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Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 01:51 PM Jun 2021

road rage killers arrested, shot dead 6 yr old after mom gave them the finger



Man and woman arrested in shooting death of 6-year-old Aiden Leos on 55 Freeway in Orange

Marcus Anthony Eriz & Wynne Lee Costa Mesa California couple arrested in road rage shooting of Aiden Leos 6 year old boy shot dead along Orange highway.

A Costa Mesa couple have been arrested in connection to the road rage killing of 6-year-old boy, Aiden Leos, who was struck by gunfire on the 55 Freeway, according to the California Highway Patrol.

CHP confirmed the arrest of two suspects, Marcus Anthony Eriz, 24, and Wynne Lee, 23, thought to be boyfriend and girlfriend who authorities believe to be culpable for the shooting death of Aiden last month.

The pair were arrested on Sunday at their home in Costa Mesa and are expected to be charged with murder according to a CHP release. Per sources close to the case, both suspects are being held at the Orange County Jail on $1 million bond each.

‘On behalf of Border Division Chief Omar Watson, and the Santa Ana Area, we are deeply grateful for the professionalism and tireless commitment of our investigators who have worked on this case from day one to find those responsible for Aiden’s death,’ said CHP Commissioner Amanda Rey. ‘While these arrests will not ease the pain of a mother’s loss, my hope is for the Leos family to have some peace of mind and to rest assured the CHP will work with the Orange County District Attorney to bring justice for Aiden.’

The CHP Border Division Chief Watson also thanked the community for its ‘indescribable outpouring of concern and hundreds of tips’ that helped investigators find the killers.

