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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsNot proud ... I finally lost it with my maga neighbor today ...
Dude is the kind of guy who blasts his music at 8 a.m. on a Saturday.
He put up a dotard 2020 flag AFTER January 06, and sometimes displays two. And he takes it down at night and puts it back up every day
Needless to say, since the numbnut lives right across the street from me, I have to see this shit in my neighborhood every day, and I guess today I had kind of reached my limit; as I was returning from my morning run, I saw dude, flags a flappin', out in his yard, and while I was still a few houses away I went into a real loud "fake" laugh and yelling, "Trump what a f-ing loser, hahahaha, what a piece of s---," etc. I can be super loud when I want to and have a patented "laugh" my kids could tell you about. And when I was directly across the street from his house, I dropped to my knees and started slapping the pavement in mirthful enjoyment of how stupid someone would have to be to fly that hideous banner.
Meanwhile, Trumper started filming with his phone.
So I told him he was flying the flag of a cop killer. And I chanted "cop killer" at him through gusts of laughter and derision. Then, since he used to fly an SD/LA Chargers flag, I told him he should put it back up because even the chargers aren't as big losers as the dotard.
Then I went home, with a wicked smirk on my face. One of my other neighbors asked me if I had gotten it all out. That remains to be seen.
I'm not proud of the incident; let's face it, I kind of snapped, but only after months (years) of this kind of shit. Nevertheless, I do feel well within my rights to have voiced my opinion in my own way. If he is going to broadcast racism and hatred in my neighborhood, he needs to expect some pushback, no?
Also, for the record, I NEVER threatened him or even got close to him; I stayed on my side of the street. If he had reported me to the cops, the most he would have been able to say is that I laughed at his flag, and used some potty language.
captain queeg
(10,140 posts)Those people are proud, they might as well have a sign out front saying I am a stupid fuck, treasonous fool and am proud of it.
HardPort
(1,474 posts)Maraya1969
(22,474 posts)Might take him a few months to figure it out though.
If you want to be gentler it could say, "I live across the street from gullible"
About 2 blocks from me there are 3 houses sitting next to and across from each other, each with Trump Pence 2020 signs up. I walk past them a lot and I've stopped and taken pictures but then I've gotten afraid that they might have guns and shoot me.
On second thought you did good but stop your advance - he is probably crazy.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,839 posts)50 Shades Of Blue
(9,961 posts)Better to be sorry you ignored it than sorry you didn't.
HardPort
(1,474 posts)AZ8theist
(5,449 posts)There is a guy down the street from me (not my neighborhood, but on my way to work) who had a GIANT Trump Pence sign on the front of his house. Finally took it down after 1/6, but....
Now has a "FUCK BIDEN" flag on his flagpole.
Irredeemable, ignorant, imbecilic, fucking scumbags. EVERY.SINGLE. DOTURD. SUPPORTER.
Good on you to laugh right in the jerkoffs face...
OMGWTF
(3,949 posts)I can't imagine it's okay to post a giant "FUCK" for everyone to see. Those MAGAts are a klassy bunch.
AZ8theist
(5,449 posts)But being a foul-mouthed Jersey bred asshole myself, it would be enormously hypocritical of me to object to the word "fuck".
It would be more my speed to spray paint his front lawn with "FUCK TRUMP"......
50 Shades Of Blue
(9,961 posts)Raine
(30,540 posts)Irish_Dem
(46,822 posts)I have found myself saying something to people who won't wear masks.
I have just had it with their stupidity.
diverdownjt
(701 posts)while shoveling snow...etc...you never know where someone else's breaking point is.
Irish_Dem
(46,822 posts)I am careful and remain polite.
And point out how not wearing a mask can result in illness.
And who wants to get sick.
magicarpet
(14,144 posts)HardPort
(1,474 posts)Irish_Dem
(46,822 posts)I am so done with their insurrection and criminal and immoral behavior.
Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)mind you were a 10!
HardPort
(1,474 posts)Snarkoleptic
(5,997 posts)have been immunized against facts and logic.
Well done!
HardPort
(1,474 posts)LakeArenal
(28,812 posts)Why should you have to watch?
If would check zoning on exactly what you can have in your yard as permanent fixtures. Huge signs or flags my be prohibited or have a maximum.
If nothing there talk to legal aid. Maybe you have a case for infringement of your ability to enjoy life.
Just file a small claims anyway. Maybe you get some relief. But making him go to court might b a bigger hassle than he wants.
Or just ignore him.
Good luck. I would hate to see it everyday.
cannabis_flower
(3,764 posts)In your homeowners association rules. They can get pretty picky.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)HardPort
(1,474 posts)PlanetBev
(4,104 posts)Weve all been pushing it down for a long time. Yesterday, my brother went off on a friend who keeps emailing him Right Wing nut ball propaganda. Hes asked him before not to send him that shit, be it keeps coming. These people are relentless in their quest for you to drink their Kool Aid.
ChoppinBroccoli
(3,784 posts)............who still flies his Trump flag every day and still has his stupid yard sign in the yard. This is the same guy who painted up a "yard sign" that was really a 4x8 sheet of plywood for Romney in 2012, and literally put like 100 yards signs in his yard urging everyone to vote no on a school levy several years ago (no kidding, there was a like a sign on every square foot of his yard, and they all said the same thing--apparently he thinks that signs count as votes or something). So, as you can see, he's a real stand-up guy.
