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brush

(53,776 posts)
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 05:04 PM Mar 2021

I think the Royal Family is playing with fire by going after Meghan and Harry.

I mean one of the royals wore a blackamoor brooch to the wedding, an unmistakably racist shot across bow of the royal couple and an intimation as to what was to come. And the British press and various spokespeople followed up with insults and slights—none of which Prince William and his wife received.

I think "the Firm" will be sorry they started this.

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I think the Royal Family is playing with fire by going after Meghan and Harry. (Original Post) brush Mar 2021 OP
The brooch was not worn at the wedding (still, wtf?!). demmiblue Mar 2021 #1
It wasn't worn at the wedding? Was it to the reception then, because I distinchly remember... brush Mar 2021 #4
It was at a Christmas banquet, prior to their wedding. demmiblue Mar 2021 #7
She's some kind of collateral relative, isn't she? Certainly not part of the nuclear family... Hekate Mar 2021 #21
Her father was a Nazi AwakeAtLast Mar 2021 #26
It's racism plain and simple. And I'm sure it didn't stop with that twit. brush Mar 2021 #37
Liz and Phil will be dead soon and none of this will matter. Mr.Bill Mar 2021 #2
Charles, And Then William, Will Have To COL Mustard Mar 2021 #3
Look how the Duke & Duchess of Windsor ended up. kskiska Mar 2021 #5
The difference is, Meghan is a likeable person Bev54 Mar 2021 #8
An interesting article discussing the Duke and Duchess's ties to the Nazis Kaleva Mar 2021 #9
I would not bet on Liz departing soon. Her mother made it past 100. nt Hekate Mar 2021 #23
A Pedophile Prince barely was a speed bump. dilby Mar 2021 #6
I've read Harry still keeps in contact with QE and PP maryellen99 Mar 2021 #10
From what I had read, him and the Queen were (are) very close. Blue_true Mar 2021 #33
Agree. Harry and Meghan will be fine too in America. Here at least we know... brush Mar 2021 #11
I see a parallel to modern rethugs captain queeg Mar 2021 #12
What do you mean by "the Royal Family is...going after Meghan and Harry"? pandr32 Mar 2021 #13
Calm down. It was a pretty obvious clash of cultures. Meghan, an American Black woman... brush Mar 2021 #14
If staff are not up to snuff you report it and get them replaced pandr32 Mar 2021 #24
Look at it from the viewpoiint of an American. Better yet, an American Black woman. brush Mar 2021 #29
Unless you are an African American, you have no idea how some words and Blue_true Mar 2021 #34
It's just interesting that it comes out right before the Oprah interview. What a coinkydink... FlyingPiggy Mar 2021 #20
Agreed pandr32 Mar 2021 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Mar 2021 #35
Aide that complains goes from Asst Communication Sec to CEO of Royal Foundation Mary in S. Carolina Mar 2021 #15
Meanwhile the Royal Pedaphile???? Mary in S. Carolina Mar 2021 #16
+1. Andrew retains all perks and patronages despite being erased Arazi Mar 2021 #28
I think it proves Harry's point. Corgigal Mar 2021 #17
His military service record is intact pandr32 Mar 2021 #27
Thank you for your information. Corgigal Mar 2021 #32
You are welcome pandr32 Mar 2021 #38
Agreed 100%. I think Charles and William are now the instigators for the Meghan bullying Arazi Mar 2021 #18
I'm not sure how it will go but it's really brutal stuff BannonsLiver Mar 2021 #19
It's rougher because of the racism factor. That wasn't there with Diana. brush Mar 2021 #22
Here is my theory cally Mar 2021 #30
You nailed it. And neither Harry nor Meghan are fools. brush Mar 2021 #31
I'm very disappointed in the Royal Family MustLoveBeagles Mar 2021 #36

brush

(53,776 posts)
4. It wasn't worn at the wedding? Was it to the reception then, because I distinchly remember...
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 05:14 PM
Mar 2021

a prominent story in the press about it?

Hekate

(90,674 posts)
21. She's some kind of collateral relative, isn't she? Certainly not part of the nuclear family...
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 06:35 PM
Mar 2021

So it’s not a “statement” from “the royal family,” it’s just really really rude. Every family is cursed with one of those.

kskiska

(27,045 posts)
5. Look how the Duke & Duchess of Windsor ended up.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 05:20 PM
Mar 2021

Exiled.

