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NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 01:52 PM Jul 2021

What's a sign that someone is not as smart as they think they are?

I enjoyed reading the response to this question (excerpt below) ... it reminds me of more than one politician who loses a context and claims "rigged" and "unfair". (Trump being the most obvious example, of course.)


https://www.quora.com/Whats-a-sign-that-someone-is-not-as-smart-as-they-think-they-are

What's a sign that someone is not as smart as they think they are?

Originally Answered: What are some signs you're not as smart as you think?

A reliable way to see whether or not someone is not as smart as they think they are is to observe their reaction and how they behave when things don’t work out for them or when the situation doesn’t go their way.

Those who think that they are smarter/better/more talented, etc. than they really are will constantly complain about how they have bad luck, how the failure is others’ fault, unfairness in the system etc. Those who overestimate themselves tend to try and justify the failure and about how it wasn’t their fault. These people avoid taking responsibility for themselves by making excuses.

Those who are truly smart, on the other hand, are also humble enough to see their own shortcomings and to use each failure as a learning opportunity, and try to use that failure to find avenues for improvement. They are also more likely to succeed because they spend more time working and trying to figure stuff out rather than whining and complaining.

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What's a sign that someone is not as smart as they think they are? (Original Post) NurseJackie Jul 2021 OP
Calling things they don't personally like "socialism", "Marxism", or "critical race theory" ck4829 Jul 2021 #1
I'd add: "radical, leftist" nom du jour. yonder Jul 2021 #3
Wearing orange makeup on his face. LastDemocratInSC Jul 2021 #2
"As a member of MENSA"... NT AZSkiffyGeek Jul 2021 #4
I once knew a person who, anytime I brought up a book I was reading, immediately kairos12 Jul 2021 #5
That's hysterical! NurseJackie Jul 2021 #7
Did you Rebl2 Jul 2021 #17
Getting all their news and information from cable and/or social media Sympthsical Jul 2021 #6
There IS a place for people like Rachel Maddow... NurseJackie Jul 2021 #8
She's an exception though Sympthsical Jul 2021 #12
... Xoan Jul 2021 #9
How about when they tell you constantly how smart they are. Mr.Bill Jul 2021 #10
I accused my friend of getting his news from Fox. Patterson Jul 2021 #11
As seen on internet boards? - picking high flown Handles, narcissism, self-promotion, UTUSN Jul 2021 #13
"I've got like a really good brain." "I'm smarter than the Generals", will live in infamy. czarjak Jul 2021 #14
They're Republicans liberaltrucker Jul 2021 #15
Writing for Politico? NurseJackie Jul 2021 #16
Speaking of signs, I was in Cape May, NJ last weekend on a $700,000 Trumper Pepsidog Jul 2021 #18
I see those too... in rural areas. I recently had to attend a funeral in Georgia... NurseJackie Jul 2021 #19
I believe that's the area of New Jersey that elected Jeff Van Drew as a Democrat and then republican George II Jul 2021 #21
It is the traitor Van Drew's district. It was previously held by one of the last reasonable Rs Pepsidog Jul 2021 #25
He hangs around political forums complaining that nothing's being done? Hortensis Jul 2021 #20
Not being able to read between the lines or having blind faith liberal_mama Jul 2021 #22
"I know more about everything than anybody" is a tip-off struggle4progress Jul 2021 #23
They wear amaga hat and votie repugnican. overleft Jul 2021 #24
This post is an example of why I love this place... MiHale Jul 2021 #26
Their opinions are based on things that are wrong but self-righteously think they're always right. betsuni Jul 2021 #27
I am reminded of DFW's sig line: panader0 Jul 2021 #28

kairos12

(12,841 posts)
5. I once knew a person who, anytime I brought up a book I was reading, immediately
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 02:14 PM
Jul 2021

said he had read it. So, once I made up a plausible book title and said I was reading it.

You guess it, he had read said book.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
7. That's hysterical!
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 02:38 PM
Jul 2021


Good for you! Did you let him know that you'd caught him? Did you ask him what he liked about it?

I imagine it would be very satisfying to put a braggart on-the-spot like that.

Sympthsical

(9,029 posts)
6. Getting all their news and information from cable and/or social media
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 02:14 PM
Jul 2021

That's not being informed. That's being fed. But they're not bright enough to realize it. Then they think they know lots of things. Always dangerous.

