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"You're my best friend & I love you." (Original Post) sheshe2 Mar 2021 OP
I sometimes try to imagine the country we could have had by now if only Solly Mack Mar 2021 #1
Beautiful post, Solly. sheshe2 Mar 2021 #2
Sorry. Wasn't trying to make anyone cry. My mood about everything is being influenced Solly Mack Mar 2021 #3
No, Solly. Don't be sorry. sheshe2 Mar 2021 #4
Thank you for your post. Collimator Mar 2021 #6
Thank you for your reply. All the dead from mass shootings. All that money wasted. Solly Mack Mar 2021 #9
✔️ blm Mar 2021 #11
Me too. Especially with SCOTUS. On the brighter side, we just might have enough Pepsidog Mar 2021 #8
Truth. blm Mar 2021 #10
K&R LetMyPeopleVote Mar 2021 #5
Wonderful post. Mr.Bill Mar 2021 #7
Sometimes I wish the world was filled with 5 year olds. brer cat Mar 2021 #12
You said it perfectly, brer. sheshe2 Mar 2021 #13
So deeply sweet, and so deeply poignant electric_blue68 Apr 2021 #14
KnR Hekate Apr 2021 #15

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
1. I sometimes try to imagine the country we could have had by now if only
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 05:29 PM
Mar 2021

racist and sexist barriers had been defeated (and they still haven't been defeated) and generations of children could have grown up with people in power and positions of authority and prestige who looked like them.

A country where Barack Obama and Kamala Harris are not the exception but two people in a long line of people, all kinds of people, who have held office or been held up as an exemplar in the fields of science and math, in all fields, open to all people.

All that untapped potential. All the greatness - lost to racism and sexism.

What could have been.

Even now, a lot of white people lost their minds at the thought of a black president. Some of those same people are still angry over it. People have gone nuts over Kamala Harris as V.P..

The kind of people who need those racist and sexist barriers to feel good about their own lives.

Sad, weak people. People who label the oppression of others as traditional values.

It is 2021 and a little girl, especially a young girl of color, can look at Kamala Harris and think, "I can be you." She can dream, "I can do it." She can think, "I can even be President."

2021.

Of course it makes me happy. Just nobody tell me how grateful I should feel until after hundreds of years of this being true. Until this is the norm and not the exception.

Until it's not even a thought because it is just so natural. Until it just is. Simply.






sheshe2

(83,746 posts)
2. Beautiful post, Solly.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 05:50 PM
Mar 2021

All true.

You made me cry...

Of course it makes me happy. Just nobody tell me how grateful I should feel until after hundreds of years of this being true. Until this is the norm and not the exception.

Until it's not even a thought because it is just so natural. Until it just is. Simply.

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
3. Sorry. Wasn't trying to make anyone cry. My mood about everything is being influenced
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 06:13 PM
Mar 2021

by the trial taking place.

I can only watch for a few minutes at a time.

The future will have its own set of struggles and worries. Just hoping some struggles and worries we can leave behind. As a country. As a global community. As people.

sheshe2

(83,746 posts)
4. No, Solly. Don't be sorry.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 06:22 PM
Mar 2021

It was the truth and beauty of what you said that made me cry. Not sure any of it will happen in my lifetime, you never know though. It might.

Collimator

(1,639 posts)
6. Thank you for your post.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 07:12 PM
Mar 2021

You make an excellent point regarding all the human potential lost because of the social barriers set up to keep back large swaths of people.

It reminds me of a point that I made to refute the oft-used argument of anti-abortion types. They like to say things like, "Who knows if that unborn child could have grown up to cure cancer?" I argue, "And who knows what all those children gunned down in mass shootings might have accomplished?"

And not only has so much human potential been wasted to racism and sexism, but the time and effort and even money spent in keeping down people who are supposedly "naturally" inferior in the first place just boggles the mind.

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
9. Thank you for your reply. All the dead from mass shootings. All that money wasted.
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 07:29 PM
Mar 2021

All of it, really. To create a false reality they feel safe in - in a world that will never bend to their will. So they keep sacrificing lives and throwing away money to their fears, and we all pay dearly for it.



Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
8. Me too. Especially with SCOTUS. On the brighter side, we just might have enough
Wed Mar 31, 2021, 07:23 PM
Mar 2021

momentum to change our country socially, politically, and economically. The Ex may be responsible for biggest change since FDR. Let’s hope!

electric_blue68

(14,886 posts)
14. So deeply sweet, and so deeply poignant
Thu Apr 1, 2021, 12:48 AM
Apr 2021

Oh, little sweetie 💖 I can imagine her voice, and Kamala's hidden smile crinkling her eyes.

And your beautiful post, Solly.

I, too, have wondered how much we've through decades, and centuries lost of people's talents, and wisdoms because of racism, and sexism. 😔

Someday it will be as easy as breathing usually is.

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