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My brother died today. Covid. (Original Post) LuckyCharms Jan 2021 OP
but I'm sure you have fond childhood memories malaise Jan 2021 #1
I'm so sorry. Nevilledog Jan 2021 #2
Gosh Lucky, I'm so sorry. Can't imagine how you feel today. Hang in there. OregonBlue Jan 2021 #3
Close or not close, it's still a stark reminder. N/T DFW Jan 2021 #4
Condolences, Lucky. Metatron Jan 2021 #5
I'm sorry to hear that. lkinwi Jan 2021 #6
I'm sorry for the loss of your brother and that the relationship will never have a NoRoadUntravelled Jan 2021 #7
Honoring your feelings SallyHemmings Jan 2021 #8
I'm so sorry, Lucky. Ohiogal Jan 2021 #9
I'm so sorry MaryMagdaline Jan 2021 #10
Still a loss PJMcK Jan 2021 #11
I'm so sorry. LiberalLoner Jan 2021 #12
Condolences to all who loved and will miss him Stinky The Clown Jan 2021 #13
I am sorry... Demsrule86 Jan 2021 #14
I'm sorry for your loss mercuryblues Jan 2021 #15
I'm so Sorry, LuckyCharms. Cha Jan 2021 #16
My condolences as well jmbar2 Jan 2021 #17
My condolences Ohio Joe Jan 2021 #18
I'm sorry to hear about COVID claiming another. Hugin Jan 2021 #19
Condolences to you and yours. Doreen Jan 2021 #20
Sorry to hear this, and you stay vigilant. Celerity Jan 2021 #21
I'm sorry even if you weren't close. Buckeye_Democrat Jan 2021 #22
Sorry for your loss, Lucky. Different Drummer Jan 2021 #23
I'm so sorry. BlueStater Jan 2021 #24
Bummer! ProfessorGAC Jan 2021 #25
Take care. So sorry for your loss. ProudMNDemocrat Jan 2021 #26
Same to you, LuckyCharms. Stay well. Hortensis Jan 2021 #27
So sorry for you lucky and family TEB Jan 2021 #28
I'm so sorry to hear that. My condolences to you and your family during this trying time. TheBlackAdder Jan 2021 #29
I am very sorry. pandr32 Jan 2021 #30
Sorry for your loss, LuckyCharms doubleplusgood Jan 2021 #31
I'm sorry. Solly Mack Jan 2021 #32
So sorry for bdamomma Jan 2021 #33
Very sorry nt Adelante Jan 2021 #34
Condolences,LuckyCharms gademocrat7 Jan 2021 #35
So very sorry! colorado_ufo Jan 2021 #36
Best to you, Lucky. n/t Harker Jan 2021 #37
I'm sorry to read that. MineralMan Jan 2021 #38
We all feel your pain Take care Cozmo Jan 2021 #39
My condolences shanti Jan 2021 #40
That is bad news indeed Blue Owl Jan 2021 #41
I'm sorry for your loss cate94 Jan 2021 #42
I'm so sorry. crickets Jan 2021 #43
I am so very sorry. onecaliberal Jan 2021 #44
So sorry for your loss, LC. Please take care of yourself. niyad Jan 2021 #45
Sorry to hear that, Lucky. SergeStorms Jan 2021 #46
I'm sorry for your family's loss. sinkingfeeling Jan 2021 #47
I'm so sorry for your loss Wicked Blue Jan 2021 #48
I will offer my sincere condolences, anyway. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2021 #49
Condolences. Alacritous Crier Jan 2021 #50
Sorry for your loss. Jay25 Jan 2021 #51
I'm still sorry for your loss. ancianita Jan 2021 #52