Always a sign.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
8. There IS a place for people like Rachel Maddow...
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 02:41 PM
Jul 2021

... she includes a civics lesson or history lesson at the beginning of each story (just to bring people up to speed... the ones who need it).

But even though I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer... I found those lessons to be tedious (for me) and uninteresting (but others definitely need and enjoy it).

Other than that, I'd probably enjoy her commentary and editorial takes on things.

Still... I prefer READING my news.

Sympthsical

(9,029 posts)
12. She's an exception though
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 03:10 PM
Jul 2021

I'm not saying it's all bad. I'm just saying, it's mostly bad. I've had the CNN homepage open about a week. Was looking for updates about Surfside.

. . .

Just wow. I am dumber for having combed through it nearly everyday this week.

And social media, well, that sort of speaks for itself. How many times are you on a site like FB or Reddit or Twitter or even here. You read a headline, then read the article. Then you get to the comments. It's clear 85% of the people didn't make it past the headline. Maybe halfway through a paragraph or two at best.

Then realize the stories being selected, posted, and upvoted are all curated to reflect a very narrow band of ideology, thinking, or political loyalty.

Now multiply that by the entire internet.

It bothers me daily.

Mr.Bill

(24,228 posts)
10. How about when they tell you constantly how smart they are.
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 02:56 PM
Jul 2021

I had a boss once who you could not have a conversation with without her telling you she had an MBA. Trust me, she was nothing special in the intelligence area. Whatever success she was having in her career was ralated to the fact she was willing to travel a lot and work 60-80 hours a week.

Patterson

(1,527 posts)
11. I accused my friend of getting his news from Fox.
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 03:08 PM
Jul 2021

He said, "Oh, I don't watch Fox anymore. I get all my news on Facebook."

UTUSN

(70,641 posts)
13. As seen on internet boards? - picking high flown Handles, narcissism, self-promotion,
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 03:40 PM
Jul 2021

claiming expertise above all others, adopting faux "genteel" or archaic forms of address, patronizing/condescending, cultivating a sycophantic fan base, claiming to be the incarnation of purity, ...

Oh, got carried away...







Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
18. Speaking of signs, I was in Cape May, NJ last weekend on a $700,000 Trumper
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 04:36 PM
Jul 2021

brother-in-law just bought. 2 years prior we travelled the same water route around Cale May, the docks and I was disgusted to see tons of Trump 2020 flags on many, many boats. Last weekend I saw 2 Trump flags and 1 Trump Won flag. Up to this point we had not discussed TFG but I had to mention it seemed like Cape May and Wildwood has turned their back on the ex-traitor. I mentioned that I figured those Trump 2020 flags were now used as rags.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
19. I see those too... in rural areas. I recently had to attend a funeral in Georgia...
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 04:38 PM
Jul 2021

... and we drove through rural VA, NC, SC, GA. So many Trump flags and Confederate Battle Flags... EVERYWHERE. It was very disturbing.

George II

(67,782 posts)
21. I believe that's the area of New Jersey that elected Jeff Van Drew as a Democrat and then republican
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 04:38 PM
Jul 2021

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
25. It is the traitor Van Drew's district. It was previously held by one of the last reasonable Rs
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 05:00 PM
Jul 2021

in Congress. Nothing worse than a traitor who gets elected and promptly switches party affiliation.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
20. He hangs around political forums complaining that nothing's being done?
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 04:38 PM
Jul 2021

Just came on and got hit with that brain-dead tomato again, for the Nth ti the Nth time. Come to think of it, that's another big sign. Off to a cooking forum.

liberal_mama

(1,495 posts)
22. Not being able to read between the lines or having blind faith
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 04:41 PM
Jul 2021

or saying stupid things that don't make sense.

betsuni

(25,370 posts)
27. Their opinions are based on things that are wrong but self-righteously think they're always right.
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 06:24 PM
Jul 2021

Anyone with a different opinion is never listened to: they only disagree because of nefarious intentions, bad character, are terrified of the self-righteous hero who is always right -- they will stop at nothing to silence and defeat him (lots and lots of enemies throwing the kitchen sink and plotting behind closed doors). All very dramatic. Righteousness and emotion beats thinking.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
28. I am reminded of DFW's sig line:
Fri Jul 9, 2021, 06:38 PM
Jul 2021

"Believe those who seek the truth, doubt those who find it." - Andre Gide
People who think they know it all are never as smart as they think they are.

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