In December 1936, The King gave up his throne and an Empire of half a billion souls so he could wed a woman who was divorcing her second husband.
The public vitriol spewed on his bride-to-be, Wallis Simpson, might strike a chord with the latest American to marry into Britain's royal family.
On top of being condemned as a social climber from a Baltimore, Maryland, row-house, Simpson was reviled as a cheap adventuress, a lesbian, a nymphomaniac, a Nazi spy and a hermaphrodite.

............

Like Harry and Meghan, Edward and Wallis hobnobbed with Hollywood royalty, hosting movie stars such as Richard Burton and Marlene Dietrich at their French country retreat.

Edward had little to do other than play golf. He professed no regrets about his 11-month reign, though his stories too often began with the words: "When I was King..."

He blamed everyone but himself for his abdication, from Prime Minister Stanley Baldwin to the Queen Mother.
"Twenty years I worked for my country and they kicked me out on my ass," the embittered duke told a friend.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
6. A Pedophile Prince barely was a speed bump.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 05:21 PM
Mar 2021

They Royals will continue and be completely fine, Meghan and Harry are lucky to have escaped that vipers nest. Best thing Harry ever did was give Granny the middle finger and tell her his Family comes before her job for him.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
33. From what I had read, him and the Queen were (are) very close.
Fri Mar 5, 2021, 12:01 AM
Mar 2021

Even though she is a traditionalist, she is also a grandmother.

brush

(53,776 posts)
11. Agree. Harry and Meghan will be fine too in America. Here at least we know...
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 05:38 PM
Mar 2021

racism when we see it, and Meghan, an American Black woman, wasn't having it. She put up with it for a while but soon said "to hell with this crap."

captain queeg

(10,188 posts)
12. I see a parallel to modern rethugs
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 05:41 PM
Mar 2021

H&M would be the flip side of the coin, opposite those who would toss out their family and friends to remain in power. Not that the modern royalty is in a position of power but certainly privilege and wealth.

pandr32

(11,581 posts)
13. What do you mean by "the Royal Family is...going after Meghan and Harry"?
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 05:41 PM
Mar 2021

The investigation into a complaint made in 2018 that made it into the press and involved two staff members at Kensington Palace being pushed out of their formal positions there and a third feeling bullied is not a trivial matter. The hiring and placement of royal staff goes through Buckingham Palace. To not investigate these staff complaints would be unthinkable.

brush

(53,776 posts)
14. Calm down. It was a pretty obvious clash of cultures. Meghan, an American Black woman...
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 05:48 PM
Mar 2021

was not going to stand for subtle and not-so-subtle British racism. I'm glad they got the hell out of that situation.

pandr32

(11,581 posts)
24. If staff are not up to snuff you report it and get them replaced
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 08:01 PM
Mar 2021

What is being investigated is whether or not she bullied her staff.
If racism was the problem I am sure it will be exposed.
I am not in need of calming down, by the way.

brush

(53,776 posts)
29. Look at it from the viewpoiint of an American. Better yet, an American Black woman.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 11:26 PM
Mar 2021

Last edited Fri Mar 5, 2021, 12:05 AM - Edit history (1)

Now, do ya think the timing of the news that there is an investigation being undertaken of the Duchess' bullying of staff is just a coincidence, or is it to preempt the broadcasting of the interview of the Duchess by Oprah Winfrey and get the royal's story out there first?

I think it's the latter. And after what was done to Princess Di by that family, I think I'll believe the American Black woman (and btw, Black women are always saving our asses on this side of the pond) as to what is what. I mean why would anyone want to live the rest of their life having to live with snide, racist remarks about who you are and not being worthy to be part of the royal family?

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
34. Unless you are an African American, you have no idea how some words and
Fri Mar 5, 2021, 12:05 AM
Mar 2021

behaviors can make you feel put down. Maybe Meghan could have handled it better, but I can understand why she could not also.

Response to FlyingPiggy (Reply #20)

 

Mary in S. Carolina

(1,364 posts)
15. Aide that complains goes from Asst Communication Sec to CEO of Royal Foundation
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 06:09 PM
Mar 2021

So let me get this straight, Jason Knauf, an Assistant Communications Secretary to Megan, now complains about Megan bullying him and other "females" (women can speak for themselves) and then gets a very recent promotion to CEO of the Royal Foundation. Please. If a female aide complained about Harry bulling her, she would be fired - give me a break.

