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brooklynite

(94,502 posts)
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 10:53 PM Mar 2021

I don't like Andrew Cuomo...

I also don't HATE Andrew Cuomo. I've learned not to apply emotions to my candidate choices. I support and vote for people who can do a good job for me and the Country, AND can get re-elected to do the job again. When they can't I emotionlessly withdraw my support and place it elsewhere.

With respect to Andrew Cuomo, I wasn't a strong supporter, because he tended to be both a managerial bully and a micro-manager. That said, he was an easy re-elect because of the weak opponents put up by the Republicans.

With the combination of the nursing home scandal and the sexual harassment charges, I do not believe that Cuomo has good odds of getting re-elected for an extremely rare fourth term (the last was Nelson Rockefeller). He should resign in favor of Lt. Governor Hochul rather than give Republican a better chance of winning.

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I don't like Andrew Cuomo... (Original Post) brooklynite Mar 2021 OP
He's Had Quite A 12 Months sfstaxprep Mar 2021 #1
Same calls went out for Franken before investigations were done. I'll wait not wanting to uponit7771 Mar 2021 #2
hi elmer Groundhawg Mar 2021 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author uponit7771 Mar 2021 #39
Exactly. mzmolly Mar 2021 #13
+1, and the meat of the allegations don't look like fire-able offenses so far. An unwanted kiss uponit7771 Mar 2021 #41
A boss talking about sex with older men to a female subordinate sure will get you fired in the real Pongo Mar 2021 #54
I also prefer to wait for the investigation to finish. nt spooky3 Mar 2021 #18
It is the 3rd woman who came forward that may sink him, as she has a pic of problematic behaviour Celerity Mar 2021 #3
one wonders why his face is so red and nothing else is. head put on by photoshop? nt msongs Mar 2021 #5
if it is fake, then the New York Times is FUCKED Celerity Mar 2021 #15
I remember when the Wiener photos came out, some people desperately.... brooklynite Mar 2021 #23
I remember that. I wish men would stop this behavior. Especially Democratic politicians who should Pongo Mar 2021 #53
The Weiner photos were provided by Breitbart and O"Keefe so it was exceptionally reasonable dsc Mar 2021 #59
Looks like a doctored image to me. Talitha Mar 2021 #6
It's probably some red lighting. Claustrum Mar 2021 #8
Very light shades in her hair - OTOH, his face is on FIRE. Talitha Mar 2021 #14
better call the New York Times then, as they verified it (it is where the pic came from) Celerity Mar 2021 #17
Did the NY Times photographer take the picture, Talitha Mar 2021 #27
they vetted it for sure, zero chance they put their reputation on the line like that without due Celerity Mar 2021 #29
THe Thing About The Pic Is Me. Mar 2021 #7
That's it? Nothing sexual predatory nor criminal in that pic Budi Mar 2021 #9
I agree. mzmolly Mar 2021 #16
Can it be both though? Claustrum Mar 2021 #22
I'll wait for evidence of wrongdoing mzmolly Mar 2021 #25
It's a woman in that pic, Sur Zobra Mar 2021 #37
Right !?!?, this is getting bad uponit7771 Mar 2021 #40
it seems to started a cascade of calls for him to resign, righty or wrongly Celerity Mar 2021 #19
+1. It was a party, don't people touch and interact? radius777 Mar 2021 #20
Well mzmolly Mar 2021 #28
+1, there's someone literally posting we shouldn't get huggy in this ... uponit7771 Mar 2021 #46
Looks photo shopped. beaglelover Mar 2021 #12
take it up with the New York Times Celerity Mar 2021 #21
LOL. NY Times !! Budi Mar 2021 #36
big difference between an opinion writer and then the veracity of a pic, but you knew that Celerity Mar 2021 #45
This message was self-deleted by its author ahoysrcsm Mar 2021 #64
Nah, "I'd rather not" and shake his hand... this doesn't look like a fire-able offense uponit7771 Mar 2021 #42
not sure what 'I'd rather night and shake his hand' means, and I am not calling on him to resign, I Celerity Mar 2021 #47
Well, Trump handed him a shit show of a Covid mess with zero assist. Budi Mar 2021 #4
I kind of don't agree with the Al Franken comparisons. Claustrum Mar 2021 #11
Heck with the media. mzmolly Mar 2021 #26
You missed my main point. Claustrum Mar 2021 #30
I understand your point. mzmolly Mar 2021 #33
And there were posters (who still post here) on DU demanding Biden drop out. OnDoutside Mar 2021 #52
Which would have given us a Trump mzmolly Mar 2021 #55
Yup. A scary thought. OnDoutside Mar 2021 #57
"handsy or huggy" is what made Franken quit, I don't see that MeToo should turn into uponit7771 Mar 2021 #43
No shit. Media love love loves this shit. Especially since CPAC is over... Budi Mar 2021 #31
Right! mzmolly Mar 2021 #34
+1, but first it was talking about some Trump supporting golfers leg for 213423 days. Tragedy uponit7771 Mar 2021 #44
I do agree with the comparisons because one of the allegations was Franken squeezing love uponit7771 Mar 2021 #49
Let the investigation occur. Too bad all this pushback didn't occur for the former guy FloridaBlues Mar 2021 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author ExTex Mar 2021 #32
I think you are quite likely correct nt Celerity Mar 2021 #35
If you are in New York, I hope and pray that you vote for him... ahoysrcsm Mar 2021 #38
My husband and I will and so will a lot of NY residents because we remember Lady_Chat Mar 2021 #51
No Democrat should resign their position unless convicted of a felony. dalton99a Mar 2021 #48
+1, or fire-able offenses in the workplace IMHO. uponit7771 Mar 2021 #50
My feelings are similar, but there is still time for more investigation, which is always prudent Tom Rinaldo Mar 2021 #56
and what about people who voted for him and not her dsc Mar 2021 #58
Who "voted for him and not her"? brooklynite Mar 2021 #62
I would bet that a non trivial number of people who voted for that ticket couldn't dsc Mar 2021 #63
He should resign rownesheck Mar 2021 #60
... greenjar_01 Mar 2021 #61

