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AndyS

(14,559 posts)
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 03:20 PM Mar 2021

I live in a small N Texas town, usually votes R by 70%.

I have a Tarrant Co. Dems t shirt and a Moms Demand Action shirt. I don't wear them in public 'cause I just don't need the aggravation. However today I was wearing my MDA shirt, not planning to go out, and had to make a quick trip the pharmacy.

As I expected I was confronted---by a woman who asked where she could get a shirt like it! Didn't see that coming.

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I live in a small N Texas town, usually votes R by 70%. (Original Post) AndyS Mar 2021 OP
You just never know, do you? You met one of the 30% today. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2021 #1
I had a similar experience Diamond_Dog Mar 2021 #2
Women are the best proponents for control of gun violence. They are tired of seeing their family Hoyt Mar 2021 #3
K&r Demovictory9 Mar 2021 #4
Sometimes it helps others to see your example gratuitous Mar 2021 #5
Each and every step Dakota Flint Mar 2021 #6
It's good to hear things are changing in beautiful Tarrant County peppertree Mar 2021 #7
That's encouraging! Mickju Mar 2021 #8
My (very liberal) brother used to live in Tarrant Co. momta Mar 2021 #9
he would be pleased with the number of grass roots clubs we have here now yellowdogintexas Mar 2021 #31
That is good to hear. momta Apr 2021 #34
Yeah... but... maybe... hurple Mar 2021 #10
She said it's time for the simple stuff like AndyS Mar 2021 #11
.....WOW!!!.... titanicdave Mar 2021 #12
K&R, Texas isn't red its voter suppressed uponit7771 Mar 2021 #13
The percentage of voters hasn't been great until 2020. summer_in_TX Mar 2021 #24
in addition, the Texas media market is one of the most expensive in the country yellowdogintexas Mar 2021 #29
Exactly. summer_in_TX Mar 2021 #33
It is voter apathetic. We still do not turn out Democrats in proportion to yellowdogintexas Mar 2021 #26
Part of the suppression is to build apathy by making it hard to build opposition operations in the.. uponit7771 Apr 2021 #39
That brightened my day! Thank you! niyad Mar 2021 #14
I wore my Black Lives Matter bracelet all summer mountain grammy Mar 2021 #15
...there's an atheist in every pew... lindysalsagal Mar 2021 #16
30% is still 3 in 10!! WarGamer Mar 2021 #17
I went to a BLM rally in Columbia SC SCantiGOP Mar 2021 #18
I wore my Biden cap in a kind of red area of Lake County Florida. GulfCoast66 Mar 2021 #19
Maybe? Try definitely! LisaM Apr 2021 #38
when we lived in San Antonio, all of Texas seemed to vote for dems. demigoddess Mar 2021 #20
S.A and Bexar county are still reliably Democratic yellowdogintexas Mar 2021 #27
Well, SB 7 passed the Senate at 2 am... LeftInTX Apr 2021 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author ALBliberal Mar 2021 #21
What a pleasant, if unexpected, surprise AndyS! George McGovern Mar 2021 #22
I'm currently wearing a drmeow Mar 2021 #23
I travel KS, OK & MO a lot. FoxNewsSucks Mar 2021 #25
I'm in Kansas and when out, I make it very clear to anyone sporting anything Republican... WyattKansas Apr 2021 #42
One of the things you find out when you wear your colors in public yellowdogintexas Mar 2021 #28
People will sometimes surprise you. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #30
AndyS there is more than a passing chance that we have met somewhere yellowdogintexas Mar 2021 #32
DID ALL YOU GOOD TEXANS FORGET WHAT BETO ALMOST DID IN 2018 friend of m and j Apr 2021 #35
It is nice when you realize your not completely alone.... diverdownjt Apr 2021 #36
That's terrific! calimary Apr 2021 #40
I live in a similar town in upstate NY Woodwizard Apr 2021 #41

Diamond_Dog

(31,979 posts)
2. I had a similar experience
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 03:30 PM
Mar 2021

This was last summer during the Black Lives Matter protests.

Waiting second in line at the Dollar Store cashier. I was behind a rather large older white man with white hair. His purchases took a while, and so I had time to ruminate a little.

Was I ever surprised when he turned around to leave! His black face mask proclaimed in big white letters, BLACK LIVES MATTER.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
3. Women are the best proponents for control of gun violence. They are tired of seeing their family
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 03:40 PM
Mar 2021

killed needlessly.

Of course, the rube men would probably sit at home if they can't strap a gun on to allay their insecurities when walking out the door.

