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Why isn't assisted suicide legal for the elderly... (Original Post) Under The Radar Aug 2021 OP
Excellent question! MLAA Aug 2021 #1
Religion HAB911 Aug 2021 #2
And health care, I'd imagine. There's a lot of cash in prolonging life. Auggie Aug 2021 #15
OH YEAH HAB911 Aug 2021 #22
I've always understood it to be a god thing. God doesn't like what is considered RKP5637 Aug 2021 #3
I'll keep searching... multigraincracker Aug 2021 #6
In Washington state it is legal under certain conditions - here's a link ... RKP5637 Aug 2021 #11
Oregon is another. Maybe more too. yonder Aug 2021 #19
I'm lucky. multigraincracker Aug 2021 #20
It also potentially ripe for abuse when you're talking about people w/ diminished mental capacity. meadowlander Aug 2021 #32
Yes, these are all excellent points!!! n/t RKP5637 Aug 2021 #41
I don't understand life-proling care for someone with advanced alzheimers Buckeyeblue Aug 2021 #59
Great response multigraincracker Aug 2021 #4
Found it. It's call multigraincracker Aug 2021 #7
How is Hospice assisted suicide? Crunchy Frog Aug 2021 #12
Failure to provide medical treatment. multigraincracker Aug 2021 #14
I am sure there are treatments to keep me alive for a couple of years... Under The Radar Aug 2021 #27
I've worked with Hospice patients and they get plenty of medical treatment. Crunchy Frog Aug 2021 #28
I only look for loop holes in the Scriptures. multigraincracker Aug 2021 #31
My GF is a RN multigraincracker Aug 2021 #33
Hospice isn't really the same thing. meadowlander Aug 2021 #34
I won't say where I got this information. Mr.Bill Aug 2021 #44
I don't doubt it, and im glad they do given it's best to kick the door shut rather than needlessly onetexan Aug 2021 #48
Yes it does. Thankfully. nancy1942 Aug 2021 #57
My dad died on home hospice care last April. Mariana Aug 2021 #58
There are very strict rules about inventorying certain drugs. Mr.Bill Aug 2021 #61
Right or wrong ..it's very difficult for family, even when elderly PortTack Aug 2021 #5
It is all about quality of life. Stand in my shoes Under The Radar Aug 2021 #18
Wife's dead, no kids Revanchist Aug 2021 #21
Thats why it's important to discuss these things well in advance with your family onetexan Aug 2021 #49
I believe that two states have legalized this for anyone with a terminal illness. CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2021 #8
In Japan &other countries its legal to die w dignity onetexan Aug 2021 #50
Probably because it could be abused drray23 Aug 2021 #9
there is a bit of that for sure HAB911 Aug 2021 #23
Healthcare expenses force me to go into debt to stay alive Under The Radar Aug 2021 #24
In a few states, Death with Dignity is indeed allowed. RobertDevereaux Aug 2021 #10
The rundown... RobertDevereaux Aug 2021 #13
Thanks for the list, my dear RobertDevereaux! CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2021 #16
How is terminally ill defined in that statute? Under The Radar Aug 2021 #25
Details for Colorado are here. RobertDevereaux Aug 2021 #30
New Zealand legalised it by referendum last year meadowlander Aug 2021 #38
Requirements are onerous and time consuming. It has been my experience with three terminally ill hlthe2b Aug 2021 #29
We have euthanasia for our beloved pets and it is considered humane Doc Sportello Aug 2021 #17
I've always said multigraincracker Aug 2021 #35
And when I'm dead, throw me in a dumpster..Burials/cremation cost too much! LeftInTX Aug 2021 #37
Bury me in a burlap sack and plant a tree on top. A HERETIC I AM Aug 2021 #42
Same here. multigraincracker Aug 2021 #46
Because euthansia for animals isn't always, "putting them out of suffering" LeftInTX Aug 2021 #39
Not to the point but thanks anyway n/t Doc Sportello Aug 2021 #56
I'm planning to punch my own ticket when the time comes True Dough Aug 2021 #26
Laughing gas would be my choice. multigraincracker Aug 2021 #36
I think with electric cars, that form of dying will go away. jimfields33 Aug 2021 #43
Eventually True Dough Aug 2021 #45
True. I hope you die peacefully in your sleep at a very acceptable age that you decide. jimfields33 Aug 2021 #52
Thank you, Jim True Dough Aug 2021 #54
Also barbecues and gas stoves/ovens. meadowlander Aug 2021 #53
Valid point, meadowlander True Dough Aug 2021 #55
Because this country is full of puritanical hypocrites A HERETIC I AM Aug 2021 #40
Crazy that legal euthanasia could come before free of charge health care. David__77 Aug 2021 #47
We need assisted suicide in all 50 states as it's unlikely we'll ever area51 Aug 2021 #60
My sils mother lived with her for a little while then told her she was tired blueinredohio Aug 2021 #51

