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Brigid

(17,621 posts)
Thu Oct 11, 2012, 12:49 PM Oct 2012

Street Harrassment Part II:

A couple of days ago, I posted about a minor incident that had just happened to me at a city bus stop. Some, perhaps understandably, felt I overreacted. But because of it, I am reminded of another incident that happened in the mid-90's that I had forgotten about -- at least consciously. This one was even more bizarre and potentially a lot more dangerous.

Like the other day, I was standing alone at a bus stop. However, the other day I was on a busy corner with lots of vehicular traffic. That bus stop is heavily frequented too; it was unusual for no one else to be there. In the incident in the '90's, I was waiting at a bus stop with little traffic and no one else around. It was on the street running behind the apartment building where I was living at the time. A guy rode past me on a bicycle and said "hi." He was going so fast I didn't respond, figuring he wouldn't be able to hear me anyway. I didn't see him turn around and come back, but all of a sudden there he was again. Of course, the alarm bells went off. He said, "What was that I didn't hear you." I said nothing. He said, "I'm tired of attitudes like yours. I've sacrificed all my life. You can just take your attitude somewhere else." By this time I'm wondering how long it would take me to get back to my building and get inside, but thankfully he rode off. It was terrifying. I had sort of forgotten it, but now I can remember exactly what he was wearing, and what he said. I even remember what color the bike was (red). Now that I think about it, I must have been remembering that incident the other night. Gentlemen, this is why women are wary of strange men on the street.

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Street Harrassment Part II: (Original Post) Brigid Oct 2012 OP
Time for this cartoon again. Brickbat Oct 2012 #1
Yep. Brigid Oct 2012 #2
In my mind, she's curled up in bed with her man, sad that she tries to explain and no one hears. Brickbat Oct 2012 #4
That was my first thought, too--I saved that one in photobucket pinboy3niner Oct 2012 #5
Here you go: Brigid Oct 2012 #6
Thankyou, Brigid pinboy3niner Oct 2012 #7
That's why libodem Oct 2012 #3
Why are you asking about the HoF group? nt redqueen Oct 2012 #8
What's HOF? Brigid Oct 2012 #9
I wonder when it started for most of us, the street harrassment. redqueen Oct 2012 #10

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
2. Yep.
Thu Oct 11, 2012, 12:58 PM
Oct 2012

It's perfect. I'll bet in that last panel, she's headed out to the living room to sleep on the couch.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
5. That was my first thought, too--I saved that one in photobucket
Thu Oct 11, 2012, 01:03 PM
Oct 2012

Does anyone have the link to that DU thread? We had quite an interesting discussion there.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
3. That's why
Thu Oct 11, 2012, 12:58 PM
Oct 2012

The black burka remains a popular favorite ten years later in, Afghanistan.

Men, ya can't live with 'em and ya can't live with 'em.

Traffic slow over at, HOF?

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
10. I wonder when it started for most of us, the street harrassment.
Thu Oct 11, 2012, 01:22 PM
Oct 2012

For me it was sixth grade. After a few years of these incidents, from the annoyingly inane to the overtly threatening and terrifying, you learn to just avoid eye contact altogether the vast majority of the time.

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