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Maraya1969

(22,477 posts)
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:45 AM Mar 2021

So I just left this review for a restaurant in town that has Fox playing all the time

Last edited Sat Mar 20, 2021, 02:30 PM - Edit history (1)

"They play racist propaganda on their TV all day. That has no place anywhere, especially in a neighborhood diner. I'm sure pasty white people are welcomed here. Everyone else should be cautious."


EDIT: - I changed the review and removed the "Pasty" from pasty white people.

And as an aside, I am a white woman. I have referred to myself as a "pasty white lady" many times. Maybe it is just a self deprecating joke and I didn't realize other people might not read it that way.

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So I just left this review for a restaurant in town that has Fox playing all the time (Original Post) Maraya1969 Mar 2021 OP
Back before covid, when we used to eat out... Ferrets are Cool Mar 2021 #1
I guess I'm just fresh out of fucks. I saw it and left and came home and wrote about it. Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #2
You called it a restaurant; luvtheGWN Mar 2021 #20
"Pasty White" Roy Rolling Mar 2021 #22
I totally take your point. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #31
My concern DownriverDem Mar 2021 #40
There are not many Democrats where I live, so it is a concern for us, too BelieveCassandra Mar 2021 #51
I don't take any chances. Master_Monstruwacan Mar 2021 #56
There's your sign! dchill Mar 2021 #61
Psst. He's gone. Let him go. Treefrog Mar 2021 #119
But he's still dangerous thucythucy Mar 2021 #124
Hitler was a helluva lot younger than the former occupant. He never even reached the former Treefrog Mar 2021 #125
True, and we can be thankful Trump hit on politics as a scam thucythucy Mar 2021 #130
Personally I think Don Jr is way too stupid, and that gf of his is a real liability. Treefrog Mar 2021 #131
I agree, with the one caveat that stupidity thucythucy Mar 2021 #132
Very very true. And we can never forget Palin! Treefrog Mar 2021 #134
I knew what she meant. Aristus Mar 2021 #36
Same here... AZ8theist Mar 2021 #97
I have been noticing more and more that professional places no longer yellowdogintexas Mar 2021 #44
as polarized as Americans are XanaDUer2 Mar 2021 #67
Same here. FYI: don't have one but there's a fun high tech device that will change the channel PortTack Mar 2021 #23
That would be fun Ferrets are Cool Mar 2021 #95
Oh it is fun RocRizzo55 Mar 2021 #111
That's fair. I'd want to know if Fox is on 24/7. The VA killed Fox at the Austin Clinic ... marble falls Mar 2021 #3
I went there a few months ago and it was playing. I still sat and ate. But lately Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #5
I don't take Fox lightly. No doubt: one way to avoid Russian influence is to avoid Fox. marble falls Mar 2021 #6
It's Blocked On Our Home TV ProfessorGAC Mar 2021 #86
I had to downgrade to Basic to get rid of it Rorey Mar 2021 #110
I don't tolerate it either. calimary Mar 2021 #45
You were eating indoors a few months ago? Tv would be the least of my worries at that point. Treefrog Mar 2021 #78
I was very far away from anyone. It was very much empty. Plus I kept my mask Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #82
Just about as bad is a local Wendy's hamburger joint Chainfire Mar 2021 #4
Reminds me of the time I was in Virginia for business USAFRetired_Liberal Mar 2021 #7
Mission bbq Action_Patrol Mar 2021 #17
Yep USAFRetired_Liberal Mar 2021 #27
What? hatrack Mar 2021 #96
It's a military vet owned and patriotic themed restaurant Blue_playwright Mar 2021 #106
Do they get pissed if someone doesn't stand? Polybius Mar 2021 #120
I have just enough deafness and tintinus to mishear the lyrics. It's actualy interesting ... marble falls Mar 2021 #9
"Long John Silver, mother and child". Person of Interest Mar 2021 #26
If you're eating at Wendy's it's already too late. They've got your soul. GoneOffShore Mar 2021 #10
Oh, I like their salads, which I take to the park tavernier Mar 2021 #35
That is the only thing I EVER get at Wendy's, the few times/year I go there for lunch.... HUAJIAO Mar 2021 #37
Wish I could find that dressing at the store. tavernier Mar 2021 #39
According to the interenet, Wendy's uses Marzetti Simply Dressed Salad Dressings csziggy Mar 2021 #63
I've googled already and pomegranate is only online tavernier Mar 2021 #69
There are recipes for Pomegranate Vinaigrette online csziggy Mar 2021 #71
Clue: Order the half portion. tavernier Mar 2021 #85
I mostly eat at home and make everything csziggy Mar 2021 #90
I'm a baked potato fan tavernier Mar 2021 #91
I guess if I were working and needed a good lunch, those wouldn't be too bad csziggy Mar 2021 #93
I like their taco salads and the fish sandwiches they sell during Lent. Crunchy Frog Mar 2021 #135
Not at all - We all have things that we like. GoneOffShore Mar 2021 #59
No, thats Chik Fil A! oldsoftie Mar 2021 #77
Lol Joinfortmill Mar 2021 #104
... Mike 03 Mar 2021 #8
I obviously need to get out more. I don't think I've eaten in a regular sit-down restaurant that has Treefrog Mar 2021 #11
I dislike restaurants with tee vees playin' Dream Girl Mar 2021 #13
Agreed. paleotn Mar 2021 #15
The same places tend to have everybody trying to over-talk the crowd Chainfire Mar 2021 #19
No, the only thing worse frazzled Mar 2021 #24
I have watched the same lildDemz Mar 2021 #33
my funny story re that... was working as a cashier bedazzled Mar 2021 #43