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
5. Sometimes it helps others to see your example
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 04:41 PM
Mar 2021

You may not want to go out every day advertising your political beliefs, but on days when you're feeling strong, your example can encourage others, even if they don't approach you.

peppertree

(21,624 posts)
7. It's good to hear things are changing in beautiful Tarrant County
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 05:16 PM
Mar 2021

I lived there during part of the Bush years - and at the time one of the most common brain farts you'd hear around was "we should nuke Paris!"

And then the boys started coming back home maimed, with PTSD, etc.

I think that started changing hearts and minds, in what at the time were ultra-conservative suburbs (the area north of Ft. Worth).

momta

(4,079 posts)
9. My (very liberal) brother used to live in Tarrant Co.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 05:44 PM
Mar 2021

He and his family lived in Arlington, and he was pretty politically active. He used to say, "We could hold our Democratic Party meetings in a phone booth."

His "big issue" is gun control, too. He used to write LTE's and then get harassing phone calls from gun nuts.

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
31. he would be pleased with the number of grass roots clubs we have here now
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 11:43 PM
Mar 2021

The last time I checked we had 11 grass roots clubs here; they have grown in membership significantly over the past 5 years.

I have a friend who used to live in Keller; he used to joke that the Senate District Convention could be held in the back booth at Denny's. Even that area is getting less red!

momta

(4,079 posts)
34. That is good to hear.
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 01:22 AM
Apr 2021

My brother has since moved away. (He lives in a different, very red, area of TX now.) I grew up near this region, and it is nice to hear that things are changing for the better.

hurple

(1,306 posts)
10. Yeah... but... maybe...
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 05:45 PM
Mar 2021

She is a mom demanding the action of rounding up the Democrat pedophiles and restore trump to his rightful throne atop amerikkka.

Or is the shirt more focused than that?



AndyS

(14,559 posts)
11. She said it's time for the simple stuff like
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 05:48 PM
Mar 2021

locking guns in a safe and 100% background checks.

Shirt says Moms Demand Action for gun sense in America.

summer_in_TX

(2,733 posts)
24. The percentage of voters hasn't been great until 2020.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 11:00 PM
Mar 2021

But I am afraid that doesn't equate to having only the blue vote suppressed. The media outlets spread out all over the state make it very hard to campaign for statewide office. I think the commercial television stations lean conservative. Some are owned by FOX and Sinclair Broadcasting. Then a whole lot of conservative talk radio stations are spread throughout the state.

There are a whole lot of highly brainwashed and partisan Texans, whether they vote or not. I think they also spread attitudes of cynicism and apathy through the kind of coverage they provide. Most Texas voters have a very incomplete notion of the issues.

That said, there's a solid percentage of Dems as well. However, historically we have taken the Latino vote for granted, and Texas Rs are very dedicated to courting their vote. They rotate them in and out of the (appointed) Secretary of State's Office, building their influence and clout.

Dems assume that Latinos will vote their way and historically have done little in the way of systematic, long-term investment in that community and relationships. I took a class on it while working on a Master's degree in mass communication, Latinos and Politics.

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
29. in addition, the Texas media market is one of the most expensive in the country
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 11:40 PM
Mar 2021

so it is really hard to get good ad time.

For many years, neither party spent much money here because of these expenses and the fact that one party was so dominant the other party felt defeated from the get go

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
26. It is voter apathetic. We still do not turn out Democrats in proportion to
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 11:28 PM
Mar 2021

the number of us who are here.

Republicans will always vote; they have their little push cards with their list of who to vote for and what issues to support and they SHOW UP.

Democrats have gone so long with so few people to vote for that it most did not feel it was worth it especially when the Rs seemed to always win.

Now we have a Democrat in every slot on the ballot here in Tarrant.
There were Democrats in primaries in every county in Texas last March for the first time in decades.

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
39. Part of the suppression is to build apathy by making it hard to build opposition operations in the..
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 08:04 AM
Apr 2021

... state.

mountain grammy

(26,619 posts)
15. I wore my Black Lives Matter bracelet all summer
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 06:25 PM
Mar 2021

in my little redneck resort town. I got a few nasty looks, but several "like your bracelet's" too.

Your post made my day, thanks!

SCantiGOP

(13,869 posts)
18. I went to a BLM rally in Columbia SC
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 08:13 PM
Mar 2021

Wore my red baseball cap, which looks just like a MAGA hat, but says IMPEACH.
Walking to the Statehouse, I had several people (who weren’t heading to the rally) give me a thumbs up or make other favorable comments.

