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Tomconroy

(7,611 posts)
Sat May 1, 2021, 08:24 PM May 2021

My wife's encounter with Justice Scalia

This goes back a decade or so. My wife is the classics translator Sarah Ruden. You can google her. In her world she is famous. (I guess for the sake of the story it is worth knowing that she is a Quaker pacifist.) At this time she was a visiting scholar at Wesleyan University in Connecticut. It had been announced that Justice Antonin Scalia would be visiting the university to give an endowed lecture before a crowd of several hundred people at the university chapel. One day she got an email inquiring if she wanted to attend a small luncheon the university would be throwing to welcome Scalia in the afternoon. Sarah immediately replied that she wanted to go, only to be told that the invite had been sent in error to way too many people. Sarah wrote back saying that they really should invite her. She and Scalia did the same thing. They interpreted ancient texts. Well, her pitch worked (Probably along with the fact that she was the only Guggenheim Fellowship winner on campus). She got the invitation to the lunch.
At this time I was working as a public defender. Àlthough I'm sure Scalia rightly has a terrible reputation as a jurist among most readers of this site, it was a bit different for criminal lawyers. Scalia had authored some seminal opinions vindicating the rights of defendants, particularly in the area of search and seizure law. I gave Sarah a copy of a case of his called Crawford v. Washington. Simply put, it raised an objection based on hearsay to the level of a constitutional violation of the right to confront witnesses. It changed what lawyers do in the court room. Instead of saying "Objection, hearsay", you say "This evidence violates the Confrontation Clause of the US Constitution (and it's hearsay).
The day came for the lunch. There were maybe 35 people attending. First there was a reception. Sarah remembers several people inviting Scalia to a concert where someone had written a new piece of music celebrating the Bill of Rights. Scalia politely indicated he would rather be water boarded.
Anyway, it came time to sit down for lunch. Through clever maneuvering Sarah was seated on the corner, one place away from Scalia. The lunch proceeded about halfway through with a variety of conversational gambits, none really catching fire. Then there was a pause and Sarah took her chance:"My husband is a public defender. He wanted me to thank you for Crawford v. Washington". Well, that got his attention. They talked about the case a little bit. Sarah said how impressed she was by a reference he made in the text to Star Chamber Assemblies. Scalia told her "My clerks put in a lot of that stuff". Then he added: It's true, I really should be a centerfold pinup for the criminal bar. His final word on the subject was: The worst part of my job is that I have to do favors for groups of people I can't stand, like criminal defense lawyers!
Sarah then went to the real reason for attending the lunch. She proceeded to explain what she did for a living and proceeded to tell him about a theory popular in the world of bible translation called Dynamic Equivalence. The essence of the theory, as I understand it, is that you can not just translate a text word for word. You have to translate it in a way that will have meaning for its readers. The original intent of an author is difficult to know. The important thing is the effect the text has on its audience. Of course Scalia, the original Originalist, would have none of it. The conversation went back and forth, Sarah citing examples of how you would translate bible stories for an African villager, Scalia saying she was all wrong. You could explain things in the footnotes. He didn't agree, but he did find the subject interesting, particularly since it touched on religion. By now everyone else in the room was just listening. The argument ended in a friendly draw and the conversation moved on to a number of other subjects, in particular, there was a discussion of a mutual love of vacationing at the South Carolina shore. He knew Pawleys Island well.
When it came time for the lunch to end Scalia invited Sarah to walk out with him to his waiting limo. When they reached the car he threw his arms around her and gave her an enormous hug.
The other night when I was going over the story with Sarah so I could tell it here, she suddenly paused and asked me "Why aren't they like that anymore?"
I really don't know.

