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First Speaker

(4,858 posts)
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:43 PM Jan 2021

What's your primary emotion right now...?

...there are so many to choose from. Rage, of course. Pure, naked rage at Moron45, his acts, his words, and his enablers. Humiliation, that our country has come to this. Shame, at the crimes our country has committed under Trump. Determination--to make sure our democracy not only survives these past four years, but thrives, to reach new heights. Despite *them*. Occasional flashes of despair, wondering if 1/6 is just the beginning of our unraveling. Then determination again. Then hope--maybe the best thing, as Morgan Freeman said in Shawshank Redemption. Without it, we're nothing. But for me, above all, it's sheer relief. That it's *over*. And that--fingers crossed--we'll make it to noon tomorrow.

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What's your primary emotion right now...? (Original Post) First Speaker Jan 2021 OP
JOY! Our long national nightmare is over, and a new day is dawning! MoonRiver Jan 2021 #1
🎵 I've got a joy joy joy joy down in my heart! 🎵 NurseJackie Jan 2021 #7
Relief for sure. Raven123 Jan 2021 #2
Anticipation SoonerPride Jan 2021 #3
Looking forward to being bored out of my skull for the next four years. nt Binkie The Clown Jan 2021 #4
And no more 3 AM toilet rage tweets. n/t Dagstead Bumwood Jan 2021 #36
Relief...and a low level of anxiety MontanaMama Jan 2021 #5
Agreed ... trying To focus on relief LSparkle Jan 2021 #9
Just The 1st For Me ProfessorGAC Jan 2021 #23
Relief for me as well CanonRay Jan 2021 #33
Feel a little numb and exhausted, but glad to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Tommy_Carcetti Jan 2021 #6
Trepidation Spider Jerusalem Jan 2021 #8
An utterly wasted four years gratuitous Jan 2021 #10
Giddy with excitement, wish I was at a watch party for 45 Kimber432 Jan 2021 #11
overwhelmed and serene, simultaneously peacebuzzard Jan 2021 #12
Exhaustion AngryOldDem Jan 2021 #13
Equal parts relief, anticipation, and anxiety hlthe2b Jan 2021 #14
anticipation gopiscrap Jan 2021 #15
Gratitude as we finally have a national grieving moment for cry baby Jan 2021 #16
Cautious relief. gldstwmn Jan 2021 #17
Fear..... chillfactor Jan 2021 #18
Me too. alittlelark Jan 2021 #26
Joy, Trump will be gone tomorrow. I have been waiting for this since January 21st 2017 Demsrule86 Jan 2021 #19
Always on the same page. 🇺🇸❣️🇺🇸 LakeArenal Jan 2021 #31
For the first time, it's HOPE for our country, our people Trailrider1951 Jan 2021 #20
The past four years have so ruined everything that anger and rage rzemanfl Jan 2021 #21
Fear, simple fear. Throckmorton Jan 2021 #22
Apprehension. If only half of the Trump voters cast their ballot ... 11 Bravo Jan 2021 #24
Cautious optimism. Aristus Jan 2021 #25
None... brooklynite Jan 2021 #27
I've run the gamut. mindfulNJ Jan 2021 #28
It's Christmas Eve, and I'm 6 years old again. nt Roisin Ni Fiachra Jan 2021 #29
From anger and continued anger thru trumpism, finally to joy on Nov. 6 then fear... brush Jan 2021 #30
Terrified that something horrible cally Jan 2021 #32
Deep sadness for the damage and loss we have all suffered wishstar Jan 2021 #34
Relief... AaronCross Jan 2021 #35
This message was self-deleted by its author pinkstarburst Jan 2021 #37
Anxiety and intense worry, an 83-year old VIP in my life is in hospital lostnfound Jan 2021 #38
My heart, love and thoughts go out to you. ❤️ herding cats Jan 2021 #41
Thank you so much!! lostnfound Jan 2021 #45
Relief herding cats Jan 2021 #39
Relief - the system was severely tested but he lost and has been humiliated malaise Jan 2021 #40
Hard to believe that Republicans put the stupidest, shittiest, murderous piece of garbage dalton99a Jan 2021 #42
Yep Meowmee Jan 2021 #43
A bit of all of these Meowmee Jan 2021 #44

MontanaMama

(24,721 posts)
5. Relief...and a low level of anxiety
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:46 PM
Jan 2021

about potential heinous pardons and violence tainting any part of tomorrow.

