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If Gabby Petito were black, she wouldn't be all over the news (Original Post) Sabrielo Sep 2021 OP
I think you have to be a young and attractive white woman spooky3 Sep 2021 #1
I think it might have more to do with her social media presence womanofthehills Sep 2021 #13
not every missing white woman gets attention, but almost every person that gets attention is young Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #35
Agree, and the research shows a pattern, too. Nt spooky3 Sep 2021 #61
No one should doubt this is true. madaboutharry Sep 2021 #2
This nt XanaDUer2 Sep 2021 #8
Yup Lemon Lyman Sep 2021 #16
yup.. you are so right about the class part of the equation. Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #36
heavy discussion markie Sep 2021 #3
If this was a transgender black person there'd be crickets. hunter Sep 2021 #4
We wouldn't have even heard about it. 🤬 a kennedy Sep 2021 #10
Exactly vercetti2021 Sep 2021 #26
When something happens to a transgender person here, it usually gets a bit of air time. LeftInTX Sep 2021 #28
Trans panic vercetti2021 Sep 2021 #29
Yes and it's a hate crime LeftInTX Sep 2021 #30
It terrifies me vercetti2021 Sep 2021 #31
Me too, and if I wasn't so old I would look into moving to another country raccoon Sep 2021 #40
Truth walked into this thread without flinching. Duncan Grant Sep 2021 #52
how do we know? treestar Sep 2021 #59
Having watched ID.channel, its obvious police.get more invested in the Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #67
+1 MustLoveBeagles Sep 2021 #68
No question about it. choie Sep 2021 #5
Absolutely ... jimlup Sep 2021 #6
This case has clues. LeftInTX Sep 2021 #7
Extra fly in the ointment... 2naSalit Sep 2021 #9
The attractive white girl missing stories get national attention . The one you mention isn't JI7 Sep 2021 #15
The one I showed did get national attention. LeftInTX Sep 2021 #17
That's not what I mean by national attention . You know what I mean and the amount of attention JI7 Sep 2021 #19
I no longer have cable TV to watch every blip that's out there. LeftInTX Sep 2021 #20
It's not just cable news. It's local news also that covers it which is where I hear most of it from JI7 Sep 2021 #21
I heard one sentence on local news about this case LeftInTX Sep 2021 #22
As I said one sentence about the missing girl and that was it. LeftInTX Sep 2021 #23
It's gotten far more attention than that where I am . And everyone knows attractive white females JI7 Sep 2021 #24
Well, then complain about it!!!!! Write your local paper. LeftInTX Sep 2021 #25
Why does it bother me that the "news" media treats people differently based on appearance ? JI7 Sep 2021 #27
not every missing/killed white woman gets attention, but almost every missing/killed person who DOES Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #37
Vanessa Guillen got lots of attention LeftInTX Sep 2021 #42
a rareity Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #54
Native American women would be even lower alittlelark Sep 2021 #11
Thank you for adding this reminder to the thread. Duncan Grant Sep 2021 #56
Yep. 710 Native Americans missing from that area over the past decade. GoCubsGo Sep 2021 #66
Follow up stats greenjar_01 Sep 2021 #75
I wonder bobnicewander Sep 2021 #12
BET (black entertainment channel) had a show called "find our missing" that focused on Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #38
Where are those stories then? treestar Sep 2021 #14
Prove the point nt bobnicewander Sep 2021 #18
Understand the sentiment Patton French Sep 2021 #32
it's more than a sentiment, it's a fact. the amount of police resources put on a missing young Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #39
Much as I understand the 'sentiment' of gravity... LanternWaste Sep 2021 #44
'Twas brillig and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe. Treefrog Sep 2021 #48
Lol!!! Nt XanaDUer2 Sep 2021 #51
... Treefrog Sep 2021 #53
I did not intend to be dismissive Patton French Sep 2021 #50
Did you forget about Vanessa Guillen? LeftInTX Sep 2021 #33
Thank you. Treefrog Sep 2021 #45
Maybe. Either way it's a tragedy. Patton French Sep 2021 #34
Total agreement. LiberatedUSA Sep 2021 #41
I think it's more being young and pretty and having a case that is complicated and confusing... honest.abe Sep 2021 #43
I don't know, this whole story is so bizarre, so many twists and turns... Treefrog Sep 2021 #46
They would have been arrested and booked dclarston13 Sep 2021 #47
Maybe she would, if she were Upper-Middle Class maxsolomon Sep 2021 #49
Editors think that missing hot white chicks will draw a bigger audience Klaralven Sep 2021 #55
Yeah, I was thinking about this yesterday. electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #57
In every post about this, there is something along these lines treestar Sep 2021 #58
Apparently it is to some onenote Sep 2021 #60
I hate it obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #62
I think it is frustration that her story is everywhere, constant Bettie Sep 2021 #63
Well said. Someone posted on twitter. How about missing indigenous women. Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #65
The thing is none of them tell us about the treestar Sep 2021 #71
There is.concern for her Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #64
Plenty of other stories that sink in du - due to the demographic. Treefrog Sep 2021 #69
Why is this continually said without pointing to treestar Sep 2021 #72
Hot sexy young white chick goes a long way. It's not all because they care about white women more. boston bean Sep 2021 #73
I do think a sexy, not Latina or Asian, AA treestar Sep 2021 #76
why are we so sure of this? treestar Sep 2021 #74
Agreed greenjar_01 Sep 2021 #70
It's insensitive BradAllison Sep 2021 #77

