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MelissaB

(16,595 posts)
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:32 PM Feb 2021

Mitt Romney has a plan to give parents up to $15,000 a year

This is a good plan by @MittRomney, and Democrats should eagerly work with him to pass it. There's items worth debating in here — particularly the pay-fors — but what a wonderful world where this is what we were debating.






Mitt Romney has a plan to give parents up to $15,000 a year

The Family Security Act would offer up to $350 per month, per kid, to help parents raise their children.


In 2019, Mitt Romney made history: he became the first Senate Republican to endorse a form of child allowance, where all low- and middle-income parents would get a cash benefit to help raise their kids, regardless of whether or not they’re able to work. At the time, the plan was modest, amounting to only $1,500 a year for kids under 6 and $1,000 for kids 6-17.

But on Thursday, Romney went even further and proposed the Family Security Act, one of the most generous child-benefit packages ever, regardless of political party. The plan completely overhauls the current child tax credit (CTC) and turns it from a once-a-year bonus to massive income support, paid out monthly by the Social Security Administration. (The bill text isn’t final but you can read the Romney team’s summary here.)

Romney’s plan would replace the CTC, currently worth up to $2,000 per child and restricted to parents with substantial income (it doesn’t fully kick in until you reach an income of over $11,000), with a flat monthly allowance paid out to all parents:

Parents of kids ages 0 to 5 would get $350 per month, or $4,200 a year
Parents of kids ages 6 to 17 would get $250 per month, or $3,000 a year

Parents with multiple kids could get a maximum of $1,250 per month or $15,000 a year; that translates to five kids between the ages of 6 and 17. Very large families would be somewhat penalized, but many families with three or four kids will get the full benefit.

Just like the current CTC, Romney’s proposal would phase out for wealthy parents — the benefits begin phasing out for single filers with $200,000 and joint filers with $400,000 in annual income. But the phaseout would be implemented on the back end, through the tax code — even the richest parents would still get their $250-$350 per-kid checks in the mail every month; they’d just return the money on April 15. That helps ensure the benefit is truly available to all eligible people and not delayed due to concerns of “overpayment.”

