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niyad

(113,213 posts)
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 09:45 AM Mar 2021

Is it time to bring back the "safety pin movement"? In a thread from yesterday on the violence

against Asians, DU'er aggiesal said "sign me up to protect Asians, Blacks, LGBTQ. . . " I was reminded of the "safety pin movement" from several years ago. "I am a safe person. I will help you." And I had just run across mine several days ago.

Would something like this be of any use? What can we, as concerned, involved people, let others know that they are not alone. And let the racist, misogynist, hate-filled monsters know they will not go unchallenged.

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Is it time to bring back the "safety pin movement"? In a thread from yesterday on the violence (Original Post) niyad Mar 2021 OP
i feel that all the groups you mentioned need to take a self defense course , like AllaN01Bear Mar 2021 #1
In several previous OP's about male violence against women, I asked if we need to train every niyad Mar 2021 #7
There is a Krav Maga center in Boston that offers courses to women, always free. FailureToCommunicate Mar 2021 #15
Yes, it would help in being able to quickly spot an ally that could stand with you...... FM123 Mar 2021 #2
Exactly. niyad Mar 2021 #13
It sure looks like it. ananda Mar 2021 #3
Same here. I actually had a librarian at my local branch hug me when she saw mine. I often saw niyad Mar 2021 #6
People should just stand up and help when they see racist violence, not wear a sign that performs WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2021 #4
You kind of missed the last part of my OP. Specifically about sending a message to the haters that niyad Mar 2021 #5
The feedback I heard was that the safety pin was almost totally performative. WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2021 #8
That's exactly what I've read and observed. I wasn't a member here but it was during that time that Treefrog Mar 2021 #10
And yet here in fundieville, many people knew exactly what it meant, and many people were niyad Mar 2021 #12
I guess I just don't get the point of wearing a pin every day if I already know I would speak up in Treefrog Mar 2021 #14
It seems like a constructive thing to do... Hugin Mar 2021 #9
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. niyad Mar 2021 #11
I'm betting there's more than a few of those cats out there, even now. Hugin Mar 2021 #18
I was just talking with one such yesterday. He and his group are doing simply wonderful, loving, niyad Mar 2021 #20
I was just thinking the same thing nuxvomica Mar 2021 #16
Exactly. niyad Mar 2021 #17
Yes, it's time. NellieStarbuck Mar 2021 #19
It is just so damned sad that this is needed. niyad Mar 2021 #21
No kidding. calimary Mar 2021 #22
. . . niyad Mar 2021 #23

niyad

(113,213 posts)
7. In several previous OP's about male violence against women, I asked if we need to train every
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:13 AM
Mar 2021

female on the planet to martial arts black belt level.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,012 posts)
15. There is a Krav Maga center in Boston that offers courses to women, always free.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:08 PM
Mar 2021

Krav Maga is taught in Israel to people of all ages and abilities.

It may not be as elegant as some martial art forms...but knowing some WILL get you out of many situations. Yes, even against guns.

ananda

(28,856 posts)
3. It sure looks like it.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:00 AM
Mar 2021

I wore a safety pin for several months after Trump was elected.

I think I will do so again.

I like it when people ask me about it and I can explain why.

niyad

(113,213 posts)
6. Same here. I actually had a librarian at my local branch hug me when she saw mine. I often saw
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:10 AM
Mar 2021

smiles and nods when people saw it.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,315 posts)
4. People should just stand up and help when they see racist violence, not wear a sign that performs
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:00 AM
Mar 2021

allyship and makes others ask for help. Be an ally or friend, don't just say you're one.

niyad

(113,213 posts)
5. You kind of missed the last part of my OP. Specifically about sending a message to the haters that
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:06 AM
Mar 2021

people are willing to stand against them.

I have always been one NOT to stand silent and do nothing, but if wearing that pin will do any good, wear it I will.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
10. That's exactly what I've read and observed. I wasn't a member here but it was during that time that
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:26 AM
Mar 2021

I started reading the board. This was the only place I ever heard of it and none of my Dem friends had ever heard of it either. I seriously doubt that a ‘hater’ would know what it meant or even notice it. I know I don’t peruse everything a person is wearing. Best thing is to speak up, then everyone knows there is someone there willing to stand up and be counted.

niyad

(113,213 posts)
12. And yet here in fundieville, many people knew exactly what it meant, and many people were
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:41 AM
Mar 2021

wearing them. It is odd that the implication seems to be that one would not speak out if one was wearing such a pin, when I found the opposite to be true.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
14. I guess I just don't get the point of wearing a pin every day if I already know I would speak up in
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:45 AM
Mar 2021

any given situation? Hell, i barely remember my phone, much less remembering to attach a pin (and not losing track of it within a day too).

Hugin

(33,112 posts)
9. It seems like a constructive thing to do...
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:46 AM
Mar 2021

Back in the 80's I had a couple of incidents which have always stood out in my mind.

One incident was when what I considered to be an extremely conservative math professor (in those days 'conservative' wasn't synonymous with racist) quietly took a girl friend and I aside to show us that embargoed South African steel was being used in a nearby project.

I've never been sure how he derived that I would have the influence and attitude to do something about it, which I did.

Hugin

(33,112 posts)
18. I'm betting there's more than a few of those cats out there, even now.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:16 PM
Mar 2021

But, they feel overwhelmed.

They are honest enough with themselves to realize they aren't what they consider liberal for one reason or another, but, are conservative enough to believe everyone should get to live their life the way they see fit.

These people are definitely not these neo-liberal libertarians who seem to make up most of the noise out there.

niyad

(113,213 posts)
20. I was just talking with one such yesterday. He and his group are doing simply wonderful, loving,
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:24 PM
Mar 2021

good and decent things, yet would never call themselves anything but conservatives. He asked me once if I was on old hippie. I said no, because that implies that I was once, but am not now. He thought that was funny.

nuxvomica

(12,419 posts)
16. I was just thinking the same thing
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:13 PM
Mar 2021

I'm gonna start wearing one again. It doesn't seem as useful now because I don't get out much but if the sight of it allows someone to relax even just a little bit it's worth doing.

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