My neighbor next just broke down when we were talking over the fence.

[Texaswitchy]

Her husband has a heart condition and can not be around the virus.

They have been house bound since last year.

Everything delivered.

I bought her some new jigsaw puzzles, Target has them on clearance.

She has had it with the fools who will not take the shot but can.

Her husband would if he could.

She has her garden to work in but she is trapped at home because of the virus.


She is getting depressed.

Keep an eye on your neighbors and friends.

I can get out but she can't .

I am pissed off now.

[malaise]

1. This is soooooooooo sad

Get thee to the greatest page.
Show some love and empathy for your neighbors - get the jab and wear a mask

[Raven]

2. You are a good neighbor and set an example for all of us. Thank you!

[Jarqui]

22. +1

[Demovictory9]

3. Good reminder that we are getting.vaxced for others, not just outselves

[Hugin]

6. My main reason in fact.

It is also why I've never stopped with the masking and other protocols.

I do it for these people. The antis on the other hand are a huge part of the problem.

[Hela]

4. Is he a senior over 60? There may be respite care available to her.

Go online to the eldercare locator at https://eldercare.acl.gov/Public/About/Aging_Network/AAA.aspx

She can call her local Area Agency on Aging to find out about resources that may be available to help her. I'm particularly thinking of respite care (so she can get out for 2-4 hours a week) but depending on income and other things, they may be eligible for meals or homemaker services. If either one is a veteran, there may be other services available.

Here is a list of some caregiver resources: https://eldercare.acl.gov/Public/Resources/Topic/Caregiver.aspx

I understand she may not want to go be around people to reduce the risk of bringing the virus home to him, but she might be able to at least go for a walk or a drive just for a change of scenery. If she can find a respite service that requires vaccination and masking, she might be comfortable being away from him for a few hours here and there.

Best of luck to her - caregiving is a hard road anyway and COVID has made it much worse.

[Texaswitchy]

7. Thank you for information.

She needs to get out for awhile.

She is a strong woman but damn she needs a break.

I have been their with my parents.

I thinking getting her some CBD oil, it works for my PTSD.

If she goes down her husband will be in trouble.

[lonely bird]

38. Respite care is an excellent idea

When Mrs. Bird had spinal decompression surgery in 2016 we had Visiting Angels come in while she was recovering and I had to travel for work. They aren't nursing but they can help.

[Grasswire2]

35. that is a great suggestion -- maybe it should be an OP?

I'm sure that many others would find this useful to share.

[SWBTATTReg]

5. Hopefully they have access to the internet, cable, etc. so at least, they're not totally off grid,

and aren't totally shut off from the world. Perhaps soon, shots will be available for the immune-compromised or those that are allergic to the general shots (because of the way they're made) but unfortunately, these efforts take more time. Just curious, how often do they have to visit their heart specialist(s), etc.? Hopefully not too many times ... I do know that they can ship/mail heart monitors (mine was able to be shipped via the mails/Fed. Ex/etc., so I didn't have to go back to the office (I did when I initially picked it up)).

Best wishes to you and your neighbors, and hang in there, perhaps one day, things will be safe enough so that life can somewhat resume as normal, but to be honest, I don't think we'll ever have things back to 'normal' again.

You can kind of see it today, with the outbreaks happening everywhere where stubborn idiots won't get vaccinated, thus new outbreaks occur with distressing frequency but I think this will taper off pretty quickly, as it only takes a couple of outbreaks in a stubborn areas and all of the idiots will soon be sick and/or dying, a sad state of affairs that they willingly bought on themselves. I just hope that regular medical facilities will still be available (some are splitting their medical facilities into two, one for Covid, one for everything else).

[Texaswitchy]

10. They have cable and she has a smart phone.

This virus taking a toll on people.

Her husband wants to take the shot but the Dr. says no.

I love to go over give her a break but I can't because go out.

I mask up and have the shots but still go out to stores.

I get things for them if they need help.

I just want to give her a hug.

She needs to take a drive and get out for awhile.

I have been there.

[wryter2000]

18. I was wondering about that

They could certainly go for a drive if they don’t interact with other humans. I was pretty shut in myself for a long time. I found getting outside was good, so her garden is great. I also found Zoom a godsend. I know lots of people hate it, but I would have gone crazy without it. In fact I have a Zoom on Friday I’m really looking forward to.

