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Cassandra Madison and Julia Tinetti became such good friends so quickly when they first met as co-workers at a bar in Connecticut that they used to joke they were sisters. Eight years after that first meeting, they found out they really are sisters.
Their relationship first began in 2013 when Madison was working as a waitress and Tinetti as a hostess at the Russian Lady Bar in New Haven. "It was like natural," Tinetti said. "It wasn't awkward. We hit it off literally right away." Madison has the Dominican flag tattooed on her arm, which Tinetti noticed before noting that she has the Dominican flag tattooed on her back. "I'm adopted from there and she's like, 'What? Me too!' And I was like, 'That's so cool,''' Madison said.
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Madison learned from her father that her older brother was very sick when he was born and the family had financial issues, so he gave the girls up for adoption. Neither of the women are angry about the decision. "My father just cried a lot, and he just kept apologizing," Madison said.
"You can't be mad at somebody for wanting to give their child the best life," Tinetti said. "And now the fact that we can connect with them, it's very, very special for us."
https://www.today.com/food/restaurant-co-workers-realize-they-re-actually-sisters-today-t214361
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(14,657 posts)CatWoman
(79,294 posts)StClone
(11,683 posts)soothsayer
(38,601 posts)Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)Reunited adoptee here, both sides.
So many adoptees discover their birth families or half siblings practically in their own back yards.
Fate brings people together, and the truth will out.
Love this story!
Ms. Toad
(34,059 posts)My daughter found her biological father using 23 & me.
Turns out that she and her half-brother went on a middle school People to People trip in the same summer to the same country. (There were two trips that summer from NE Ohio - they weren't on the same trip - but stilll pretty wild!)
Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)My kind of adoption--birthmother was a girl who went away, high school sweethearts, the valedictorian and the 4 sport All State all star, both over 18, but "society" intervened and I disappeared in secrecy--kind of faded out by the time sperm doners emerged on the scene.
Always good to have more people to love, and more people to love you.
My maternal half brother lived across the street from the high school I worked at as a TA in college and student taught at, two blocks from my best friend's aunt/cousins. His buddy from grad school was in my buddy from high school's wedding.
I'd say coincidence, but there are too many of these stories for mere coincidence.
Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)My kind of adoption--birthmother was a girl who went away, high school sweethearts, the valedictorian and the 4 sport All State all star, both over 18, but "society" intervened and I disappeared in secrecy--kind of faded out by the time sperm doners emerged on the scene.
Always good to have more people to love, and more people to love you.
My maternal half brother lived across the street from the high school I worked at as a TA in college and student taught at, two blocks from my best friend's aunt/cousins. His buddy from grad school was in my buddy from high school's wedding.
I'd say coincidence, but there are too many of these stories for mere coincidence.
Ms. Toad
(34,059 posts)Our daughter always wanted to know the other half of her genetics - and we always wanted her to know them - enough that we had asked a friend to be a donor. Unfortunately, once the friend declined we were left with the medical system which imposes secrecy on the process.
So we were thrilled when she got a message from a woman on 23 & me suggesting that her husband was a 100% match as my daughter's biological father. She met him (and the rest of her relatives on that side of the family) in person on father's day about 2 months later. They invited her to be as much a part of their crazy family as she wanted.
I'm not sure they are in contact much any more - but we were thrilled that they welcomed her as part of their family. You're right - alwasy good to have more people to love and to love you!
George II
(67,782 posts)....something today. For years I've been going to the Russian Lady in Hartford. I never even realized there is one in New Haven!
BTW, a little off topic. I worked with a man for 15 years in Old Saybrook, CT, before I found out that both he and I grew up on the same street in Brooklyn, NY about 50 years earlier.
madinmaryland
(64,931 posts)Remember going to the Russian Lady there a few times. Didnt they have multiple levels.
George II
(67,782 posts)...Whalers games. There were a couple of bars a block or two from the Civic Center that we went to.
madinmaryland
(64,931 posts)Went there a couple of times. Cant remember where else in Hartford I went.
George II
(67,782 posts)I just googled it, it opened in 1980 and closed in 1984.
halfulglas
(1,654 posts)Going out to eat almost always meant going to Old Saybrook or sometimes Middletown or Mystic, but mostly Old Saybrook.
malaise
(268,885 posts)not Dominica
malaise
(268,885 posts)not Dominica
Demovictory9
(32,445 posts)PJMcK
(22,025 posts)AverageOldGuy
(1,523 posts)Just sat down at the computer and opened up DU.
First was "citizen blues' " report on her/hus student.
Then there's POTUS Biden at the slain officer's funeral.
And now this.
Something wrong with my computer -- the screen is all blurry.