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HardPort

(1,474 posts)
Sat Feb 20, 2021, 10:59 PM Feb 2021

Not proud ... I finally lost it with my maga neighbor today ...

Dude is the kind of guy who blasts his music at 8 a.m. on a Saturday.

He put up a dotard 2020 flag AFTER January 06, and sometimes displays two. And he takes it down at night and puts it back up every day

Needless to say, since the numbnut lives right across the street from me, I have to see this shit in my neighborhood every day, and I guess today I had kind of reached my limit; as I was returning from my morning run, I saw dude, flags a flappin', out in his yard, and while I was still a few houses away I went into a real loud "fake" laugh and yelling, "Trump what a f-ing loser, hahahaha, what a piece of s---," etc. I can be super loud when I want to and have a patented "laugh" my kids could tell you about. And when I was directly across the street from his house, I dropped to my knees and started slapping the pavement in mirthful enjoyment of how stupid someone would have to be to fly that hideous banner.

Meanwhile, Trumper started filming with his phone.

So I told him he was flying the flag of a cop killer. And I chanted "cop killer" at him through gusts of laughter and derision. Then, since he used to fly an SD/LA Chargers flag, I told him he should put it back up because even the chargers aren't as big losers as the dotard.

Then I went home, with a wicked smirk on my face. One of my other neighbors asked me if I had gotten it all out. That remains to be seen.

I'm not proud of the incident; let's face it, I kind of snapped, but only after months (years) of this kind of shit. Nevertheless, I do feel well within my rights to have voiced my opinion in my own way. If he is going to broadcast racism and hatred in my neighborhood, he needs to expect some pushback, no?

Also, for the record, I NEVER threatened him or even got close to him; I stayed on my side of the street. If he had reported me to the cops, the most he would have been able to say is that I laughed at his flag, and used some potty language.

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Not proud ... I finally lost it with my maga neighbor today ... (Original Post) HardPort Feb 2021 OP
Won't to any good, but I'm sure it felt good to get it out. captain queeg Feb 2021 #1
Yeah it felt good, and yeah it won't do any good .. thanks! HardPort Feb 2021 #5
Or you could put up a sign on your lawn saying "I live across the street from stupid" Maraya1969 Feb 2021 #42
Maybe you should print up small yard signs with PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2021 #15
Why even engage with him. It's only a fucking flag. Ignore it. 50 Shades Of Blue Feb 2021 #2
I can't say it is "just a flag" -- it's akin to flying a Nazi standard in my opinion. HardPort Feb 2021 #6
Agreed. AZ8theist Feb 2021 #16
Perhaps there some anti-obscenity laws in your area. OMGWTF Feb 2021 #56
Perhaps....but I think he took it down recently..... AZ8theist Feb 2021 #66
Causing a public disturbance over it won't make him remove it. 50 Shades Of Blue Feb 2021 #37
Exactly and now he's more likely to keep it up forever since it annoys the OP so much. nt Raine Feb 2021 #68
You are right, but sometimes we just snap. Irish_Dem Feb 2021 #39
Be careful...we already saw what could happen.. diverdownjt Feb 2021 #57
Yes I know anyone can carry a gun or become violent. Irish_Dem Feb 2021 #58
Hope you feel better,... kinda like this dude is making you a prisoner in your own home/neighborhood magicarpet Feb 2021 #3
I'd like to say I feel better ... but I do feel like I conveyed my disdain. HardPort Feb 2021 #8
I decided after Jan 6th, I am going to speak out more when these idiots present themselves. Irish_Dem Feb 2021 #40
Bravo!! Love it! Think it's so cool that you maintained! In my Laura PourMeADrink Feb 2021 #4
Thank You!! -- I'm glad that I managed to keep it all about laughing at him, and nothing else. HardPort Feb 2021 #9
Shame is more likely to get the flags down, as many trump dead-enders Snarkoleptic Feb 2021 #7
Yeah...I felt laughter and derision might work better than vitriol? Thanks!! HardPort Feb 2021 #21
We won. He lost. He's wallowing in his own loser stink. LakeArenal Feb 2021 #10
See if there's anything... cannabis_flower Feb 2021 #22
Well, if nothing else, he knows he got under your skin. cwydro Feb 2021 #11
Yeah. Fascism gets under my skin. Sue me for not just just watching my country creep to fascism? HardPort Feb 2021 #12
Don't feel bad PlanetBev Feb 2021 #13
I Have A MAGAt In My Neighborhood........... ChoppinBroccoli Feb 2021 #14
This is what I have been saying OldBaldy1701E Feb 2021 #17
And it is not illegal to laugh at someone. Irish_Dem Feb 2021 #41
Despite what Jeff Sessions might think. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Feb 2021 #63
I forgot about GOP rules. :( Irish_Dem Feb 2021 #65
Tip him to FBI, anonymously Pas-de-Calais Feb 2021 #18
👍 Joinfortmill Feb 2021 #19
The strain has been incredible, and I believe many of us are going to have to vent at some point. Martin68 Feb 2021 #20
Yep! That is exactly how it felt. Like my boiling point had finally been reached. HardPort Feb 2021 #25
He started filming with his phone? You do know how they operate, right? ancianita Feb 2021 #23
Do I know how they operate? I know they live inside a bubble. HardPort Feb 2021 #26
Fine. ancianita Feb 2021 #29
He'll probably send the video to his MAGAt friend's and you'll be the target of retribution. Kaleva Feb 2021 #38
He'll probably post it on Parler. Poiuyt Feb 2021 #46
I hope this doesn't come back at you. Demobrat Feb 2021 #24
It does cross one's mind; i'm pretty sure dude is ex-military. HardPort Feb 2021 #27
Never apologize for pushing back on a fucking Nazi. SunSeeker Feb 2021 #28
Definitely not apologizing. But acknowledging that I do have a tipping pt. re: fascism HardPort Feb 2021 #30
We drove by a house like that for a few years. LisaM Feb 2021 #31
Way to go EveDibb Feb 2021 #32
Well done! Jon King Feb 2021 #33
His side of the street is your side of the street, too. demosincebirth Feb 2021 #34
WINNER'S SIDE OF THE STREET DeSmet Feb 2021 #52
Ok demosincebirth Feb 2021 #67
Hint: P-Nutt Feb 2021 #35
I have some MAGA neighbors like that. Initech Feb 2021 #36
We have two idiots birdographer Feb 2021 #43
Derisive laughter is the most effective lunatica Feb 2021 #44
No offense greytdemocrat Feb 2021 #45
We drive by a few houses that still have Trump flags and signs. TNNurse Feb 2021 #47
Half a million dead Americans are saluting you from Heaven McCamy Taylor Feb 2021 #48
I'm proud of you, HF! Cha Feb 2021 #49
He'd say he's practicing the First Amendment. ClusterFreak Feb 2021 #50
Have a neighbor that finally took his down after inauguration. Woodwizard Feb 2021 #51
Not proud, not ashamed. hay rick Feb 2021 #53
I'm sorry you snapped. GreenEyedLefty Feb 2021 #54
I think I might agree such a reaction may just teinforce his belief that he is "owning the libs.' Beartracks Feb 2021 #55
Now that flag will stay up till it rots Raine Feb 2021 #59
Just fucking ignore him and his Trump flags. Blue_true Feb 2021 #60
This message was self-deleted by its author samplegirl Feb 2021 #61
Go have a huge picture of Nancy Pelosi samplegirl Feb 2021 #62
an idea I use LPBBEAR Feb 2021 #64