https://scallywagandvagabond.com/2021/06/marcus-anthony-eriz-wynne-lee-costa-mesa-ca-couple-arrested-aiden-leos-road-rage-shooting/
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road rage killers arrested, shot dead 6 yr old after mom gave them the finger (Original Post) Demovictory9 Jun 2021 OP
Enjoy your new-found long life of Freedumb! Budi Jun 2021 #1
Good, fuck those assholes! Enjoy prison! Initech Jun 2021 #2
Marcus Eriz dalton99a Jun 2021 #3
So the SOB is a gun nut. Probably couldn't wait to use his gun "in real life". MF'er! George II Jun 2021 #22
Fucking asshole JI7 Jun 2021 #63
AKA Nut Job. paleotn Jun 2021 #68
Assholes with guns. Jim__ Jun 2021 #4
I never engage in any way with questionable drivers. leftyladyfrommo Jun 2021 #5
i posted this last week... this guy wouldn't let it go, the rav 4 was being an *sshole until Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #8
That was amazing. Worth remembering if you're ever temped to flip someone off. -nt CrispyQ Jun 2021 #11
yeah, the rav 4 guy was brake checking people, being a general menace, hit the guys car mirror Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #12
If this wasn't in Canada geardaddy Jun 2021 #15
Yep: dalton99a Jun 2021 #16
Custody? he was defending himself. oldsoftie Jun 2021 #32
In California, even if you're doing the speed limit on a 1 lane road, ... aggiesal Jun 2021 #34
It's always a good idea... SergeStorms Jun 2021 #45
Never understood this Tink41 Jun 2021 #47
The reality, good or bad, is that most cars ... Whiskeytide Jun 2021 #52
what is the point? Tink41 Jun 2021 #54
Again - the issue is not the rules. It's what is the safest ... Whiskeytide Jun 2021 #58
I'm not arguing with you, but this really irks me Tink41 Jun 2021 #77
Humans are rule-flexible by default Sympthsical Jun 2021 #98
Recently discovered I'm high functioning. Tink41 Jun 2021 #105
Its a good thing to know about yourself Sympthsical Jun 2021 #106
That is almost saying the speed limit only applies to some. Ka-Dinh Oy Jun 2021 #93
No bad rap intended. It's just that it is safer... Whiskeytide Jun 2021 #96
Most states have "flow of traffic" laws Sympthsical Jun 2021 #100
I wasn't referring to expwy Tink41 Jun 2021 #103
To be honest, the speed limit in California is not really a speed limit but a speed suggestions ... aggiesal Jun 2021 #66
Are you a CHP officer? n/t ChubbyStar Jun 2021 #73
No. n/t aggiesal Jun 2021 #80
You might want to put that in your post n/t ChubbyStar Jun 2021 #81
I never claimed to be CHP ... aggiesal Jun 2021 #83
That is really fucked up. Especially when teaching young drivers to follow speed limits. Insanity. Evolve Dammit Jun 2021 #64
Yes it is Tink41 Jun 2021 #76
In the last two decades I have seen driving become way more fast and aggressive. I noticed it first Evolve Dammit Jun 2021 #89
I do not even honk at anyone anymore. 3catwoman3 Jun 2021 #38
You are correct, even if they give me the finger I ignore them Escurumbele Jun 2021 #13
The way I look at it is that I don't want them to be a part of my life. C Moon Jun 2021 #17
Best piece of advice I've gotten for this type of situation - cab67 Jun 2021 #21
In recent years, I've notice lots of these hyper-aggressive road assholes bullwinkle428 Jun 2021 #24
Yup. it's always the assholes. JI7 Jun 2021 #62
Life without parole for the shooter Submariner Jun 2021 #6
They ended their own lives too. It'll be a few decades before their bodies catch up though. (Nt) FreepFryer Jun 2021 #7
yeah... she's going to get major time for being the getaway driver Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #10
were they those wonderful law abiding guns owners, you know, till they weren't ? KG Jun 2021 #9
But of course! 🤗 ShazzieB Jun 2021 #39
An armed society is a polite society Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2021 #43
No words UpInArms Jun 2021 #14
Lol I think we can probably do better than that website. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2021 #18
People Control, Not Gun Control Sancho Jun 2021 #19
Do Not Flip People Off in Traffic. Period. MineralMan Jun 2021 #20
Totally agree! SunnyATT Jun 2021 #23
I'm guilty of using my horn when a green arrow for left turn is involved ecstatic Jun 2021 #27
Yup, I try to avoid beeping as much as I can JI7 Jun 2021 #59
I agree, and have been teaching my son the same. Ilsa Jun 2021 #25
one sleepy satuday, i noticed a woman driving slowly in front of me..slower and slower Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #28
Thats what gets them; never looking at them oldsoftie Jun 2021 #31
It's a "possession thing." Larger than life..."I own this portion of the road" Don't bother with me Stuart G Jun 2021 #29
If I was that mother I'd have to be put on suicide watch. Once, just once, I flipped someone off... Hekate Jun 2021 #51
"kicks" is right. They enjoy fucking with others and feel superior. Not enough trafffic enforcement Evolve Dammit Jun 2021 #65
I'm certain no one has in fact, argued it's a good idea. LanternWaste Jun 2021 #53
Exactly. It won't help the situation, just escalate it. paleotn Jun 2021 #69
"...too many people are armed in cars these days." Jedi Guy Jun 2021 #78
70% is astonishing. Terrifying actually. n/t moonscape Jun 2021 #104
It wasn't the victim's fault. Period. kcr Jun 2021 #88
Flipping the bird.... TheRealNorth Jun 2021 #26
Thank you. It's a shame it took until comment number 26 kcr Jun 2021 #87
Glad they caught the POS oldsoftie Jun 2021 #30
Wynne Lee & Marcus Eriz: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know Judi Lynn Jun 2021 #33
Poor, sweet little boy. smirkymonkey Jun 2021 #86
I hope they rot sakabatou Jun 2021 #35
Bet this guy has a Punisher sticker on his Jeep, like most of those idiot gun humper types. ExciteBike66 Jun 2021 #36
money talks Roc2020 Jun 2021 #37
Give them the death penalty rockfordfile Jun 2021 #40
Goddamned motherfucking GUNS Ferrets are Cool Jun 2021 #41
It's like I keep saying: Initech Jun 2021 #48
Yup. mac56 Jun 2021 #92
Eriz looks like such an arrogant asshole in that pic in the o.p. ShazzieB Jun 2021 #42
The Gun Show was this past weekend in Costa Mesa SleeplessinSoCal Jun 2021 #44
And then there was that asshole judge who overturned the assault weapons ban. Initech Jun 2021 #49
We find out soon if SCOTUS supports another civil war. SleeplessinSoCal Jun 2021 #56
lived in Costa Mesa a few years ago... so know the area. I remember the day when Trump Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #50
As we moved here from NYC, we hightailed it for Big Bear when he was across the street. SleeplessinSoCal Jun 2021 #55
It's mostly coward men that want to feel tough and "manly" that get these guns JI7 Jun 2021 #61
Message from the Mayor of CM today. SleeplessinSoCal Jun 2021 #101
The OC DA warned them last week... WarGamer Jun 2021 #46
Good job locating them Wild blueberry Jun 2021 #57
double their time in prison for killing a child. demigoddess Jun 2021 #60
Planet of the Apes is here. Prophetic movie. Evolve Dammit Jun 2021 #67
Good! Buckeye_Democrat Jun 2021 #70
There's something new here in South Carolina. kskiska Jun 2021 #71
I've never seen that yet. Buckeye_Democrat Jun 2021 #72
We have lot's of those here in Oklahoma DVRacer Jun 2021 #74
we have a few of those in southern Calif Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #85
We have those. The only confusing thing about them around here MissB Jun 2021 #90
Another human sacrifice to America's God. Crunchy Frog Jun 2021 #75
All I could think was "I hope a cop calls them a couple of fucking snowflakes." Warpy Jun 2021 #79
Its the guns. The sheer number increases the odds of an incident like this. maxsolomon Jun 2021 #82
Into the wood chipper with them. LudwigPastorius Jun 2021 #84
That website is rather questionable SouthBayDem Jun 2021 #91
Does anyone remember when Disney created a cartoon about road rage? BobTheSubgenius Jun 2021 #94
don't remember that cartoon. do remember "the wonderful world of Disney" though Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #95
"Motor Mania", 1950. Dial H For Hero Jun 2021 #97
Cowards Maine Abu El Banat Jun 2021 #99
Personality disorders and road rage go together womanofthehills Jun 2021 #102

leftyladyfrommo

(20,005 posts)
5. I never engage in any way with questionable drivers.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:20 PM
Jun 2021

You never know when crazies like this are in the other car.