More: https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/22264520/mitt-romney-checks-parents-4200
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Mitt Romney has a plan to give parents up to $15,000 a year (Original Post) MelissaB Feb 2021 OP
Well, the Mormons will love it. BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #1
Thank you! LuvNewcastle Feb 2021 #7
Same here Auggie Feb 2021 #12
Anyone who thinks $350/month encourages people to have kids hasn't had to pay for children DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #14
Why would you give people ANY money for having children, beyond BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #26
It's for children not parents DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #42
Um, there's no guarantees on how that money will be spent--really, you think BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #52
There's NEVER a guarantee for how the money will be spent. StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #62
I think people who make 200,000-400,000 are pretty wealthy. BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #67
How do you prove they used the money for their kids? StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #70
Why create a financial incentive to have large families, for anyone? Poor or wealthy. BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #73
You must not have children StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #75
I have two kids who are adults now. I would have thought this was dumb BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #83
Correct! Goodheart Feb 2021 #107
I thought I was the only one who heard that Bettie Feb 2021 #97
Good point DeminPennswoods Feb 2021 #114
Other Modern Industrialized Democracies do it. Tommymac Feb 2021 #119
Yeah, the argument against it sounds suspiciously like "welfare encourages women to have more Blue_true Feb 2021 #116
Exactly. Utah. TomCADem Feb 2021 #19
My husband's younger cousins all have massive families--3-4-5 kids and up--they're all BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #31
"Opposed to paying people to have children"? But why would you punish the child for that? Towlie Feb 2021 #27
How is it "punishing" children to NOT pay a tax-supported stipend to support other BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #36
So is it the means tested that you object to. DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #44
I'd like to see a better use of money than just cutting checks, regardless. BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #47
I am not for telling people what they need DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #55
This is the welfare queen myth come to life--actually paying people for each kid, every month. BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #69
No, it's NOT "the welfare queen myth come to life." It is YOU who is propagating that myth StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #78
How am I propagating that myth, when the proposal is literally to pay BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #85
I suggest you change your language if you wish to engage in a discussion with me StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #87
I wasn't cursing at you. But I removed the curse word so as not to offend you. BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #89
Thank you StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #90
It absolutely pays people to have children. Three or more kids BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #93
I was thinking the same thing. Nt marlakay Feb 2021 #51
This isn't "paying people to have children" - shitloads or otherwise StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #61
I hope it fails. Direct the money to things that actually help people far more broadly. BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #71
This Meowmee Feb 2021 #118
Rule No. 1. The money is paid to the woman My Pet Orangutan Feb 2021 #2
Why? FreeState Feb 2021 #24
Those 'several households' are atypical. My Pet Orangutan Feb 2021 #34
Depends on location FreeState Feb 2021 #37
I can't say I've heard of too many cases My Pet Orangutan Feb 2021 #38
Really? FreeState Feb 2021 #88
Abuse happens "way more more common(ly)" to women. My Pet Orangutan Feb 2021 #92
How about lgbtq couples ? JI7 Feb 2021 #56
It will be interesting to see if this gets traction. still_one Feb 2021 #3
Hell no! I guess the purpose is to encourage white childbearing Dream Girl Feb 2021 #4
It's a great idea Loki Liesmith Feb 2021 #22
I am listening DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #45
How does this promote white childbearing FreeState Feb 2021 #28
You've kind of supported my point. White children bearing is lower than black and Hispanic. Dream Girl Feb 2021 #33
Um no. Are you a parent? themaguffin Feb 2021 #77
HE'S RUNNING greenjar_01 Feb 2021 #5
I agree. He is running DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #18
Why do you think that? He's not too popular among... brush Feb 2021 #39
Literally in the one line post greenjar_01 Feb 2021 #41
But you said he'd win the presidency. brush Feb 2021 #46
It's telling that you won't even say who "our candidate" or "the Democrat" will be greenjar_01 Feb 2021 #48
Whoa! Unusual thoughts for a Democrat. brush Feb 2021 #50
What the fuck??? greenjar_01 Feb 2021 #54
First off, we just won by 7 million votes. We outnumber repubicans.. brush Feb 2021 #57
People with children already get tax breaks TheRealNorth Feb 2021 #6
Correct! Goodheart Feb 2021 #100
Question. Why doesn't it kick in under 11,000 DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #8
presumably other help available at that level of poverty Kali Feb 2021 #17
Income limit is way too high. highplainsdem Feb 2021 #9
Cripes, who writes this stuff at vox? Other countries do far better at these benefits. And, one niyad Feb 2021 #10
Yes other countries have a sort of mom's pension DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #20
And paid family leave. niyad Feb 2021 #25
We're not calling it universal basic income, or universal health insurance lindysalsagal Feb 2021 #11
Seems like a reasoned approach JT45242 Feb 2021 #13
I like it. n/t Laelth Feb 2021 #15
What about people caring for aging parents? They are Politicub Feb 2021 #16
A very good point. niyad Feb 2021 #30
We've got to start somewhere StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #63
not so fast bigtree Feb 2021 #21
That doesn't bother me Loki Liesmith Feb 2021 #23
I'm not sure of the consequences bigtree Feb 2021 #60
I was not aware that mittens is part of TLP. niyad Feb 2021 #29
I use the term perjoratively bigtree Feb 2021 #59
I understood you very well. Your feelings about TLP are well-known. niyad Feb 2021 #72
that's absurd bigtree Feb 2021 #96
I oppose ANY proposal, Republican or Democratic, that encourages people to have children. Goodheart Feb 2021 #32
Why do you think this encourages people to have children? StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #65
I wouldn't, no, but some would, yes. Goodheart Feb 2021 #98
So you could be trusted to make responsible choices, but "some" other people can't. StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #104
More a matter of budget. Goodheart Feb 2021 #106
THIS. roamer65 Feb 2021 #76
Then don't worry, because this doesn't. themaguffin Feb 2021 #79
This message was self-deleted by its author themaguffin Feb 2021 #80
As someone who has a toddler, this would be a lifesaver. bearsfootball516 Feb 2021 #35
should recipients be required to prove they spend the money on their kids? nt msongs Feb 2021 #40
Why should they have to prove that? StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #66
Read the fine print. What will this do to current EIC, Child/Dependent Care and Tax Credits? haele Feb 2021 #43
But how about those parents who would like to stay home? DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #49
If this is a stimulus payment to help parents with raising children, I am good with that. haele Feb 2021 #68
"The Family Security Act " LudwigPastorius Feb 2021 #53
I trust Robert Reich's take on it Bettie Feb 2021 #58
TNAF and the child tax credit have been so demonized DeminPennswoods Feb 2021 #115
Looking at this post, for a lot of people Bettie Feb 2021 #117
This sounds promising StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #64
No subsidies for baby production. roamer65 Feb 2021 #74
Wow StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #81
Believe it. roamer65 Feb 2021 #84
I don't have a problem with your concern with population StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #86
I don't have a problem if it goes for adopted or foster children. roamer65 Feb 2021 #91
That's not what he said, and you know it. Goodheart Feb 2021 #102
Totally agree. Goodheart Feb 2021 #101
It's easy to spot non parents in this thread. JFC, the ignorance displayed here is sad. themaguffin Feb 2021 #82
Much of this thread reads like something we'd read on - well, let's just say -slightly less StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #94
I agree. DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #103
Sometimes true colors shine through when least expected ... StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #105
Ignorance? I have one son, and had enough income to afford several more Goodheart Feb 2021 #99
.. roamer65 Feb 2021 #108
Hold, I didn't say ignorance referring to having kids or not. FFS themaguffin Feb 2021 #109
Ontario has a similar program. roamer65 Feb 2021 #110
Ok, just the scientific information that we are looking for, your co-worker. themaguffin Feb 2021 #111
Since you love the idea so much, how do you propose to pay for it? roamer65 Feb 2021 #121
JFC, where did I say my thoughts on the policy at all? themaguffin Feb 2021 #130
Yes, people would have kids because of the proposed money. Goodheart Feb 2021 #122
That's ridiculous StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #125
Not to people who understand money. Goodheart Feb 2021 #126
Let's just keep creating money until we start a currency crisis. roamer65 Feb 2021 #127
It has nothing to do with understanding money StarfishSaver Feb 2021 #128
Oh, yeah? Which discussion board would that be? Goodheart Feb 2021 #129
Exactly. Some of the comments here are ignorant, both on policy & regarding parents themaguffin Feb 2021 #131
This message was self-deleted by its author DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #132
How is it not understanding money DLCWIdem Feb 2021 #133
Paid for by social security. Once again, Republicans are trying to kill madinmaryland Feb 2021 #95
I don't love it BGBD Feb 2021 #112
I hope this comes with backpay. egduj Feb 2021 #113
There was a study that indicated having another child... Buckeye_Democrat Feb 2021 #120
...or we can use them for Soylent Green. roamer65 Feb 2021 #123
Romney can vote for the Democrats proposal JonLP24 Feb 2021 #124

