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senseandsensibility

(17,023 posts)
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 08:31 PM Feb 2021

I don't know if anyone else feels this way

but I don't like it when longtime DUers change their usernames. One of the things I like about DU is recognizing oldtimers like me (I've been here since 2004), even if they are members I don't have a lot of interaction with. It gives this site a sense of community and history. I don't know if I will recognize their new names. I will miss their old personas. Just my opinion. Maybe no one else feels that way.

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I don't know if anyone else feels this way (Original Post) senseandsensibility Feb 2021 OP
I ABSOLUTELY feel the same. hlthe2b Feb 2021 #1
Absolutely. It's obviously their decision, senseandsensibility Feb 2021 #2
If they have journal entries prior to the name change, their old name is displayed. Make7 Feb 2021 #3
Good to know... hlthe2b Feb 2021 #5
I would think it would depend on the nature of the change. soldierant Feb 2021 #41
I have never changed mine in 16 years. Laelth Feb 2021 #4
+1 and... JoeOtterbein Feb 2021 #40
Yes, thank you. Laelth Feb 2021 #50
it's a once every 4 or more years one time thing IbogaProject Feb 2021 #6
Yeah, keeping it in the profile area is a good idea. senseandsensibility Feb 2021 #8
Welcome to DU MustLoveBeagles Feb 2021 #20
Keeping their old user names in the profile ChazII Feb 2021 #56
Change is hard. cachukis Feb 2021 #7
and often, change is good! NewHendoLib Feb 2021 #19
Better for those ready. cachukis Feb 2021 #38
I asked the admins if it would be possible to create a post... lastlib Feb 2021 #9
Rabble-rousers will still rouse rabble Generic Brad Feb 2021 #10
I understand both sets of feelings. madaboutharry Feb 2021 #11
There you go making sense senseandsensibility Feb 2021 #15
Same here. MuseRider Feb 2021 #12
Just so you know Muse... momta Feb 2021 #26
So good to know MuseRider Feb 2021 #36
Some of them made sense, but I no longer recognize some names...and a few are pretty odd! Karadeniz Feb 2021 #13
I think bdamomma Feb 2021 #14
I feel that way to some extent. Mr.Bill Feb 2021 #16
I've got mine in my sig line, so it will be there after the 30 days ends NewHendoLib Feb 2021 #17
my former name was "Vetwife" Demonaut Feb 2021 #18
There is a "Vetwife" soldierant Feb 2021 #42
no, it was a poster her many years ago that got tomb stoned, she went off the deep end Demonaut Feb 2021 #43
OK, thanks. soldierant Feb 2021 #61
K and R Ferrets are Cool Feb 2021 #21
One DUer made a post announcing his name change. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2021 #22
I'm keeping mine. smirkymonkey Feb 2021 #23
Your moniker is epic...in my opinion. cayugafalls Feb 2021 #25
classic! SleeplessinSoCal Feb 2021 #33
Heh heh! smirkymonkey Feb 2021 #46
I'm currently converting it to an avatar...it just might replace my Biden Harris one. cayugafalls Feb 2021 #47
Eh....avatar came out kind of meh... cayugafalls Feb 2021 #48
i changed my username in 2016 after the infamous hack. AllaN01Bear Feb 2021 #24
didn't bother me until.......Demotex Skittles Feb 2021 #27
I certainly take your point, and agree to a point....but I'm ambivalent. BobTheSubgenius Feb 2021 #28
I'd feel bad about changing mine. Gore1FL Feb 2021 #29
and it is factual on balance from what I have read Celerity Feb 2021 #34
It's a bit of a bummer to me too but then I get the old brain working to learn the new names. Solly Mack Feb 2021 #30
Agreed. I find myself saying it is best to accept the changes thrown our way rather than getting c-rational Feb 2021 #31
I understand the feeling of missing old faces, so to speak. But then the new is fun because Solly Mack Feb 2021 #44
Your comment simply brought a smile to my face..."You learn something new about the old faces c-rational Feb 2021 #57
i don't like it either orleans Feb 2021 #32
Well, Sense and Sensibility is timeless. My old user name was PatrickforO, which PatrickforB Feb 2021 #35
Yes, same here. Duppers Feb 2021 #37
I was thinking about changing my name to... JoeOtterbein Feb 2021 #39
I was thinking of changing mine dflprincess Feb 2021 #45
I'd like to pose a question... flotsam Feb 2021 #49
I like "flotsam," if it helps LearnedHand Feb 2021 #62
I don't see the point of changing names. Needless confusion. (nt) Paladin Feb 2021 #51
Some user names can become less impactful over time, ... JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2021 #52
Exactly. Or sometimes over time they are no longer reflective Hortensis Feb 2021 #54
Thanks. senseandsensibility Feb 2021 #58
To me it's like when you go back to your supermarket one day and find that panader0 Feb 2021 #53
Hey, did you follow me and the hubby to the market senseandsensibility Feb 2021 #59
I don't want to be one of those old men wandering the parking lot, panader0 Feb 2021 #60
Maybe choose to see it as DU's rejection of totalitarian power. :) Hortensis Feb 2021 #55
If I changed my name, I suspect you'd figure out how who I was.. brooklynite Feb 2021 #63
I can't change my name...I am, who I am, who I am.... Stuart G Feb 2021 #64
Who are you again? nolabear Feb 2021 #65