[Meowmee]

34. My father has several heart conditions one severe, he had both his pfizer shots

after having his health destroyed by C19 in January. We are like an icu unit for him now. 8 hospital stays now since January.

[The Mouth]

8. Every person who could but has not been vaccinated is an asshole and a sociopath

Regardless of race, reason, or circumstance.

[snowybirdie]

9. Many of us in the same boat

Still pretty much staying home for the last 18 months. Rarely venture out to an outside restaurant. No in person shopping. We were just starting to relax a bit and begin to plan outings when this new surge in Florida cases started! Praying a planned family reunion in the fall can take place. Haven't seen most of our children and family in nearly two years! Thank goodness we still like each other!

[Texaswitchy]

11. I have a roommate.

We still get along.

But we get out.


I have PTSD and have to get out some....

[Upthevibe]

12. Texaswitchy....

I'm glad she's able to speak with you.

Maybe you two could at least talk on the phone a couple of times a week so she'd have something to look forward to. Also, maybe she could get into some shows on the T.V. machine that could give her other things to do along with her gardening.

Peace and good vibes to you guys....

[leftieNanner]

13. We have a neighbor who lives alone and has health issues

He was really struggling with staying home by himself all the time and it was not safe for him to go out.

We started having back-deck-visits every Sunday morning. He comes through our side gate into the back yard and we sit under the awning properly distanced and chat for an hour. It was truly a lifeline for him.

Is there any way you could do that with your neighbor?

[Texaswitchy]

15. We talking over the fence everyday.

It would be nice if she would come over in my yard.

We may have to do this.

I could get tested.

[tiredtoo]

14. Did she explain why he can't get shot? eom

[Texaswitchy]

17. Something about blood pressure.

Her husband is willing to try.

[PoindexterOglethorpe]

23. That sounds a bit strange.

If he's on medication to control his blood pressure, it doesn't make sense that he can't get the vaccine. At least a quick internet search doesn't list that as a contra-indication for it.

[Texaswitchy]

27. I know.

He wants the shot.

I think if he is willing risk it he should have the right.

He did have three heart attacks.

[PoindexterOglethorpe]

31. I have a feeling your neighbor simply isn't telling you everything.

Because, high blood pressure = no vaccine, makes zero sense.

Heck, my former high blood pressure is under control with medication. I had a very serious heart attack back in December, and got vaccinated as soon as I hit the top of the list where I live.

[Texaswitchy]

32. I trying not to get into their private business.

I feel the same way that there is something else going on but nothing I can do about it.

I risk the shot myself.

At his age he has lived most of his life.

I could not live like that.

Maybe I can my neighbor to open up a little.

Something will change because my neighbor lady is done.

[Grasswire2]

36. Yes, it seems something else is going on.

But likely all you can do is be supportive as you have.

[cab67]

42. there are some rare side effects that can be dangerous for someone with a heart condition

There have been reports of some recipients experiencing inflammation of the heart and some blood clotting. It's probably not severe in most people, and like I said, it's evidently rare - but that might be at least one rationale.

I don't know the specifics, so I'm speculating here. And if he's willing to take it, that should also be taken into account.

[Evolve Dammit]

16. We are being held back by knuckle dragging losers. Pathetic. The toll is great and they love it.

[wryter2000]

19. Can she afford Netflix?

I guess your TV or DVD player has to connect to the internet, but that would be hours of entertainment. I’m currently in love with Penguin Town.

[SheltieLover]

20. Nice of you to chat & buy her puzzles

Your compassion in action is l8kely having much more of a positive effect than you could possibly imagine.

[Texaswitchy]

28. Her husband loves jigsaw puzzles.

They were on clearance so I cleared them out.

I am working 5,000 piece myself.

If I finish it it goes on the wall in a frame.

[C Moon]

21. Sad. :(

[Patterson]

24. Can you take them on a drive and a picnic?

[Bernardo de La Paz]

25. Excellent suggestion. I have no doubt the OP is fully vaccinated and cautious. . . . nt

[Joinfortmill]

26. I hear you.

[appalachiablue]

29. Last year I read about a service for elders

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in Germany. Volunteers go out into homes and make telephone calls to seniors. Visiting and calling to check on how they're getting along, especially single ones is such a help.

The US could use a service like this, and even more with the coronavirus epidemic. Chatting on the phone with a friendly caring person helps with the physical and social isolation and lets people know there's someone out there.