womanofthehills

(10,763 posts)
13. I think it might have more to do with her social media presence
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 10:35 PM
Sep 2021

Two other hikers (men) also disappeared in the same area - one the same week as Gabby. We don’t here about them. So many kids on TicToc are living out of vehicles- becoming media stars. There are social media videos out there of Gabby and Brian living the ideal life traveling in the SW - kissing, doing handstands, hiking, eating - life was wonderful until it wasn’t. Then we have police interviews during their fights. It’s almost like a mini movie with mega videos. Then there is the psychological component - who hasn’t had an argument while on vacation? Now - both are missing. Plus a lesbian couple who were camping in same area were murdered the same time Gabby went missing . The night before the couple was murdered they were at the local tavern talking about a creepy guy near their campsite.
They actually said if we get murdered look for him. These two women were also white and attractive but they are not getting the same attention that Gabby is. What’s going on over there in Jackson Hole? - so much disappearance &
Death in one week. Yrs ago, my boyfriend and I stayed in a yurt community in Jackson Hole - beautiful place.


Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
35. not every missing white woman gets attention, but almost every person that gets attention is young
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 04:19 AM
Sep 2021

attractive white woman. her media presence probably helped to cause the sensation but the bottom line is that an asian, black, hispanic, male, etc... would not have received as much attention regardless of media presence.

Gender + Race + youth +attactiveness = media attention with heavy weight on weight/young female

madaboutharry

(42,031 posts)
2. No one should doubt this is true.
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 07:26 PM
Sep 2021

This is especially true if the white woman is blonde, physically attractive (meaning thin), pretty, comes from a middle to upper middle class family, and is in her teens or twenties. White women who are overweight, not pretty, or poor…maybe not so much.

hunter

(40,496 posts)
4. If this was a transgender black person there'd be crickets.
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 07:35 PM
Sep 2021

In many parts of the U.S.A. you'd have a hard time convincing the police it mattered.

 

vercetti2021

(10,481 posts)
26. Exactly
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 11:20 PM
Sep 2021

I'm transgender but I am white. But we wouldn't matter. The police would probably buy the guy a nice steak dinner for getting rid of a vile person

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
28. When something happens to a transgender person here, it usually gets a bit of air time.
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 11:30 PM
Sep 2021

But not much. Usually if families/friends go to the media and protest, usually it will get air time.