Arazi

(6,829 posts)
28. +1. Andrew retains all perks and patronages despite being erased
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 10:37 PM
Mar 2021

Hope he's imprisoned soon. Biden's DOJ won't cover up Andrew's shit

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
17. I think it proves Harry's point.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 06:17 PM
Mar 2021

He loves his wife, and he has an idea about what his momma went through. Should make him an honorary American. Still never thought they should of taken away his military service record, didn’t think anyone should be able to do that unless you receive due process.

I hope the kids will be alright.

pandr32

(11,581 posts)
27. His military service record is intact
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 08:19 PM
Mar 2021

He is a veteran who served honorably. Nobody can take that from him, or should.
He loses his honorary military titles (patronages) because he can no longer fulfill the ongoing duties expected of wearing those uniforms, and they require a lot of time and commitment. The Queen held them in suspension for a year before reappointing those duties to other people. She wanted to make sure Prince Harry was sure he would not return first.

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
32. Thank you for your information.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 11:57 PM
Mar 2021

I feel a bit better about it then, because he earned that no matter what his blood line says.

Arazi

(6,829 posts)
18. Agreed 100%. I think Charles and William are now the instigators for the Meghan bullying
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 06:28 PM
Mar 2021

I believe Harry would have stuck it out if the racism was coming from Liz and Philip. They'll be dead soon.

But when it came from those who would be his boss (and Meghan's boss) for the rest of their lives, he decided to leave.

The royalty gig isn't any different than the Hollywood celebrity gig once it's all stripped to its essence.

Meghan and Harry can do good works here or there but at least now they call their own shots without enduring a lifetime of family spite. Tbh, I honestly have wondered if Charles and William were jealous of Harry and Meghan's popularity in the UK. They have the "Diana" magic that none of the rest of them have.

The family in the UK look petty and and vicious. Good. Finally exposed (again) but with the added impetus of Diana's experiences that continually demonstrate their ugly history

BannonsLiver

(16,370 posts)
19. I'm not sure how it will go but it's really brutal stuff
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 06:30 PM
Mar 2021

They’re attacking her core argument that she was bullied out of the country by accusing her of being a bully. It’s a nasty bit of business but tactically probably their only play if they want to be aggressive. But for people who can read between the lines, and can understand that the palace leaked the story about the investigation into her alleged bullying of staff it just looks really bad for the family.

I also think the leak to the Times was done as much for international audiences as it was intended for people in the UK. I think most people in the UK have been conditioned by their media to dislike Meghan already. But she and Harry are still popular in the US.

In some ways this is much rougher stuff than the Charles-Diana wars of the 90s.

brush

(53,776 posts)
22. It's rougher because of the racism factor. That wasn't there with Diana.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 06:35 PM
Mar 2021

Last edited Fri Mar 5, 2021, 12:41 AM - Edit history (1)

Harry and Meghan got the hell out. IMO they did the right thing. Who needs to put up with that crap for the rest of their lives?

cally

(21,593 posts)
30. Here is my theory
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 11:47 PM
Mar 2021

I think the firm went after Meghan to build up Kate and William. Too many stories made Meghan the wicked witch and the Kate the perfect demure white English Princess. This started when rumors of Williams affair surfaced. Most of William and Harry’s life the Firm would do similar stories on William and Harry where Harry was the rowdy one and William responsible. I think Harry wanted out and did not want to live his life as a foil to his older brother and his family

brush

(53,776 posts)
31. You nailed it. And neither Harry nor Meghan are fools.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 11:54 PM
Mar 2021

Harry wasn't going for that crap and Meghan certainly wasn't up for forever having to deal with the racism of being the witch who could never live up to be worthy of being a royal.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,599 posts)
36. I'm very disappointed in the Royal Family
Fri Mar 5, 2021, 12:31 AM
Mar 2021

I knew the unsavory elements of the press had it in for them but their own family too? That's so sad especially after the way Meghan's father and siblings acted. I guess the royal family wanted Meghan an Harry to suffer in silence and they weren't having any of it.

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