I like it when The Wizard Mar 2021 #107
Me, too, unless it's a sports themed place and the tvs are playing various sports. ShazzieB Mar 2021 #73
I'll make an exception for a bar particularly if there's a "big" game. Dream Girl Mar 2021 #76
Don't they all have TV's? Polybius Mar 2021 #121
When I workout at the YMCA USAFRetired_Liberal Mar 2021 #12
They feed off of it.... diverdownjt Mar 2021 #25
Can you think of something else MurrayDelph Mar 2021 #48
Its been awhile ago but I went into a Mexican restaurant blueinredohio Mar 2021 #14
if TV is on and not on FOX I always thank them. Funny story about TV in eateries yellowdogintexas Mar 2021 #46
I used to really like Denny's Delarage Mar 2021 #126
Got you beat for Trump diners. JohnnyRingo Mar 2021 #16
NW Pa, not too far from you. appleannie1 Mar 2021 #32
Looking at that image and scratching my head ShazzieB Mar 2021 #80
I like diners Delarage Mar 2021 #127
Yeah, but that might have just been a group who met there... JohnnyRingo Mar 2021 #129
I agree Delarage Mar 2021 #133
I just never go to restaurants with TVs frazzled Mar 2021 #18
I so agree with you. If anyone of our family had taken my mother to a restaurant with a tv blaring, Treefrog Mar 2021 #21
I don't even have the TV going while having a family dinner at home Major Nikon Mar 2021 #29
My daughter is a travel nurse. She thinks FOX should be banned from all hospitals. appleannie1 Mar 2021 #28
My friend was in a coma in ICU tavernier Mar 2021 #30
Years ago, a dear friend was in ICU, also in a coma. The second morning I went in, that garbage s niyad Mar 2021 #41
Great message, but the "pasty white people" jibe kind of devalues the point IMHO. Martin68 Mar 2021 #34
I always refer to myself as a "Pasty white lady" so there's that. Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #64
LOL! Martin68 Mar 2021 #88
Things are Changing - Deep Red State Mary in S. Carolina Mar 2021 #38
I might have used a few different words ... UpInArms Mar 2021 #42
During Bush II's Reign of Terror, I was staying at a very nice hotel in Orange County, CA OMGWTF Mar 2021 #47
I have had words with hotels MurrayDelph Mar 2021 #53
That drives me crazy. 99% of breakfast bars in hotels have Fox blaring captain queeg Mar 2021 #57
Two Diners in my VA-05 Town on my Sh_t List. djacq Mar 2021 #49
"pasty white people". Yeah, i'm sure that'll make them change. oldsoftie Mar 2021 #50
I am pasty white! it's just an expression but it you all think it insults white people... Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #66
Due to vitiligo, me too. Although it seems to be changing & not sure why oldsoftie Mar 2021 #75
Y'all need to whiten up about the pasty white remark. twodogsbarking Mar 2021 #52
I remember traveling from Florida to Texas and stopping at a Residence Inn in Mississippi USAFRetired_Liberal Mar 2021 #54
Wow! I never heard of such a thing. I'm so glad you wrote a review. Talk about Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #68
Doctors offices tend to play HGTV all day. Ilsa Mar 2021 #55
At my oncologist's office, Staph Mar 2021 #70
get one of these , tv b gone . a friend has the phone app and it goes through walls. AllaN01Bear Mar 2021 #58
How would you feel if someone did that to your tv? Treefrog Mar 2021 #122
Tried to do it for the only BBQ place here but was not allowed to talk about "politics". efhmc Mar 2021 #60
I'm pasty white and do not want to listen to Fox. My color has nothing to do with it. patricia92243 Mar 2021 #62
Do know of any black folks who'd listen to Fux? Duppers Mar 2021 #72
Around 8-10% of black people voted for Trump madville Mar 2021 #112
Unbelievable.... Duppers Mar 2021 #113
Sorry, but agree your review could be interpreted as racist. Hortensis Mar 2021 #65
Thank you for this response. Treefrog Mar 2021 #79
I fixed it. and edited the OP Thanks. Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #83
:) Hortensis Mar 2021 #92
My Dad who was olive competition to refer to it as burrowowl Mar 2021 #74
You trigged some white fragility iemanja Mar 2021 #81
This whole thread is making my head spin. What you said makes sense. Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #84
LOL I did the same thing to a hydroponics store TeslaNova Mar 2021 #87
How was the food? egduj Mar 2021 #89
Good on you for taking out "pasty." And for posting that review! Beartracks Mar 2021 #94
at a hotel in Phoenix, barbtries Mar 2021 #98
Once I had these guys with a small landscaping company cut a big tree down for me Maraya1969 Mar 2021 #105
I call myself a "little old lady" sometimes. I get a kick out of it... CTyankee Mar 2021 #99
I rarely see that in my community hunter Mar 2021 #100
How 'bout 'lily-white people' Lord Ludd Mar 2021 #101
This message was self-deleted by its author ExTex Mar 2021 #102
Businesses gotta know that some things are annoying or offensive. Good for you! nt Evolve Dammit Mar 2021 #103
👍👍👍 ailsagirl Mar 2021 #108
I would not have left a negative for that reason. I might not return but a negative should only be cstanleytech Mar 2021 #109
Never mind the fact that the op went back TWICE DURING A PANDEMIC to eat at a place she intended Treefrog Mar 2021 #123
Until the Trump virus twodogsbarking Mar 2021 #114
Just say Caucasian Mary Mac Mar 2021 #115
Do you live in the South? Rustyeye77 Mar 2021 #116
My local restaurant has it on all the time too Polybius Mar 2021 #117
Am radio around here is nothin but rad right bs... Maxheader Mar 2021 #118
truly someone didnt read my post AllaN01Bear Mar 2021 #128

