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demmiblue

(39,702 posts)
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 10:41 AM Sep 2021

'My familiy is starving, I have to sell my daughter'




So fast is the rush to sell and flee amid Afghanistan's diminishing economy that Jada-e Maiwand, a bazaar, has spilt from its usual confines onto the banks of Kabul's River

This is where @A_Loyd_Times found a father trying to sell his 4-year-old daughter

The value of the afghani has tumbled since the Taliban seized Kabul, resulting in a pawnbroker offering about £170 for the child.

Her father, a broken police officer trying to ward starvation away from a family of seven, was holding out to pawn his daughter for about £420.

“I would prefer to die than be reduced to selling my daughter,” Says Mir Nazir. “But my own death wouldn’t save anyone in my family. Who would feed my other children?”

Mir Nazir had lost his job with the police in Ghazni and fled to Kabul with his wife and five children days before the Taliban seized the capital. Now he was a bazaar porter. His rent outstripped his wages. The family were hungry, and there was no relief in sight.

Mir Nazir had a message for us:

“Don’t think I am any different to you. Don’t think I didn’t love the baby child I brought into the world and have loved her ever since, don’t think I am not distraught at the thought of selling my daughter – I just can’t see what else I can do.”

The Afghan economy, already sick before the victory of the Taliban has been kicked off a ledge.

The World Bank has halted aid to Afghanistan. The IMF has blocked access to $460 million in emergency reserves, and the US has blocked about $7 billion in Afghan bank reserves.

For a country with a cash-based informal economy in which 75% of public spending is dependent on foreign support, the severing of foreign cash lines has been catastrophic. Food prices have risen and hundreds of thousands of security sector and government workers are unemployed.

The former governor of the country’s central bank, Ajmal Ahmady, observed that analysts who suggested China and Pakistan would become Afghanistan’s financial supporters were unrealistic, as Afghanistan and the central bank were likely to be sanctioned entities.

The country’s physical cash supply is dwindling as the printing firms that produce afghani notes abroad, notably Poland and France, are probably unable to deliver the billions of afghanis agreed in existing contracts.

Not everyone is miserable. Overseeing the destitution of their fellow Afghans, the dealers in the bazaar along the Kabul River admit they have never had it so good, and most talked about a 50% profit rise since August 15.

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'My familiy is starving, I have to sell my daughter' (Original Post) demmiblue Sep 2021 OP
sell her for sex? Nt XanaDUer2 Sep 2021 #1
Slavery is anything the owner wants. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #3
I just can't XanaDUer2 Sep 2021 #5
Sell her for money. Iggo Sep 2021 #7
While governments play international politics. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #2
Of course he is selling his daughter into what is likely to child sex slavery...but not his son... Demsrule86 Sep 2021 #4
Absolutely right! Haggard Celine Sep 2021 #8
It was a waste of time and young lives. Demsrule86 Sep 2021 #10
This 👆🏼 UpInArms Sep 2021 #9
As I said above a waste of time and young lives...treasure too. Demsrule86 Sep 2021 #11
+1 musette_sf Sep 2021 #16
Thank you! Demsrule86 Sep 2021 #25
The dark legacy of the tRump admin is on full display gohuskies Sep 2021 #6
Trump started and Biden ended what was the inevitable end. Steelrolled Sep 2021 #12
Geez, maybe he should have more kids... Fix The Stupid Sep 2021 #13
No, actually, you don't eissa Sep 2021 #14
Why can't be sell himself into slavery? wackadoo wabbit Sep 2021 #15
No, I don't think you did, at all. Pig. musette_sf Sep 2021 #17
Disgusting, and YES you are different from me. ecstatic Sep 2021 #18
+1000 smirkymonkey Sep 2021 #21
4yrs old, poor baby.😔 nt Raine Sep 2021 #19
Fuck this guy . JI7 Sep 2021 #20
Family of seven? Klaralven Sep 2021 #22
Isn't the reason they have a lot of kids that most of them die early ? JI7 Sep 2021 #23
The inverse is also true - having less kids leads to rising standard of living and women's rights Klaralven Sep 2021 #24

Iggo

(49,921 posts)
7. Sell her for money.
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 11:00 AM
Sep 2021

As in, “Thanks for the money. Here’s the little girl you just bought. She’s yours now.”

To answer you in another way: Possibly. Probably. Eventually.

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
2. While governments play international politics.
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 10:53 AM
Sep 2021

Again I don’t know the answer but when you have people you actually know saying about the same....it’s heart breaking.

Demsrule86

(71,542 posts)
4. Of course he is selling his daughter into what is likely to child sex slavery...but not his son...
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 10:56 AM
Sep 2021

And that my friend is why we could never fix this place and shouldn't have tried.

gohuskies

(1,229 posts)
6. The dark legacy of the tRump admin is on full display
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 10:59 AM
Sep 2021

Everything they touch does in fact die. This is utterly heartbreaking to see the disintegration of Afghani society. By ceding control to the Taliban rather than supporting the Afghan government, Pompeo, Trump and Stephen Miller bear the brunt of blame for laying waste to this country.

 

Steelrolled

(2,022 posts)
12. Trump started and Biden ended what was the inevitable end.
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 11:56 AM
Sep 2021

Along the way, Bush and Obama just delayed it. It is for the best that it is finally done.

Afghanistan is returning to its roots. Their society is foreign to us, and vice-versa.

Fix The Stupid

(1,000 posts)
13. Geez, maybe he should have more kids...
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 12:28 PM
Sep 2021


Let's have 7 kids I cannot even feed now...

How utterly selfish.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
14. No, actually, you don't
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 01:00 PM
Sep 2021

Both my husband's grandparents and mine are survivors of the genocide of Armenians, Assyrians and Greeks by the Turks after WWI. They fled on foot from the Hakkari and Mardin regions of Turkey into Syria, Iraq and Iran. Many perished during the exodus from starvation and disease. At no point did it occur to them to sell their daughters.

wackadoo wabbit

(1,296 posts)
15. Why can't be sell himself into slavery?
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 10:28 PM
Sep 2021

According to the article, “I would prefer to die than be reduced to selling my daughter,” Says [sic] Mir Nazir. “But my own death wouldn’t save anyone in my family. Who would feed my other children?”

But if he sells himself into slavery, while he might not get as much for himself as he would for a young female sex slave, he would certainly get enough to feed his family for a time.

I guess he'd rather die than be a slave. Too bad he isn't willing to give his daughter any kind of choice in the matter.

musette_sf

(10,483 posts)
17. No, I don't think you did, at all. Pig.
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 10:31 PM
Sep 2021

“Don’t think I didn’t love the baby child I brought into the world”



ecstatic

(35,074 posts)
18. Disgusting, and YES you are different from me.
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 10:38 PM
Sep 2021

If my children were starving, I would think of another way to get food on the table other than selling a helpless child. The thought wouldn't even occur to me because I'm not a misogynistic, selfish asshole.

 

Klaralven

(7,510 posts)
22. Family of seven?
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 06:50 AM
Sep 2021

That's the root of the problem.

Few have the means to properly support a family of seven, even in a prosperous country in normal times, much less in a poor country in a time of war.

JI7

(93,587 posts)
23. Isn't the reason they have a lot of kids that most of them die early ?
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 07:02 AM
Sep 2021

The thing that leads to less kids has always been rising standard of living and women's rights.

 

Klaralven

(7,510 posts)
24. The inverse is also true - having less kids leads to rising standard of living and women's rights
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 07:07 AM
Sep 2021

The Chinese have demonstrated that, and it is a much quicker way to reduce poverty.

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