I do feel that there is too much violence against transgender women and it is "swept under the rug" because there is often a sexual encounter involved. But they do get air time, especially if family and friends feel that the person was targeted because they are transgender.

 

vercetti2021

(10,481 posts)
29. Trans panic
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 11:34 PM
Sep 2021

Its bullshit that's even a thing to give legal recourse to a person who murders a trans woman because they are insecure about their own sexuality. Reason I'm not ever going to date someone without telling them first and foremost I'm a trans woman. Plus I do care protection as well.

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
30. Yes and it's a hate crime
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 11:45 PM
Sep 2021

This case from 2020 was not sex related. The woman just happened to be transgender and this guy was pissed that he could not get his haircut due to Covid. He enters a haircut place and goes nuts. The name of the person killed was confusing because they had not changed their name and the family was reporting one name and another name was elsewhere.

https://www.ksat.com/news/local/2021/08/24/court-hearing-scheduled-for-man-accused-of-killing-a-transgender-woman-at-nw-side-barbershop/

Police say Campbell is seen in surveillance video threatening the three employees of the barbershop with a gun and a knife. He had been allowed in the shop to book a future appointment but was angered when asked to submit a form of payment.

According to WOAI-TV, “An arrest affidavit states surveillance video shows Campbell forced the three employees into the back of the shop. At one point, Campbell placed one victim ‘in a choke hold until he renders [victim] unconscious.'”
 

vercetti2021

(10,481 posts)
31. It terrifies me
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 12:30 AM
Sep 2021

This poor person had to be the victim because some jackhole couldn't get a damn haircut. Unbelievable. Yeah we are walking targets sadly and it scares me

raccoon

(32,290 posts)
40. Me too, and if I wasn't so old I would look into moving to another country
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 04:31 AM
Sep 2021

Me too, and if I wann’t so old I would look into moving to another countryWhere every child wasn’t issued an AR 15 at birth.

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
67. Having watched ID.channel, its obvious police.get more invested in the
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 06:13 PM
Sep 2021

Young white.victims regardless of it becoming a media story. They will be teary eyed talking about the victim

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
7. This case has clues.
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 07:46 PM
Sep 2021

Many white attractive women disappear and it doesn't get a whole lot of media attention.

Media knows people like shows like Law and Order.

If she had just disappeared, it would be a local story, but she's a Youtube star
She got in fight with her fiance and was caught on dashcam
We think he murdered her and she is believed to be in Grand Tetons National Park.

If she had just disappeared while hiking, then it would just be a local story.

But fiance is lying...

We had a black woman disappear here and it was in the news for months. Her murdered her and dumped her body near a remote military base. It took 4 months to find her.


2naSalit

(101,176 posts)
9. Extra fly in the ointment...
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 09:36 PM
Sep 2021

Is that if he did dump her body in this region, bears and other scavengers may discover her body and feed on it, cats and bears will cache the remains and makes it much harder to find her body if that is the case.

JI7

(93,381 posts)
15. The attractive white girl missing stories get national attention . The one you mention isn't
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 10:40 PM
Sep 2021

a good example as it shows it didn't get national attention .

There are other things that come into it also like how much the parents or other relatives go to the media .

But I doubt this case would get anyting near the attention it has gotten if she was black even if everything else was the same.


JI7

(93,381 posts)
19. That's not what I mean by national attention . You know what I mean and the amount of attention
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 10:48 PM
Sep 2021

that the news media give to certain things.

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
20. I no longer have cable TV to watch every blip that's out there.
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 10:50 PM
Sep 2021

If you want to watch cable news, that's fine. But cable repeats the same thing over and over.

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
23. As I said one sentence about the missing girl and that was it.
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 10:57 PM
Sep 2021

The news only lasts 1/2 hour. They don't have time to dwell on a youtube star who fights with her fiance, then goes missing, then bf is dishonest, then bf disappears etc. This is more of an internet/cable/tabloid interest.