captain queeg

(10,140 posts)
1. Won't to any good, but I'm sure it felt good to get it out.
Sat Feb 20, 2021, 11:04 PM
Feb 2021

Those people are proud, they might as well have a sign out front saying “I am a stupid fuck, treasonous fool and am proud of it”.

Maraya1969

(22,474 posts)
42. Or you could put up a sign on your lawn saying "I live across the street from stupid"
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 03:39 PM
Feb 2021

Might take him a few months to figure it out though.

If you want to be gentler it could say, "I live across the street from gullible"

About 2 blocks from me there are 3 houses sitting next to and across from each other, each with Trump Pence 2020 signs up. I walk past them a lot and I've stopped and taken pictures but then I've gotten afraid that they might have guns and shoot me.

On second thought you did good but stop your advance - he is probably crazy.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
15. Maybe you should print up small yard signs with
Sat Feb 20, 2021, 11:56 PM
Feb 2021
I am a stupid fuck, treasonous fool, and am proud of it and place them in the yards of those with Trump flags.

50 Shades Of Blue

(9,961 posts)
2. Why even engage with him. It's only a fucking flag. Ignore it.
Sat Feb 20, 2021, 11:06 PM
Feb 2021

Better to be sorry you ignored it than sorry you didn't.

AZ8theist

(5,449 posts)
16. Agreed.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:01 AM
Feb 2021

There is a guy down the street from me (not my neighborhood, but on my way to work) who had a GIANT Trump Pence sign on the front of his house. Finally took it down after 1/6, but....

Now has a "FUCK BIDEN" flag on his flagpole.

Irredeemable, ignorant, imbecilic, fucking scumbags. EVERY.SINGLE. DOTURD. SUPPORTER.

Good on you to laugh right in the jerkoffs face...

OMGWTF

(3,949 posts)
56. Perhaps there some anti-obscenity laws in your area.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 08:57 PM
Feb 2021

I can't imagine it's okay to post a giant "FUCK" for everyone to see. Those MAGAts are a klassy bunch.