I am so sorry LeftishBrit Jan 2021 #53
I am so sorry. Dem2theMax Jan 2021 #54
I'm sorry barbtries Jan 2021 #55
I'm very sorry for your loss dlk Jan 2021 #56
I'm so sorry for your loss, LC. Niagara Jan 2021 #57
Sorry to hear your sad news Marthe48 Jan 2021 #58
I'm sorry... CaptainTruth Jan 2021 #59
So sorry. Stay safe LC (and everyone here!) flibbitygiblets Jan 2021 #60
I'm sorry Demovictory9 Jan 2021 #61
I am sorry. murielm99 Jan 2021 #62
I'm sorry--that's terrible. BusyBeingBest Jan 2021 #63
I'm so terribly sorry. Even if not "close" he is still your sibling & link to a shared past... Hekate Jan 2021 #64
Very sorry, Lucky Charms Leith Jan 2021 #65
+1000 Niagara Jan 2021 #78
Cool, I'm not usually very good at that kind of thing Leith Jan 2021 #94
I'm afraid I'll be making a similar post about my Trumper conspiracy nut brother. SunSeeker Jan 2021 #66
I am sorry for your loss. JohnnyLib2 Jan 2021 #67
So sorry. maryallen Jan 2021 #68
Sorry for your loss. nt live love laugh Jan 2021 #69
Close or not. Still family. bearssoapbox Jan 2021 #70
My condolences SweetieD Jan 2021 #71
Still thinking about you anyway's. marble falls Jan 2021 #72
My condolences leighbythesea2 Jan 2021 #73
Terribly sorry LuckyCharms. BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2021 #74
Close or not, it's a loss and I want to say I'm sorry. yonder Jan 2021 #75
I'm so sorry to hear that, Lucky Charms. smirkymonkey Jan 2021 #76
Sorry to hear JDC Jan 2021 #77
I'm so sorry, Lucky (n/t) MissMillie Jan 2021 #79
So many are perishing still as we begin vaccinating. I am sorry to hear your news. Backseat Driver Jan 2021 #80
The Covid scourge is indiscriminate. I am so sorry it found your brother, LuckyCharms. FailureToCommunicate Jan 2021 #81
Sadness all around that... duhneece Jan 2021 #82
My condolences Generic Other Jan 2021 #83
So very sorry, Lucky. diva77 Jan 2021 #84
My condolences. I'm sorry you weren't able Ilsa Jan 2021 #85
All the best to you, always eleny Jan 2021 #86
Very sorry. Take care of yourself. Nt spooky3 Jan 2021 #87
Sorry for your loss SheltieLover Jan 2021 #88
I'm so sorry, LuckyCharms BainsBane Jan 2021 #89
Heard today (NBC Nightly News) that the estimate Wawannabe Jan 2021 #90
Sorry for your loss. Stay safe. nt ecstatic Jan 2021 #91
I'm sorry to hear that MustLoveBeagles Jan 2021 #92
just awful Livbaker Jan 2021 #93
I am sorry LuckyCharms denbot Jan 2021 #95
sorry to hear this peacebuzzard Jan 2021 #96
I know the wierdness of that Kali Jan 2021 #97
Sorry for your loss Catherine Vincent Jan 2021 #98
Sorry for your loss Vivienne235729 Jan 2021 #99
LuckyCharms... Upthevibe Jan 2021 #100
So Sorry. Be well. Hamlette Jan 2021 #101
I'm sorry. herding cats Jan 2021 #102
... N_E_1 for Tennis Jan 2021 #103
I'm so sorry Raine Jan 2021 #104
Awful. So sorry to hear that. TigressDem Jan 2021 #105
Thank you, everyone... LuckyCharms Jan 2021 #106