Whenever I drive past his house, I fly my own flag. The one-finger one. And I loudly laugh, "HA HA HA!!! LOSER!!!" He probably doesn't even see it, but it makes ME feel better. And maybe it helps in some small way to pile up negative energy on the property or something. I don't know. But I like it, and that's all that matters.
OldBaldy1701E
(5,112 posts)Laugh at them. Publicly. Loudly. Make sure others laugh as well. If you want to get under their skin, remove any semblance of respect and laugh at them.
Irish_Dem
(46,822 posts)OldBaldy1701E
(5,112 posts)Irish_Dem
(46,822 posts)Pas-de-Calais
(9,904 posts)Joinfortmill
(14,408 posts)Martin68
(22,776 posts)You did so non-violently, and that is a good thing. I'm tryingg to maintain and relate with Magots, but I suspect I'll just have to let some of it out one of these days.
HardPort
(1,474 posts)And being at the end of a run with my adrenaline going probably had a role to play too -- thanks!
ancianita
(36,014 posts)You really think this is the end of it?
HardPort
(1,474 posts)As an inhabitant of the actual world, I'm not too worried... and if he actually managed to push the record button with his fat maga fingers, i will be happy to be seen laughing and ridiculing his culty flapping fabric. Are you suggesting that the potential for maga intimidation should keep me from speaking my mind?
ancianita
(36,014 posts)Of course you can speak your mind. Just be aware of possible repercussions; maga intimidations isn't one of them.
I can describe a couple of those, but won't if you think I'm being inappropriate.
Best of luck in the future.
Kaleva
(36,291 posts)Stay safe and be aware of your surroundings.
Poiuyt
(18,122 posts)Demobrat
(8,968 posts)Those people are nuts. The whole time I was reading your post I was thinking I hope the nutcase doesnt have a gun. Sucking it up gets old and Im sure it felt great to finally let it all out but I hope you wont let this escalate. They are not worth it.
HardPort
(1,474 posts)But he has a golden retriever, and a calico cat, so I don't peg him as a murderer, just a poor misguided soul.
SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)We should all be doing what you did.
HardPort
(1,474 posts)LisaM
(27,800 posts)After the third year, his neighbors - who never had anything out - most have had enough, because they wrote Feliz Navidad on their window with spray on snow.at Christmas. I got a big chuckle out of that.
Trump guy still has his flag and "Thank You America" sign up even now, of course, along with a bunch of other claptrap. The neighbors now have one small Black Lives Matter sign.
EveDibb
(34 posts)Trump flags are confederate flags. Before the election every Trump flag that I Saw I would stop and tell them I only had southern blood in me I was glad they were fighting for the confederacy and the South would rise again and they were on the side of sedition and slavery. They didnt like that. I still have my sign that says Southern Belle who thinks racist Yankees are dingdongs enough is enough make racism wrong again. People do not like being called racist but that is what they are. For the first time my neighbors did not put up a sign.
Once this snow melts and I can take walks again I will say to every person who still has a Trump flag up as a southerner I know a racist when I see one.
Freedom of speech works both ways.
Jon King
(1,910 posts)Anyone left supporting him at this point has given up all rights to be considered anything but a clown.
demosincebirth
(12,536 posts)DeSmet
(257 posts)...might be a nice sign for your yard.
demosincebirth
(12,536 posts)Magats hate rainbows!
Initech
(100,059 posts)They are fervent MAGA supporters at that. And I really want to tell them how I feel about Trump and everything that's going on. Right now in California we also have the Recall Newsom campaign that's going on. I have wanted to unload my frustrations with everything political going on, but so far have restrained myself from doing that.
birdographer
(1,322 posts)at the end of our dead-end road where it meets the road into town. One has a gigantic trump banner (keep America great 2020) hanging on the fence along his driveway near our road, so we get to see that every time we come and go. The other cretin has one of those flags with trump's head on Rambo's body (+gun). My main thought is how utterly embarrassing that should be for them as the various delivery people come and go from the road. Why not just display an "I am incredibly stupid" banner and be done with it?
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Make sure your neighbor sees you in a jovial good mood all the time. Smile and laugh every time you look at his house.
Nothing is a better weapon than to laugh at fake he men. Everything they do is to intimidate. Laughter kills that dead.
greytdemocrat
(3,299 posts)But if I saw my neighbor acting like you
did I'd think they were nuts.
I don't see you having gained anything.
Just my 2 cents.
TNNurse
(6,926 posts)I live in the country, so I may make a certain hand gesture as I drive by. But would never do anything like you did. I am pretty sure most of the are armed.
McCamy Taylor
(19,240 posts)Cha
(297,048 posts)ClusterFreak
(3,112 posts)So are you.
Don't sweat it.
Woodwizard
(841 posts)hay rick
(7,603 posts)GreenEyedLefty
(2,073 posts)It would be difficult to live across the street from someone like that. The neighbor is engaging in attention-seeking behavior and sees every reaction as further justification for continuing to fly their freak flags. I truly believe the best way forward is to simply ignore. Pretend he does not exist.
Beartracks
(12,806 posts)Raine
(30,540 posts)and then he'll replace it ...
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)They have orgasms when we lose our shit, that is exactly what they want to see.
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samplegirl
(11,474 posts)blown up for your front window. That will be more revenge than anything you can say!
I know how you feel Im sandwiched in between a trumper to the right and one to left!
Hang in there I do know its hard to look at.
LPBBEAR
(295 posts)Get a couple old used wireless routers. Set the SSID to something insulting like "Trump Supporters are mental midgets". You don't even have to hook them up to the Internet. Since he is just across the street he will see them anytime he uses a wireless device and looks at the list of available wireless networks.