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The mother of missing Illinois State University graduate student Jelani Day said the discovery of an unidentified body on Sept. 4 seems to have brought her sons case to a standstill.
Since they found that unidentified body, it doesnt seem to me that they are pushing to continue to look for my son, Carmen Bolden Day said of authorities.
Day was last seen in Bloomington on Aug. 24. He is still considered a missing person and the case is being handled by the Bloomington Police Department. Bolden Day said BPD seems to lack the manpower to devote more than one detective to the investigation.
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Bolden Day has drawn attention on social media to the disparity she perceives between her sons case and that of missing Florida woman Gabby Petito. Petito was reported missing on Sept. 11 after her boyfriend returned to Florida from a road trip without her. The case has garnered national media attention and is being investigated by multiple law enforcement agencies including the FBI.
Bolden Day said in pointing out the differences between Day and Petitos cases, she isnt arguing that Petito deserves less, but that Day deserves more. As a mother, Bolden Day said, she understands what Petitos family is going through and would never minimize their pain.
But do you not see us? Do you not see me? Do you not see my son?
https://www.wglt.org/local-news/2021-09-21/do-you-not-see-my-son-the-mother-of-jelani-day-says-case-is-not-getting-the-attention-it-deserves
msongs
(67,395 posts)LeftInTX
(25,258 posts)No info about results or anything.
ETA: Also found this. There is a backlog of DNA cases...Really??
https://www.news-gazette.com/news/identification-of-body-make-take-weeks/article_4df82386-f370-52e6-8b07-e4a82e75c211.html
central scrutinizer
(11,648 posts)Let NCIS take over
LeftInTX
(25,258 posts)If there has been a change from the last x-ray then there can be problems with ID'ing.
One woman was literally ruled via dental records, but years later DNA confirmed it was her.
The body was ID'd as Jelani today using DNA and dental records...
MustLoveBeagles
(11,591 posts)Demovictory9
(32,449 posts)calimary
(81,220 posts)Shit, we have such a long way still to go.
LeftInTX
(25,258 posts)CHAMPAIGN, Ill (WCCU) "I can't even describe it to you, because it hurts really bad because I don't know where my baby is. I don't know if he ate because like I said, Jelani likes to eat. When Jelani gets cold, he breaks out in hives, I don't know if he's warm. I don't know nothing," said Carmen Bolden Day, Jelani's mother.
Jelani day has been missing 24 days as of Friday.
Bolden Day believes her son is alive.
"God promised me my kids and I serve a God that does not tell a lie. So, in my heart of hearts, I believe my son is alive and I am going to see him alive," said Bolden Day.
As for the last time she saw her son, it's a moment that is forever engrained in her mind.
https://foxillinois.com/news/local/missing-isu-students-mom-speaks-out
LeftInTX
(25,258 posts)So sad..
His wallet was also found in Peru, IL
https://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/ny-jelani-day-resources-wallet-found-20210923-gxqarzk7e5e4baurmmnvvzt53u-story.html
Earlier today the FBI joined the investigation, but I think they will mostly be looking at digital evidence such as phone records.
Link to tweet
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Hortensis
(58,785 posts)These stories always make me hope those grieving have strong religious beliefs to cling to.
Meowmee
(5,164 posts)A tragedy. Rip