I just get way put of the way.

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
8. i posted this last week... this guy wouldn't let it go, the rav 4 was being an *sshole until
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:25 PM
Jun 2021

someone got fed up

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
12. yeah, the rav 4 guy was brake checking people, being a general menace, hit the guys car mirror
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:32 PM
Jun 2021

well... he engaged with the wrong guy

dalton99a

(94,113 posts)
16. Yep:
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:46 PM
Jun 2021
https://www.kxan.com/news/local/bastrop-county/person-shot-in-the-face-during-road-rage-incident-near-elgin-police-say/

Person shot in the face during ‘road rage’ incident near Elgin, police say
by: Billy Gates
Posted: Apr 2, 2021 / 10:13 PM CDT / Updated: Apr 2, 2021 / 10:13 PM CDT

ELGIN, Texas (KXAN) — An incident between two drivers turned violent Friday afternoon on State Highway 95 outside Elgin.

One driver in front of a line of cars was going 55-60 mph, EPD said. A driver a few cars behind became angry and sped up, passed all the cars in front of them — including the lead car.

Once that car pulled in front, the driver slammed on the brakes and forced all the other cars behind them to stop. Then, once everyone was stopped, the driver got out of the car and started punching the windows of the car originally at the front of the line. The driver of that car then opened fire and shot the person punching their car in the face.

EPD officers were first on scene and took the person who fired shots into custody, and emergency crews responded to treat the person who was shot, EPD said.

 

oldsoftie

(13,538 posts)
32. Custody? he was defending himself.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:42 PM
Jun 2021

From the guy punching his window. What comes after the window breaks?
I'd shoot him too if he attacked me & i couldnt drive away. Especially if my wife was with me

aggiesal

(10,801 posts)
34. In California, even if you're doing the speed limit on a 1 lane road, ...
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:52 PM
Jun 2021

if 5 cars are piled up behind you, by law, the lead driver has to pull over into the shoulder and
allow all the cars behind, to pass.

4 cars, you're OK.
5 cars pull over
6 cars, you're asking for it! In California anyway.

CHP will ticket you if they see 5 cars behind the lead car.
On a one lane road, the danger increases exponentially for each car
that has to pass, especially for the lead driver.
Pulling over into the shoulder is the safest way to allow all cars to pass.

SergeStorms

(20,591 posts)
45. It's always a good idea...
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 04:54 PM
Jun 2021

to check your rearview and sideview mirrors when you drive. If you see a line of cars behind you, chances are you're the problem and should pull over to let them by. You'd be surprised how many people are totally unaware of what's going on behind them, even to the point of not pulling over when emergency vehicles are trying to pass.

I'm not implying you do this, aggiesal, I'm just saying some people are completely uninvolved with job of driving safely, and I do consider driving a job that deserves your complete attention. I'm sure you're a safe and conscientious driver.

Tink41

(537 posts)
47. Never understood this
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 05:05 PM
Jun 2021

First I'm not trolling or have any intention of sarcasm, rudeness. What is the point of a speed LIMIT if 5 cars are piling up behind you? It has gotten worse during the pandemic w people driving 45, 50 on 35 mph roads. WHY??? Why do I need to move for idiots
who think the limit is a suggestion? If its 30 mph that is what I'm doing.
Again, I'm honestly curious cause each day is more stressful as it continues.

Whiskeytide

(4,656 posts)
52. The reality, good or bad, is that most cars ...
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 05:30 PM
Jun 2021

… travel at 5-10 mph over the speed limit. If someone is going the speed limit, it backs up traffic. If a vehicle is going the speed limit and 5, 6, 10 or more vehicles que in behind that driver, it creates an unsafe situation for EVERYONE, and tends to flare tempers.

The vehicle going the speed limit may be within their rights to do so, true enough, but they are also the only vehicle in the equation that has the ability to remedy the situation. People going 10 mph over the speed limit may be hurrying for a multitude of reasons - legit or not — Late for work and afraid of losing their job, rushing to the hospital in an emergency, trying to catch a plane etc…. Adding to the stress is not wise for anyone. If you’re not in a hurry, pull over and let the caravan pass, and then be on your way. It’s safer for everyone.

Tink41

(537 posts)
54. what is the point?
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 05:48 PM
Jun 2021

And that is what I am asking. What is the point of a posted LIMIT when no one obeys it? What situation would need to be remedied
if people followed the rules? It does not say in the rules it's ok to do 60 in a 45 cause you are late to work. On the occasion, of a true emergency fair enough, no way are there true emergencies on every road I travel everyday, at all times of the day. Including the 15 mph down my street. All night all day everyday. It almost sounds like rules of the road are rules you make up yourself just like the pandemic. Not literally "yourself" but that seems to be what a large majority did.

Whiskeytide

(4,656 posts)
58. Again - the issue is not the rules. It's what is the safest ...
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 06:24 PM
Jun 2021

… course of action given the circumstances.

The point of a speed limit is to maintain order on the roadway. You DON’T want everyone going as fast as they want to go. Keeping idiots from going 65 in a 45 zone is the primary point.