LuvNewcastle

(17,821 posts)
7. Thank you!
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:47 PM
Feb 2021

If they want to help struggling people pay their bills, give a universal income check to each adult. Most single people need help, too. And if you give a check to each adult, families with two adults will still get plenty of help for their children without giving an extra amount based on how many kids they have. The world has enough people; don't encourage more people to have children.

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
14. Anyone who thinks $350/month encourages people to have kids hasn't had to pay for children
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:52 PM
Feb 2021

Believe me it costs more than that to raise a child.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
26. Why would you give people ANY money for having children, beyond
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:21 PM
Feb 2021

those at or under poverty line who really need the help? I don't like the government targeting certain lifestyle choices for a cash bonus. Including marriage benefits. Edit to add: I raised two kids and I'm married, and I think such shit is unfair and money down a rat hole. I'm all for strengthening the social safety net for ANYONE of any lifestyle situation to not be poor, hungry, homeless, etc.

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
42. It's for children not parents
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:16 PM
Feb 2021

Last edited Thu Feb 4, 2021, 06:03 PM - Edit history (1)

At a time when we are complaining that children are going hungry. It can be very helpful. Especially as it is just taking the CCC and giving the money at a different time. As to it you not needing help to raise your kids. That kind of argument is used by many of the Hispanic emigres when they talk about not giving illegal immigrants a path to citizenship. Well times change and the fact that we can help provide should be applauded.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
52. Um, there's no guarantees on how that money will be spent--really, you think
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:37 PM
Feb 2021

parents are always going to use monthly cash payments on their kids? Maybe the poorest families will, but the wealthier families will probably use it for vacation funds, credit card bills, etc. Why not help parents and families with daycare, or health insurance, or before and after school care? Just a goddamn dumb waste of taxpayer money, with ZERO accountability or metrics as to how it will truly benefit kids.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
62. There's NEVER a guarantee for how the money will be spent.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:16 PM
Feb 2021

Last edited Thu Feb 4, 2021, 10:39 PM - Edit history (1)

The "we shouldn't give it to them because they might not use the money wisely" attitude is very paternalistic and sounds much more like the arguments we hear from the other side whenever they're trying to deny any assistance to anyone other than the wealthiest.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
67. I think people who make 200,000-400,000 are pretty wealthy.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:36 PM
Feb 2021

Those are the people who probably won't use the cash bonus for their kids. It'll most likely be fun-money for them. Sorry, I oppose cash payments for people's personal lifestyle choices, period. Having a child, or many children, is a personal lifestyle choice. I support money to be funneled into institutions and educational and health services that benefit existing poor and middle class children instead--measurable community benefits and accountability. Monthly cash payments simply for having children is stupid, unfair, and taxpayer money being pissed away with no way to measure success.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
70. How do you prove they used the money for their kids?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:39 PM
Feb 2021

And, this is NOT "monthly cash payment simply for having kids."

This argument sounds like Republicans who claim that poor women have children just to get a welfare check. Bad take. I can't believe I'm seeing people on a Democratic board say something like this.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
73. Why create a financial incentive to have large families, for anyone? Poor or wealthy.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:49 PM
Feb 2021

It's fucking dumb. Do we have an underpopulation problem in this country that I'm not aware of? Since when do we need to automatically pay people to support their families if they have the fiscal means to do so on their own?

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
75. You must not have children
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:53 PM
Feb 2021

Or are independently wealthy.