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My wife's encounter with Justice Scalia (Original Post) Tomconroy May 2021 OP
the idea of getting a hug from Scalia makes me feel sick Skittles May 2021 #1
✔️ blm May 2021 #6
Ruth Bader Ginsburg was good friends with Scalia. yardwork May 2021 #21
And yet, it was well known that he and Ruth Bader Ginsburg were good friends. pnwmom May 2021 #24
I honestly don't care Skittles May 2021 #31
They bonded on the subject of opera. smirkymonkey May 2021 #44
Different time different context. LakeArenal May 2021 #2
So he's drinking again? n/t Mr.Bill May 2021 #10
Thought he was sharp as a tack. LakeArenal May 2021 #18
the man is and always will be a warmongering piece of SHIT Skittles May 2021 #33
I agree completely.... OhioChick May 2021 #34
This. Treefrog May 2021 #48
Just a jolly ol' war criminal. Fuck that piece of shit Javaman May 2021 #40
The larger question is, why do they turn it on and off? LisaM May 2021 #3
The answer to any question about "conservative" motives is expedience. jaxexpat May 2021 #14
Watch this short video... zaj May 2021 #15
That was fascinating! ShazzieB May 2021 #22
Sounds like a good framework... Salviati May 2021 #38
Republicans in the past cared about fairness only for people like them dansolo May 2021 #55
Sociopaths I_UndergroundPanther May 2021 #30
Nice story. blm May 2021 #4
Thanks! elleng May 2021 #5
I threw up in my lap,... At the thought of a bear hug from black robe white hood big phoney bologna magicarpet May 2021 #7
Thanks again, and it might be a good idea of folks would recall the lengthy and warm relationship elleng May 2021 #8
Right. As much as I hate, loathe, and deplore some of his SCOTUS decisions ShazzieB May 2021 #26
That was my immediate thought, too. Now I can better understand their friendship. n/t pnwmom May 2021 #27
Scalia was also on friendliest terms with RBG FakeNoose May 2021 #9
I think it's a manifestation of sociopathy. Girard442 May 2021 #11
Scalia was a piece of human garbage Mysterian May 2021 #12
Thank you, a fascinating story. Joinfortmill May 2021 #13
She trapped the asshole. Good story. Pepsidog May 2021 #16
Thanks for the story, and what a great event. The subject discussed Hortensis May 2021 #17
Thanks for your post - love this sotry. n/t iluvtennis May 2021 #19
A very interesting tale. Liberal In Texas May 2021 #20
Welcome to DU, Tomconroy! calimary May 2021 #29
My family vacationed at Pawleys Island when I was a child. yardwork May 2021 #23
+100 k&r reACTIONary May 2021 #25
What a story. Welcome to DU, Tomconroy! n/t pnwmom May 2021 #28
Hats off from another (retired) PD Ponietz May 2021 #32
Spare me Scalia, Please zentrum May 2021 #35
Ruth Bater Ginsburg, probably the greatest justice of my lifetime was fast friends with him. GulfCoast66 May 2021 #36
who CARES what RBG thought of him Skittles May 2021 #37
He was hateful and flouted conflict of interest principles, regardless of RBG's acceptance. JudyM May 2021 #53
THANK YOU Skittles May 2021 #54
Scalia was a mixed bag in a lot of ways Warpy May 2021 #39
This message was self-deleted by its author 1cheapbeemr May 2021 #41
I think the "why" of it is the era he had to operate in JHB May 2021 #42
"like that anymore" - um, like what? UTUSN May 2021 #43
Interesting story. burrowowl May 2021 #45
Welcome to DU alphafemale May 2021 #46
Welcome to DU MustLoveBeagles May 2021 #47
Did she still have her wallet after the hug? nuxvomica May 2021 #49
Interesting story dlk May 2021 #50
Great story Retired Engineer Bob May 2021 #51
Great story. As a defense attorney myself I use Crawford daily. Tried to engage my Pepsidog May 2021 #52

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
24. And yet, it was well known that he and Ruth Bader Ginsburg were good friends.
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:37 PM
May 2021

This story helps explain that.

LakeArenal

(28,817 posts)
2. Different time different context.
Sat May 1, 2021, 08:33 PM
May 2021

I watched Kimmel’s interview with W and Bushiest was funny and warm. Self-deprecating. Fun even. 🤷🏼?♀️

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
33. the man is and always will be a warmongering piece of SHIT
Sat May 1, 2021, 11:10 PM
May 2021

people still die every day because of him

FUCK his "wit"

OhioChick

(23,218 posts)
34. I agree completely....
Sat May 1, 2021, 11:14 PM
May 2021

He took us into two wars, is responsible for many deaths and I find nothing warm or witty about the man.

LisaM

(27,806 posts)
3. The larger question is, why do they turn it on and off?
Sat May 1, 2021, 08:37 PM
May 2021

How can someone who can seem so genial and nuanced in private life write such life-changing and cruel opinions from the bench?

