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3Hotdogs

(12,375 posts)
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 12:19 AM Aug 2021

New neighbor, immigrant from Bangladesh.

He is 20.

It is raining and I have several windows open. He is outside, sitting on his porch and singing to himself in his native language. Of course, I have no idea what the translation would be but I am enjoying, just listening to him..

The song is soft and seems kind of sad. I could walk over and ask him about the song but why spoil our mood. I will just continue listening to him.

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New neighbor, immigrant from Bangladesh. (Original Post) 3Hotdogs Aug 2021 OP
I find other cultures fascinating and will quiz them Skittles Aug 2021 #1
My Vietnamese neighbor tells me that Demobrat Aug 2021 #2
ooh Skittles Aug 2021 #6
Yes! Demobrat Aug 2021 #8
Probably the same as happened with Chinese food here JHB Aug 2021 #10
I love where you are going with this! copperearth Aug 2021 #3
Make sure to tell them hi from DU. /nt tonedevil Aug 2021 #4
About 6 years ago, my GR saw a man multigraincracker Aug 2021 #5
Lovely story, thank you for sharing it. But what does "GR" stand for? I looked it up, found nothing. phylny Aug 2021 #9
I'm going to guess it's a typo for "GF", GirlFriend. JHB Aug 2021 #11
I'm sorry GF girl friend. multigraincracker Aug 2021 #12
Probably reminds him of Bengali monsoons JI7 Aug 2021 #7
Lovely OP malaise Aug 2021 #13

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
1. I find other cultures fascinating and will quiz them
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 02:32 AM
Aug 2021

I need to ask my Vietnamese neighbor what kind of nuts are sprinkled on the rice dish she had me try

Demobrat

(8,976 posts)
2. My Vietnamese neighbor tells me that
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 02:41 AM
Aug 2021

my favorite Vietnamese restaurant - isn’t.

Still love it though!

Demobrat

(8,976 posts)
8. Yes!
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 03:47 AM
Aug 2021

Everyone there is Vietnamese, so I was very confused when my neighbor said that.

I suspect you may be right.

JHB

(37,160 posts)
10. Probably the same as happened with Chinese food here
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 07:08 AM
Aug 2021

The food you'll get at a Chinese restaurant in the US isn't the same as the original dishes in China. Most of the recipes have been altered (or some just invented) to be more appealing to a non-Chinese customer base.

Heck, the same phenomenon happened with Italian dishes, and probably every other immigrant group.

multigraincracker

(32,675 posts)
5. About 6 years ago, my GR saw a man
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 03:25 AM
Aug 2021

walking down the street with a heavy suitcase. She stopped ask if he needed a ride.
That may not sound like anything to you but it changed a lot peoples lives. He was from Nepal and was lost in a strange country. Her help turned him and lots of his friends and relatives into the best friends for life.
She helped them with their paper work that led to citizen ship for many than no idea of how to navigate the system.
I think she must be famous in that country now if you were to look at many friends she has from Nepal on her Facebook page and all of the letters and cards she gets. Our dream is to visit Nepal and meet some of those friend she has never seen in person.
It cost nothing to be nice. She is a saint.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
7. Probably reminds him of Bengali monsoons
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 03:38 AM
Aug 2021

You should ask him if you ever get a chance to talk to him.

Bengalis have a culture that values reading , debates, conversations, learning etc and he might be happy to talk about it.

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