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
3. I've always understood it to be a god thing. God doesn't like what is considered
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 03:37 PM
Aug 2021

to be suicide or some damn nonsense. And this has tainted laws. Also, there has always been a concern about framing someone to die.

multigraincracker

(32,675 posts)
20. I'm lucky.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 03:52 PM
Aug 2021

All I have to do is place a magnet on my pacemaker when I go to bed. I think it works that way, but need to do more research.

meadowlander

(4,395 posts)
32. It also potentially ripe for abuse when you're talking about people w/ diminished mental capacity.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:17 PM
Aug 2021

I support doctor-assisted suicide but I can see how it's a really difficult call to make where, for example, someone has Alzheimers and is sometimes lucid and often not. When you throw in inheritances and relatives who may simply be exhausted and at the breaking point while the patient still wants to live but doesn't want to be a burden, it becomes a really difficult and potentially shady call to make.

You can also have people with severe depression who are suicidal in a moment but could potentially with treatment decide later that they wanted to live.

I don't think it should be a blanket allowance and the conditions need to be carefully defined. Even then it's really difficult to regulate because the key factor is the state of mind of the one person who potentially won't be around later to clarify.

multigraincracker

(32,675 posts)
14. Failure to provide medical treatment.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 03:49 PM
Aug 2021

Could have kept them alive another 6 months. But, no just let em die.

Under The Radar

(3,401 posts)
27. I am sure there are treatments to keep me alive for a couple of years...
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:05 PM
Aug 2021

…if I would sell all of the assets that I sent a lifetime obtaining so that I could afford those treatments…that leaves my family except the debt of my burial. Plus the two years are spent in sickness and pain.

Crunchy Frog

(26,582 posts)
28. I've worked with Hospice patients and they get plenty of medical treatment.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:05 PM
Aug 2021

It's just that the focus is on keeping them as comfortable as possible rather than aggressive and futile attempts to force their bodies to keep going, even with no possibility for meaningful survival.

I've seen Hospice patients get treated for UTIs and dental issues, and anything else that affects their comfort and quality of life. I've seen them get as much supplemental O2 as it's possible to give them without invasive procedures such as intubation.

And they are the ones calling the shots, as long as they have the ability, and always have the option to leave Hospice and go back to more aggressive treatment.

If you want to live in an alternative reality where that's the same thing as killing someone you're free to. It still doesn't change things for people who actually want to die before their disease runs its full course, which is what this thread is about.

multigraincracker

(32,675 posts)
31. I only look for loop holes in the Scriptures.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:17 PM
Aug 2021

I don’t judge them. I am an Atheist, but try to be a nice one. I put humans before Gods.

multigraincracker

(32,675 posts)
33. My GF is a RN
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:20 PM
Aug 2021

and has worked many years for Hospice. When the doctor suggested Hospice for her mother, she took 5 years off work to give her a wonderful 5 years more.

meadowlander

(4,395 posts)
34. Hospice isn't really the same thing.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:25 PM
Aug 2021

Hospice is when you've reached the point of diminishing returns with treatment or where there are no longer any available treatments and the focus shifts to palliative care (keeping the person comfortable or at least out of physical pain) rather than trying to solve the problems or just sustain life without quality of life.

My dad was in hospice for nine days before he passed away. He said his goodbyes in the first three and the last six were just an excruciating waiting game for everyone involved. I'm sure if he had the option, he would have preferred to just get a shot while the family was there to hold his hand and then just have it over in an hour or two. That's doctor assisted suicide.

It's the slow waiting around after the decision has already been made which I think can be cruel and unnecessary for everyone involved.

Mr.Bill

(24,284 posts)
44. I won't say where I got this information.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:42 PM
Aug 2021

Hospice Nurses won't actively euthanize patients, but they will leave the family with the tools to do it themselves. And reverse instructions, such as don't give here more than two of these pills every three hours, or you may risk stopping the heart.

It happens, and it's been happening for years.

onetexan

(13,040 posts)
48. I don't doubt it, and im glad they do given it's best to kick the door shut rather than needlessly
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 05:00 PM
Aug 2021

Prolonging a dying person's suffering. My views of euthanasia, or as i would rather call it - personal choice ending - is dying with dignity.

Mariana

(14,856 posts)
58. My dad died on home hospice care last April.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 09:26 PM
Aug 2021

Afterward, when the nurse came, one of her duties was to see to his remaining drugs. She measured that morphine very carefully and wrote down how much was still in the bottle, before she disposed of it. My mother noticed her doing that too and asked me about it. I told her "I think she was trying to make sure we didn't euthanize him."