hlthe2b

(102,236 posts)
1. I ABSOLUTELY feel the same.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 08:38 PM
Feb 2021

I can understand some wanting to and they have every right to do so... I just sort of wish most wouldn't.

But, I would add, I wish those who do would extend the time that their old and new name appears beyond 30 days by putting it in their sigline for, say a year?

senseandsensibility

(17,023 posts)
2. Absolutely. It's obviously their decision,
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 08:40 PM
Feb 2021

but I wish most of them would reconsider. It seems like in years past, people would do it if they were being harassed or had some extenuating circumstances.

Make7

(8,543 posts)
3. If they have journal entries prior to the name change, their old name is displayed.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 08:44 PM
Feb 2021

Edit to add example:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/~Bo%20Zarts

Scroll down and you can see the old username on previous journal posts.

soldierant

(6,854 posts)
41. I would think it would depend on the nature of the change.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 11:41 PM
Feb 2021

DemoTex to BoZarts - without reading his post on why, yes, that ould be very forgettable. But down a ways, one finds PatrickforO changed to PatrickforB - and How would you not recognize that?

Someone else had a name that was two words run together and changed it to the same two words with a space between. I doubt anyone will forget that.

If I changed mine, it would be to something I use almost everywhere else but which is very different from what I use here. I was tempted - but I think I won't.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
4. I have never changed mine in 16 years.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 08:46 PM
Feb 2021

That said, I assume that those who do change their names do so for good reasons.



-Laelth

IbogaProject

(2,811 posts)
6. it's a once every 4 or more years one time thing
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 08:56 PM
Feb 2021

It's a once every 4 or more years one time thing specifically for election themed usernames and for folks who have long since moved from their username location.

I learned awhile ago to avoid using a geographic mention in my usernames, as I had one that was based on my city, and I felt if I moved it wouldn't be cool to keep using it. Funny thing is I used a different form of my name in it so a few online friends were taken aback when I mentioned that I wasn't "Bob" in real life, I've always been called some form of Rob* or variations on my last name, which is a first name as well. I chose to use Bob to be aware that folks would have a different impression from brief online interactions than from real life.

Hopefully they keep the old username in the profile area, even if they drop the footer thing that mentions it for the name changers.

ChazII

(6,204 posts)
56. Keeping their old user names in the profile
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 10:15 AM
Feb 2021

is wonderful ideal It is a good compromise to when the 30 days are up.

lastlib

(23,222 posts)
9. I asked the admins if it would be possible to create a post...
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 08:59 PM
Feb 2021

...that would list old user names alongside the new user names, so we could have some kind of handy reference to folks who have made a change. Haven't seen a reply.