But we KNOW most people go 5-10 over the speed limits. They simply do. You don’t have to like it, or agree with it, or participate in it. But it’s foolish to not acknowledge it. I’ve heard LEOs say that the actual speed limit is 5-10 mph over the posted speed. Very few will ticket a car for that infraction, and most experienced drivers know this and keep it in that range for that reason - always taking into account where you are and what’s around you, of course.

And it IS situational. If you drive the speed limit in town, in traffic, from your house to the grocery store 3 miles away -ok. That’s not going to be a problem.

But if you drive 55 on a two lane highway for 40 miles, you’re going to have 15 drivers bumper to bumper behind you, impatient, aggravated, and probably looking to pass you even if it creates some risk. That endangers you, them and possibly other drivers on the road.

What’s the point in that?



Tink41

(537 posts)
77. I'm not arguing with you, but this really irks me
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 10:08 PM
Jun 2021

These same principals came into play during the height of pandemic. Wearing a mask below the nose, no mask, safe as long as its family. Funeral, Church, etc... all safe, acceptable cause " Most people were doing this, and everyone knew it."
Was regaled w stories of neighborhood bars, restaurants over capacity no one masked, cops look other way. WTF???

Sorry, rant over and NOT directed at you. Numerous horrific crashes, deaths in these past months in my community. Pedestrians, bicycles. Been here 30 yrs and never seen it like this. The roads are absolute insanity here, side streets, main roads.

Sympthsical

(10,969 posts)
98. Humans are rule-flexible by default
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 01:22 PM
Jun 2021

And traffic laws take that into consideration, hence why CHP will cite someone for backing up traffic, even if they're strictly obeying the law. Their strict adherence is causing a safety hazard.

Yes, it's not strictly the written law. But we have something called "social law." Where we, as a group, accept that things work a certain way. (Social law is a fascinating subject to dive into).

The pandemic was an object exercise in social law. What are the new norms? What are we willing to accept? What exceptions will we make? Who's making them and why?

I will say, coming out of all this, it was super interesting to watch how humans behaved during the pandemic. I used to just walk around neighborhoods and watch during the strictest parts of lockdown. Who's doing what. Totally fascinating.

I imagine there will be some books about it all.

Tink41

(537 posts)
105. Recently discovered I'm high functioning.
Sun Jun 20, 2021, 06:19 PM
Jun 2021

So for me rules, directions are what I'm all about. Thrive on exact expectations. Not so good at what you are describing. And again
it's a VERY recent discovery. I don't drive within the limits because I'm law abiding. I do because that's what is proclaimed all along the roadway every couple blocks or so AND I refuse to give my money to anyone for a ticket. I don't do expressways anymore and I haven't had an encounter with the police in 30+ yrs.

Sympthsical

(10,969 posts)
106. Its a good thing to know about yourself
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 07:31 AM
Jun 2021

I learned early on I'm a little similar. Like with the gym. I have a trainer. Not because I don't know what to do. I know exactly what to do. I need the expectation. I need accountability. I need the rules and guard rails. "And you will do this today." And I will do exactly that. It's just how my personality works.

So it's good for you to have that self-awareness.

Ka-Dinh Oy

(11,686 posts)
93. That is almost saying the speed limit only applies to some.
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 12:24 PM
Jun 2021

I am one of the "goes the speed limit" people. I come to complete stops and do not rush out in front of other cars to get to where I am going to continue on the road. Yes, once in a rare while I do speed and that is usually when I am trying to get around some one who is going 5 to 10 miles under the speed limit. When I pass people going that slow I look at them (not with a dirty look) as I pass to make sure they are alright. I also do not use the fast lane unless I am passing an under the speed limit person. I always use my blinker. Hell, I am one of those idiots who uses my blinker in parking lots. Most people don't use blinkers in parking lots.

Why should I pull over when I am obeying the law to let someone break it?


It amazes me how people who drive the way they are supposed to get so much bad rap.

Whiskeytide

(4,656 posts)
96. No bad rap intended. It's just that it is safer...
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 12:58 PM
Jun 2021

… for everyone to not have lines of traffic backed up on the roadway. Regardless of the cause.

I use my turn signals as well, and I use the passing lane to pass. I’m customarily a very defensive driver. But I do often travel a few miles over the posted speed. I think the majority of drivers do. That may make us law-breakers, but it’s still the reality. And understand I’m talking about going 63 in a 55 zone, or 78 in a 70 zone. No one is excusing people recklessly blowing down the highway 25 mph over the limit.

My point is that traveling the speed limit and having cars stacked up behind you is unsafe for all. Everyone is too close, and some start to get anxious. A sudden stop causes a pile up. A pass attempt by an anxious, hurrying driver is dangerous.

That’s a lot of risk being slung around just to prove that someone “has the right”.

There are only two solutions to reduce the risk. Make EVERYONE go the speed limit (which is never going to happen), or let faster drivers go ahead of you.

Sympthsical

(10,969 posts)
100. Most states have "flow of traffic" laws
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 01:31 PM
Jun 2021

If you're going the speed limit, and everyone else is going faster, you actually become a hazard. Stubborn adherence to written rules when those rules are not appropriate to the situation you find yourself in have caused a lot of traffic deaths.

