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A true daughter of the confederacy has written what should be the last words on the monuments coming down in Washington DC Capitol and all over the South:
I have rape-colored skin. My light-brown-blackness is a living testament to the rules, the practices, the causes of the Old South.
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If there are those who want to remember the legacy of the Confederacy, if they want monuments, well, then, my body is a monument. My skin is a monument.
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Dead Confederates are honored all over this country with cartoonish private statues, solemn public monuments and even in the names of United States Army bases. It fortifies and heartens me to witness the protests against this practice and the growing clamor from serious, nonpartisan public servants to redress it. But there are still those like President Trumpand the Senate majority leader,Mitch McConnell who cannot understand the difference between rewriting and reframing the past. I say it is not a matter of airbrushing history, but of adding a new perspective.
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I am a black, Southern woman, and of my immediate white male ancestors, all of them were rapists. My very existence is a relic of slavery and Jim Crow.
More: http://progressiveerupts.blogspot.com/2021/07/powerful.html
EYESORE 9001
(25,927 posts)Her words are incredibly moving.
MontanaMama
(23,307 posts)on Lawrence O'Donnell. My husband was watching with me and was clearly quite uncomfortable with what she was saying and almost questioning it. I said to him "So, are you saying that black women kept as slaves had a choice as to whether they had sex with their owners?" Then he said "Oh. I get it. That's awful." Yeah. It is beyond awful and SHE IS RIGHT, DAMMIT.
sheshe2
(83,746 posts)Glad your husband got it. Some never do, MontanaMama.
That bridge needs to be renamed as many are trying to do. It is a disgrace that it wears Pettus's name, a slaveholder, murderer, rapist because you know he did all of that.
MontanaMama
(23,307 posts)Her heritage is mixed race but primarily AA. She asked to do DNA testing a few years ago and her adopted parents, my sister in law and her husband, got it done for her. When we were all visiting family in Charleston, SC we were able to find one of the many buildings where slave auctions were once held. My niece's DNA reports indicated that her ancestors were brought to this country and sold at that very site. It was chilling and incredibly emotional. These are things that I cannot fully comprehend being of white European decent.
sheshe2
(83,746 posts)She now knows the very site her ancestors were sold.
I can't even
lunatica
(53,410 posts)It is powerful!
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)likely has a rapist, likely several, in their family tree.
I used to think that my Dad had no non-Black ancestry, even when some signs (his hair texture for sure) said otherwise. I was pretty sure that my Mothers side had White ancestry long ago before genetic testing showed it, my Moms Mom could have passed for White if she had that in her, which she didnt try. To this day I am convinced that she had blue-ish or blue-grey-ish eyes, but unfortunately I was a little child when she passed and there are no quality portraits of her.
I believe that my Dad was at least part Asian Indian (ancestry from India), because his family migrated to the USA sometime during the 1800s or early 1900s ( he was born in 1911) from an island nation that had a lot of people that were from India on it (that is all I know of his origin). He also may have had some White ancestry.
The most brutal part of being a Black person in America in regards to tracking a family tree is key early parts of that tree are all gone forever. Unlike Whites, we dont have family diaries and state and town maintained records of our ancestors, some of us cant even use names that would have appeared on such records to help us. So, we have the genetic tests now confirming what we are, but we have nothing else to help us solve the puzzle of how we became what we are in terms of racial makeup.
ShazamIam
(2,570 posts)be raped, but some how not good enough to be your neighbor or marry into the family. It never made sense to me.
I wonder how scrambled the brains of racists and bigots are. For I have considered it to be mental illness, bigotry and racism.
erronis
(15,241 posts)sheshe2
(83,746 posts)I am a White Anglo Saxon Protestant
Some might argue that settling at first on this continent on, say, Delancey Street on the Lower East Side of Manhattan was harder than in a log cabin, as a good number of ''WASP's'' originally did (though having lived in both settings, I'm inclined to doubt this). Yet even if it were true, there would still seem no reasonable excuse for leaving one ethnic slur in general circulation while forbidding all others.
The word has no honest meaning. All Anglo-Saxon Protestants are white, so ''WASP'' is redundant at best. And though not all white Protestants are Anglo-Saxon, the distinctions between them, which can be considerable, are based on the regions where they live, the particular creed of Protestantism they believe in and their income level, not on national origin.
https://www.nytimes.com/1988/09/16/opinion/wasp-stings-it-isn-t-amusing.html
diverdownjt
(702 posts)It's about dominating another human being and subjugating them to your will....Get your head on straight.