sfstaxprep

(9,998 posts)
1. He's Had Quite A 12 Months
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 10:59 PM
Mar 2021

He went from a stable position as Governor of a significant State, to a potential Presidential nominee, and now someone who will likely lose if he runs for a 4th term.

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
2. Same calls went out for Franken before investigations were done. I'll wait not wanting to
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:01 PM
Mar 2021

... do the same shit different day and expect different result.

Response to Groundhawg (Reply #10)

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
41. +1, and the meat of the allegations don't look like fire-able offenses so far. An unwanted kiss
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 03:23 AM
Mar 2021

... happens a lot cheek or lips.

Yeah, I'll wait

 

Pongo

(4,170 posts)
54. A boss talking about sex with older men to a female subordinate sure will get you fired in the real
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 07:50 AM
Mar 2021

world. That has no business in the workplace. And you really think 'an unwanted kiss happens a lot?'
And you think that is ok? Nope.

Celerity

(43,317 posts)
3. It is the 3rd woman who came forward that may sink him, as she has a pic of problematic behaviour
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:05 PM
Mar 2021

She is very brave to come out and put herself in the firing line.

It seems to started a cascade of calls for him to resign, righty or wrongly

that is my only point

ETA the New York Times link (where the pic was first published)

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/03/01/nyregion/cuomo-harassment-anna-ruch.html

Anna Ruch said she felt “uncomfortable and embarrassed” when Mr. Cuomo placed his hands on her face and asked to kiss her.

brooklynite

(94,502 posts)
23. I remember when the Wiener photos came out, some people desperately....
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:28 PM
Mar 2021

Last edited Tue Mar 2, 2021, 10:28 AM - Edit history (2)

...dug into the metadata to PROVE they weren't real. Then Wiener confessed.

 

Pongo

(4,170 posts)
53. I remember that. I wish men would stop this behavior. Especially Democratic politicians who should
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 07:47 AM
Mar 2021

know better.

dsc

(52,155 posts)
59. The Weiner photos were provided by Breitbart and O"Keefe so it was exceptionally reasonable
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 10:22 AM
Mar 2021

to assume it wasn't on the up and up. The fact they were telling the truth for once in their wretched lives notwithstanding.

Talitha

(6,582 posts)
6. Looks like a doctored image to me.
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:11 PM
Mar 2021

Why is his face so red and no one else's is?

And what's that white reflection superimposed on his chin?

Something stinks.

Talitha

(6,582 posts)
14. Very light shades in her hair - OTOH, his face is on FIRE.
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:23 PM
Mar 2021

And there's red stuff on his collar.

Looks like a cheap photo-hack.

Talitha

(6,582 posts)
27. Did the NY Times photographer take the picture,
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:34 PM
Mar 2021

OR did the paper merely print a "contributed image"?

Celerity

(43,317 posts)
29. they vetted it for sure, zero chance they put their reputation on the line like that without due
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:38 PM
Mar 2021

diligence

Me.

(35,454 posts)
7. THe Thing About The Pic Is
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:12 PM
Mar 2021

That it's not a workplace incident nor do I think she worked for him unlike the other 2 who did work in his admin. Are we seeing an older guy hitting on a younger woman? Because he's Governor did she feel intimidated? Bottom line...all of this needs to be fully investigated.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
9. That's it? Nothing sexual predatory nor criminal in that pic
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:15 PM
Mar 2021

What? Has Cuomo had a chance to reply to what was happening when the pic was taken?