Ferrets are Cool

(21,106 posts)
1. Back before covid, when we used to eat out...
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:48 AM
Mar 2021

I would ask them to change it to ESPN and if they wouldn't, we would leave.

luvtheGWN

(1,336 posts)
20. You called it a restaurant;
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:34 AM
Mar 2021

I'd call it a diner!

Back when we were allowed to cross the border into the US, it would drive me crazy not being able to find a classical music station on the car radio. It was all talk radio, C&W, gospel or hard rock. Even NPR was hard to find. We made sure to take our CDs with us!

You would never find a TV in a European restaurant, and here in the GWN, you'll usually only find TVs in sports bars. And our cable companies make you pay extra for Faux Noise, not part of the regular package (thank dog).

Roy Rolling

(6,911 posts)
22. "Pasty White"
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:37 AM
Mar 2021

Fox News is Russian government-oligarch propaganda, their mission is to divide Americans along racial, political, and social lines.

Many “pasty white” people like me have spoken up at businesses, doctors’ offices, and banks where FoxNews spews misinformation.

I understand the outrage, but white people are not the enemy.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
31. I totally take your point.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:53 AM
Mar 2021

The trouble is, we look quite a lot like the enemy. Not our fault, of course, but I do take that into consideration. It should be made clear, however, that this point you make is valid, and the suspicion your appearance engenders is not at all unlike the exact social ill being fought - judging people immediately, based on nothing but their appearance.

DownriverDem

(6,228 posts)
40. My concern
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:12 PM
Mar 2021

as a white American is that others might think I'm a crazy rightie trumper. I have asked before what should we do to let folks know I am a proud Democrat?

BelieveCassandra

(39 posts)
51. There are not many Democrats where I live, so it is a concern for us, too
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 01:02 PM
Mar 2021

For those of us who carry a purse, we attach a Joe Button or a Beto Button to our purse strap.

 
56. I don't take any chances.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 01:16 PM
Mar 2021

I never want to be mistaken for a Republican (I live in deep Trump country), so I wear my "FUCK TRUMP" baseball cap everywhere I go.

thucythucy

(8,045 posts)
124. But he's still dangerous
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 10:00 AM
Mar 2021

as long as he has a following.

Not to be hyperbolic, but the political consensus in 1923 was that Hitler was toast after his failed coup attempt.

As long as a third of Americans regard him as their savior, we face a risk to the essence of our democracy. And there are still his sociopathic grifting children to consider. The threat he and his ilk pose is far from over.

Luckily the man is both aged and dim-witted. In a very real sense his incompetence saved us from an even worse catastrophe. Of course, it was his incompetence that also led to the needless deaths of hundreds of thousands of Americans.

Difficult for me or anyone who suffered under his regime to just "let him go."

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
125. Hitler was a helluva lot younger than the former occupant. He never even reached the former
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 10:13 AM
Mar 2021

occupant’s current age.

thucythucy

(8,045 posts)
130. True, and we can be thankful Trump hit on politics as a scam
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 11:19 AM
Mar 2021

at such a late age.

Ivanka and Don Jr., on the other hand...

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
131. Personally I think Don Jr is way too stupid, and that gf of his is a real liability.
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 11:35 AM
Mar 2021

I fervently hope that the days of that family in our government are finished. I do think the horrid man is losing power quickly.

thucythucy

(8,045 posts)
132. I agree, with the one caveat that stupidity
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 11:38 AM
Mar 2021

has never been a disqualifying character trait in American politics.

The fact that Dan Quayle was for four years only one heartbeat away from the presidency still brings chills to my spine.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
134. Very very true. And we can never forget Palin!
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 12:27 PM
Mar 2021

We’ve got a bumper crop of new dumbasses in the House, aren’t we lucky?

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
44. I have been noticing more and more that professional places no longer
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:24 PM
Mar 2021

play any news. They have switched to things like HGTV or Food Channel. The local doc-in-the box had Disney movies. We were in there one night for a bad chest cold (turned out to be bronchitis that was near pneumonia) and we watched The Little Mermaid.

PortTack

(32,754 posts)
23. Same here. FYI: don't have one but there's a fun high tech device that will change the channel
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:42 AM
Mar 2021

Without touching the tv.

 

RocRizzo55

(980 posts)
111. Oh it is fun
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 06:50 AM
Mar 2021

To see their face when all of a sudden MSNBC is on!
Very cheap things, these remotes. They can also turn the damn thing off!
Available at any of those cheap Chinese websales sites.

marble falls

(57,075 posts)
3. That's fair. I'd want to know if Fox is on 24/7. The VA killed Fox at the Austin Clinic ...
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:56 AM
Mar 2021

... and at Temple VA hospital four years ago. Hasn't been any yelling or altercations since. Seriously, it really lightened the whole atmosphere.