NoRoadUntravelled

(2,626 posts)
7. I'm sorry for the loss of your brother and that the relationship will never have a
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:18 PM
Jan 2021

chance to become close. Thinking of you today.

Ohiogal

(31,992 posts)
9. I'm so sorry, Lucky.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:18 PM
Jan 2021

Even if you weren’t close .... losing a family member really “brings it home.”

Damn this virus .....

jmbar2

(4,885 posts)
17. My condolences as well
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:22 PM
Jan 2021

Even if you weren't close, loss of a sibling has an impact. Take care of yourself. And thanks for taking Covid seriously.

crickets

(25,974 posts)
43. I'm so sorry.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:50 PM
Jan 2021

Close or not, it's still a loss, and it brings home the danger we all face. Hugs & stay safe, LuckyCharms.

onecaliberal

(32,854 posts)
44. I am so very sorry.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:55 PM
Jan 2021

Even if you were not close its tragic. 💔 My thoughts are with you and your family.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
49. I will offer my sincere condolences, anyway.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 03:59 PM
Jan 2021

I know what it's like to not be particularly close to your family, so that part of your OP is close to home.

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
54. I am so sorry.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:21 PM
Jan 2021

I am not close to my brother either. I have no contact with him. But if he passed, I would grieve for his children.

Take good care of you, Lucky Charms.

Niagara

(7,605 posts)
57. I'm so sorry for your loss, LC.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 04:32 PM
Jan 2021

It's never easy losing a sibling no matter how close or distant the relationship was.



Hugs to you and your family.

Hekate

(90,674 posts)
64. I'm so terribly sorry. Even if not "close" he is still your sibling & link to a shared past...
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 05:10 PM
Jan 2021

I was not close to the brother who died last year, but still. Remember what good you can.

Leith

(7,809 posts)
65. Very sorry, Lucky Charms
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 05:11 PM
Jan 2021

Even if you weren't close, it still had to be a hell of a jolt.

Fate has been throwing you some nasty shit lately. Please remember: you can come here any time day or night and you will find friends. We're not just pixels on a screen - there's a feeling and caring human being behind each post.



Niagara

(7,605 posts)
78. +1000
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:06 PM
Jan 2021

Please remember: you can come here any time day or night and you will find friends. We're not just pixels on a screen - there's a feeling and caring human being behind each post.



I believe that this is one of the most beautiful and heartfelt responses that I have ever read here on DU.

Leith

(7,809 posts)
94. Cool, I'm not usually very good at that kind of thing
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 10:55 PM
Jan 2021

But there was once when I was going through a rough patch in life and online friends helped me immensely. This is just paying it forward.

leighbythesea2

(1,200 posts)
73. My condolences
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 05:38 PM
Jan 2021

Lucky. So sorry to hear this sad news. You're right, we must be as vigilant as in the beginning. & it's easy to tire of it.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,014 posts)
81. The Covid scourge is indiscriminate. I am so sorry it found your brother, LuckyCharms.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:30 PM
Jan 2021

I lost my older brother in September, not directly to covid, but it was a contributing factor. And of course, due to the pandemic restrictions, we were not allowed travel to North Carolina to be with him or his family afterwards.

Covid sucks.

Trump sucks.

Republicans suck.

This whole past year has sucked.

I'll stop there.

Again, sorry to hear your sad news.

duhneece

(4,112 posts)
82. Sadness all around that...
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 06:31 PM
Jan 2021

I have an older sister that I'm not 100% sure is alive (maybe dementia?)...and a younger sister I haven't spoken to for over 8 years.
And still I grieve for you, with you.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
85. My condolences. I'm sorry you weren't able
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 08:37 PM
Jan 2021

to have a close relationship with him.

I think we are getting to a point where everyone either knows someone who died or has a family member who died. I'm sorry you've joined this unofficial club.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
88. Sorry for your loss
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:52 PM
Jan 2021

Sometimes it makes for complex grief, conflicted emotions, when not close.

Please take good care!

Wawannabe

(5,657 posts)
90. Heard today (NBC Nightly News) that the estimate
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 10:20 PM
Jan 2021

Is another 90k+ Americans will die of Covid in the next three weeks!

Sorry to hear you lost a brother, LuckyCharms.

Kali

(55,008 posts)
97. I know the wierdness of that
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 12:20 AM
Jan 2021

my fucked up sister died a little over a year ago. it is such a strange feeling to have someone you grew up with and knew so well die and yet not have a sudden deep feeling of loss (because that loss happened already). been there.

TigressDem

(5,125 posts)
105. Awful. So sorry to hear that.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 11:33 AM
Jan 2021

Sometimes not being close makes it worse.

Alive there was always the chance of things improving. Now. It is what it was.

Although, after my Mom died I still worked through stuff, understood more and forgave. So it isn't impossible to repair from one's own side of the fence.

PEACE.

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