ShazamIam
(2,570 posts)relationship. My point was we have even read accounts of real love between people, denied by mostly by families of the white side and by laws written by white men, Loving Vs Virginia is of course the most well known case.
PunkinPi
(4,875 posts)"good enough to be raped." Yeesh.
Solly Mack
(90,762 posts)Triloon
(506 posts)But I wonder if there's anyone on this earth that doesn't have "rape colored skin".
MontanaMama
(23,307 posts)I promise.
erronis
(15,241 posts)raping another person. It's just the way this stuff works. Look at 10,000++ generations of males and females living together - all races, creeds - and try to imagine a scenario where some white dude one million years ago had consensual sex with some white lady and all of their progeny stayed true to race ---- and didn't engage in rape.
I'm glad I'm a mutt. Look lily white but I know I have strains of almost every human-type species running in me. Frankly, I'd rather be obviously non-white but such is the draw.
getagrip_already
(14,708 posts)Being greek, it was all too recent. But it wasn't just the turks. It was the romans, the vikings, the huns, and just about every faction that could put together a band of fighters and throw them at civilian targets. It continues to this day.
Woman (and children) were considered spoils of battle.
It wasn't just the south. It is human history and all of it is despicable. I'm not pulling an all sides do it here or taking anything away from the slaves experiences.
Her words are powerful. Just sadly not unique.
Crunchy Frog
(26,579 posts)There certainly was no Homo sapiens. There were different species of humans, or members of the Homo genus, but I'm pretty sure the concept of race didn't yet exist.
That said, I'm sure that rape was already a thing.
soldierant
(6,847 posts)different from rape, and certainly some involved rape - child marriages for instance - though the guilt there belongs more to the arrangers, I'd say. And those were not limited to us common folk. Even royal women suffered.
FakeNoose
(32,633 posts)Arranged marriages in most cultures involved under-age girls, whose "consent" was of no concern to the parents. Since payment was often paid in advance for the "bride," the traditional arranged marriages could even be treated a form of prostitution.
Ligyron
(7,627 posts)But Im getting off Topic here, I suppose.
WheelWalker
(8,955 posts)brer cat
(24,559 posts)Ms. Toad
(34,062 posts)I was blown away when I first read it about a year ago.
Faux pas
(14,667 posts)IrishAfricanAmerican
(3,815 posts)iluvtennis
(19,849 posts)Brian Williams and always offers thought provoking commentary.
calimary
(81,220 posts)REALLY makes ya think.
JoeOtterbein
(7,700 posts)...rapist.
It is a horrible and shameful heritage.
I'm sorry. (tears)
sheshe2
(83,746 posts)No apologies needed if we do not follow their history of hate.
We can't change the past, yet we can change the future.
iluvtennis
(19,849 posts)The Jungle 1
(4,552 posts)The north has allowed it.
Lee should have been hung.
Davis should have been hung.
Appeasement has been a failed logic.
The land should have been redistributed.
Me, I am sick and tired of kissing he south's ass. I print their flag of treason and start my solo stove with it. Every weekend!
CrispyQ
(36,457 posts)Recommended.
Thanks for posting.
CousinIT
(9,239 posts)Again, 'WOW'..
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Should we be characterizing all light skinned AA people as "rape colored"?
I do get her point about being a living 'monument' for a misguidedly
'honored' confederate past, but the ugly term for light skin negates even the possibility of consensual relationships...Are Barack Obama and his children "rape colored"?
Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)Her skin is rape-colored. Period. Her framing is spot on for her and many others.
That doesn't mean people with other skin tones aren't or that every light-toned skin is the product of rape.
Your claim that it negates anything is not remotely accurate.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)I acknowledged her point, but again, rape has no color. Period.
Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)That's essentially you're analogous argument here.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)I support Black Lives Matter -- The topic we're discussing has nothing to do with it.
Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)Happy Independence Day!
whathehell
(29,067 posts)but back at ya!