JI7

(93,381 posts)
24. It's gotten far more attention than that where I am . And everyone knows attractive white females
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 11:12 PM
Sep 2021

get more attention in these type of cases. Why try to deny or downplay it.

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
25. Well, then complain about it!!!!! Write your local paper.
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 11:18 PM
Sep 2021

I'm not downplaying, but I don't know why this is "bothering" you so much

Make change and do something about it.

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
37. not every missing/killed white woman gets attention, but almost every missing/killed person who DOES
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 04:21 AM
Sep 2021

not every missing/killed white woman gets attention, but almost every missing/killed person who DOES
GET ATTENTION is young white attractive woman. thats just a fact.

GoCubsGo

(34,767 posts)
66. Yep. 710 Native Americans missing from that area over the past decade.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 06:12 PM
Sep 2021

Most of them girls. They barely get a mention in the local news, let alone make national headlines.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/710-indigenous-people-mostly-girls-042150990.html

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
75. Follow up stats
Tue Sep 21, 2021, 11:56 AM
Sep 2021

Of the 710...

11% of the reports were cleared (i.e., found) the same day
Another 50% found within a week
9 remain missing: 3 female missing persons, and 6 male missing persons, ages 13-74
33% of the 710 were reported missing more than once during the time period (thus the 1245 reports)
99% of all missing persons reports from Wyoming during the time period (all races) have been cleared.

bobnicewander

(982 posts)
12. I wonder
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 10:20 PM
Sep 2021

"Better to Light a Candle Than to Curse the Darkness"

https://quoteinvestigator.com/2017/03/19/candle/

How many have posted here but never written, called or demonstrated to main street media in protest about the issue? MSM are almost always swayed by numbers, but not always - remember Sandy Hook?

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
38. BET (black entertainment channel) had a show called "find our missing" that focused on
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 04:22 AM
Sep 2021

black, asian, brown,etc... missing.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
14. Where are those stories then?
Sat Sep 18, 2021, 10:36 PM
Sep 2021

Just because the MSM doesn't cover them doesn't mean we can't read about them. To prove the point, there have to be cases that prove the point. Cases just as interesting that don't get to the M$M solely due to race.

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
39. it's more than a sentiment, it's a fact. the amount of police resources put on a missing young
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 04:24 AM
Sep 2021

white woman. WHEW!!! I hope they are putting real effort into solving the murders of the two LGBT woman that we killed in the same area.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
44. Much as I understand the 'sentiment' of gravity...
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 11:05 AM
Sep 2021

But kinetic force deserves our attention...


Unless of course, one realizes that the two may exist simultaneously and that many, if not most people can give both the attention due.

Goodness gracious.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
48. 'Twas brillig and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 11:18 AM
Sep 2021

All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe.

Patton French

(1,824 posts)
50. I did not intend to be dismissive
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 12:18 PM
Sep 2021

of the plight of so many that don’t receive sensational media coverage. I 100% recognize the bias in media attention. Just, as the father of a teenage girl, I’m saddened and feel for her family.

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
33. Did you forget about Vanessa Guillen?
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 02:23 AM
Sep 2021
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killing_of_Vanessa_Guill%C3%A9n

She was a much bigger story and she already has a gate named after her. She also has something else named.

She was a big deal here and I believe all over the US

On April 19, 2021, Lieutenant General Robert P. White, commander of III Corps and Fort Hood unveiled that one out of the 27 gates that grant entry to Fort Hood will be renamed "The Vanessa Guillén Gate" with a plaque in her honor. The gate is also the main entry point to the 3rd Cavalry Regiment, where Guillén worked in an arms room as a small arms repairer.[35][36]

 

LiberatedUSA

(1,666 posts)
41. Total agreement.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 04:53 AM
Sep 2021

If they find her dead body, as it is likely he killed her, can we charge her corpse with a hate crime for taking up news space that could have gone to someone we feel is more deserving? That was probably her dastardly plan. That’s an added conspiracy charge.