Tommy_Carcetti

(44,497 posts)
6. Feel a little numb and exhausted, but glad to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:46 PM
Jan 2021

Would have felt a little more upbeat but unfortunately received some discouraging health news (non-COVID) affecting the immediate family. Still glad that the distraction of Trump will be gone soon so that at least whatever my worries might be in the future, he won't be a part of it.

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
10. An utterly wasted four years
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:49 PM
Jan 2021

Even if the Trump administration hadn't unrolled so many steps forward, the enduring legacy of 400,000 pandemic deaths, wasted because of pointless squabbling and nontroversies over where the virus originated or whether to wear masks is just so deflating. Millions of families who will miss Dad or Auntie or Sonny or Cuz at get-togethers forever. When the full awful story clatters out of the closet like so many skeletons, I hope there's enough juice left in the American people to get righteously outraged at Trump and his misadministration.

Kimber432

(74 posts)
11. Giddy with excitement, wish I was at a watch party for 45
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:50 PM
Jan 2021

across from the white house!!! Hit the road Jack!!!!

peacebuzzard

(5,870 posts)
12. overwhelmed and serene, simultaneously
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:52 PM
Jan 2021

so much destruction; however, we now have the right team that knows the rules and how it works.

AngryOldDem

(14,180 posts)
13. Exhaustion
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:52 PM
Jan 2021

I think it’s finally hit me the psychological toll the last five years have exacted. You don’t realize it as you go through it — it’s only when you see an end to it that it hits you just how bad things were. Combine that with the horror and total societal disruption of COVID (due in large part to Trump’s incompetence and indifference), and I can detect (at least in me) a cynical weariness that I hope starts to fade beginning at noon tomorrow.

Here’s to better days ahead.

cry baby

(6,876 posts)
16. Gratitude as we finally have a national grieving moment for
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:53 PM
Jan 2021

over 400,000 souls.

Personally, I’ve needed this memorial.

Trailrider1951

(3,581 posts)
20. For the first time, it's HOPE for our country, our people
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:55 PM
Jan 2021

and pride for my fellow Democrats that helped to make this day possible. Stacy Abrams, I'm looking at YOU!

rzemanfl

(31,372 posts)
21. The past four years have so ruined everything that anger and rage
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:55 PM
Jan 2021

will be my primary emotions for the foreseeable future. Drumpf will be gone but that fucker DeSatan still has the ability, perhaps the desire, to kill me.

Throckmorton

(3,579 posts)
22. Fear, simple fear.
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:55 PM
Jan 2021

Noon tomorrow cannot come soon enough for me.
Heir Trumpenfurher still has 19 hours to wreak havoc.

11 Bravo

(24,310 posts)
24. Apprehension. If only half of the Trump voters cast their ballot ...
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:58 PM
Jan 2021

due solely to the (R) appended to his name, that still leaves over 35 million Americans who agree with him.
And that's worrisome.

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
27. None...
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 06:01 PM
Jan 2021

1) I'm at work

2) I've learned to squeeze emotion out of my political life; the better to make objective decisions on political activity.

mindfulNJ

(2,449 posts)
28. I've run the gamut.
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 06:01 PM
Jan 2021

Happy, sad, fearful, hopeful, outraged...

I have just come through what are probably the worst 4 years of my life. Trump was elected, I lost my Dad, my Mom, and my sister (before Covid) had some very serious issues with my son's mental health and my business is on the ropes.

I am hoping that this Inauguration is the start of better times. Fingers crossed.

 

brush

(61,033 posts)
30. From anger and continued anger thru trumpism, finally to joy on Nov. 6 then fear...
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 06:12 PM
Jan 2021

fear, fear while hoping to get thru to Jan. 20 without a major calamity, then intense anger, anger anger on Jan. 6 which has continued until now.