I always tend to go the speed of traffic. We're all 10 over the limit? Ok, I guess we're all 10 over the limit today. Makes no nevermind to me. If I'm going the same as anyone else, not like CHP is hunting me down. They're going after that asshole who just blazed by us, and we were all at 70 already.

Driving the way you're "supposed to" can actually create dangerous situations. That's why the police will actually pull you over if you have build up behind you (at least, in California they will).

Being right and being alive are two somewhat different things.

Tink41

(537 posts)
103. I wasn't referring to expwy
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 06:59 PM
Jun 2021

This nonsense is on populated residential streets. Haven't been on the expwy in at least 10 yrs. Refuse to do it anymore. If it takes me an extra hour to get somewhere so be it.

aggiesal

(10,801 posts)
66. To be honest, the speed limit in California is not really a speed limit but a speed suggestions ...
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 07:54 PM
Jun 2021

and the CHP treats it that way. The only time the speed limit is the speed limit is when the sign states
"MAXIMUM SPEED LIMIT"



Otherwise the speed limit is actually what is safe for the conditions.
If the limit is 65 and there is a torrential down pour of rain, with everyone slowing down to 30's & 40's MPH,
anyone driving at 65 MPH speed limit in these conditions could get ticketed for speeding even if your speed satisfies the limit.
The CHP recognizes what safe speed for the condition.

There is also a law that states you have to drive within 10 MPH of the speed limit.
If the speed limit is set to 65 MPH, and a driver is driving less than 55 MPH, that is not a "SAFE" speed and the
CHP will ticket you because you are a hazard. I can see CHP doing that if they deem the "SAFE" speed is at 75 MPH
and a driver is driving slower than 65 MPH. Even if they are driving within the Speed limit, this is UNSAFE if everyone
around you is driving at 75.

I usually would drive no more than 10% above the posted speed limit.
If the speed limit is 60 MPH, I'd drive no faster than 66 MPH, so I'd set the cruise control to 65.
65 MPH -> 72 MPH - I'd probably drive around 70 MPH
70 MPH -> 77 MPH - I'd probably drive around 75 MPH
I think you understand.

aggiesal

(10,801 posts)
83. I never claimed to be CHP ...
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 11:41 PM
Jun 2021

Had a friend back when I lived in the Bay Area, who was and told me all this.

If everyone is driving 70 MPH and someone comes screaming through at 80 MPH, you ticket (speeding) the one that is doing 80 MPH.
If everyone is driving 70 MPH and is passing up the driver doing 55-60 MPH, you ticket (hazard) the one that's doing 55-60 MPH.

They would have to ticket thousands for doing 70 MPH, the system could never handle those numbers.

Any vehicle with more than 2 axles can't go faster than 55 MPH, regardless of the speed limit. That includes if you're towing.

Evolve Dammit

(21,774 posts)
64. That is really fucked up. Especially when teaching young drivers to follow speed limits. Insanity.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 07:47 PM
Jun 2021

Tink41

(537 posts)
76. Yes it is
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 09:57 PM
Jun 2021

Completely fucked up when most seem to think any speed goes as long as you're keeping up with traffic. Hell, why not just do 100 mph all day long?? I don't get it, where does it say 10-15% over is acceptable? Is there a special book I don't know of that tells you
acceptable rule skirting practices.??

Evolve Dammit

(21,774 posts)
89. In the last two decades I have seen driving become way more fast and aggressive. I noticed it first
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 06:16 AM
Jun 2021

in major metro areas, then the whole eastern seaboard, A trip to CA revealed same. Stop signs are optional and a huge number are on devices constantly. We have lost friends to drivers who were texting, etc. Sucks

Escurumbele

(4,094 posts)
13. You are correct, even if they give me the finger I ignore them
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:36 PM
Jun 2021

And if I know it was actually my fault I just raise my hand excusing myself, but yes, you never know when a crazy is out there. They get guns and they cannot wait to use them.

C Moon

(13,642 posts)
17. The way I look at it is that I don't want them to be a part of my life.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:49 PM
Jun 2021

If you react, then there's a good chance something will happen and you'll end up in court or something else and have to see their sorry faces, and hear their names again and again.

cab67

(3,749 posts)
21. Best piece of advice I've gotten for this type of situation -
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:07 PM
Jun 2021

Don’t make eye contact. Just keep driving and pay attention to my he road in front of you.

bullwinkle428

(20,662 posts)
24. In recent years, I've notice lots of these hyper-aggressive road assholes
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:22 PM
Jun 2021

have gotten the super-dark tinting on their windows. My guess is that they don't want to give other drivers the opportunity to look them in the eye after they've pulled some dirty shit on them. Further proof that these types really are cowards.

Submariner

(13,365 posts)
6. Life without parole for the shooter
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:24 PM
Jun 2021

for no other reason than the little boy's Mom will probably never have a peaceful sleep again, or moment of calm rest, without thinking about the nightmare she lived through in that car in the moments after that gunshot.