AZ8theist

(5,449 posts)
66. Perhaps....but I think he took it down recently.....
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 11:46 PM
Feb 2021

But being a foul-mouthed Jersey bred asshole myself, it would be enormously hypocritical of me to object to the word "fuck".

It would be more my speed to spray paint his front lawn with "FUCK TRUMP"......

Irish_Dem

(46,822 posts)
39. You are right, but sometimes we just snap.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 03:35 PM
Feb 2021

I have found myself saying something to people who won't wear masks.
I have just had it with their stupidity.

diverdownjt

(701 posts)
57. Be careful...we already saw what could happen..
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 09:02 PM
Feb 2021

while shoveling snow...etc...you never know where someone else's breaking point is.

Irish_Dem

(46,822 posts)
58. Yes I know anyone can carry a gun or become violent.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 09:14 PM
Feb 2021

I am careful and remain polite.
And point out how not wearing a mask can result in illness.
And who wants to get sick.

Irish_Dem

(46,822 posts)
40. I decided after Jan 6th, I am going to speak out more when these idiots present themselves.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 03:36 PM
Feb 2021

I am so done with their insurrection and criminal and immoral behavior.

Snarkoleptic

(5,997 posts)
7. Shame is more likely to get the flags down, as many trump dead-enders
Sat Feb 20, 2021, 11:34 PM
Feb 2021

have been immunized against facts and logic.

Well done!

LakeArenal

(28,812 posts)
10. We won. He lost. He's wallowing in his own loser stink.
Sat Feb 20, 2021, 11:37 PM
Feb 2021

Why should you have to watch?

If would check zoning on exactly what you can have in your yard as permanent fixtures. Huge signs or flags my be prohibited or have a maximum.

If nothing there talk to legal aid. Maybe you have a case for infringement of your ability to enjoy life.

Just file a small claims anyway. Maybe you get some relief. But making him go to court might b a bigger hassle than he wants.

Or just ignore him.

Good luck. I would hate to see it everyday.

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
13. Don't feel bad
Sat Feb 20, 2021, 11:48 PM
Feb 2021

We’ve all been pushing it down for a long time. Yesterday, my brother went off on a friend who keeps emailing him Right Wing nut ball propaganda. He’s asked him before not to send him that shit, be it keeps coming. These people are relentless in their quest for you to drink their Kool Aid.

ChoppinBroccoli

(3,784 posts)
14. I Have A MAGAt In My Neighborhood...........
Sat Feb 20, 2021, 11:52 PM
Feb 2021

............who still flies his Trump flag every day and still has his stupid yard sign in the yard. This is the same guy who painted up a "yard sign" that was really a 4x8 sheet of plywood for Romney in 2012, and literally put like 100 yards signs in his yard urging everyone to vote no on a school levy several years ago (no kidding, there was a like a sign on every square foot of his yard, and they all said the same thing--apparently he thinks that signs count as votes or something). So, as you can see, he's a real stand-up guy.

Whenever I drive past his house, I fly my own flag. The one-finger one. And I loudly laugh, "HA HA HA!!! LOSER!!!" He probably doesn't even see it, but it makes ME feel better. And maybe it helps in some small way to pile up negative energy on the property or something. I don't know. But I like it, and that's all that matters.

OldBaldy1701E

(5,112 posts)
17. This is what I have been saying
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:10 AM
Feb 2021

Laugh at them. Publicly. Loudly. Make sure others laugh as well. If you want to get under their skin, remove any semblance of respect and laugh at them.

Martin68

(22,776 posts)
20. The strain has been incredible, and I believe many of us are going to have to vent at some point.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:24 AM
Feb 2021

You did so non-violently, and that is a good thing. I'm tryingg to maintain and relate with Magots, but I suspect I'll just have to let some of it out one of these days.

HardPort

(1,474 posts)
25. Yep! That is exactly how it felt. Like my boiling point had finally been reached.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:39 AM
Feb 2021

And being at the end of a run with my adrenaline going probably had a role to play too -- thanks!

ancianita

(36,014 posts)
23. He started filming with his phone? You do know how they operate, right?
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:32 AM
Feb 2021

You really think this is the end of it?

HardPort

(1,474 posts)
26. Do I know how they operate? I know they live inside a bubble.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:43 AM
Feb 2021

As an inhabitant of the actual world, I'm not too worried... and if he actually managed to push the record button with his fat maga fingers, i will be happy to be seen laughing and ridiculing his culty flapping fabric. Are you suggesting that the potential for maga intimidation should keep me from speaking my mind?

ancianita

(36,014 posts)
29. Fine.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:49 AM
Feb 2021

Of course you can speak your mind. Just be aware of possible repercussions; maga intimidations isn't one of them.
I can describe a couple of those, but won't if you think I'm being inappropriate.

Best of luck in the future.

