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It can be done. (Original Post) madamesilverspurs Mar 2021 OP
its been 8 years for me demtenjeep Mar 2021 #1
Great news! elleng Mar 2021 #2
Congratulations. Quit almost 30 years ago. One of best things I've done. Hoyt Mar 2021 #3
I'll celebrate 20 years on June 10. Took me a thousand tries. Totally worth every one of them. Squinch Mar 2021 #4
Yeah! MLAA Mar 2021 #5
Right on! Rver Mar 2021 #6
35 years for me gblady Mar 2021 #7
Same here! Duppers Mar 2021 #22
18 years for me. No drink either. padfun Mar 2021 #8
Twelve years ago! WVreaper Mar 2021 #9
Glad I'm Rver Mar 2021 #10
Lol. Me too sometimes. Solomon Mar 2021 #36
It will be Timewas Mar 2021 #11
I think 24 for me CrackityJones75 Mar 2021 #12
Welcome to our DU family. niyad Mar 2021 #16
Thanks Niyad. CrackityJones75 Mar 2021 #35
Welcome to DU, CrackityJones75. ❤ nt littlemissmartypants Mar 2021 #30
Thanks Smarty! CrackityJones75 Mar 2021 #34
What a buncha quitters Hugh_Lebowski Mar 2021 #13
17 years for me Stinky The Clown Mar 2021 #14
I smoked for over 40 years Chautauquas Mar 2021 #15
I quit September 2, 2007 dflprincess Mar 2021 #17
Yes, it can. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #18
Happy Anniversary! 42 years here. Yes, it can be done. Took me several years KPN Mar 2021 #19
I'm a month away from 12. Gore1FL Mar 2021 #20
June 3 I will be 20 years smober. Matt Finnish Mar 2021 #21
16 years here... Tikki Mar 2021 #23
July 28, 2015. James48 Mar 2021 #24
My last was Memorial Day 1976. soldierant Mar 2021 #25
No...it wasn't easy!!! Hulk Mar 2021 #26
16 yrs don't miss them Historic NY Mar 2021 #27
It is an addiction Jimvanhise Mar 2021 #28
..... ailsagirl Mar 2021 #29
Wow! Congratulations to all of you. MontanaMama Mar 2021 #31
Excellent, madamesilverspurs! littlemissmartypants Mar 2021 #32
June 1st, 1980 at 10 a.m. I had my last cigarette. Best and hardest thing I ever did for myself. judesedit Mar 2021 #33
Yes!! Congratulations, mandamesilverspurs! BComplex Mar 2021 #37
 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
1. its been 8 years for me
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 10:40 PM
Mar 2021

so glad.

The last carton of cigs I bought were 78 bucks a carton. I was going through a carton and a half a week

Rver

(97 posts)
6. Right on!
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 10:52 PM
Mar 2021

I made it to 25 years last month. My uncle had a stroke back then. He was an over the road trucker so he sat a lot and smoked cigarettes. I told myself that I don't want to be like that when I'm 50. So far so good.
I remember during the 1st few weeks I was struggling, a guy at work called me a (fill in the blank) and I said "eff you! I'll show you!" I guess I'm still showing him
Good luck to all that have made it and to those that are trying.
Btw $5 /day×25 years = $45,625
That doesn't include inflation or the cost of health issues

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
22. Same here!
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 12:29 AM
Mar 2021

I've a 34yo son, my only offspring.

(The bfd is that he was born when I was almost 40 & had been a smoker for yrs. I've not lit up since that pregnancy test. )

WVreaper

(620 posts)
9. Twelve years ago!
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 10:57 PM
Mar 2021

St. Paddy's day twelve years ago, I had a heart attack. Obviously, i survived. At least a pack a day smoker. I tried various methods quitting smoking, it took the heart attack. Still it was a struggle. Actually did a double dose of the nicotine patch, two months instead of one on each level, to finally get weened of the nicotine addiction. Haven't looked back. In my dreams I will smoke cigarettes, and then wake up in the morning, what the fuck! Only to realize it was a dream. No desire to ever light up again, I'll just smoke them in my dreams.

Rver

(97 posts)
10. Glad I'm
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 11:03 PM
Mar 2021

Not the only one that dreams about that. There's been many of mornings with me thinking "what the hell did you do??? " Then I realize that I'm just waking up. Wow

 

CrackityJones75

(2,403 posts)
12. I think 24 for me
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 11:29 PM
Mar 2021

I quite in 97 right round my birthday.