There's nothing in that pic that proves anything accusatory.
Nothing.

Claustrum

(4,845 posts)
22. Can it be both though?
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:27 PM
Mar 2021

It can very well be a political smear but at the same time, making kissing jokes and trying to kiss random women is problematic for a public figure.

At the end of the day, I want more context as I have no idea what the relationship is between Cuomo and the woman. If they are close, that interaction is fine. But if they met for the first time, then I think it's problematic.

Celerity

(43,317 posts)
19. it seems to started a cascade of calls for him to resign, righty or wrongly
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:26 PM
Mar 2021

that was my only point

radius777

(3,635 posts)
20. +1. It was a party, don't people touch and interact?
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:26 PM
Mar 2021

I've seen people pick others up and spin them around at parties. Her facial expression seems relaxed and smiling, as if having a good time, and there are lots of people around. Cuomo is also Italian, who are know to be more handsy and jovial folk.

Unless something actually damning comes out, I think Cuomo should fight this, as it sets an terrible precedent if people can just pile on to take down a powerful Dem. It is reminiscent of the women who claimed Biden was awkward around them etc, that culminated in the Tara Reid situation. It all just seemed 'timed' for political reasons. Biden stood firm and thank goodness he did.

mzmolly

(50,985 posts)
28. Well
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:35 PM
Mar 2021

stated.

Unless something actually damning comes out, I think Cuomo should fight this, as it sets an terrible precedent if people can just pile on to take down a powerful Dem. It is reminiscent of the women who claimed Biden was awkward around them etc, that culminated in the Tara Reid situation. It all just seemed 'timed' for political reasons. Biden stood firm and thank goodness he did.

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
46. +1, there's someone literally posting we shouldn't get huggy in this ...
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 03:36 AM
Mar 2021

... thread because #MeToo becomes #I'mConfortable, one women are being assaulted and raped the other people should speak up or set so clearer boundaries.

I have a problem when gone too far common social interactions are thrown in there with rape, assault, bosses taking advantage of people etc.

Response to Celerity (Reply #21)

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
42. Nah, "I'd rather not" and shake his hand... this doesn't look like a fire-able offense
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 03:24 AM
Mar 2021

Last edited Tue Mar 2, 2021, 04:07 AM - Edit history (1)

Celerity

(43,317 posts)
47. not sure what 'I'd rather night and shake his hand' means, and I am not calling on him to resign, I
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 03:37 AM
Mar 2021

simply was opining that this women with a pic (and the fact that it is now multiple women) seems to be causing more and more Dems to call for his resignation. Nothing more than that.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
4. Well, Trump handed him a shit show of a Covid mess with zero assist.
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:08 PM
Mar 2021

The sex complaints don't amount to criminal nor much else out of context with one side making a mad rush to deny him the right to his side of the story.

I refuse to believe the one sided singled out & targeted remarks against a man who has the right to be legally heard.

Its an election year coming soon & the timing has a definate pattern to it.

I'd rather not repeat the Sen Al Franken fk up.

Claustrum

(4,845 posts)
11. I kind of don't agree with the Al Franken comparisons.
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:20 PM
Mar 2021

Al Franken's allegations are from his comedian days and his whole persona was a frat boy doing stupid sexual suggestive acts. That's different than the Cuomo's allegations when he is a politician.

I think I've seen interviews of Cuomo saying he is a hugger/kisser. We do live in a different era and these kinds of interactions are highly problematic nowadays. Even Biden talked about how he is a hugger and it is not as acceptable nowadays than 20 or 40 years ago.

To be frank, if not for COVID, I thought there would be sexual harassment allegation for Biden in the 2020 cycle with his "inappropriate" hugs (no, I don't think Biden has any ill intention hugs but the media will make it seem that way).

Claustrum

(4,845 posts)
30. You missed my main point.
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:39 PM
Mar 2021

We live in the me-too era. We can't have politicians that gets handsy or huggy with people. Some interactions (like kisses or close hugs) are just better left only done with close friends, not some random people you first met in a party or political events. You never know who in the crowd is out to get you and make a story to kill your political career.

mzmolly

(50,985 posts)
33. I understand your point.
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:48 PM
Mar 2021

Here's mine - Joe Biden is our President because we/he didn't allow accusations to eliminate him from consideration.

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
43. "handsy or huggy" is what made Franken quit, I don't see that MeToo should turn into
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 03:30 AM
Mar 2021

... #I'mUncomfortable when people are being raped and physically assaulted ... they're not the same thing, not even on the same level imho.

I do agree with you when it comes to don't let people touch anyone anymore cause that's what this is turning into.


 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
31. No shit. Media love love loves this shit. Especially since CPAC is over...
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:46 PM
Mar 2021

Next up...Cuomo drama!...