I don't think anyone with children or who has a ridiculous amount of disposable income would believe that $250/month creates in anyone "a financial incentive to have large families."

As I said, you sound like those people who think government has no business ever helping needy families because "they should have thought of that before they had all those kids."

But you didn't answer my question. How does a parent prove they spent the money on their kids?

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
83. I have two kids who are adults now. I would have thought this was dumb
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:58 PM
Feb 2021

even if I would have benefitted from it financially. It's stupid on the face of it, and it seems like a scheme for some other purpose. I've said that the only large families I personally know (3 plus kids) are all people of means, and they're either Mormon or evangelical Christian--this seems like a way to engineer the "right" sort of population growth, if you ask me, at the expense of dismantling other forms of aid that don't help the "right" people. Can't help but be suspicious.

Bettie

(19,704 posts)
97. I thought I was the only one who heard that
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:38 PM
Feb 2021

yes, it is the "welfare queen" meme...some days I wonder if I've stumbled onto another board. Sigh.

Tommymac

(7,334 posts)
119. Other Modern Industrialized Democracies do it.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:35 PM
Feb 2021

Germany is an example.

https://www.howtogermany.com/pages/kindergeld.html

Children's Allowance - Kindergeld in Germany
Germany offers a variety of children allowances and benefits. Kindergeld is probably the most well known of these.
Updated – September 2020

Taxpaying expatriate residents of Germany are, like Germans, entitled to Kindergeld if they have children. This is an allowance (also called a Child Benefit) from the German government to help defray some of the cost of raising children. It can run from €204 to €235 per child per month, and is usually made by a fund transfer into a German bank account.

Just about any taxpayer living in Germany with children can get the Kindergeld, whether employed, self employed or independent. You get it as a rule until the children turn 18, though it can continue until they are 25 if they are still in school or meet other requirements for an extension. Starting in July 2019 the benefit was raised to €204 per month for each of the first two children, €210 for the third child and €235 for each subsequent one.

Adopted and foster children qualify you for the Kindergeld, as do children of your spouse and your grandchildren if they live in your household. Some people living abroad may also be eligible for Kindergeld if they meet certain German unrestricted income tax payment obligations or other requirements. You can find out about the exact requirements from the German authorities.


Next.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
116. Yeah, the argument against it sounds suspiciously like "welfare encourages women to have more
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:27 PM
Feb 2021

babies”. It has been proven over and over that women that have access to a quality education and good job opportunities have fewer, or no children. I can bet you that the better educated Mormon women that have meaningful, good paying jobs aren’t having many kids.

TomCADem

(17,837 posts)
19. Exactly. Utah.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:58 PM
Feb 2021

It is actually brilliant, because for all of their so-called fiscal conservativism, the folks in Utah would love it.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
31. My husband's younger cousins all have massive families--3-4-5 kids and up--they're all
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:29 PM
Feb 2021

evangelical Christians who are middle to upper middle class, all college grads/professionals, much nicer cars/houses than I could have ever dreamed of back in my 30's. I am baffled as to why people like this would deserve 15,000 a year--the only people I see anymore with large families are already affluent. Income caps of 400,000? My tax money will be going to funding the lifestyles of people who make far more money than I do? Bullshit.

Towlie

(5,577 posts)
27. "Opposed to paying people to have children"? But why would you punish the child for that?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:21 PM
Feb 2021

 


The money is meant to give the child a fair opportunity to have a good life.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
36. How is it "punishing" children to NOT pay a tax-supported stipend to support other
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:45 PM
Feb 2021

people's children? We're not talking poor people here--I'm all for continuing to help needy families. We're talking about couples who make up to $400,000 a year receiving monthly stipends to raise their children. I don't make anywhere NEAR that, and I've never received anything but modest tax benefits while raising my kids, and now my tax money is going to support already-affluent people to fund their chosen lifestyles?

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
44. So is it the means tested that you object to.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:21 PM
Feb 2021

I agree that 200k seems high but I know the cost of living is higher in New York City then in my home town

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
47. I'd like to see a better use of money than just cutting checks, regardless.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:30 PM
Feb 2021

Universal, publicly-supported daycare or preschool/afterschool. Medicare for all or some other single-payer would probably be the biggest help for middle class and working class parents, people who make too much for Medicaid. Better-funded schools. Many ways to help families besides giving a monthly cash bonus per kid, which is easily abused/misused anyway.

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
55. I am not for telling people what they need
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:44 PM
Feb 2021

Let people target the money to their own needs. They know where they need help for themselves. Nor do I believe that people are getting rich on $350 month when they are raising kids. Especially since this is just taking the tax credit and redistributing it during the year and not one lump sum at the end of the year. Nor do I believe that most are or will misuse the funds. Sounds too much like the stereotype of the "welfare queen".