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
10. Rabble-rousers will still rouse rabble
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 09:00 PM
Feb 2021

Friends will still be friends. Ultimately, it will still remain the same DU in tone and flavor.

madaboutharry

(40,209 posts)
11. I understand both sets of feelings.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 09:01 PM
Feb 2021

I’ve been here since February 2003, 18 years! I like seeing old timers’ names too.

But I can understand someone feeling that they’ve outgrown a name or feeling a name doesn’t mean anything to them any longer.

momta

(4,079 posts)
26. Just so you know Muse...
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 10:25 PM
Feb 2021

I'm now "momta" (used to be "kag&quot ; "kag" are my actual initials, but when the orange menace stole those letters for his new campaign slogan, I couldn't help but want to distance myself.

"Momta" is what my son used to call me when he was middle school and went through his Lojban (artificial language) phase. I always kind of liked it.

There are people here on DU with whom I do not want to lose touch, and whose posts I look for. You are one of them.

MuseRider

(34,107 posts)
36. So good to know
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 11:23 PM
Feb 2021

who you were, your name story is precious and I will be able to remember that! I would like something like that too and use it as well. Thank you for bringing that up to me directly because I always loved your posts. I would have hated to lose your voice on the pages. Here is to another long bunch of years posting. I am thinking I might be able to make it 20 more years? That may be wishful thinking, I doubt these old fingers will manage that long! Anyway, here is to another decade at least . Thanks for letting me know this.

Mr.Bill

(24,284 posts)
16. I feel that way to some extent.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 09:57 PM
Feb 2021

But on a forum this large, as well as other forums I'm on, I honestly don't have enough room in this 67 year old memory bank to remember too many people anyway. I tend to focus on the topic more often than the person, although I have cultivated what I see as a few casual friendships here, mostly through PMs. That's more like an one-on-one conversation and triggers the memory a little better than a large discussion group.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,852 posts)
22. One DUer made a post announcing his name change.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 10:12 PM
Feb 2021

I found that really helpful, as I've known him under the old name for a number of years, but will be able to remember that the two are the same person.

Perhaps more name changers could do the same.

I've actually been here in more than one incarnation since late 2001, and I have memories of long-gone members. Sigh.

cayugafalls

(5,640 posts)
47. I'm currently converting it to an avatar...it just might replace my Biden Harris one.
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 12:46 AM
Feb 2021

Much love my friend...

AllaN01Bear

(18,187 posts)
24. i changed my username in 2016 after the infamous hack.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 10:22 PM
Feb 2021
we all had to change usernames and passwords . this is the current form of my username and i think it suits me fine .

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
28. I certainly take your point, and agree to a point....but I'm ambivalent.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 10:32 PM
Feb 2021

I have to say that, while it's obviously up to the individual, it's not my choice. I wanted to keep whatever tiny bit of recognition I might have and leave people who are even a bit familiar with me with at least a little bit of a chance to understand somewhat better what I'm saying.

Solly Mack

(90,763 posts)
30. It's a bit of a bummer to me too but then I get the old brain working to learn the new names.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 10:40 PM
Feb 2021

That's my silver lining anyway. Recognize/Connect the new names without need of the reminder at the bottom.

c-rational

(2,592 posts)
31. Agreed. I find myself saying it is best to accept the changes thrown our way rather than getting
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 10:45 PM
Feb 2021

upset.

Solly Mack

(90,763 posts)
44. I understand the feeling of missing old faces, so to speak. But then the new is fun because
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 12:06 AM
Feb 2021

the name change usually reflects a change in their life or another aspect of them as a person. Or the name they wished they had picked earlier.

You learn something new about the old faces you enjoy seeing so much. Sort of a getting to know them better.

