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Lilaclady

(82 posts)
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 10:24 AM Apr 2021

Visit

Friday our son (48) visited for the first time in 18 months. Our daughter (53) drove with him. She visited in the driveway in October bringing our grandson who was on leave from the Navy and the oldest who lives in Virginia. In May she brought a cooler with ten ready to bake dinners and our third grandson. And the fourth grandson visited on his way to college in September. We were fully vaccinated on April 13, having had our 2nd Pfizer shot March 30. They live 3 1/2 and 2 1/2 hours away respectively. We had an outdoor visit since neither has been vaccinated. I was overwhelmed by my reaction upon being able to hug them, they wore masks. I just held them and didn’t want to let go. My husband had a picnic table set up complete with tablecloth and they brought pizza. We were happy beyond words. The visit lasted 3 hours and we had a group photo and I wore my mask for it. I realize last year was difficult for all of us, and so far we’ve held together. I was diagnosed with breast cancer March 20, 2020 and had successful surgery May 28, the day before our 48th wedding anniversary. My family was my support group and I didn’t go to any stores until Tuesday. Who knew grocery shopping could be such a joy? We’re still very careful only shopping in the early morning and not going in if a store is too crowded. It’s a different way of life and adjustments have to be made. Our son decided to get the vaccine because then he could stay the weekend and help my husband with the yard work. Our daughter is an anti vaxxer and is most at risk for COVID as she works outside the home, leads church worship, holds painting classes and teaches voice lessons. I hope she thinks about it. We all have our stories about the last year and how we have been affected. This is mine.

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Visit (Original Post) Lilaclady Apr 2021 OP
Welcome to du, Lilaclady! Heartstrings Apr 2021 #1
such a nice... stillcool Apr 2021 #2
I'm glad you got to visit. Not being able to spend time with family is really tough. Arkansas Granny Apr 2021 #3
So wonderful you had a family "reunion" Fla Dem Apr 2021 #4
Welcome to DU, Lilaclady! calimary Apr 2021 #5
They put your third grandson in a cooler? rsdsharp Apr 2021 #6
I'm very happy for you. My sons, both in their twenties, one away at Grad School... NNadir Apr 2021 #7
Hi, Lilaclady. Welcome to DU! littlemissmartypants Apr 2021 #8

stillcool

(34,407 posts)
2. such a nice...
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 10:50 AM
Apr 2021

coming out of covid story. Such horrendous goings on everywhere, makes your tale extra-sweet. Good for you.

Arkansas Granny

(32,264 posts)
3. I'm glad you got to visit. Not being able to spend time with family is really tough.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 10:57 AM
Apr 2021

I hope your daughter changes her mind about getting the shot. Until then, stay safe and stay healthy.

I'm looking forward to spending next weekend with my youngest son now that we are both fully vaccinated. I haven't seen any family members face to face in over 6 months. It will feel like winning the lottery.

Fla Dem

(27,490 posts)
4. So wonderful you had a family "reunion"
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 12:14 PM
Apr 2021

Also glad to hear you've had a recovery form your breast cancer surgery. May you stay well and healthy.

calimary

(89,308 posts)
5. Welcome to DU, Lilaclady!
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 12:21 PM
Apr 2021

We had one of those over Easter weekend. Everybody already vaccinated including us. First time we hugged anybody in more than a year! Felt great!

The Great Emergence (from a gloomy, scary year)!

NNadir

(37,550 posts)
7. I'm very happy for you. My sons, both in their twenties, one away at Grad School...
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 01:09 PM
Apr 2021

...both got their first shots, Pfizer both; my wife and I are well past two Modernas.

Sounds like a drink...two Modernas.

I'm still being careful; masks sanitizer and all, but I feel liberated as well.

littlemissmartypants

(32,806 posts)
8. Hi, Lilaclady. Welcome to DU!
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 01:19 PM
Apr 2021

Thanks for sharing your lovely story. I'm so happy you are able to gather with your family. In a time when it seems everything is falling apart we need to remember that eventually, we can happily come together again.

I hope you will take time to visit the North Carolina* group. We're an interesting, eclectic bunch and I will look forward to your posts.

Stay encouraged.



❤ pants


*https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1069

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