FreepFryer

(7,086 posts)
7. They ended their own lives too. It'll be a few decades before their bodies catch up though. (Nt)
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:24 PM
Jun 2021

Sancho

(9,205 posts)
19. People Control, Not Gun Control
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 02:56 PM
Jun 2021

This is my generic response to gun threads where people are shot and killed by the dumb or criminal possession of guns. For the record, I grew up in the South and on military bases. I was taught about firearms as a child, and I grew up hunting, was a member of the NRA, and I still own guns. In the 70’s, I dropped out of the NRA because they become more radical and less interested in safety and training. Some personal experiences where people I know were involved in shootings caused me to realize that anyone could obtain and posses a gun no matter how illogical it was for them to have a gun. Also, easy access to more powerful guns, guns in the hands of children, and guns that weren’t secured are out of control in our society. As such, here’s what I now think ought to be the requirements to possess a gun. I’m not debating the legal language, I just think it’s the reasonable way to stop the shootings. Notice, none of this restricts the type of guns sold. This is aimed at the people who shoot others, because it’s clear that they should never have had a gun.

1.) Anyone in possession of a gun (whether they own it or not) should have a regularly renewed license. If you want to call it a permit, certificate, or something else that's fine.
2.) To get a license, you should have a background check, and be examined by a professional for emotional and mental stability appropriate for gun possession. It might be appropriate to require that examination to be accompanied by references from family, friends, employers, etc. This check is not to subject you to a mental health diagnosis, just check on your superficial and apparent gun-worthyness.
3.) To get the license, you should be required to take a safety course and pass a test appropriate to the type of gun you want to use.
4.) To get a license, you should be over 21. Under 21, you could only use a gun under direct supervision of a licensed person and after obtaining a learner’s license. Your license might be restricted if you have children or criminals or other unsafe people living in your home. (If you want to argue 18 or 25 or some other age, fine. 21 makes sense to me.)
5.) If you possess a gun, you would have to carry a liability insurance policy specifically for gun ownership - and likely you would have to provide proof of appropriate storage, security, and whatever statistical reasons that emerge that would drive the costs and ability to get insurance.
6.) You could not purchase a gun or ammunition without a license, and purchases would have a waiting period.
7.) If you possess a gun without a license, you go to jail, the gun is impounded, and a judge will have to let you go (just like a DUI).
8.) No one should carry an unsecured gun (except in a locked case, unloaded) when outside of home. Guns should be secure when transporting to a shooting event without demonstrating a special need. Their license should indicate training and special carry circumstances beyond recreational shooting (security guard, etc.). If you are carrying your gun while under the influence of drugs or alcohol, you lose your gun and license.
9.) If you buy, sell, give away, or inherit a gun, your license information should be recorded.
10.) If you accidentally discharge your gun, commit a crime, get referred by a mental health professional, are served a restraining order, etc., you should lose your license and guns until reinstated by a serious relicensing process.

Most of you know that a license is no big deal. Besides a driver’s license you need a license to fish, operate a boat, or many other activities. I realize these differ by state, but that is not a reason to let anyone without a bit of sense pack a semiautomatic weapon in public, on the roads, and in schools. I think we need to make it much harder for some people to have guns.

For those who want to argue legality, please reference: The Second Amendment: A Biography by Michael Waldman

MineralMan

(151,265 posts)
20. Do Not Flip People Off in Traffic. Period.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:03 PM
Jun 2021

It was never a good idea, and too many people are armed in cars these days. Just let them go by. Do not participate in road rage at any level.

That's my advice. It's my opinion. You might feel differently.

The Mom in that story, though, will live the rest of her life knowing that giving the finger to someone cost her son his life. It is not worth it.

SunnyATT

(56 posts)
23. Totally agree!
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:14 PM
Jun 2021

Do not flip anyone off and you might add don't toot your horn or flash your lights. People are nuts!!!

JI7

(93,615 posts)
59. Yup, I try to avoid beeping as much as I can
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 07:11 PM
Jun 2021

Especially if it's becsuse I'm annoyed like someone not moving when the light turns green.

Ilsa

(64,366 posts)
25. I agree, and have been teaching my son the same.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:25 PM
Jun 2021

Too many angry, armed people out there.

Decades ago, my brothers-in-law and his wife were on a highway in California. He changed lanes and accidentally cut someone off. The driver of that car drove up beside him, screaming and shaking his fist at him, flipped them off, then tailgated him. My BIL tried slowing down to let him go around, but he stayed to their side or behind them for the next hour. They were terrified. They finally managed to do a quick exit and lose them. They were afraid at some point they'd need to stop for gas and be followed, with an escalation.

People go nuts and stay angry over nothing.

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
28. one sleepy satuday, i noticed a woman driving slowly in front of me..slower and slower
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:30 PM
Jun 2021

eventually she began not starting up immediately at green lights. I realized she was punishing me for "something".. I had no idea..

Maybe I had been in front of her and not driving as fast I she thought I should

anyway, I simply moved to another lane and when about my day. SHe followed me for a long time, until I got to my first appointment. I parked and she sat next to me in her car for a bit. I refused to even look at her. Then she drove off finally.. so weird... the game of Duel people will get into from their cars.

 

oldsoftie

(13,538 posts)
31. Thats what gets them; never looking at them
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:39 PM
Jun 2021

They WANT you to look at them. I act like I dont even know they're THERE.