That's a plus to me.

c-rational

(2,592 posts)
57. Your comment simply brought a smile to my face..."You learn something new about the old faces
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 11:55 AM
Feb 2021

you enjoy seeing so much." A wonderful way to view things. Enjoy your Saturday Solly Mack.

orleans

(34,051 posts)
32. i don't like it either
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 10:47 PM
Feb 2021

i never remember the name changes--or who was who
i just know i don't see the familiar name here anymore

-orleans (who was orleans from the get-go)

PatrickforB

(14,571 posts)
35. Well, Sense and Sensibility is timeless. My old user name was PatrickforO, which
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 11:12 PM
Feb 2021

stood for Patrick for Obama because the whole Obama thing was amazing. I posted often on Huffington Post from 2008 on, and that was my user name there, too. Then Huffpo got these horrible 'bots that would stop your post from showing up in the thread for a long time, thus taking all the fun out of it. Then they quit allowing comments all together.

In the meantime, I found Democratic Underground, and joined in April 2014. Since my user id had been PatrickforO, I just left it that way.

And then Trump won in '16 over Clinton, which was a nightmare, and we have had the four years of hellish darkness culminating in a pandemic that has killed half a million of us.

Now that Biden is president, I am gratified to see he has done a stunning job so far. If Congress can find the courage to get rid of the filibuster, Biden may very well turn into a downright transformational president. He has wildly exceed expectations so far, that is for sure. I like the guy more every day.

So, when the time came, I switched to PatrickforB - still similar, but not quite so dated. Sure, Obama is timeless, but Biden seems to be the president for the time, if you take my meaning.

So there you have it. Not too different, hopefully not too much for sense and sensibility

dflprincess

(28,075 posts)
45. I was thinking of changing mine
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 12:23 AM
Feb 2021

The older I get the "cuter" it seems. Actually, it was probably always a little too cute, but I let my teenage niece help me pick a name at the time. I decided, it's been DFLprincess for nearly 20 years, that's how people know me, so I decided to leave it.
(And the niece is nearly 35 now)

flotsam

(3,268 posts)
49. I'd like to pose a question...
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 04:08 AM
Feb 2021

I came here after the 2004 debacle and posted under the name "catnhatnh" for 12 years but got burned down in the Bernie Wars...so I learned my lesson and licked my wounds and reinvented myself as flotsam. I was considering trying to revert to the name I started with here or something close-what would you do?

LearnedHand

(3,387 posts)
62. I like "flotsam," if it helps
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 10:51 PM
Feb 2021

I always chuckle when I see your username. I remember your old username but only when you mentioned it.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,339 posts)
52. Some user names can become less impactful over time, ...
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 09:25 AM
Feb 2021

... such as user names like I_Hate_GWB or Trump_Sux or Fck_Nixon or Im_Voting_Obama.

Names time to formerly-current events are good candidates for change.

Some, like "senseandsensibility", are timeless classics.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
54. Exactly. Or sometimes over time they are no longer reflective
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 09:31 AM
Feb 2021

of the real person, maybe even kinda cringingly so. This amnesty is an alternative to leaving DU or creating a second membership to get rid of them. And of course to continued suffering.

senseandsensibility

(17,023 posts)
58. Thanks.
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 02:15 PM
Feb 2021

I admit it seems a little "highbrow" to me occasionally. I chose it because I really need to be reminded of the both the sense and the sensibility of life on a daily basis. And this applies to politics, too.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
53. To me it's like when you go back to your supermarket one day and find that
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 09:27 AM
Feb 2021

everything has been moved to a new aisle. You wander around a bit, but eventually figure
out where everything is. If I didn't keep my username the same, I might forget who I am.
P.S.--always park your car in the same area when you go to the market so you don't have to
walk around looking for it when you come out.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
60. I don't want to be one of those old men wandering the parking lot,
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 03:07 PM
Feb 2021

pushing a shopping cart, looking for my vehicle. It's very embarrassing.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
55. Maybe choose to see it as DU's rejection of totalitarian power. :)
Sat Feb 27, 2021, 09:44 AM
Feb 2021

This is a balancing act between maintaining the real utility of registered names and forcing members to keep names they don't like for years. And I like them for it. It's us.

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