"This Whiteness of Being"

[StarfishSaver]

By Connie Schultz

ut this Wednesday morning is worse, so much worse, because minutes before the Chauvin verdict was announced, a 16-year-old Black girl named Ma'Khia Bryant was shot and killed in the street by a white police officer in Columbus, Ohio. An investigation is pending, but surely, I don't have to tell you how that sounds to my student less than 24 hours later.

It's too much on top of more than one can bear. My student, this talented and spirited young woman who has been such a fierce presence in my class, has no energy left to talk about what's due by the end of the semester. She is the first of several Black women, current and former students, who tell me that day, without hesitation or doubt, "That girl could be me."

I am a white woman who has never had a minute's worry that the color of my skin would lead to the cause of my death. What is my role in this moment as a professor, a colleague, a friend?

I try to take guidance from Black friends, students and colleagues. The instruction is pretty simple: Shut up. For the sake of all that is right and holy, just shut up for a while and listen. To ignore their pain is to magnify our indifference, and filling this space with our words, our feelings, is just another way to say, "I don't see you."

https://www.creators.com/read/connie-schultz/04/21/this-whiteness-of-being

[iemanja]

1. Keeping my mouth shut

has been my approach to this situation.

[Ocelot II]

2. Me, too.

I don't feel like I have the right to throw in my two cents' worth because I'm not in a place to judge - only watch and listen.

[MustLoveBeagles]

3. K&R

[Solly Mack]

4. K&R

[Grey5]

5. (.......)