Stuart G

(38,726 posts)
29. It's a "possession thing." Larger than life..."I own this portion of the road" Don't bother with me
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:38 PM
Jun 2021

or I ......???...These people are nuts. Never give them the finger...Never get in their way..Avoid
them if possible....Do what is necessary to get away from them...

If you think that you own a space on a highway...and no one can take your space.
.as you travel along, (and the space is in front of you as you are going 60mph).....
...............................................well of course you are nuts!!!!!
.........................................

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
51. If I was that mother I'd have to be put on suicide watch. Once, just once, I flipped someone off...
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 05:23 PM
Jun 2021

It was close to 40 years ago. My young kids were in the car, and this guy who looked over 70 kept riding my bumper. I was in the fast lane already and didn’t have an easy way out. At first I upped my speed thinking that’s all he wanted, but the third time he pushed me yet faster I realized he was not going to let up, so I started tapping my brake light and looking hard for a way to get into another lane. When I got there I took a calculated risk (I thought) that some guy over 70 with his wife in the car wasn’t going to take this far enough to kill me and in a flash I gave him the bird. As he whooshed past, his wife looked aghast at me, so shocked at my rudeness. My kids were shocked, too, as this was very unlike the me they knew.

Every time since then that someone has tried to climb up my tailpipe I tap my break lights as soon as they get way too close, and if they want the road that bad they can have it. I move over asap, with no naughty gestures. To hell with them.

But the stories you hear, my gods. It was about the same era one of my mother’s friends had one side of her bumper deliberately clipped by a guy in a pickup truck. He almost spun her, but fortunately she escaped to the off-ramp with a battered car. And you’d think, naaaw, someone with that much control of their pickup truck? But you’d pick up the LA Times the next week and read that it was a real thing going on, apparently someone’s idea of kicks — clip a tail-light and spin a car on the freeway.

I feel for that mother. What those murderers did to her will never, ever heal.

Evolve Dammit

(21,774 posts)
65. "kicks" is right. They enjoy fucking with others and feel superior. Not enough trafffic enforcement
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 07:54 PM
Jun 2021
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
53. I'm certain no one has in fact, argued it's a good idea.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 05:32 PM
Jun 2021

Visceral and heated reactions are rarely thought out, though of, or even thought through in the heat of a moment.

It's my opinion. You might feel differently.


__^

Jedi Guy

(3,477 posts)
78. "...too many people are armed in cars these days."
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 10:19 PM
Jun 2021

You are 100% correct. About ten years ago, I worked as a dispatcher for a police department in a fairly large Arizona city. The department did a study and concluded that of the cars stopped by officers, 70% of those cars had a gun inside. Once I heard that little factoid, I resolved to never, ever again flip someone off when driving. You never know if that person has a gun in the car with them and is ready to have a "Falling Down" moment.

TheRealNorth

(9,647 posts)
26. Flipping the bird....
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:26 PM
Jun 2021

Does not deserve the death penalty.

Hope these 2 rot in prison, and burn in hell after that.

kcr

(15,522 posts)
87. Thank you. It's a shame it took until comment number 26
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 06:10 AM
Jun 2021

for the obvious. Especially here.

Judi Lynn

(164,122 posts)
33. Wynne Lee & Marcus Eriz: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 03:44 PM
Jun 2021

By Jessica McBride
Updated Jun 7, 2021 at 2:25pm

Wynne Lee and Marcus Eriz are the two suspects accused in the fatal road rage shooting death in California of 6-year-old Aiden Anthony Leos.

Marcus Anthony Eriz is an auto body technician who brandished guns at shooting ranges on his Instagram page; Lee is the daughter of Taiwanese immigrants who was featured in stories about depression among Asian-American teens. Both are from California.

Aiden’s death on May 21, 2021, has outraged and galvanized the community. The boy was shot and killed on the 55 Freeway in Orange, California. Lee and Eriz were arrested in Costa Mesa, California, on Sunday, June 6, 2021, according to the California Highway Patrol, and they are “expected to be charged with murder,” a news release said.



Instagram
A still shot from a video on Marcus Eriz’s Instagram page.

Authorities said in a news release the boy was shot in “a road rage incident over a perceived unsafe lane change.” The California Highway Patrol called the suspect Eriz Marcus Anthony in the news release, but jail records and his social media accounts give his name as Marcus Anthony Eriz.

. . .



Aiden Leos

More:
https://heavy.com/news/wynne-lee-marcus-eriz/

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
86. Poor, sweet little boy.
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 04:40 AM
Jun 2021

I hope the bastard that shot him gets the book thrown at him.

RIP, little Aiden.

Roc2020

(1,787 posts)
37. money talks
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 04:02 PM
Jun 2021

glad they got caught but if it was not for the reward I don't think they would have.

 

rockfordfile

(8,742 posts)
40. Give them the death penalty
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 04:18 PM
Jun 2021

If they don't get the death penalty, then what a travesty to the family.

Initech

(108,777 posts)
48. It's like I keep saying:
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 05:07 PM
Jun 2021

Give an idiot a gun, don't be surprised when they do something stupid with it.

ShazzieB

(22,582 posts)
42. Eriz looks like such an arrogant asshole in that pic in the o.p.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 04:31 PM
Jun 2021

Every time I look at it, I want to slap that condescending sneer off his face.