Tomorrow at noon it will be relief and finally joy again.

cally

(21,868 posts)
32. Terrified that something horrible
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 06:26 PM
Jan 2021

May still happen before tomorrow. I do not expect it but I’ve worried too long over this to let it go too soon. Tomorrow at noon will be glorious

wishstar

(5,829 posts)
34. Deep sadness for the damage and loss we have all suffered
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 06:55 PM
Jan 2021

and exhausted relief that we have a better path forward finally

AaronCross

(5 posts)
35. Relief...
Tue Jan 19, 2021, 06:59 PM
Jan 2021

I know that all of our problems that we have as a nation will not go away after President Biden is sworn in at noon tomorrow but darn it's going to feel good to have the adults back in charge!

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lostnfound

(17,520 posts)
38. Anxiety and intense worry, an 83-year old VIP in my life is in hospital
Wed Jan 20, 2021, 03:42 AM
Jan 2021

Worried sick, he is so healthy and strong, but past 10 days have been atrocious for him and I’m terrified of losing him 15 years sooner than we thought we would

The fear of the right wing insurrectionists and the latest news that new strains of the virus have evolved to evade antibodies whether produced by illness or by the vaccine is roaring background noise

Distraught over other thing too which I can’t write about

Somewhat hopeful that the train wreck of national governance will show so ev radial improvement

But mostly worried sick. Praying.

herding cats

(20,049 posts)
41. My heart, love and thoughts go out to you. ❤️
Wed Jan 20, 2021, 04:27 AM
Jan 2021

May he heal fully and completely. I've seen it happen with other elderly people I personally love. I hope it does in this instance for you as well.

lostnfound

(17,520 posts)
45. Thank you so much!!
Wed Jan 20, 2021, 07:46 PM
Jan 2021

He is recovering and I’m so happy to hear he is out of the ICU. I really truly appreciate your kind comment.

herding cats

(20,049 posts)
39. Relief
Wed Jan 20, 2021, 04:21 AM
Jan 2021

Skinner, here said 4 years ago, (paraphrasing) that he believed our institutions and system were strong enough to survive Trump. Ultimately, he was mostly correct, but the toll has been much, much more than any of us could have imagined.

Trump mangled our norms, made racism a central theme for himself and literally tore children from their parents arms and thrust them in cages. He flouted his lies like badges of honor for 4 extremely long years. But this was all just the opening acts... the worst was yet to come.

He found COVID to be a personal hindrance. How dare it happenin his re-election year?! He held zero regard for the health and safety of the citizens of this nation, all he was concerned about was himself and what he might lose. Then, he did as he had for anything which might be an obstacle for him these past 4 years. He politicized the virus and the very health measures we should follow. He called it a Democratic hoax and claimed it would be gone from the mainstream media after the election. He saw this as the easiest route to rally his brainwashed followers to keep supporting him. Which they did. All the way to storming the capitol and committing insurrection at his behest.

Now, 400,000 deaths later in less than a year, here we are. In an extremely dark place finally seeing the flickers growing brighter to lead us out of this hellhole of apathy, mismanagement and narcissistic failure.

Yes, I feel relief to have decent, professional adults in charge again. I even feel a bit of hope for better days ahead. It's an almost forgotten, but extremely welcome feeling to have re-emerge from the seemingly bottomless past 4 years.

malaise

(296,085 posts)
40. Relief - the system was severely tested but he lost and has been humiliated
Wed Jan 20, 2021, 04:25 AM
Jan 2021

ridiculed and disgraced.

dalton99a

(94,109 posts)
42. Hard to believe that Republicans put the stupidest, shittiest, murderous piece of garbage
Wed Jan 20, 2021, 04:34 AM
Jan 2021

in the White House and called him president


Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
44. A bit of all of these
Wed Jan 20, 2021, 04:46 AM
Jan 2021

I am very exhausted and dealing with huge stresses. I am exhausted after being tortured for 4.5 years by a lunatic and the press still saying the same nonsense even now. Mostly locked inside my house for much of a year, and so much more I won’t list here now. There are just too many idiots, fascists and loons here.

Ultimately I feel deeply disappointed in this country that this ever happened and I am going to feel even worse and wary of the future if all of these people are let off the hook with all this come together crap.

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