This new iteration of George Bush is striking me in the same way. I don't personally think the Bush family are racist or anti-gay, yet they were willing to suppress the Black vote in Florida in 2000 and use gay marriage bas a wedge issue in Ohio in 2004 in order to win.

It's hypocritical to let your public role override your moral compass.

jaxexpat

(6,820 posts)
14. The answer to any question about "conservative" motives is expedience.
Sat May 1, 2021, 09:37 PM
May 2021

The shortest distance between two points, or two hiding places. It's always a straight line. Right through whatever's in the way.

ShazzieB

(16,389 posts)
22. That was fascinating!
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:34 PM
May 2021

This is very consistent wih my personal observations. It also explains a lot about libertarians, and where their "every person for him/her/their self" comes from.

And the bit about liberals basing their morals on fairness and whether something harms others? That's me, all right.

Salviati

(6,008 posts)
38. Sounds like a good framework...
Sat May 1, 2021, 11:21 PM
May 2021

... except in the modern era I do not believe that so called conservatives, at least ones that identify as republicans, care about either harm to others or fairness. They may have in the past, but no longer. The ones that do care about those facets at all have been driven out of the party.

dansolo

(5,376 posts)
55. Republicans in the past cared about fairness only for people like them
Mon May 3, 2021, 06:52 AM
May 2021

Republicans today only care about themselves, or other people who may be able to help them.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,463 posts)
30. Sociopaths
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:51 PM
May 2021

Can turn thier empathy off and on. They might choose to have empathy for thier mother but for the rest of the world..seething hate for example.

They turn empathy on and off like a faucet.

elleng

(130,895 posts)
5. Thanks!
Sat May 1, 2021, 08:38 PM
May 2021

I met him to, returning into Chicago from O'Hare, looking for taxi, this many years ago, I was not a public defender (yet,) so we chatted in cab where 1 or 2 others joined us.

Chatted about ??? and he asked for my resume; I sent it, and never heard back.

elleng

(130,895 posts)
8. Thanks again, and it might be a good idea of folks would recall the lengthy and warm relationship
Sat May 1, 2021, 08:57 PM
May 2021

between Justice Scalia and Justice Ginsburg.

ShazzieB

(16,389 posts)
26. Right. As much as I hate, loathe, and deplore some of his SCOTUS decisions
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:38 PM
May 2021

I know he MUST have had some good in him. RBG obviously knew something the rest of us didn't.

FakeNoose

(32,634 posts)
9. Scalia was also on friendliest terms with RBG
Sat May 1, 2021, 09:00 PM
May 2021

Go figure! Scalia and RBG were political opposites for most of their professional lives. And yet they were friendly and cordial to the point that occasionally the families vacationed together.

Girard442

(6,070 posts)
11. I think it's a manifestation of sociopathy.
Sat May 1, 2021, 09:19 PM
May 2021

If I can get what I want by being warm and charming on Tuesday and then tossing kittens into a woodchipper on Thursday -- why not?

Mysterian

(4,587 posts)
12. Scalia was a piece of human garbage
Sat May 1, 2021, 09:20 PM
May 2021

If there's a hell, he's burning in it. An intelligent person who chose the path of service to fascism. Scalia hated democracy and did his utmost to destroy it.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
17. Thanks for the story, and what a great event. The subject discussed
Sat May 1, 2021, 09:50 PM
May 2021

is interesting. I hadn't heard of dynamic equivalence, but it seems obvious that it should be considered regardless of what else is.

We all contain multitudes, though often very different ones for sure. Scalia had many admirers who saw things to admire, and certainly there was much to admire, and even like. I'm also hoping that what he was up to in his later years, as seditionist plotting hardened among many he associated with, comes out before I die.

Liberal In Texas

(13,548 posts)
20. A very interesting tale.
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:20 PM
May 2021

There are many people on this site I would love to sit down and have a few cocktails with.

calimary

(81,238 posts)
29. Welcome to DU, Tomconroy!
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:40 PM
May 2021

Agreed on Liberal In Texas's point (up to a point, of course). If I'd sat down for cocktails with the likes of Scalia I'd have been sorely tempted to throw my drink in his face. Always struck me as a pompous ass.

yardwork

(61,599 posts)
23. My family vacationed at Pawleys Island when I was a child.
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:34 PM
May 2021

Wonderful memories. And thanks for this post!

