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pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 02:54 AM Mar 2021

How old is the "older sister" of Gaetz's fake adopted son, Nestor?

Nestor was 12 when his mom died and he went to live with his older sister and Gaetz, her boyfriend at the time. Gaetz and the "older sister" broke up at some point between then and last year, when he first spoke in public about Nestor.

When Nestor was 12, how old was the sister who was already living with Gaetz?

Could she have been the mystery under-age woman? Or one of them?

https://people.com/politics/matt-gaetz-tells-story-boy-he-raised-as-a-son/

Six years ago, Florida Rep. Matt Gaetz says, he met the young boy he now calls his son.

Nestor Galban was 12 and had just arrived from Cuba, where he’d grown up and where his mother had recently died of breast cancer, Gaetz says. Then a state legislator, Gaetz was dating Nestor’s older sister.

And so Nestor moved in with them — “a modern family,” Gaetz says now.

He says that, except for an interruption during Nestor’s junior year after Gaetz and Nestor’s sister broke up, Nestor has basically lived with him since moving from Cuba.

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How old is the "older sister" of Gaetz's fake adopted son, Nestor? (Original Post) pnwmom Mar 2021 OP
Good question. I bet her info is easy enough to track down... Hekate Mar 2021 #1
I hope someone does. It had just occurred to me that I've never seen her name. pnwmom Mar 2021 #2
We will now!!!! LOL winstars Mar 2021 #3
I've also seen it reported that Nestor's biologic father is "around," perhaps in the US? hlthe2b Mar 2021 #10
I thought the 17 year old thing was supposed to be 2 years ago ... but maybe misread Hugh_Lebowski Mar 2021 #4
Why couldn't the older sister of a 12 year old have been almost any age above 13? pnwmom Mar 2021 #6
My bad ... I was thinking Nestor was the nephew of the girl Gaetz lived with, misread it ... Hugh_Lebowski Mar 2021 #15
Here's another curious fact. pnwmom Apr 2021 #17
Her name is oldtime dfl_er Mar 2021 #5
Right. Assuming we can believe anything Gaetz says. And so look at this: pnwmom Mar 2021 #7
There was mention somewhere about her having a dui at 21 JI7 Mar 2021 #8
Maybe not. But maybe, a long time ago, she was one of his first underage girlfriends, pnwmom Mar 2021 #9
I think she might be Nestor's mom personally, raised by his grandparents as her 'little brother' Hugh_Lebowski Mar 2021 #16
Why are Cuban immigrants treated differently? gab13by13 Mar 2021 #11
There was Elian Gonzales kskiska Mar 2021 #14
A Reddit sleuth puts her DOB in 1989. tanyev Mar 2021 #12
She was born May 6th, 1989 Celerity Mar 2021 #13
Just doing some math and putting 2+2 together... Gingerlocks May 2021 #18
Yeah, that seems like a reasonable theory. Welcome to DU, Gingerlocks! n/t pnwmom May 2021 #19

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
2. I hope someone does. It had just occurred to me that I've never seen her name.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 03:03 AM
Mar 2021

And she's been awfully quiet through all of this, so far.

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
10. I've also seen it reported that Nestor's biologic father is "around," perhaps in the US?
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 06:50 AM
Mar 2021

What does he have to say about all this?

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
4. I thought the 17 year old thing was supposed to be 2 years ago ... but maybe misread
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 03:05 AM
Mar 2021

If true, and the rest of the timeframes are accurate, the older sister and the 17 year old wouldn't be the same person.

I still think Gaetz possibly might be the baby daddy from getting Nestor's mom pregnant when he was 17 or 18.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
6. Why couldn't the older sister of a 12 year old have been almost any age above 13?
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 03:14 AM
Mar 2021

I'm not sure how anyone is ruled out, since the various reports I've seen about the 17 year old are unclear about what year she was 17.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
15. My bad ... I was thinking Nestor was the nephew of the girl Gaetz lived with, misread it ...
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 04:04 PM
Mar 2021

You are correct, she could be, except I still think people would've noticed/said something if a Congressman lived with a 17 year old girl ... would've come up quite a long time ago.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
17. Here's another curious fact.
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 12:45 AM
Apr 2021

Someone in a post below says that she was born in 1989. How to explain this photo, where Gaetz's parents give her a fancy car, celebrating 15 years of . . . something?