Kaleva

(36,291 posts)
38. He'll probably send the video to his MAGAt friend's and you'll be the target of retribution.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 06:17 AM
Feb 2021

Stay safe and be aware of your surroundings.

Demobrat

(8,968 posts)
24. I hope this doesn't come back at you.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:36 AM
Feb 2021

Those people are nuts. The whole time I was reading your post I was thinking I hope the nutcase doesn’t have a gun. Sucking it up gets old and I’m sure it felt great to finally let it all out but I hope you won’t let this escalate. They are not worth it.

HardPort

(1,474 posts)
27. It does cross one's mind; i'm pretty sure dude is ex-military.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 12:45 AM
Feb 2021

But he has a golden retriever, and a calico cat, so I don't peg him as a murderer, just a poor misguided soul.

LisaM

(27,800 posts)
31. We drove by a house like that for a few years.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 01:09 AM
Feb 2021

After the third year, his neighbors - who never had anything out - most have had enough, because they wrote Feliz Navidad on their window with spray on snow.at Christmas. I got a big chuckle out of that.

Trump guy still has his flag and "Thank You America" sign up even now, of course, along with a bunch of other claptrap. The neighbors now have one small Black Lives Matter sign.

EveDibb

(34 posts)
32. Way to go
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 01:22 AM
Feb 2021

Trump flags are confederate flags. Before the election every Trump flag that I Saw I would stop and tell them I only had southern blood in me I was glad they were fighting for the confederacy and the South would rise again and they were on the side of sedition and slavery. They didn’t like that. I still have my sign that says Southern Belle who thinks racist Yankees are dingdong‘s enough is enough make racism wrong again. People do not like being called racist but that is what they are. For the first time my neighbors did not put up a sign.

Once this snow melts and I can take walks again I will say to every person who still has a Trump flag up as a southerner I know a racist when I see one.

Freedom of speech works both ways.

Jon King

(1,910 posts)
33. Well done!
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 01:47 AM
Feb 2021

Anyone left supporting him at this point has given up all rights to be considered anything but a clown.

Initech

(100,059 posts)
36. I have some MAGA neighbors like that.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 02:10 AM
Feb 2021

They are fervent MAGA supporters at that. And I really want to tell them how I feel about Trump and everything that's going on. Right now in California we also have the Recall Newsom campaign that's going on. I have wanted to unload my frustrations with everything political going on, but so far have restrained myself from doing that.

birdographer

(1,322 posts)
43. We have two idiots
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 06:18 PM
Feb 2021

at the end of our dead-end road where it meets the road into town. One has a gigantic trump banner (keep America great 2020) hanging on the fence along his driveway near our road, so we get to see that every time we come and go. The other cretin has one of those flags with trump's head on Rambo's body (+gun). My main thought is how utterly embarrassing that should be for them as the various delivery people come and go from the road. Why not just display an "I am incredibly stupid" banner and be done with it?

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
44. Derisive laughter is the most effective
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 06:32 PM
Feb 2021

Make sure your neighbor sees you in a jovial good mood all the time. Smile and laugh every time you look at his house.

Nothing is a better weapon than to laugh at fake he men. Everything they do is to intimidate. Laughter kills that dead.

greytdemocrat

(3,299 posts)
45. No offense
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 06:49 PM
Feb 2021

But if I saw my neighbor acting like you
did I'd think they were nuts.

I don't see you having gained anything.

Just my 2 cents.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
47. We drive by a few houses that still have Trump flags and signs.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 07:31 PM
Feb 2021

I live in the country, so I may make a certain hand gesture as I drive by. But would never do anything like you did. I am pretty sure most of the are armed.

GreenEyedLefty

(2,073 posts)
54. I'm sorry you snapped.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 08:13 PM
Feb 2021

It would be difficult to live across the street from someone like that. The neighbor is engaging in attention-seeking behavior and sees every reaction as further justification for continuing to fly their freak flags. I truly believe the best way forward is to simply ignore. Pretend he does not exist.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
60. Just fucking ignore him and his Trump flags.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 10:04 PM
Feb 2021

They have orgasms when we lose our shit, that is exactly what they want to see.

Response to HardPort (Original post)

samplegirl

(11,474 posts)
62. Go have a huge picture of Nancy Pelosi
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 10:42 PM
Feb 2021

blown up for your front window. That will be more revenge than anything you can say!

I know how you feel I’m sandwiched in between a trumper to the right and one to left!

Hang in there I do know it’s hard to look at.

LPBBEAR

(295 posts)
64. an idea I use
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 11:00 PM
Feb 2021

Get a couple old used wireless routers. Set the SSID to something insulting like "Trump Supporters are mental midgets". You don't even have to hook them up to the Internet. Since he is just across the street he will see them anytime he uses a wireless device and looks at the list of available wireless networks.

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