I feel for your neighbors! all the best with this stressful ordeal.

[flotsam2]

30. I've been lucky

At 67 I am a prime target having been hospitalized 4 times in the last 3 years for pneumonia. I live in New Hampshire in a home I own. I have a housemate to help with the bills and property maintenance. During the week I have 2 home health aides (fully vaccinated) that do my shopping, laundry, etc...My state has a deal to keep me in in my own home rather than a nursing home. The state starts with a 15K account to add accessibility to my home. I spent nearly 7K for a handicap ramp and am considering a walk in tub. My bubble includes only my brother and sister in law (fully vaccinated) who I see almost weekly.
I feel for your neighbor and do watch for mine. Our world has become both smaller but also more intimate. You must be cautious and yet social interaction is critical. Protect yourself, but build a bubble you can live in. I think there will be at least another year of hard times. Prepare for it.

[Texaswitchy]

33. My roommate and are ready just in case.

We have plenty of everything.

My bed room is just stocked with stuff.

I sleep the living room.

We have small kitchen area so not a lot of storage space.

We nice big garden, so plenty of fresh food.

I think it will get worse yet.

[Arazi]

37. It's safe outdoors. I don't understand why they can't take a walk

Go fishing or have a picnic. If they're physically capable they can go kayaking or bike riding or other outdoor activities that maintain good social distancing.

Never leaving the house sounds bizarre. That's not following the science at all, even for unvaccinated people

[Texaswitchy]

39. Yeah.

I know .

I could not stay home all the time.

I think it is the fear of the virus or something.

I am trying to be a good neighbor.

[orleans]

40. thought this might be helpful

https://yalehealth.yale.edu/yale-covid-19-vaccine-program/information-special-populations-and-covid-19-vaccine

Information for Special Populations and the COVID-19 vaccine

Can people with allergies get the COVID-19 vaccine? Yes, in most cases with 2 exceptions:

People with a severe allergic reaction (anaphylaxis) to any component of either an mRNA vaccine or the Johnson & Johnson COVID-19 vaccine should NOT receive that vaccine. Many people will be safely able to receive an alternate vaccine. An allergic reaction is considered severe when it is classified by a healthcare provider as an anaphylactic reaction or a person needs to be treated with epinephrine or EpiPen© or if the person must go to the hospital.
If You Are Allergic to Polyethylene Glycol (PEG) or Polysorbate

PEG and polysorbate are closely related to each other. PEG is an ingredient in the mRNA vaccines (Pfizer and Moderna), and polysorbate is an ingredient in the Johnson & Johnson (J&J)/Janssen vaccine. If you are allergic to PEG, you should not get an mRNA COVID-19 vaccine. Ask your doctor if you can get the J&J/Janssen vaccine.
If you are allergic to polysorbate, you should not get the J&J/Janssen COVID-19 vaccine. Ask your doctor if you can get an mRNA COVID-19 vaccine.
2. People with a severe allergic reaction (anaphylaxis) to any vaccine or injectable (intramuscular or intravenous) medication should consult with their health provider to assess risk prior to receiving the COVID-19 vaccine.

more at link

[Texaswitchy]

41. Thanks for the good info.

[LetMyPeopleVote]

43. I have a good friend who is also worried about the Delta variant

I called her to discussed politics and she broke down about the Delta virus. I did my best to help calm her. She is staying home and I have been running errands for her. She is fully vaccinated but is already on oxygen and is worried about even a mild case. I told her that since I have COPD I am wearing a mask at supermarkets and will get a covid test if I suspect that I am coming down. Monoclonal antibodies are effective against the Delta variant if started early

[marble falls]

44. I might be angrier with the unvaccinated (as a group) than anyone else, other than 45 ...

... I understand vaccine hesitancy, but an extraordinary time requires an extraordinary measure. And it's not even if this hasn't been done by the nation as a whole before. Several times.

[Patterson]

45. I suggested a drive and a picnic above. If it works out well, maybe do it the same day every week so

they will have something to look forward to.

[Spider Jerusalem]

46. What, exactly, is preventing her husband from being vaccinated?

"A heart condition" is not a contraindication for the covid vaccine. https://www.vcuhealth.org/news/covid-19/covid-19-vaccine-and-heart-patients-is-it-safe