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
69. This is the welfare queen myth come to life--actually paying people for each kid, every month.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:37 PM
Feb 2021

Except many of these welfare queens and kings will earn far more than most people I know. Fucking ridiculous.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
78. No, it's NOT "the welfare queen myth come to life." It is YOU who is propagating that myth
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:56 PM
Feb 2021

And it's a disgusting thing to see on a Democratic board.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
85. How am I propagating that myth, when the proposal is literally to pay
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:01 PM
Feb 2021

people cash per child, every month, up to 15,000 a year, for people who make up to $400,000 a year? That's the proposal. Edit to add: It used to be a Republican myth about poor people, as if people would jump through hoops to get food stamps, etc. But this is actually them making a reality out of the myth.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
87. I suggest you change your language if you wish to engage in a discussion with me
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:04 PM
Feb 2021

I don't respond to being gratuitously cursed at.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
90. Thank you
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:10 PM
Feb 2021

They're not paying people to have children - any more than giving a child tax credit pays people to have more children.

I don't think the proposal is perfect - for example, I think the income cap is too high. But I don't think the overall idea is a bad one and I certainly don't think it in any way pays people to have children. That's often the excuse given for opposing ANY aid to people - treating people as if they are stupid or grifters or completely cavalier about their life choices.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
93. It absolutely pays people to have children. Three or more kids
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:22 PM
Feb 2021

and your typical monthly mortgage is covered by the American taxpayer--that's quite a benefit. This guarantees your standard of living won't go down with each additional child up to what--four or five kids? How is that not an incentive?

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
61. This isn't "paying people to have children" - shitloads or otherwise
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:14 PM
Feb 2021

This recognizes that many families are in desperate straits and it is usually the children who suffer most.

I have no problem with this plan at all. I think it makes sense and hope Romney and the Democrats can figure out a way to make it work.

BusyBeingBest

(9,173 posts)
71. I hope it fails. Direct the money to things that actually help people far more broadly.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:39 PM
Feb 2021

Like single payer health care.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
118. This
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:31 PM
Feb 2021

What about single or partnered people who are struggling who chose not to have children etc.?

FreeState

(10,702 posts)
24. Why?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:19 PM
Feb 2021

I know several households where the woman is the primary bread winner and the man stays home with the children. I would rather it be directed to the stay at home parent/guardian and split if both parents work.

FreeState

(10,702 posts)
37. Depends on location
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:56 PM
Feb 2021

In my area it’s not atypical - just on my street there are more stay at home dads than moms. I think law should support all regardless of numbers.

My Pet Orangutan

(12,598 posts)
38. I can't say I've heard of too many cases
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:04 PM
Feb 2021

where abusive, controlling wives have starved their husbands of money. The reverse is well known, and way too commonplace.

FreeState

(10,702 posts)
88. Really?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:05 PM
Feb 2021

I was a domestic violence interventionist for a while and it does go both ways. Ofcourse it is way more common for women to be the victim. Usually the male in those cases has access to his partners accounts and usually controls them, that's part of the abuse. Sending it to the abused's account would do no good in 90% of those situations.

Abuse happens to men and women, everyone deserves support.

My Pet Orangutan

(12,598 posts)
92. Abuse happens "way more more common(ly)" to women.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:15 PM
Feb 2021

Support them. That's it as far as I'm concerned.

You argument - men may be abused too.

Again - how many controlling wives starve their husbands of money - NEXT TO NONE.

That's it. cu.

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
4. Hell no! I guess the purpose is to encourage white childbearing
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:43 PM
Feb 2021

Kind of the flip side of antiabortion laws

FreeState

(10,702 posts)
28. How does this promote white childbearing
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:22 PM
Feb 2021

Seems like its set up to support children regardless of race. In fact this would support minority families at a higher level than white childbearing.

Among mothers near the end of their childbearing years, Hispanics and blacks have the largest families. On average, a Hispanic mother ages 40 to 44 has had about 2.6 children. By comparison, black mothers have had about 2.5. White and Asian mothers have families that are a bit smaller, on average. White mothers have 2.3 children, and Asian mothers have 2.2 children.

When looking at the distribution of family size by race and ethnicity, the distinctiveness of the Hispanic family becomes particularly apparent. Among mothers ages 40 to 44, Hispanics are the least likely to have only one child – just 17% do. In contrast, fully 25% of black moms have had just one child, as is the case for 23% of white moms and 22% of Asian moms.


https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2015/05/07/family-size-among-mothers/
 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
33. You've kind of supported my point. White children bearing is lower than black and Hispanic.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:33 PM
Feb 2021

It is this trend that has been fueling proliferation for 50+ years. Proving an incentive could increase the imbalance. I believe this has been done in Europe to,correct for low birth rate and reduce the need for foreign labor

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
5. HE'S RUNNING
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:44 PM
Feb 2021

And he will probably win if the GOPers are smart enough to nominate him, which is doubtful.

 

brush

(61,033 posts)
39. Why do you think that? He's not too popular among...
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:08 PM
Feb 2021

republicans because of his vote for the first impeachment of trump so why do you think he'd even get their nomination, much less beat our candidate in 2024?

