drummer
(9,083 posts)BlueStater
(7,596 posts)😢
ProfessorGAC
(76,461 posts)Take Care, LC!
ProudMNDemocrat
(20,804 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)TEB
(15,651 posts)TheBlackAdder
(29,981 posts)pandr32
(14,156 posts)doubleplusgood
(986 posts)Solly Mack
(96,787 posts)bdamomma
(69,491 posts)your loss, LuckyCharms.
Adelante
(28,394 posts)gademocrat7
(11,883 posts)Take care.
colorado_ufo
(6,228 posts)Harker
(17,689 posts)MineralMan
(151,069 posts)Even if you weren't close, he was still your brother, so it's bound to hurt.
Cozmo
(1,402 posts)shanti
(21,794 posts)Blue Owl
(58,860 posts)Sorry to hear it...
cate94
(3,083 posts)crickets
(26,168 posts)Close or not, it's still a loss, and it brings home the danger we all face. Hugs & stay safe, LuckyCharms.
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Even if you were not close its tragic. 💔 My thoughts are with you and your family.
niyad
(131,566 posts)SergeStorms
(20,399 posts)Not close maybe, but still family. Take care buddy.
sinkingfeeling
(57,679 posts)Wicked Blue
(8,818 posts)BobTheSubgenius
(12,194 posts)I know what it's like to not be particularly close to your family, so that part of your OP is close to home.
Alacritous Crier
(4,431 posts)Jay25
(437 posts)You be careful also.
ancianita
(43,243 posts)Please be careful out there, too.
LeftishBrit
(41,450 posts)Dem2theMax
(11,005 posts)I am not close to my brother either. I have no contact with him. But if he passed, I would grieve for his children.
Take good care of you, Lucky Charms.
barbtries
(31,271 posts)in every respect.
dlk
(13,225 posts)Niagara
(11,663 posts)It's never easy losing a sibling no matter how close or distant the relationship was.
Hugs to you and your family.
Marthe48
(23,009 posts)n/t
CaptainTruth
(8,161 posts)You be careful too!
flibbitygiblets
(7,220 posts)Demovictory9
(37,113 posts)murielm99
(32,906 posts)More blood on trump's hands.
BusyBeingBest
(9,173 posts)Hekate
(100,133 posts)I was not close to the brother who died last year, but still. Remember what good you can.
Leith
(7,864 posts)Even if you weren't close, it still had to be a hell of a jolt.
Fate has been throwing you some nasty shit lately. Please remember: you can come here any time day or night and you will find friends. We're not just pixels on a screen - there's a feeling and caring human being behind each post.
Please remember: you can come here any time day or night and you will find friends. We're not just pixels on a screen - there's a feeling and caring human being behind each post.
I believe that this is one of the most beautiful and heartfelt responses that I have ever read here on DU.
Leith
(7,864 posts)But there was once when I was going through a rough patch in life and online friends helped me immensely. This is just paying it forward.
SunSeeker
(58,152 posts)JohnnyLib2
(11,327 posts)maryallen
(2,172 posts)live love laugh
(16,322 posts)bearssoapbox
(1,408 posts)Condolences and good thoughts.
You take care too.
SweetieD
(1,673 posts)marble falls
(71,594 posts)leighbythesea2
(1,291 posts)Lucky. So sorry to hear this sad news. You're right, we must be as vigilant as in the beginning. & it's easy to tire of it.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)You be careful out there too, please.
yonder
(10,282 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Take good care of yourself!
JDC
(11,084 posts)MissMillie
(39,621 posts).
Backseat Driver
(4,671 posts)FailureToCommunicate
(14,589 posts)I lost my older brother in September, not directly to covid, but it was a contributing factor. And of course, due to the pandemic restrictions, we were not allowed travel to North Carolina to be with him or his family afterwards.
Covid sucks.
Trump sucks.
Republicans suck.
This whole past year has sucked.
I'll stop there.
Again, sorry to hear your sad news.
duhneece
(4,497 posts)I have an older sister that I'm not 100% sure is alive (maybe dementia?)...and a younger sister I haven't spoken to for over 8 years.
And still I grieve for you, with you.
Generic Other
(29,080 posts)So many sad stories. We are all grieving.
diva77
(7,880 posts)Ilsa
(64,210 posts)to have a close relationship with him.
I think we are getting to a point where everyone either knows someone who died or has a family member who died. I'm sorry you've joined this unofficial club.
eleny
(46,176 posts)Condolences to you and your family.
spooky3
(38,521 posts)SheltieLover
(79,530 posts)Sometimes it makes for complex grief, conflicted emotions, when not close.
Please take good care!
BainsBane
(57,721 posts)My heart goes out to you.
Wawannabe
(6,889 posts)Is another 90k+ Americans will die of Covid in the next three weeks!
Sorry to hear you lost a brother, LuckyCharms.
ecstatic
(35,044 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(15,749 posts)My condolences to you.
Livbaker
(23 posts)so sorry for your loss.
denbot
(9,949 posts)Peace to you and yours..
peacebuzzard
(5,856 posts)stay safe LuckyCharms.
Kali
(56,781 posts)my fucked up sister died a little over a year ago. it is such a strange feeling to have someone you grew up with and knew so well die and yet not have a sudden deep feeling of loss (because that loss happened already). been there.
Catherine Vincent
(34,609 posts)Vivienne235729
(3,748 posts)Upthevibe
(10,159 posts)I'm sorry for you and your family....
Hamlette
(15,556 posts)herding cats
(20,045 posts)I just want to say I understand. I've been there before, too.
N_E_1 for Tennis
(12,895 posts)Raine
(31,154 posts)even though you weren't close it hurts to lose family.
TigressDem
(5,126 posts)Sometimes not being close makes it worse.
Alive there was always the chance of things improving. Now. It is what it was.
Although, after my Mom died I still worked through stuff, understood more and forgave. So it isn't impossible to repair from one's own side of the fence.
PEACE.
LuckyCharms
(22,426 posts)Your kind words mean a lot.