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
44. +1, but first it was talking about some Trump supporting golfers leg for 213423 days. Tragedy
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 03:31 AM
Mar 2021

... but HR1 is being brought to front and we still have 1500 people dying a day from a virus a malignant sociopath let spread uncontrolled.

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
49. I do agree with the comparisons because one of the allegations was Franken squeezing love
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 04:11 AM
Mar 2021

.. handles too hard and that too me isn't a fire-able offense but something to tell the person about personally.

These pics don't seem like a #MeToo moments seeing some people are people raped and assaulted and people taking advantage of authority.

#I'mUncomfortable isn't #MeToo

"no, I'd rather not" and shake his hand seemed appropriate in the moment

FloridaBlues

(4,007 posts)
24. Let the investigation occur. Too bad all this pushback didn't occur for the former guy
Mon Mar 1, 2021, 11:29 PM
Mar 2021

From Dems and republicans when 21 woman came forth for worse actions.
Don't think he should resign before investigations finish. Would like to know what NY voters feel about this would be interesting.

Response to brooklynite (Original post)

ahoysrcsm

(787 posts)
38. If you are in New York, I hope and pray that you vote for him...
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 01:46 AM
Mar 2021

If you are in New York, I hope and pray that you vote for him when he runs again for Governor. We can't let another Governor seat fall to a republican.

Lady_Chat

(561 posts)
51. My husband and I will and so will a lot of NY residents because we remember
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 06:03 AM
Mar 2021

Just thinking back to what things were like here a year ago. It was hell on earth. My husband would come home from his shift physically and emotionally exhausted, from the number of so many people dying, it was hard to keep up, and they were running out of PPE. There was no direction from the federal government, including finding the necessary PPE and ventilators that were so desperately needed, that was left up to the states. Cuomo was calm, reassuring, intelligent, well informed. He explained to New York just what we had to do bring this under control, and people trusted and listened. This saved a lot of lives. He wasn't afraid to wear a mask and encouraged it. He had a lot on his plate and he handled it extremely well. People all over the country started listening to his press conferences and they were paying attention too. He brought other governors together to try and plan what they could do to get through this crisis, with little federal help. The alternative was Trump, how this wasn't "serious", how everyone would be back in church by Easter, how wearing a mask, was something he would never do and how it took away your freedom and they should rebel, how great he was he was, how it was all lies, and to go drink bleach. For the actions Cuomo took during this pandemic I will always be grateful.

Now I know these women have a right to be heard, even though I question their accusations. There are a lot of republicans that would love to see Cuomo gone as well as some Democrats on their own power trip. But I hope this Democratic party doesn't do what they did to Franken, and urge him to resign quickly, with no support and not allowing him a chance to be heard.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,912 posts)
56. My feelings are similar, but there is still time for more investigation, which is always prudent
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 10:07 AM
Mar 2021

...unless Cuomo admits that his behavior was inappropriate and voluntarily steps aside. It's a dangerous precedent to be able to drive powerful figures out of office based solely on a handful of allegations without establishing first that those allegations have a sufficient basis to be believed. My own gut is that Cuomo will not fair well in a real investigation, and if that is the case he must be replaced.

dsc

(52,155 posts)
58. and what about people who voted for him and not her
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 10:19 AM
Mar 2021

she is, by any account, vastly more conservative than he is (and he was no bargain for progressives). To take one issue, she is in favor of religious restrictions on LGBT marriages he is not. Thus, if a judge is religious, he doesn't have to marry two men or two women. If the issuer of licenses in your jurisdiction is religious no license for you. She is also against most sensible gun laws. Elections shouldn't be overturn because we might lose the next one. I agree he should be primaried if he chooses to run again but elections should matter.

brooklynite

(94,502 posts)
62. Who "voted for him and not her"?
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 10:31 AM
Mar 2021

They both ran in 2018 and were both elected.

As for: "she is, by any account, vastly more conservative than he is", I can think of someone vastly more conservative than SHE is: a Republican winning in 2022.

dsc

(52,155 posts)
63. I would bet that a non trivial number of people who voted for that ticket couldn't
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 10:52 AM
Mar 2021

pick her out of a line up, and that the number who voted for her and were indifferent to him could fit in a phone booth. I agree he shouldn't run, but he was elected, she wasn't, at least not in any meaningful sense of the word. It also should be noted, that say this were NC, we have a republican, a Trump Republican, Lt Gov. If we have three people say this stuff about Cooper should every AA voter in our state accept having voting rights here gutted for a generation or two?

rownesheck

(2,343 posts)
60. He should resign
Tue Mar 2, 2021, 10:27 AM
Mar 2021

when trump is tried and convicted for his hundreds of thousands of crimes, which include rape, falsifying tax records, accessory to murder, inciting a riot, treason, etc.

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