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
41. Literally in the one line post
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:09 PM
Feb 2021

"if the GOPers are smart enough to nominate him, which is doubtful. "

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
48. It's telling that you won't even say who "our candidate" or "the Democrat" will be
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:32 PM
Feb 2021

Let's be clear: it won't be Biden, and everybody knows it. So, would a moderate Romney, if GOPers were smart enough the nominate a moderate, beat Kamala Harris? Yes, he would, I think. She'd be painted as a radical and face both racism and misogyny. Sorry, but that's not an unreasonable claim, and I think you know it.

I said "probably," in any case.

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
54. What the fuck???
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:43 PM
Feb 2021

OK, buddy.



"Unusual thoughts."

Feel free to tell me how they're unreasonable while you're out here telling me they're unusual.

 

brush

(61,033 posts)
57. First off, we just won by 7 million votes. We outnumber repubicans..
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:57 PM
Feb 2021

Secondly, there are many women still sore at how Hillary was treated and IMO would support Kamala Harris if Biden steps down, but from his effective, hitting-the-ground-running performance I don't see why he would.

Thirdly, Romney is a republican, not that popular even in his own party, the party that horribly bungled the covid response in which 400,000 have died, not to mention it's the party that just tried to overthrow the government and is now supporting and not punishing a Q-anon idiot congresswoman in their midst. Those are things that won't be forgotten in four years.

The above is what sounds reasonable to this Democrat, and frankly, you sound like a republican rooting for Romney.

TheRealNorth

(9,647 posts)
6. People with children already get tax breaks
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:47 PM
Feb 2021

We need to do something about rent prices which have gotten bonkers on a lot of urban areas in the past 10 years.

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
8. Question. Why doesn't it kick in under 11,000
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:48 PM
Feb 2021

For a republican he is not bad with help. After all. Obama care is essentially a Romney program in Massachusetts.

Kali

(56,829 posts)
17. presumably other help available at that level of poverty
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:56 PM
Feb 2021

the EIC is the same as are the subsidies for ACA

niyad

(132,440 posts)
10. Cripes, who writes this stuff at vox? Other countries do far better at these benefits. And, one
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:49 PM
Feb 2021

writes of "children", not "kids", in a professional context. Try to contain your enthusiasm, vox, you were practically slobbering on mittens.

lindysalsagal

(22,915 posts)
11. We're not calling it universal basic income, or universal health insurance
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:49 PM
Feb 2021

but I think we're already past the point of keeping the economy afloat without them. Unintended consequences.

JT45242

(4,043 posts)
13. Seems like a reasoned approach
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 01:52 PM
Feb 2021

Unlike post #2 - it doesn't encourage people to have a boatload of kids but would help families of 1-5 kids.

Children of lower income families enter school far behind middle class and upper class families in large part due to differences in access to opportunity to learn. This might help families get better preschools, more access to other learning environments, etc.

This isn't a perfect solution, but it is a good first step to find a sane member of the opposition party.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
63. We've got to start somewhere
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:20 PM
Feb 2021

And usually, aging parents have some income and entitlements to offset costs - e.g., Social Security, pensions, Medicare ...

bigtree

(94,261 posts)
21. not so fast
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:01 PM
Feb 2021



...this is the subterfuge 'Lincoln Project' republicans want to bring back. No more of the open racism and war on people of color Trump recklessly waged, imperiling GQP chances at election time. Back to serving bigotry underneath nice-sounding titles concealing savage funding cuts.

bigtree

(94,261 posts)
60. I'm not sure of the consequences
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:12 PM
Feb 2021

...of replacing TANF.

He takes away the child benefit to families with more children and replaces it with a 1k credit.

He eliminates the child care tax credit, and the head-of-household credit that benefits single parents.


bigtree

(94,261 posts)
59. I use the term perjoratively
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:01 PM
Feb 2021

...in this context.

None of those people are my allies.

bigtree

(94,261 posts)
96. that's absurd
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:33 PM
Feb 2021

...I couldn't have mentioned them here more than once or twice.

I don't have an axe to grind against them and I haven't really bothered. But, they made the effort they did in the last campaign and it's nothing more than what they should have done to clean up the mess they made.

Romney is a special case. His campaign... don't even. He's a calculating menace. Whatever he's up to should be quashed before it breathes a single breath of political air. He needs to sit down. Reinvented crud is still crud.

No one should be ashamed of holding republicans to their past. I lived it, I suffered their rule. If that bothers anyone...

So, basically you were just baiting me. Find something more productive to do with your time.

 

Goodheart

(5,760 posts)
32. I oppose ANY proposal, Republican or Democratic, that encourages people to have children.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 02:30 PM
Feb 2021

Period.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
65. Why do you think this encourages people to have children?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:25 PM
Feb 2021

Would you have a child you otherwise wouldn't be likely to have because you might get an additional $250 month?