Maraya1969

(22,477 posts)
5. I went there a few months ago and it was playing. I still sat and ate. But lately
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:58 AM
Mar 2021

I just can't deal with any of it.

Plus I just read the information about how so much of this is Russian propaganda. I don't think any of it should be taken lightly.

ProfessorGAC

(64,995 posts)
86. It's Blocked On Our Home TV
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 04:57 PM
Mar 2021

I put in a parental PIN. I didn't even look at the screen or remote. Just 8 random numbers. Excluded no TVs including the Stream app. Nobody can watch Faux at my house. Not even me because I have no idea what the pin is!

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
110. I had to downgrade to Basic to get rid of it
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 06:33 AM
Mar 2021

It was included in every package of cable offered.

Many years ago I got to a point where I just couldn't stomach any FOXNews at all, and my husband was fine with it. Then he started spending more and more time with my brother, going on fishing trips to North Dakota where there are a LOT of rightwingers. He started watching FOXNews when I wasn't around, and then it started getting so bad that if I left the room for just a few minutes, I'd come back and find he had switched the channel to it.

We argued a lot about it, and then when Comcast raised their rates yet again, I told him that we just needed to get rid of cable altogether. I paid the bills, and it was in my name. When I went in to stop service, I was offered a package with the cable internet, which I intended to keep for business purposes, along with the most bare-bones television, for less than just cable. So of course I took it.

I was out and about doing things before my husband got out of bed the next morning. When I came home and walked in the door, he was sitting in his chair staring straight ahead, absolutely fuming. He couldn't even tell me what his effing problem was. I finally figured out it was because his precious propaganda television channel was gone.

We've been divorced for two years. I am happy and my life is peaceful.

calimary

(81,211 posts)
45. I don't tolerate it either.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:30 PM
Mar 2021

I’ve asked that the channel be changed, too, when the TV somewhere has Pox Noise on. Vigilance!

I don’t let it go. I sorta feel like I’m on a mission.

Maybe it’s because I spent more than 20 years in the news biz. And I and everyone so worked with at some really serious and respected news outlets was always incredibly conscious of always getting it right, making sure it was truthful. accurate, agenda-free, and as objective as possible. That detestable channel and its vile little wannabe clones have done more to foul the nest than almost any other entity or individual aside from trump or limbaugh. I feel rather personally affronted when I see how they’ve distorted and almost literally shat upon the facts, the reality, and THE TRUTH. They’ve done an EXTREME disservice to our country.

I just hope the damage isn’t irreparable.

Maraya1969

(22,477 posts)
82. I was very far away from anyone. It was very much empty. Plus I kept my mask
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 03:54 PM
Mar 2021

on until I actually ate and it was only a bowl of chili.

When I stopped in yesterday there were a lot of people there. It is very different now.

Chainfire

(17,530 posts)
4. Just about as bad is a local Wendy's hamburger joint
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:58 AM
Mar 2021

That plays Christian Music around the clock.

It ain't good enough to just get your money for a greasy burger, they want your soul too.

USAFRetired_Liberal

(4,167 posts)
7. Reminds me of the time I was in Virginia for business
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:05 AM
Mar 2021

Me and a couple of colleagues went to this BBQ restaurant for lunch...we order/get our food, sit down, begin eating and chatting, next thing we know we hear the National Anthem and everyone standing up, I am thinking WTF....

Blue_playwright

(1,568 posts)
106. It's a military vet owned and patriotic themed restaurant
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:27 PM
Mar 2021

I don’t personally like the anthem idea, but it’s a gimmick that likely works for them.

marble falls

(57,075 posts)
9. I have just enough deafness and tintinus to mishear the lyrics. It's actualy interesting ...
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:09 AM
Mar 2021

... and totally ignorable until like at Christmas when I hear about "Long John Silver, mother and child" and I snort my soda out my nose. My wife sits a couple of tables over beet red.

tavernier

(12,377 posts)
35. Oh, I like their salads, which I take to the park
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:00 PM
Mar 2021

and eat there. I suppose you’re going to tell me that Wendy’s is a republican owned place and I’ll have to give up my pecan/apple/blue cheese/pomegranate dressing salad.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
63. According to the interenet, Wendy's uses Marzetti Simply Dressed Salad Dressings
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 02:13 PM
Mar 2021
Marzetti® Simply Dressed® Salad Dressings

Salads as good as ours deserve a superior dressing, which is why Wendy’s has worked exclusively with Marzetti since the late 1980s. Our Culinary Innovation team partnered with Marzetti to bring our customers Marzetti Simply Dressed salad dressings which are made without preservatives, trans fat, high fructose corn syrup, or artificial flavors. Just the good stuff.

https://www.wendys.com/nutrition-and-health


I love Marzetti's coleslaw dressing, but I found a recipe online that is very similar so I mostly make my own. Though it is easier to buy a bag of shredded cabbage (with some carrots and other stuff) and a bottle of Marzetti's since I am the only one in the house that likes coleslaw. Can just pour out a bowl of the cabbage, spoon out some dressing and I am good for lunch.

tavernier

(12,377 posts)
69. I've googled already and pomegranate is only online
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 02:39 PM
Mar 2021

And very expensive. I think Wendy’s wants you to get that particular salad only at their restaurant.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
71. There are recipes for Pomegranate Vinaigrette online
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 02:46 PM
Mar 2021

That are very easy if you can find pomegranate juice. I've never looked for it so I have no idea how available it is.