Columbia has a black Democratic Mayor, so I imagine the reactions would have been different had I ventured out into the hinterlands, but it was very gratifying to have approval from some like-minded patriots.


GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
19. I wore my Biden cap in a kind of red area of Lake County Florida.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 08:23 PM
Mar 2021

Wore it from October till last month. 5 comments. All positive.

Yeah, got some hairy eyeballs, but no negative comments or confrontation.

Does it help I’m a decent sized white dude in decent shape? Wearing fishing themed clothes? And jeans and boots when cooler? Maybe.

I think it is useful for both sides to see white guys in their 50’s who are not conservative. Breaks the stereotype.

LisaM

(27,802 posts)
38. Maybe? Try definitely!
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 07:47 AM
Apr 2021

Years ago, I did a meet up with some other liberals (remember those meetups?) I had been wearing a button during the recount that said Gore Got More, and was telling everyone some obnoxious comment someone made about it when I was in an elevator. A big guy at our table said (guilelessly) "If he'd said that to me, I would have...." and the women at the table all whirled around and told him "he wouldn't say it to you".

That said, I am always pleased to see burly guys wearing liberal gear. It makes me happy.

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
20. when we lived in San Antonio, all of Texas seemed to vote for dems.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 08:38 PM
Mar 2021

Hardly any repubs held offices in Texas and it was a great place to live. Only bad thing was the heat, we could not take it anymore after 7 years there.

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
27. S.A and Bexar county are still reliably Democratic
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 11:31 PM
Mar 2021

We have not had Democrats in statewide offices since Ann Richards, sadly

The good news is the large metropolitan areas are ALL voting Blue now even Tarrant!!!

We were the last red metro area and now we are tipping over. Biden, Beto and Hillary all carried Fort Worth.

LeftInTX

(25,258 posts)
37. Well, SB 7 passed the Senate at 2 am...
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 06:13 AM
Apr 2021

Worse than Georgia.

This Jim Crow 2.0 is flying under the radar. Poll watchers can film us. Polling sites now have to close etc etc Can't bring extra machines to a busy site etc etc etc

Response to AndyS (Original post)

drmeow

(5,017 posts)
23. I'm currently wearing a
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 10:43 PM
Mar 2021

Planned Parenthood t-shirt with "Choice" written across the front. I don't wear it in public even though I'm in a blue state. I need to change that and start wearing it more.

FoxNewsSucks

(10,429 posts)
25. I travel KS, OK & MO a lot.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 11:08 PM
Mar 2021

I frequently wear anti-republicon t-shirts, and have had anti-republicon bumperstickers. Long ago, I lost track of how many people came up to me about the stickers or the shirt and said "...but I'm the only one in town" and then later on, another person in the same town would also mention " but I'm the only one in town."

Rightists rely on liberals being intimidated into not identifying themselves in any way. It keeps us feeling isolated, because "we're the only one" in town.

Visibility is important.

WyattKansas

(1,648 posts)
42. I'm in Kansas and when out, I make it very clear to anyone sporting anything Republican...
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 02:32 PM
Apr 2021

That I have a seething disdain for them by giving them the evil eye and dirty looks... Usually they scamper away like rodents to avoid my laser focus on them.

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
28. One of the things you find out when you wear your colors in public
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 11:36 PM
Mar 2021

is that everybody else thought they were the only one in the county!!! They are surprised and happy to find out they are not alone

When Wendy was running for Gov, I wore my shirts everywhere; folks would come up behind me and tap me on the shoulder then whisper in my ear "I LOVE Your Shirt"

I carry business cards for the Tarrant County Democratic Woman's Club in my car, just in case I need them.



yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
32. AndyS there is more than a passing chance that we have met somewhere
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 11:48 PM
Mar 2021

along the way.

Democrats in Tarrant seem to run into each other

friend of m and j

(220 posts)
35. DID ALL YOU GOOD TEXANS FORGET WHAT BETO ALMOST DID IN 2018
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 01:40 AM
Apr 2021

THOUGH HE DIDN'T WIN HE CAME WITHIN 3 % OF BEATING TED CRUZ AND TO DO THAT HE TURNED A GOOD PORTION OF THE STATE BLUE....... AND BROUGHT OUT THE VOTE......... I THINK HE WILL RUN AGAIN AGAINST OUR GOOD FOR NOTHING GOVERNOR ABBOTT. .................... AND WIN.

Woodwizard

(842 posts)
41. I live in a similar town in upstate NY
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 02:13 PM
Apr 2021

We have a circle of friends that are progressive. The interesting thing is almost all of them we have met doing town improvement projects. Disproportionate amount compared to 68% registered republicans.

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