This pushback sounds suspiciously like arguments from conservative Republicans who claim that poor women are having babies just to get a welfare check.

 

Goodheart

(5,760 posts)
98. I wouldn't, no, but some would, yes.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 06:28 PM
Feb 2021

And it has nothing to do with having babies just to get a welfare check, but growing the likelihood of having children if one's budget is expanded. That shouldn't be a goal of our government unless we have a population problem, which we certainly don't.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
104. So you could be trusted to make responsible choices, but "some" other people can't.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 06:44 PM
Feb 2021

Got it.

 

Goodheart

(5,760 posts)
106. More a matter of budget.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 06:54 PM
Feb 2021

You wouldn't buy a $25,000 car if your budget only allows $20,000. If somebody pays you an extra $15k per year you might go for it.

And with that I suspect your next snippy comment will be "how dare you compare having a child to buying a car!"

I am ALL FOR helping people already here. But encouraging people to have children compounds that responsibility. And, yes, it certainly would do just that, just as my budget example demonstrates. And, on TOP OF THAT, this world is already overpopulated. We should reproduce responsibly.

Response to themaguffin (Reply #79)

haele

(15,400 posts)
43. Read the fine print. What will this do to current EIC, Child/Dependent Care and Tax Credits?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:19 PM
Feb 2021

If it's just a tweak of the EIC that will give everyone eligible for it with children an extra $3K a kid, I can live with this.
But a $250 - $350 a month with an arbitrary claw-back for "rich parents (define "rich parents"- over EIC limit, over $100K, over $200K income from previous year?)
It helps with daycare for working parents, true. But only a bit.
Would rather see targeted supplementals for dependent care that would go to the authorized dependent care centers.
At a much greater amount per month. It costs between $1500 and $3000 a month for quality day care per child.

Haele

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
49. But how about those parents who would like to stay home?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:34 PM
Feb 2021

Many parents I know have a child care in their own home. They may work nights. I found childcare centers are not likely to be open at midnight hours. Also it might be just a little help with good. Your talking about targeting to only specific areas and I am not for telling people how to spend it. Especially when we are now talking so much about food security.

haele

(15,400 posts)
68. If this is a stimulus payment to help parents with raising children, I am good with that.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:36 PM
Feb 2021

However, the bill talks about a claw back at tax time, hitting parents and guardians with up to $15K a year added to the taxes? That's not a stimulus, that's a tax credit that is being refunded universally, not taking into effect the actual household taxable income, in monthly manner and eligibility will be determined at tax time for that year, similar to EIC. If the credit is based on EIC applicability, which it is sort of written as if it is, that means that any household with taxable income over $50K a year may be facing an additional $5K to $15K tax bill for that year.
My concern is that this is written so poorly that while it helps low income families, other families above the median income are going to have to hire a tax accountant to figure out how to set up their exemptions so they won't be stuck with a sudden nasty surprise they can't afford when they do their taxes, and that $150 per kid they would be getting as a tax credit will have to be offset by paying an extra $150 a month federal income tax per kid, so it would end up being both a paperwork burden and not providing any income benefit, even for household incomes under six figures annually - those households this is supposed to help.


It isn't clearly addressed as to what "Tax Brackets" this clawback would happen, nor how it would be determined. But that clawback is there, and won't help families making over the limits that are yet to be determined.

People need help. But is this the optimal way to help the most while adversely impacting the fewest, even if the impact is being pushed out to "at a later date"?

There needs to be more discussion than "Hell yeah, great idea" (which, to a point, this is...) and then just hand out that money without looking at the small print on how the program will actually work.

Forgive me if I don't trust anything from Mittens. He has a nasty habit of hiding some very sharp shivs behind his gravitas and earnest attempts at governance.

Haele


LudwigPastorius

(14,725 posts)
53. "The Family Security Act "
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 03:38 PM
Feb 2021

That sounds so much better than the "You Non-Breeders Can Go Fuck Yourself Act".

Bettie

(19,704 posts)
58. I trust Robert Reich's take on it
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:01 PM
Feb 2021
https://twitter.com/RBReich


Robert Reich
@RBReich
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Before anyone gets too excited about Mitt Romney's plan for child benefits, note it eliminates Temporary Assistance for Needy Families as well as child tax credit. So hardly clear that poor families and kids come out ahead.
11:59 AM · Feb 4, 2021·Twitter Web App

DeminPennswoods

(17,506 posts)
115. TNAF and the child tax credit have been so demonized
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:22 PM
Feb 2021

by the rw and there are so many conditions put on recipients, maybe this change, even if it doesn't increase total benefits, would be a good thing.

Bettie

(19,704 posts)
117. Looking at this post, for a lot of people
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:28 PM
Feb 2021

simply being a parent is demonized! And being a poor parent...well, that's apparently the worst thing one can be.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
74. No subsidies for baby production.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:52 PM
Feb 2021

We need less people in this planet, not more.