 

honest.abe

(9,238 posts)
43. I think it's more being young and pretty and having a case that is complicated and confusing...
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 10:46 AM
Sep 2021

and also the fact she is sort of a Youtube star.

I think if she was just a regular girl missing with none of bizarre circumstances like the boyfriend having possession of her van and not talking and law enforcement stopping them just a few days earlier, this case would be much less compelling.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
46. I don't know, this whole story is so bizarre, so many twists and turns...
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 11:12 AM
Sep 2021

The YouTube angle, the DV incident, the murdered lesbian couple…I think this would be getting publicity no matter what.

maxsolomon

(38,423 posts)
49. Maybe she would, if she were Upper-Middle Class
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 11:23 AM
Sep 2021

And had been killed by an Upper Middle-Class BF who left a string of social-media clues across the country.

Class is a component of this equation, but America's focus is on racial disparities. We prefer to think we're a classless society. We are not.

 

Klaralven

(7,510 posts)
55. Editors think that missing hot white chicks will draw a bigger audience
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 01:36 PM
Sep 2021

News editors select the stories that they think will draw the most viewer, get higher ratings, and pull in the advertiser dollars.

In this case, there's a compelling plot line, quarreling families, and lots of available pictures and videos to fill out the story. An editor would be nuts not to run with it.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
58. In every post about this, there is something along these lines
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 04:44 PM
Sep 2021

that fact that she is missing and likely dead is being used to make a racial point. No concern for this girl either. This point is more important than what happened to her?

Bettie

(19,457 posts)
63. I think it is frustration that her story is everywhere, constant
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 05:59 PM
Sep 2021

while many others never get so much as a second of airtime.

And it is true; if she were not a pretty white girl from a comfortable family, we would have no idea who she was.

That said, I don't think anyone doesn't want her found and for her family to have closure.

I want that. I also want it for the other women who we never hear of because to the media, they don't matter.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
71. The thing is none of them tell us about the
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 11:56 PM
Sep 2021

girls of color who are missing and were ignored by the media. They don't offer a single name. Just a general allegation.

And it's pretty cold to ignore what happened to this girl because she's white.

Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
64. There is.concern for her
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 06:08 PM
Sep 2021

Just hard not to point out the pattern. Nationwide emotional investment.happens.for this demographic only.

If someone posted in DU.about missing person not in the demo.
Story would sink like a stone

boston bean

(36,910 posts)
73. Hot sexy young white chick goes a long way. It's not all because they care about white women more.
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 05:38 AM
Sep 2021

It’s sexist as hell.

However any little bit of light shined upon domestic value brings some value. Even if it brings along a bunch of garbage as well.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
76. I do think a sexy, not Latina or Asian, AA
Tue Sep 21, 2021, 11:57 AM
Sep 2021

or Native American might well get the same attention, if there was a similar boyfriend on the loose that the cops are looking for. IMO looksism is a lot bigger in this culture. We've had black Miss Americas - the good looking end up getting the media's attention - it's always that way.

Look how much attention the media pay to the royals, who don't do much of interest. And actors and actresses - their personal lives are really not of much interest in the long run - they all do similar things.

Even being rich would not get Paris Hilton or the Kardashians much attention if they weren't attractive to boot.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
74. why are we so sure of this?
Tue Sep 21, 2021, 11:53 AM
Sep 2021

there aren't going to be many cases like this, overall. Even fewer where a population is a minority. There are routine cases that turn out OK, so you have to have one with a mystery and a missing suspect before it gets that interesting. Everyone was glued to the TV while the Boston Bombers were at large. This guy is at large. (I remember Rachel Maddow having us glued to her show at that time).

If it's more of a case that detectives have to investigate, it's not going to have the staying power.

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