Now I'm starting to think I have been missing something by not going to Wendy's for years. I used to drive through to get a small bacon cheeseburger about three times a year when I needed a hamburger fix, but haven't done that in a very long time, well before Covid-19. Never had a salad at a Wendy's since I only went for the burgers.

tavernier

(12,377 posts)
85. Clue: Order the half portion.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 04:53 PM
Mar 2021

Half the price and the full portion is just a big extra bunch of greenery. And I get it with the fried chicken instead of the broiled.
And I should apologize for hijacking the thread. Food is my Achilles heel.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
90. I mostly eat at home and make everything
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 06:11 PM
Mar 2021

We have a big salad every day with dinner and I often make my own dressings - exception is the Ken's Steakhouse Raspberry Walnut vinaigrette. I haven't managed to make anything as good - but I may try the Mazetti version which I saw.

If we go out for lunch, we usually go for something like the Cuban sandwich at the local Cuban Grill or the Cabo BLT at a little locally owned cafe (BLT with avocado and their garlic aiolo). We don't often go to chains except when we are traveling and in a hurry.

tavernier

(12,377 posts)
91. I'm a baked potato fan
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 06:16 PM
Mar 2021

so once in a while I’ll pig out on that with the cheese and broccoli. And their chili doesn’t suck either.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
93. I guess if I were working and needed a good lunch, those wouldn't be too bad
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 06:35 PM
Mar 2021

But it's been forty five years since I have worked anywhere but here on my farm, and I don't even do that anymore. Being retired has advantages. Plus, we're too far out for it to be convenient. When we first moved here, it was at least twelve miles to anything. Now, there are fast food places only five miles away - still not convenient.

Crunchy Frog

(26,579 posts)
135. I like their taco salads and the fish sandwiches they sell during Lent.
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 06:26 PM
Mar 2021

I'll order from them once I'm vaccinated. (Too paranoid right now.)

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
11. I obviously need to get out more. I don't think I've eaten in a regular sit-down restaurant that has
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:11 AM
Mar 2021

a television on all the time. I wouldn’t care what channel they were playing, that would not be a place I’d want to eat. Of course, I’ve not been into a sit-down restaurant since the pandemic started.

Chainfire

(17,530 posts)
19. The same places tend to have everybody trying to over-talk the crowd
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:32 AM
Mar 2021

and it produces waves of roar that I find hard to tolerate. It is like living with cicadas, they will go almost quite for a few seconds then come back with a cacophony of noise. There are several chains that have food that I like, but I can't stand all of the noise. TVs seem to exacerbate the problem.

The only worse thing to listen to is the leisure suit "businessman" who handles his long-winded transactions over his cell phone at a voice level meant to impress the entire crowd with his importance. One day I am going to tell one of them, at a similar volume, that "I don't give a shit whether you sell that house on 7th Ave. or not, shut up and let me, and everyone else here, eat in peace, asshole."

Allow me my fantasies.....

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
24. No, the only thing worse
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:45 AM
Mar 2021

and I really hate to say this, because I am feminist AF, is sitting at a table next to six or eight young women out together after work for some wine and gossip—or heaven forfend—a bachelorette dinner. I appreciate that they’re having a great time letting loose, and they deserve that, but their voices and laughter just get soooooooo loud!

lildDemz

(64 posts)
33. I have watched the same
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:58 AM
Mar 2021

in a group of male athletes(basketball and cycling). Locker room decibles that rose like a competition.

bedazzled

(1,761 posts)
43. my funny story re that... was working as a cashier
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:17 PM
Mar 2021

some clown was rangeing all over the rather small store, talking loudly into a cellphone...

as he heads towards the door, the last thing we heard him say was "I TOLD YOU i was not getting a vasectomy!"

the other customers and i burst out laughing

probably better for the gene pool id he got a vasectomy!

ShazzieB

(16,368 posts)
73. Me, too, unless it's a sports themed place and the tvs are playing various sports.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 03:31 PM
Mar 2021

I'm not a big sports fan, but I actually kind of like those for some reason.

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
76. I'll make an exception for a bar particularly if there's a "big" game.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 03:38 PM
Mar 2021

At least there’s a reason for it.

USAFRetired_Liberal

(4,167 posts)
12. When I workout at the YMCA
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:15 AM
Mar 2021

I notice that most people have their treadmill/bike TVs turned on to Fox...and I am thinking to myself “you are so obsessed with hate and propaganda that you want it during your workout,too”

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
14. Its been awhile ago but I went into a Mexican restaurant
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:20 AM
Mar 2021

in our small very red town. When we left I thanked them for NOT having Fox on their t.v.

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
46. if TV is on and not on FOX I always thank them. Funny story about TV in eateries
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:38 PM
Mar 2021

We were driving to Phoenix and stopped for breakfast at a Denny's. It had a huge dining room with a tv near the cashier and another one way back in the corner at the far end. Bunch of men sitting around back there. The front TV was not FOX so I thanked the cashier. He just grinned and pointed to the back of the room "see that bunch of men over by the other TV; they come in every morning for breakfast and then sit around drinking coffee and watching Fox. Sometimes I mess with them and change the channel to MSNBC or CNN and it drives them nuts. " We loved it!!!