Mr.Bill

(24,284 posts)
61. There are very strict rules about inventorying certain drugs.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 11:47 PM
Aug 2021

At the shift change at the nursing station in a hospital, the drug cart rolls out and everything is counted and signed off by the charge nurse of each shift. Lots of documentation everywhere the druga are stored or used.

Revanchist

(1,375 posts)
21. Wife's dead, no kids
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 03:53 PM
Aug 2021

Once my parents pass there will be no one to care if I decide to commit suicide

onetexan

(13,040 posts)
49. Thats why it's important to discuss these things well in advance with your family
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 05:02 PM
Aug 2021

And have legal instruments - will, living revocable trust, power of attorney -prepared so that when comes time everyone is clear what needs to be done.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
8. I believe that two states have legalized this for anyone with a terminal illness.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 03:43 PM
Aug 2021

Oregon did it first and now California.

There were a lot of protests in both places. It's incomprehensible to me. People were saying that the person could be pushed into taking the medication against their will, and there are safeguards in the law to prevent that.

And there were other arguments against.

I just don't get it.

onetexan

(13,040 posts)
50. In Japan &other countries its legal to die w dignity
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 05:04 PM
Aug 2021

The conservative right has & continues to impose their unfounded beliefs on the rest of us.

RobertDevereaux

(1,857 posts)
10. In a few states, Death with Dignity is indeed allowed.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 03:43 PM
Aug 2021

Colorado became one of them about two years ago. Oregon is another, I believe. There may be more.

There are rules around it to safeguard against abuse, which makes sense.

Let's hope more states come on board.

RobertDevereaux

(1,857 posts)
13. The rundown...
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 03:45 PM
Aug 2021

"Death with dignity laws allow qualified terminally-ill adults to voluntarily request and receive a prescription medication to hasten their death. As of April 2021, aid in dying statutes have been passed in: California, Colorado, District of Columbia, Hawaii, Maine, New Jersey, New Mexico, Oregon, Vermont, and Washington."

https://deathwithdignity.org/learn/access/

meadowlander

(4,395 posts)
38. New Zealand legalised it by referendum last year
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:30 PM
Aug 2021
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assisted_suicide

"to qualify for legal assistance, individuals who seek a physician-assisted suicide must meet certain criteria, including: having a terminal illness, proving they are of sound mind, voluntarily and repeatedly expressing their wish to die, and taking the specified, lethal dose by their own hand."

hlthe2b

(102,247 posts)
29. Requirements are onerous and time consuming. It has been my experience with three terminally ill
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:10 PM
Aug 2021

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in Colorado that by the time they qualified and had all the paperwork/examinations in order, they were too ill to take the oral medication, unable to keep it down (a typically nausea-inducing combination), or died on their own hours before attempting.

To my knowledge, no state has adopted a "Dr. Kevorkian"-type act that would allow injectable forms/doses of medication to be administered. (Obviously high doses of morphine and other drugs that are administered for interminable pain in the hospice setting can and frequently does end life, but intentional overdosing would be subject to consequences-- a gray zone--with implications)

Doc Sportello

(7,520 posts)
17. We have euthanasia for our beloved pets and it is considered humane
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 03:51 PM
Aug 2021

Which it is. But "God forbid" we do the same for humans who are suffering.

LeftInTX

(25,306 posts)
39. Because euthansia for animals isn't always, "putting them out of suffering"
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:30 PM
Aug 2021

It is perfectly legal to shoot feral hogs and kill rats


It is also legal to put dangerous dogs and cats to sleep.

True Dough

(17,304 posts)
26. I'm planning to punch my own ticket when the time comes
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:01 PM
Aug 2021

Barring that I wind up fully incapacitated in short order, I would elect to go with carbon monoxide poisoning. Ain't waiting for permission from no "authority."

True Dough

(17,304 posts)
45. Eventually
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 04:52 PM
Aug 2021

But there are going to be old, used gasoline-based cars available for a long time to come.

meadowlander

(4,395 posts)
53. Also barbecues and gas stoves/ovens.
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 05:46 PM
Aug 2021

It's not like internal combustion engines are the only common household source of carbon monoxide.

area51

(11,908 posts)
60. We need assisted suicide in all 50 states as it's unlikely we'll ever
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 11:43 PM
Aug 2021

get healthcare as a basic human right.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
51. My sils mother lived with her for a little while then told her she was tired
Sat Aug 28, 2021, 05:16 PM
Aug 2021

of taking medicine and not being able to do anything so she was going to stop taking her medicine. Sil called her doctor and discussed it, the doc said then let her stop taking her medicine. She didn't live much longer.

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