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
44. The Gun Show was this past weekend in Costa Mesa
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 04:39 PM
Jun 2021

We live across the street from the fairgrounds where it was held. It goes on there several times a year. Those two live in Costa Mesa as well. I feel the 2nd amendment has been twisted by the worst of society to cause our stalemate. A small minority is using its power to haphazardly destroy us. And these casualties are the evidence.

Initech

(108,777 posts)
49. And then there was that asshole judge who overturned the assault weapons ban.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 05:08 PM
Jun 2021

Expect the return of drive-by shootings! Yay!

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
56. We find out soon if SCOTUS supports another civil war.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 06:05 PM
Jun 2021
"If we are to have another contest in the near future of our national existence, I predict that the dividing line will not be Mason's and Dixon's, but between patriotism and intelligence on one side, and superstition, ambition, and ignorance on the other."

U.S Grant

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
50. lived in Costa Mesa a few years ago... so know the area. I remember the day when Trump
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 05:11 PM
Jun 2021

spoke a the fairgrounds... people in trucks with big ass flags...

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
55. As we moved here from NYC, we hightailed it for Big Bear when he was across the street.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 06:02 PM
Jun 2021

Sadly we couldn't stay up there.

JI7

(93,615 posts)
61. It's mostly coward men that want to feel tough and "manly" that get these guns
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 07:14 PM
Jun 2021

and have it with them everywhere.

Buckeye_Democrat

(15,526 posts)
70. Good!
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 09:05 PM
Jun 2021

He's probably the person who fired the gun, but that woman is still culpable as far as I'm concerned without notifying authorities about the incident immediately.

kskiska

(27,165 posts)
71. There's something new here in South Carolina.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 09:08 PM
Jun 2021

A yellow flashing left turn arrow during a green light for straight-ahead traffic. People are seeing that and are refusing to make the turn, even when the road is clear for a left turn. It's meant only as a caution for left-hand turns. Then the light turns red for everyone. It's frustrating to be behind one of these drivers.

Buckeye_Democrat

(15,526 posts)
72. I've never seen that yet.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 09:18 PM
Jun 2021

It would probably confuse me briefly, like I might wonder if I had to exercise caution to even drive on that road.

Probably not a long delay from me, though. I've been behind some older drivers around here who seem to need at least 10 seconds before recognizing that a traffic light turned green. My main hope is that they never attempt to drive by Chicago because their slow reaction times might kill them and others around there.

Never wanted to shoot any of those drivers, of course!

DVRacer

(734 posts)
74. We have lot's of those here in Oklahoma
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 09:44 PM
Jun 2021

The news did a bunch of stories on them when they were introduced basically you treat them like a right turn on a red light. Come to a stop and turn when the traffic is clear just be mindful you do not have the right of way during your turn. What they are replacing are the intersection solid green that says yield to oncoming traffic when turning left. Many accidents happened when people assumed green meant go and would turn into traffic.

MissB

(16,344 posts)
90. We have those. The only confusing thing about them around here
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 08:52 AM
Jun 2021

is that some jurisdictions allow you to pull out into the intersection while trying to make the turn on the flashing yellow and then take the turn as it goes to solid yellow and some cities will ticket you if you’re in the intersection when it turns solid yellow.

I personally love the flashing yellow turn signal as it moves traffic along quite nicely.

Warpy

(114,614 posts)
79. All I could think was "I hope a cop calls them a couple of fucking snowflakes."
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 10:36 PM
Jun 2021

Anybody who gets bent out of shape enough to pull a gun on a finger needs restraints, physical or chemical.

maxsolomon

(38,715 posts)
82. Its the guns. The sheer number increases the odds of an incident like this.
Mon Jun 7, 2021, 11:35 PM
Jun 2021

Yes, the incidents vanishingly rare, as Judge Benitez would say, but the more angry, frustrated MEN with guns in their hands the greater the odds that one of them will use that gun.

He didn't NEED this gun to protect himself, he WANTED to use it when he was flipped off. He saw a nail, and all he had was a hammer. That's not a reason to execute anyone.

A split second overreaction made in haste and anger, and it killed a child. If he HADN'T had a gun, he wouldn't have committed murder.

BobTheSubgenius

(12,217 posts)
94. Does anyone remember when Disney created a cartoon about road rage?
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 12:30 PM
Jun 2021

Of course, they didn't call it that. Goofy was cast in two mutually exclusive roles - mild-mannered and friendly Mr. Walker when he was a pedestrian, and deranged and raging Mr. Wheeler when he was driving. I remember it from many years ago, when my Sunday evenings were dominated by The Wonderful World of Disney. I think I was about 8.

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
102. Personality disorders and road rage go together
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 04:30 PM
Jun 2021

They take everything personally. I have a road rage cousin - almost no one in the family will talk to him - sometimes I try to talk reason into him but it’s hard. He has told me his road rage stories - so sick and he thinks he’s in the the right. Last one was a lady made a mistake in a parking lot, so Cousin Denny blocks her so she can’t get out -sitting on his hood taunting her. Who does this? Usually people who get along with no one in their personal lives. Luckily - he lives in a state where he can’t carry a gun.

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