PS that was the nicest Denny's I have ever seen; I like a good breakfast when I am traveling and our hotel did not have hot breakfast. It is somewhere between Fort Worth and El Paso.

Delarage

(2,186 posts)
126. I used to really like Denny's
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 10:15 AM
Mar 2021

I love Diner-type places---especially the ones along Rt. 40 in New Jersey. But the last Denny's near me hadn't been updated since about 1980 and was a dark, depressing place that finally closed down not too long ago. And I had a free birthday breakfast coming to me

JohnnyRingo

(18,624 posts)
16. Got you beat for Trump diners.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:29 AM
Mar 2021

We have a place here in NE Ohio called Top Notch Diner that is owned by a republican. I first discovered that when we called to ask for a couple booths to have a group meeting for John Kerry phone banking and grab some food. He said he didn't want us there, so we met at Panera Bread who afforded us plenty of room to spend our money.

Since Trump he's gone overboard, like so many, and erected signs and Trump flags throughout the property. He says he does this for everyone including democrats. Now there's just one giant Trump flag and an upside down American flag flying out front. Masks are discouraged, even after the death of one server.

I'm not going in to see what's on TV, but i understand this hangs by the register:
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Read about him here:
https://www.wfmj.com/story/42811345/top-notch-diner-owner-claims-taking-the-stand-for-all-of-us-over-mask-mandate

appleannie1

(5,067 posts)
32. NW Pa, not too far from you.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:58 AM
Mar 2021

The only restaurant in the tiny town I live near has been shut down a couple times for non compliance and I refuse to buy anything in the local meat market for the very same reason. It is like almost everyone in this area has a death wish or something.

ShazzieB

(16,368 posts)
80. Looking at that image and scratching my head
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 03:49 PM
Mar 2021

because it looks absolutely NOTHING like Chump!

Well, okay, the hair is somewhat Chumpesque, but the facial features aren't even close. It's like they took a generic, handsome, white man face and stuck a Chump wig on top of it!

If that's what he really looks like to his cultists, they're even sicker than I thought.

Delarage

(2,186 posts)
127. I like diners
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 10:20 AM
Mar 2021

But....there is one in NJ that I used to frequent on trips over the bridge and I once went in there and they were having some kind of gathering for a Republican candidate, with signs and stuff stuck all over the place. So I left and haven't been back to that one since. And that sucks, because they had some really good food.

JohnnyRingo

(18,624 posts)
129. Yeah, but that might have just been a group who met there...
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 11:15 AM
Mar 2021

...to discuss plans for the campaign. It could be that the owner's political leaning is the Hungry People's Money Party. I never understood why any business would take a side and lose half the customers, and I never understood why that diner refused us accommodations back in '08. It should have been: "Come on in, I've got you set up in the back, and here are some menus", with the same line for republicans.

My oldest son, his wife, and two of his kids are as democrat as they get, even posting anti Trump memes and helping GOTV. He owns a biker bar near here, but does he argue with customers or throw them out for being republicans? He just nods his head at their bullshit and gets them another Bud, just as cold as the democrat's.

Delarage

(2,186 posts)
133. I agree
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 11:45 AM
Mar 2021

I did say something to the owner, who sits at the register near the door, and whatever he said didn't reassure me. I would have liked an "all are welcome" or something ambiguous. But it wasn't like he had a MAGA hat on, either. I guess it was just the stuff posted all over the windows that made me wonder. Hmmmmm......

But I hope you're right....I want to go back. And I doubt EVERYONE working there is Repuke, although it is in S. Jersey. The omelettes are calling me.......

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
18. I just never go to restaurants with TVs
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:31 AM
Mar 2021

If we go out to eat—well, when we did in the Before Times—I don’t want a television blaring or even flashing its lights and colors on a screen, no matter what it’s playing. The whole point of going out to me is getting out of the kitchen, away from TVs and devices, and to have a quiet, peaceful meal that I didn’t have to cook or clean up after, and to have some real conversation, without staring elsewhere at a screen while eating. .

OK, exception: once a year or so we liked to go to this Spanish restaurant for tapas, and we always sat at the bar and ordered a few small dishes and a glass of wine. They had a screen that was playing Spanish stuff. Very colorful, and I don’t think they even had the sound on. That was the small price to pay for some delicious jamon and octopus.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
21. I so agree with you. If anyone of our family had taken my mother to a restaurant with a tv blaring,
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:37 AM
Mar 2021

I know she’d have refused to eat there and given us a piece of her mind as well lol. She’s no longer with us, but she even refused to have a tv in the living room. It was banned to an upstairs family room. It seems self-defeating to go out to eat and have to listen to ANY channel. Very tacky as someone else in the thread commented.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
29. I don't even have the TV going while having a family dinner at home
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:51 AM
Mar 2021

We also have a standing rule forbidding mobile devices at the table.

appleannie1

(5,067 posts)
28. My daughter is a travel nurse. She thinks FOX should be banned from all hospitals.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:48 AM
Mar 2021

This past year she has treated COVID patients mainly since she is ICU trained and that is where the need was. She has treated patients that declared that COVID is a hoax dreamed up by the 'libruls' and media to make trump look bad as she was trying to hook them up to a ventilator.

tavernier

(12,377 posts)
30. My friend was in a coma in ICU
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 11:51 AM
Mar 2021

His son came in and noticed that the TV set in his room was on Fox. He stormed out to the nurses station and said, “My father had a heart attack and someone has put on Fox News in his room. He is in a coma and can’t change the channel. Are you trying to kill him?”

niyad

(113,259 posts)
41. Years ago, a dear friend was in ICU, also in a coma. The second morning I went in, that garbage s
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:13 PM
Mar 2021

was on. A nurse happened to be in the room. I looked at her and said, "if anything would bring my friend out of the coma, this would be it. Now please change it." After that, it was strictly the gardening channel (my friend had been a master gardener.). I still miss her, and smile as I watch flowers coming up.

