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Found on Facebook: What pro-choice really means. (Original Post) CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2021 OP
I've had this discussion with anti-choicers. progressoid Sep 2021 #1
Nope, that is just WRONG. And it's stupid too. Ugh. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2021 #2
Many of these women did NOT choose to become pregnant. dchill Sep 2021 #4
Agreed. progressoid Sep 2021 #5
Of course not. dchill Sep 2021 #6
that is very telling Skittles Sep 2021 #10
Consent to sex is NOT consent to childbearing Freddie Sep 2021 #16
These are fundamentalists. progressoid Sep 2021 #20
An EXCELLENT argument. One problem though... Caliman73 Sep 2021 #3
Spot on. Exactly. KPN Sep 2021 #7
True RANDYWILDMAN Sep 2021 #8
How many times have we fallen for that nvme Sep 2021 #11
Faith is the only thing they are arguing with Major Nikon Sep 2021 #14
brilliant response that withstands any level of serious scrutiny bringthePaine Sep 2021 #9
DURec leftstreet Sep 2021 #12
The gist is that your dead body is more sacred than your uterus. eom LittleGirl Sep 2021 #13
Abso-freaking-lutely! chwaliszewski Sep 2021 #15
I'm currently in FB jail Freddie Sep 2021 #17
hear hear MichaelSoE Sep 2021 #18
This is excellent. The weight of the ruling on body autonomy in '65 was critical. BeckyDem Sep 2021 #19
Fantastic summation of how women should be allowed to control their own bodies. crickets Sep 2021 #21
K&R Blue Owl Sep 2021 #22

progressoid

(53,413 posts)
1. I've had this discussion with anti-choicers.
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 01:49 AM
Sep 2021

Their argument is that the woman made a choice when she decided to have sex. End of story.

dchill

(42,660 posts)
4. Many of these women did NOT choose to become pregnant.
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 01:59 AM
Sep 2021

That choice was made by some male, who decided to, at the very least, to ejaculate inside her.

progressoid

(53,413 posts)
20. These are fundamentalists.
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 01:32 PM
Sep 2021

As far as they are concerned as soon as you consent to have sex, you've decided to become a parent.

Of course, these are the same people that defend the p**** grabber so critical thinking isn't their forte.

Caliman73

(11,767 posts)
3. An EXCELLENT argument. One problem though...
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 01:58 AM
Sep 2021

It assumes that right wingers are arguing in good faith.

That is a fatal flaw of Liberalism. Liberalism and leftism are likely the most rational ideologies, but liberalism suffers from the belief that a good faith argument can be had with right wingers.

RANDYWILDMAN

(3,182 posts)
8. True
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 02:10 AM
Sep 2021

cause if the Right wingers cared about the babies at all, they would support universal health care, education, child care and affordable housing.

nvme

(872 posts)
11. How many times have we fallen for that
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 02:40 AM
Sep 2021

The right wing shitbags not acted in good faith for as long as I can remember.

Major Nikon

(36,927 posts)
14. Faith is the only thing they are arguing with
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 03:22 AM
Sep 2021

They are convinced the holy poltergeist sprinkles magic fairy dust the moment after conception and suddenly human protoplasm is endowed with an immortal soul. As such they will never be satisfied with 6 weeks or any other arbitrary point past the point of conception. Next they will go after IUDs and plan B pills any any other contraception methods they think work post conception.

Logic and reason do not work on these people as their “faith” demands suspension of such things in order to work. Bear in mind also, none of this is really about human development at any stage. Their real motivation is to go after fornication in an attempt to manipulate sexuality and force women especially into their idea of servitude.

The problem with liberalism, or at least how it is presently implemented, is somehow “faith” is always placed into a protective shield with the misplaced idea that tolerance demands it. As such we can’t attack faith itself which is the root cause of all of this nonsense. Until we do so we will always be chasing symptoms rather than the cause and they will use our own idea of tolerance against us over and over.

Freddie

(10,157 posts)
17. I'm currently in FB jail
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 08:14 AM
Sep 2021

Because someone got offended when I asked a man “how often have you been pregnant” (although I was so angry at that point I may have called him something else to go along with it).
I can tell right away that you might as well talk to your dog about the stock market. To them we are NOTHING. Not humans, just vessels. Our minds and ideas have no value whatsoever. 4 cells in my uterus should completely obliterate all my rights.

BeckyDem

(8,361 posts)
19. This is excellent. The weight of the ruling on body autonomy in '65 was critical.
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 08:37 AM
Sep 2021

Thank you for posting.

crickets

(26,168 posts)
21. Fantastic summation of how women should be allowed to control their own bodies.
Sat Sep 4, 2021, 05:11 PM
Sep 2021

Women are still fighting to be seen fully and equally as people, with absolute rights over their persons.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2015/05/25/to-have-and-to-hold

This spring marks the fiftieth anniversary of the case that went forward instead: Griswold v. Connecticut. (“We became the footnote to the footnote,” Trubek told me.) In Griswold, decided in June, 1965, the Supreme Court ruled 7–2 that Connecticut’s ban on contraception was unconstitutional, not on the ground of a woman’s right to determine the timing and the number of her pregnancies but on the ground of a married couple’s right to privacy. “We deal with a right of privacy older than the Bill of Rights,” Justice William O. Douglas wrote in the majority opinion. “Marriage is a coming together for better or for worse, hopefully enduring, and intimate to the degree of being sacred.” [snip]

Banning contraception at a time when the overwhelming majority of Americans used it was, of course, ridiculous. (Justice Potter Stewart, who dissented in Griswold, called the Connecticut statute “an uncommonly silly law.”) The law was little enforced. Condoms were openly sold in drugstores, and people of means could get other forms of contraception out of state. (Estelle Griswold once asked whether the police intended to “put a gynecological table at the Greenwich toll station” and examine every woman who crossed the state line.) The ban was a real hardship, though, for the poor, and especially for poor women in relationships with men who refused to use condoms. And if the law was ridiculous it was also intransigent. For decades, Planned Parenthood had tried to get it overturned in the Connecticut legislature, to no avail. So the question was: What legal argument could be used to challenge its constitutionality?

The Constitution never mentions sex, marriage, or reproduction. This is because the political order that the Constitution established was a fraternity of free men who, believing themselves to have been created equal, consented to be governed. Women did not and could not give their consent: they were neither free nor equal. Rule over women lay entirely outside a Lockean social contract in a relationship not of liberty and equality but of confinement and subjugation. As Mary Astell wondered, in 1706, “If all Men are born free, how is it that all Women are born Slaves?” [snip]

There is a lesson in the past fifty years of litigation. When the fight for equal rights for women narrowed to a fight for reproductive rights, defended on the ground of privacy, it weakened. But when the fight for gay rights became a fight for same-sex marriage, asserted on the ground of equality, it got stronger and stronger.


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