Let's assume this photo was first tweeted the same month it was reposted. June 2020. Fifteen years before then would have been 2005.

In 2005 she would have been . . . 16.

What happened beginning at age 16 that connected her to Gaetz's parents? Did she start working for them then, or what?


JI7

(89,247 posts)
8. There was mention somewhere about her having a dui at 21
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 04:48 AM
Mar 2021

and that being years ago. I think this whole thing with Nestor is odd but I don't think she is the person being mentioned in this case .

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
9. Maybe not. But maybe, a long time ago, she was one of his first underage girlfriends,
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 05:02 AM
Mar 2021

while she was working for his parents.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
16. I think she might be Nestor's mom personally, raised by his grandparents as her 'little brother'
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 04:08 PM
Mar 2021

due to her youth ... and Matt is the dad.

Still seen nothing that proves that possibility 'wrong'.

gab13by13

(21,304 posts)
11. Why are Cuban immigrants treated differently?
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 08:09 AM
Mar 2021

“There are no undocumented Cuban immigrants in the US because, as a result of the Cuban Adjustment Act of 1966, Cubans qualify for legal residency after one year on US soil and then citizenship five years later, even when they enter the country illegally.

Republicans are OK with open borders with Cuba but not OK with passing a comprehensive immigration bill for our southwest border.

tanyev

(42,550 posts)
12. A Reddit sleuth puts her DOB in 1989.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 08:56 AM
Mar 2021
What isn't exactly clear is when Nestor's sister, Maisbel Mendez, arrived in the U.S., though presumably it was before Nestor's arrival, seeing as she was arrested for a DUI on 5/1/2011 ( https://florida.arrests.org/Arrests/Maisbel_Mendez_5498526/ ), which is two (2) years before Nestor allegedly came to the U.S.

The DUI incident report states that Maisbel Mendez's d.o.b. is 5/6/1989, making her 21 years old when she was arrested for DUI.

Matt Gaetz's d.o.b is 5/7/1982, which makes him 7 years older than Maisbel Mendez ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matt_Gaetz )

At the time that Maisbel Mendez was seeking custody of Nestor Galban, with Matt Gaetz as her lawyer, she was 27 years old and Matt Gaetz was 34 years old. It is unclear as to why the 27 year old sister wanted to obtain custody of the 15 year old Nestor.

https://www.reddit.com/user/SuperSleuth2020/comments/

Gingerlocks

(1 post)
18. Just doing some math and putting 2+2 together...
Sat May 15, 2021, 10:33 AM
May 2021

I ended up going down a rabbit hole after reading some bizarre Matt Gaetz backstories on Twitter.

Here is my new theory:

Matt Gaetz has always been a predator of young girls. When was 19 or 20 y.o. he had sex with a then 12 or 13 y.o. Maisbel Mendez who got pregnant and gave birth to a son (Nestor) in 2002 or 2003. The head of the Gaetz family - Don Gaetz - was, at the time, high profile and prominent in North Florida politics so a scandal like this could have ruined his career and his family's reputation. So they made a decision to send the child to Cuba to live with members of Maisbel's family (her father Nestor Galban Sr, and her mother or aunt Marbelina Matos).

Maisbel was compensated by the Gaetz family for her silence (cash, cars, etc.). When Nestor was 12 y.o. he moved to to FL because his extended family in Cuba was immigrating to FL and he had to go with them. He continued to live with them until his bio mom (Maisbel) decided she wanted full custody of him and went to court (2016).

During this same time, Matt Gaetz' political star was rising as a member of the FL House of Reps. With a focus on running for US House of Reps, he couldn't risk the long-buried scandal coming out that he impregnated an underage girl and fathered a child that was shipped off to Cuba to be raised by her extended family.

To protect his reputation and career (just like dad), Matt concocted this cover story about dating Maisbel when they were both adults (her 25, him 32) and her "brother" Nestor moving from Cuba to FL to live with them when he was 12.

Because it was always a lie based on a cover-up dating back to 2002, Matt got tripped up and started saying Nestor was his "adopted son" with no blood relation, when in fact he is Nestor's bio dad.


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