 

Mary in S. Carolina

(1,364 posts)
38. Things are Changing - Deep Red State
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:08 PM
Mar 2021

Everywhere I went, restaurants, banks, gas stations, etc were always blaring Faux News.....not anymore. Democrats are becoming very vocal in this deep red state and taking there business down the road, after complaining to Faux News loving business owners.

UpInArms

(51,280 posts)
42. I might have used a few different words ...
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:13 PM
Mar 2021

"They play racist propaganda on their TV all day. That has no place anywhere, especially in a neighborhood diner. I'm sure rightwing nutjobs are welcomed here. Everyone else should be cautious."

Otherwise, I approve

OMGWTF

(3,951 posts)
47. During Bush II's Reign of Terror, I was staying at a very nice hotel in Orange County, CA
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:49 PM
Mar 2021

The TV in our room was programmed to automatically revert to Fux News no matter what channel you left it on. Of course, there was Fux News on the TV in the breakfast room which made me lose my appetite. I write a lot of reviews for Trip Advisor and ripped the hotel a new one for this assault on my senses.

I remember reading a story about how Cheney The Dick insisted that every TV in his hotel rooms be turned to Fux News.

captain queeg

(10,169 posts)
57. That drives me crazy. 99% of breakfast bars in hotels have Fox blaring
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 01:16 PM
Mar 2021

I was pleasantly surprised when staying in Charlotte NC they had CNN on. It was unusual enough for me to take note. Very red area, but most all the hotel workers were POC.

oldsoftie

(12,531 posts)
50. "pasty white people". Yeah, i'm sure that'll make them change.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 12:56 PM
Mar 2021

Insult everyone who's white and doesnt have a nice glowing tan.

Maraya1969

(22,477 posts)
66. I am pasty white! it's just an expression but it you all think it insults white people...
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 02:23 PM
Mar 2021

Maybe I'll just change it to "white"

oldsoftie

(12,531 posts)
75. Due to vitiligo, me too. Although it seems to be changing & not sure why
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 03:36 PM
Mar 2021

But i've always said if thats the only disease i ever have to deal with, i'll take it!

USAFRetired_Liberal

(4,167 posts)
54. I remember traveling from Florida to Texas and stopping at a Residence Inn in Mississippi
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 01:07 PM
Mar 2021

We had three TVs in the 2 bedroom hotel suite...so I turn on the tv in the living room area and noticed it was on Fox...no big deal, I just figured the person who stayed there before me was a right winger...I turn the channel to something (don’t even remember)....later on I turn off that TV and go into my bedroom, I turn on the tv and again it’s on Fox, but again I think no big deal the person was obviously a MAGA type.....time goes by and I go back into the living and turn on the TV and it’s back on Fox and I know that wasn’t the last channel that I viewed because I don’t view that channel...so I know something is up, I go back to the bedroom and turn on the TV and yep it’s on Fox, I then go into the room where my girls are staying and they have it on Disney, I turn the tv off and then back on and it was on Fox....so the hotel deliberately took the time to program their TVs to Fox when it is powered on...I wrote them a similar review

Maraya1969

(22,477 posts)
68. Wow! I never heard of such a thing. I'm so glad you wrote a review. Talk about
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 02:26 PM
Mar 2021

Russian propaganda tactics.

Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
55. Doctors offices tend to play HGTV all day.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 01:12 PM
Mar 2021

Anything like Dr. Phil, news, or even a soap opera could trigger anxiety from trauma in some people.

Staph

(6,251 posts)
70. At my oncologist's office,
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 02:43 PM
Mar 2021

The TV is usually tuned to the Food Network. Anything that tempts you to eat when on chemo is a great idea!


AllaN01Bear

(18,150 posts)
58. get one of these , tv b gone . a friend has the phone app and it goes through walls.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 01:33 PM
Mar 2021

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he locked out a neigbors tv who ran it all nite on full vollume .for me, going into a establishement w faux noize on. reach into my pocket and click.
https://www.amazon.com/TV-B-Gone-Universal-TV-Control-Keychain/dp/B0006GD9CE/ref=asc_df_B0006GD9CE/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=459717572353&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=5912349127420151084&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9032268&hvtargid=pla-957366001630&psc=1
truly someone didnt read my post . i repeat a friend whom did this to the neighbors tv ,ran the tv in a apartment WHERE QUIET HOURS ARE FROM 10 PM TO 8 AM and this neighbor did it constanty with the volume up IN THE BLESSED AM. if you have never lived in an apartment , you dont know what you are talking about and yes having fox news on is ANNOYING. also TALKING TO THE MANAGER DOSENT HELP WHEN SOMEONE IS BEING A BULLY AND CAUSING A DOMESTIC 415 DISTURBANCE OF THE PEACE.unitll you live in a aprtment . let me know.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
122. How would you feel if someone did that to your tv?
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 09:37 AM
Mar 2021

Sorry, I don’t think that is in the least cool.

efhmc

(14,725 posts)
60. Tried to do it for the only BBQ place here but was not allowed to talk about "politics".
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 01:37 PM
Mar 2021

So my review was not accepted.