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
36. Ruth Bater Ginsburg, probably the greatest justice of my lifetime was fast friends with him.
Sat May 1, 2021, 11:19 PM
May 2021

Even travelled with him in their later years.

I think they respected each other’s consistency. They had different views personally what the constitution meant, but both would stick to that meaning even if it pissed of their supposed ‘side’. We liberals hater Heller, but conservatives hate it more. Scalia believed that every law abiding Americans had the right to own a firearm. Which. BTW, the Democratic platform totally agrees with. But Scalia also noted that reasonable restrictions are constitutional. Which the Democratic platform agree with. Republicans hate that.

If RBG, who actually knew the guy well did not hate him, how can I? Because if I choose to, I’m insulting her memory

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
37. who CARES what RBG thought of him
Sat May 1, 2021, 11:20 PM
May 2021

the man was VILE - a SICKENING piece of trash who really hurt America

JudyM

(29,236 posts)
53. He was hateful and flouted conflict of interest principles, regardless of RBG's acceptance.
Sun May 2, 2021, 08:16 PM
May 2021

Those are inherently unethical when they come into play on the bench. She may have had shared interests with him but they didn’t share these core moral values. Ironically, they each pushed the limits on what was possible under the law. Piss on him.

Warpy

(111,255 posts)
39. Scalia was a mixed bag in a lot of ways
Sat May 1, 2021, 11:31 PM
May 2021

There are times I think he's the last GOP nominee on the bench who wasn't either unqualified or a complete lunatic (or both). I disagreed with him on most of his opinions, but didn't think they disqualified him from the bench. I did think he was showing some pretty clear signs of decline during his last year and a half.

Response to Tomconroy (Original post)

JHB

(37,159 posts)
42. I think the "why" of it is the era he had to operate in
Sat May 1, 2021, 11:36 PM
May 2021

Scalia was born in 1936, went to college & law school in the 50s, began his career in the early 60s. He would have wrecked his career if he was unable to find some areas of agreement and engagement with people having considerably different viewpoints. At least, enough to be socially gracious at these sorts of events.

Conservative grievance culture was still in its formative stages. They like carrying their chips on their shoulders, but the chips didn't blind them to (at least some) other things.

dlk

(11,561 posts)
50. Interesting story
Sun May 2, 2021, 10:23 AM
May 2021

Some who are intellectually brilliant, have a true need to exchange ideas with others on their same level, whether or not their core beliefs are the same.Your wife sounds like an incredible woman and I can only imagine the interesting conversations at your house. Thanks for sharing.

51. Great story
Sun May 2, 2021, 12:33 PM
May 2021

While I disagree on their principles, I can get reasonable and thoughtful conservatives. I used to read William Safire’s column on occasion. Trumphumpers on the other hand...

&t=23s

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
52. Great story. As a defense attorney myself I use Crawford daily. Tried to engage my
Sun May 2, 2021, 07:03 PM
May 2021

4 adult educated kids, one works for Medtronic, one 4th year med student, one in nursing school, and one works for a publishing house and I couldn’t get any of them engaged. I thought your post shows a good example of arguing against the originalist reading of the constitution. Maybe it’s me or just my household but they could care less. I told them it’s their generation that is to be greatly affected by the imbalance of SCOTUS. My kids went to great k-6th public schools and all Catholic High School expensive HS that was 95% Republican. But my kids grew up with me forcing them to watch Keith Olbermann on MSNBC Special Comments during “W” presidency, so one could say that they were brainwashed by me to be progressives. But they really don’t care which is scary. I figure my oldest son who is going to be an orthopedic surgeon will turn to the right because of taxes and tort reform. I know there are many young people who are active progressives but my biggest fear is lack of a basic understanding of how government works or history. When I went to school in the 70’s and 80’s we learned history and civics. Today I’m not so sure how many students really understand how government works. History we once took for granted isn’t being taught. Moreover, amount of knowledge available to learn and teach is so vast now it’s hard to know what a basic curriculum should look like beyond learning to read, math skills, and internet. My niece teaches 7th graders and said she doesn’t teach subjects, teachers teach students how to find the material online. Sorry for the wandering rant from a frustrated Dad.

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