I was pack and a half when I quit. I didnt have much money ad not a ot of food and I knew if I could find money I would buy smokes. I decided to quit right then. I realized just how evil those things are and took a paper towel and cleaned out all my ash trays and put the paper towels in a big glass jar. If I wanted one I would look at that jar and imagine that's what my lungs looked like. And if I really was craving I would open up the jar and force myself to take a big whiff of it.

YOuwill quit after that.

dflprincess

(28,075 posts)
17. I quit September 2, 2007
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 12:00 AM
Mar 2021

Chantx was a miracle drug for me. Never had a craving but I did miss the habit for a while.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
18. Yes, it can.
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 12:00 AM
Mar 2021

38 years for me. I once smoked a pretty strong brand, and, at one time, I was up to 50 a day.

I feel compelled to give you this caveat, though. Once you give it up for good, you can never let your guard down. You might feel like you have it beat and would never go back, but it is like other addictions. It will grab you again, given half a chance.

KPN

(15,642 posts)
19. Happy Anniversary! 42 years here. Yes, it can be done. Took me several years
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 12:13 AM
Mar 2021

of trying but finally stuck with it. Haven’t had a single smoke since April Fools Day 1979. If I could do it, so can anyone else.

James48

(4,435 posts)
24. July 28, 2015.
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 12:57 AM
Mar 2021

After 40 years of smoking, I had a heart attack and wound up in the VA Hospital in Washington DC. A week latter had triple bypass surgery.

I have not smoked since that day. It took four days to get rid of the enormous nicotine craving of a pack and a half a day smoker for 40 years- but a week later I felt like a new man.

soldierant

(6,847 posts)
25. My last was Memorial Day 1976.
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 01:00 AM
Mar 2021

What is that, 44 years going on 45? I only think of it when someone brings the subject up in some way.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
26. No...it wasn't easy!!!
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 01:18 AM
Mar 2021

...and I quit several times before I finally quit. Numerous relapses...but after numerous attempts, I beat it. And I am nothing special when it comes to self discipline.

If you are trying or wanting to quit...keep quitting. Eventually you will quit. It doesn't come easy, but if I did it...YOU CAN TOO!

It's been 30+ years ago now. But I still remember how hard it was to quit.

Jimvanhise

(301 posts)
28. It is an addiction
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 01:32 AM
Mar 2021

It is never stressed enough that cigarettes are a drug addiction, but the smoker is not addicted to tobacco, they are addicted to the drug additives in cigarettes. I had a friend who quit and he said that ten years later if he walked into a room where people were smoking, the craving would come alive in his brain. In 1971 I attended a talk given by Rod Serling who held up his cigarette and said he'd tried to quit but that "it's a monkey on my back," which is old drug addiction parlance. He died of a heart attack when he was only 50. Such a loss.

MontanaMama

(23,307 posts)
31. Wow! Congratulations to all of you.
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 01:41 AM
Mar 2021

I’ve never smoked....but my dad did....almost my whole childhood. He moved us to Montana the summer before my 13th birthday. I hated it here at first...I didn’t have a friend in the world. For my birthday I asked my dad to quit smoking...I told him I was afraid he would die and I would have no one if he did. He quit smoking that day. It was the greatest gift.

littlemissmartypants

(22,632 posts)
32. Excellent, madamesilverspurs!
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 01:50 AM
Mar 2021

I smoked 40 years and quit cold turkey ten years ago. I still don't have a clue how I did it so effortlessly after three prior attempts, that in one instance, made me think I was going to kill my mother. That's how agitated I became.

One day I took a look at the last cig in the pack I had and through it all away. I didn't gain any weight and haven't had a craving. I have had a couple of vivid smoking dreams though.

Congratulations on your milestone. It's a laudable event for sure!

judesedit

(4,437 posts)
33. June 1st, 1980 at 10 a.m. I had my last cigarette. Best and hardest thing I ever did for myself.
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 06:11 AM
Mar 2021

It'll be 41 years this year. Congrats to you!

BComplex

(8,044 posts)
37. Yes!! Congratulations, mandamesilverspurs!
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 03:52 PM
Mar 2021


You're damned right it can be done!

After smoking from age 16 to 31, I quit for 19 years.

Then I came upon a really emotionally stressful period in my life at the age of 50, and was STUPID enough to ask for a cigarette....which hooked me right back. After that cigarette, I smoked for 8 more years, about 4 packs a day.

I quit again in 2008, and I'll never make that stupid mistake again.

The idea that we can't quit is only the addiction speaking.

When you're really ready, you CAN quit.
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