We should actually use the tax system to discourage any more than 2.

Adopted children or fosters would, of course, be exempt.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
84. Believe it.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 04:59 PM
Feb 2021

8 billion is too many.

You will see what I mean in about 10-20 years.

500ppm and rising.

Overpopulation is the core problem.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
86. I don't have a problem with your concern with population
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:01 PM
Feb 2021

I do have a problem with your paternalistic notion that people would have babies so they can get $250 per month - and would allow that belief to prevent millions of desperate families from getting much-needed assistance.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
91. I don't have a problem if it goes for adopted or foster children.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:10 PM
Feb 2021

For them I am 100 percent behind such a scheme.

People need to think long and hard about the future before having their own children. I would support the use of the tax system to influence that decision.

This planet cannot handle it.

I am also for abortion on demand, OTC birth control and vasectomies. Those all should be free.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
94. Much of this thread reads like something we'd read on - well, let's just say -slightly less
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:27 PM
Feb 2021

Democratic-leaning websites.

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
103. I agree.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 06:39 PM
Feb 2021

Last edited Fri Feb 5, 2021, 11:04 PM - Edit history (1)

I was thinking is this really DU. Not that I was fully supporting the plan. I am out of here.

 

Goodheart

(5,760 posts)
99. Ignorance? I have one son, and had enough income to afford several more
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 06:32 PM
Feb 2021

but chose not to.

Believe it or not, some of us actually care about the world's population problems and strain on natural resources.

themaguffin

(5,221 posts)
109. Hold, I didn't say ignorance referring to having kids or not. FFS
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:01 PM
Feb 2021

My comment is referring to ignorance with comments suggesting that people would have kids because of the proposed money.

It sounds like something right of the Southern Strategy handbook.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
110. Ontario has a similar program.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:09 PM
Feb 2021

$400 or so per month per child.

I once had a Canadian co-worker and he had his 4th child while I worked with him. One of his first comments was $400 a month more. While they may not have had the child for the money, he sure was looking forward to it.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
121. Since you love the idea so much, how do you propose to pay for it?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:48 PM
Feb 2021

Please enlighten us on it.

 

Goodheart

(5,760 posts)
122. Yes, people would have kids because of the proposed money.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:51 PM
Feb 2021

Sorry if that offends you, but that's reality.

Not so much people who see kids as a means to welfare checks, but people whose budgets for children are increased.

It's just like any other cost/affordability consideration. You might not be able to buy a $45000 car, given your current budget, but if the government kicks in part of that.... hey.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
127. Let's just keep creating money until we start a currency crisis.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 10:52 PM
Feb 2021

Then we will all be equal...with zero.



 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
128. It has nothing to do with understanding money
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 10:57 PM
Feb 2021

It's just ridiculous. And also extraordinarily paternalistic, elitist, and better suited to a different discussion board.

 

Goodheart

(5,760 posts)
129. Oh, yeah? Which discussion board would that be?
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 11:01 PM
Feb 2021

Paternalistic? Do you even know what that means?

Elitist? How so? Because my opinion differs from yours? No, YOU'RE elitist. See?



Response to Goodheart (Reply #126)

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
133. How is it not understanding money
Fri Feb 5, 2021, 11:19 PM
Feb 2021

Raising a child costs way more than $350/month. So I am going to add $350/month but pay out triple that with a new mouth to feed. A new body to clothe not to mention a huge medical bills. Then we have school supplies, I want those jeans, etc. Not to mention when the kid wants that car. The $350 may offset a few costs especially in lean times for poor families. It is by no means an extra for a budget as an incentive to go out and have babies. But those who already have children who are unemployed due to unforeseen circumstances such as a pandemic it could be a godsend.

madinmaryland

(65,729 posts)
95. Paid for by social security. Once again, Republicans are trying to kill
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 05:33 PM
Feb 2021

Social security. Fuckers.

 

BGBD

(3,282 posts)
112. I don't love it
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:15 PM
Feb 2021

I'd rather it be $500 per child of any age and capped at 3 kids instead of 5. That gives more families access to the top number, increases the top number by $3,000 a year, and doesn't hurt families bigger than 3 kids because they would still get more than under the plan as is.

Also, run payments for 18 year olds through graduation from HS or 19th birthday, whichever comes first.

We can debate upper income cutoffs, but that part isn't a big deal to me.

Buckeye_Democrat

(15,526 posts)
120. There was a study that indicated having another child...
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:45 PM
Feb 2021

... created more carbon emissions than could be offset by NEVER driving a car, flying on a plane, etc.

Oh, well. Let's just make more babies and let them deal with the future problems, I guess.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
123. ...or we can use them for Soylent Green.
Thu Feb 4, 2021, 09:54 PM
Feb 2021


I agree with you. In 20 years, we will be telling people “I told you so.”
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