Response to Pacifist Patriot (Reply #43)
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llashram
(6,265 posts)here is your answer. My skin colour is light because I came from a consensual interracial relationship as Ms William presumably has; Yet the point Ms Williams made was about the genesis of her light skin, being from the south with slave decedents
https://www.ukessays.com/essays/history/rape-in-american-slavery-system-during-the-antebellum-history-essay.php
https://williamspivey.medium.com/the-typical-model-of-an-american-slave-breeding-farm-aa0df279b72b
https://medium.com/the-aambc-journal/the-truth-about-american-slave-breeding-farms-ee631e863e2c
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_sexual_slavery_in_the_United_States
https://www.encyclopedia.com/humanities/applied-and-social-sciences-magazines/house-slaves-overview
Was quite common and not consensual in most cases.
https://www.encyclopedia.com/humanities/applied-and-social-sciences-magazines/house-slaves-overview
https://www.history.com/topics/slavery/sally-hemings
https://www.monticello.org/sallyhemings/
https://africhroyale.com/americas-slaves-breeding-farms-what-history-books-never-told-you/
This is just a small review of one of the horrors of slavery and the consequence of that slavery injustice and total disrespect for women of slavery and the consequence of that disrespect that Ms Williams so powerfully exposed.
Hope this answers your query...
sheshe2
(83,746 posts)You answered far better than I ever could. Their children became lighter because they were raped by their owners. It wasn't their choice, it was just business after all. The masters needed more slaves and it was cheaper to breed their own than buy one. They worked the pregnant ones up to delivery and then said child went to the fields at a very young age.
[div class="excerpt"In reality, slaves were often forced to marry other slaves selected by the master based on physical traits, or forced to breed with the hardiest men, or raped by the master and his friends and family. Even the lighter-skinned slaves resulting from those pairings had special value as house servants or some of the women became fancies to serve as bed wenches at the masters discretion or used as prostitutes.
any clearer. Some just turn a blind eye and prefer to stay in the dark about this historical fact. The photo above is an indictment of historical truth. After 4 years of not flying my flag for this holiday of freedom and continuing redemption. I am today this first 4th of the Biden/Harris administration flying my flag that represents what my wishes are for my country...also
I feel the Biden/Harris administration portrays the diverse beauty of our citizenry. Trump dissed us veterans and the 4th at every chance he had. But his insanity and disrespect were overwhelmingly repudiated on January 20th, 2021. January 6th just showed what a tool of foreign agents trump was/is.
Why does one think trump-Putin DID NOT allow cameras and no public recording devices in their conversations behind the closed door? Why did trump look like a beaten dog after those 'private summits'?
whathehell
(29,067 posts)My point was that Ms.Williams didn't seem to. Have a nice one.
llashram
(6,265 posts)Last edited Sun Jul 4, 2021, 12:14 PM - Edit history (1)
stated a fact in point(s). Rape was the preferred method for obtaining profit for the 'master' of a slaveholding household. And many assorted 'overseer's of the field hands provided DNA for the lightening of the skin for generations to come and contributed to the profit of the 'masters' slaveholding household(plantation) as well. DNA.
You have a beautiful holiday yourself.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)and for the third, hopefully final time, no one is "rape colored" as rape has no color -- Period.
Goodbye and good luck.
llashram
(6,265 posts)"rape coloured" is not the point Ms Williams is making. The colour of Ms Williams is DIRECTLY related to the colour of the rapists/racists that had such free reign during the antebellum period of open and obvious slavery in America's checkered history of democracy. Is that so hard to understand? Nothing period about it...
Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)I gave up.
llashram
(6,265 posts)maybe I help, maybe I don't...all I can do is keep trying. You did make truthful points. And that is one of the reasons I think that individual went pretty quiet.
Politicub
(12,165 posts)It takes all kinds, I guess, and the white gaze rears its head constantly. I see your point as more pedantic rather than a criticism of the totality of her statement.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Rape has no color. Period. You can "see" that however you like.
llashram
(6,265 posts)Last edited Sun Jul 4, 2021, 12:19 PM - Edit history (1)
the imputation is damning and true...what trumpers want to return as one of their rights among their whiny accusations of unfairness and fear of losing their self-perceived and self-entitled racial supremacy...now fading into the sunset
sheshe2
(83,746 posts)LetMyPeopleVote
(145,129 posts)Iggo
(47,549 posts)dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)Powerful indeed.