Duppers

(28,118 posts)
72. Do know of any black folks who'd listen to Fux?
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 03:05 PM
Mar 2021

Pasty white redhead here yet I'm not at all offended by the description because it's accurate. 😁

Back in the little pasty-white southern redneck town I grew up in, Fux Lies channel is on EVERYWHERE. And if you're not white, you're not welcome. I despise those ppl.

Their necks turn red because they are so pasty-white.


Duppers

(28,118 posts)
113. Unbelievable....
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 08:05 AM
Mar 2021

But I believe you. Thanks!



Me: Officer, I'd like to report a feather.
Officer: Ma'am, what could a feather do?
Me: Well, it knocked me over.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
65. Sorry, but agree your review could be interpreted as racist.
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 02:23 PM
Mar 2021

I confess, it's hard not to.

Since racism is a problem for all people and hurts all, how about just reporting that racist programming is played all day and leave it at that?

If you must divide by race, maybe at least avoid insulting, hostile adjectives directed at any of them.

burrowowl

(17,638 posts)
74. My Dad who was olive competition to refer to it as
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 03:35 PM
Mar 2021

fish belly white. Non of us kids got as dark as Dad, Mom's skin color must have dominated, but we weren't fish belly white.

TeslaNova

(273 posts)
87. LOL I did the same thing to a hydroponics store
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 05:17 PM
Mar 2021

Back when we were trying to get legal pot on the ballot I went into a hydro store and the owner behind the counter had FOX News on the TV. Couldn't believe it because Republicans were fighting legal pot tooth and nail and this guys business stood to boom if it did become legal. So I went home and left a review on Yelp about how he had FOX News going and would never go in there again. We legalized pot and for whatever reason he went out of business.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
98. at a hotel in Phoenix,
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 07:49 PM
Mar 2021

i asked the clerk to change it and he told me he wasn't allowed. So I immediately tagged the place in a fb post explaining why i would not be staying there again. 15 minutes later it had been switched to CNN.

If you're on social media, you can go to their instagram, fb, twitter, and anywhere else you may post, it might help.

Maraya1969

(22,477 posts)
105. Once I had these guys with a small landscaping company cut a big tree down for me
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 10:25 PM
Mar 2021

and put some bushes in and I paid them and they left all the yard waste in a way that the city wouldn't pick it up, (it had to be tied in certain lengths). I contacted the guy about 3 times and got, "Oh we'll come get it" bullshit each time then then I took to social media. I just spelled out what he did on Yelp and FB and Google. Then I texted him that I would take the reviews down after he picked up the waste. It was gone the next day.

Yes social media can be used in great ways in our world now.

hunter

(38,310 posts)
100. I rarely see that in my community
Sat Mar 20, 2021, 08:13 PM
Mar 2021

A business that did that would be a business screaming "I want to die, kill me now."

I live in a land where a multi-lingual dark skinned transgender checkout clerk is 100% more likely to be hired than some monolingual English Only pasty white racist guy.

It's just business. Most of the customers are not pasty white, and 40% are not entirely fluent in English.

The Republican nightmare...

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cstanleytech

(26,281 posts)
109. I would not have left a negative for that reason. I might not return but a negative should only be
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 05:49 AM
Mar 2021

used for poor service or food but not because if their piss poor choice to have Fox on.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
123. Never mind the fact that the op went back TWICE DURING A PANDEMIC to eat at a place she intended
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 09:43 AM
Mar 2021

to slam online. I have chosen to take Fauci’s and the other scientists’ advice on eating inside restaurants.

twodogsbarking

(9,732 posts)
114. Until the Trump virus
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 08:16 AM
Mar 2021

we went to a place every couple of months that had the hunting channel playing.
Get to see killing food while you are eating food. Best wings and fries you can imagine.
Been going for years. Jimmy Carter would eat there on fishing trips.

Polybius

(15,381 posts)
117. My local restaurant has it on all the time too
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 09:22 AM
Mar 2021

I live in a Republican town though, so I get it. Also, the owner seems like an apolitical guy, who probably just thinks he's putting on the news. Finally, Trumpers hate Fox now anyway.

AllaN01Bear

(18,150 posts)
128. truly someone didnt read my post
Sun Mar 21, 2021, 10:20 AM
Mar 2021

. i repeat a friend whom did this to the neighbors tv ,ran the tv in a apartment WHERE QUIET HOURS ARE FROM 10 PM TO 8 AM and this neighbor did it constanty with the volume up 2 IN THE BLESSED AM. if you have never lived in an apartment , you dont know what you are talking about and yes having fox news on is ANNOYING. also TALKING TO THE MANAGER DOSENT HELP WHEN SOMEONE IS BEING A BULLY AND CAUSING A DOMESTIC 415 DISTURBANCE OF THE PEACE.unitll you live in a aprtment . let me know. if u complain about something . and have the means to get it done .

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