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tulipsandroses

(5,127 posts)
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 09:18 PM Oct 2021

I lost a family member to gun violence this weekend

Still numb from hearing the news. He didn’t even live to see 30. What happened to fist fighting? Apparently he was killed by his new girlfriend’s either ex/other boyfriend. Not sure of the details on that yet. So senseless.
His mother is devastated, of course. He died in NY. She lives in FL. Getting on a flight to claim your child’s body should not be something any parent has to go through. Parents are not supposed to bury their children.
When will our government do something??? I don’t know it for a fact but I am willing to bet this was not a legal firearm. This happened in NYC.
Apparently ghost guns are contributing to the huge uptick in violent crimes. You can just order parts online and make a DIY gun at home. What is wrong with this country?

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I lost a family member to gun violence this weekend (Original Post) tulipsandroses Oct 2021 OP
I'm sorry for your loss vercetti2021 Oct 2021 #1
The 2nd Amendment is part of what is wrong. maxsolomon Oct 2021 #2
The Second Amendment is not the problem. marybourg Oct 2021 #12
It is exactly the problem Jerry2144 Oct 2021 #14
Almost all killings take place with the weapons you say are OK. former9thward Oct 2021 #20
The history of the 2nd amendment that you are wnylib Oct 2021 #25
THIS !!!! uponit7771 Oct 2021 #15
We disagree, but I understand your point. maxsolomon Oct 2021 #30
Sickening, isn't it. Condolences Eliot Rosewater Oct 2021 #3
It's so senseless. liberalmuse Oct 2021 #4
I am so sorry for your loss. Senseless death. Tragic. Hugs for you and yours, nt okaawhatever Oct 2021 #5
😢 blm Oct 2021 #6
What a tragic loss iemanja Oct 2021 #7
New york passed Legislation to ban ghost guns this seszion Danmel Oct 2021 #8
What happened to fist fighting indeed? Walleye Oct 2021 #9
I have wondered about this for so long. Demobrat Oct 2021 #13
I'm sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #10
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Oct 2021 #11
I'm so sorry. nt Phoenix61 Oct 2021 #16
so very sorry for your loss. May you and yours find peace and comfort. niyad Oct 2021 #17
I'm very sorry for your loss. brer cat Oct 2021 #18
My condolences. SYFROYH Oct 2021 #19
I'm so sorry. Ilsa Oct 2021 #21
I'm sorry cate94 Oct 2021 #22
My deepest condolences for your loss. (eom) StevieM Oct 2021 #23
After Sandy Hook, I knew American politicians cared more about guns than children spanone Oct 2021 #24
Yes, the aftermath of Sandy Hook wnylib Oct 2021 #26
My heartfelt condolences to you wnylib Oct 2021 #27
Thank you all for your kind words tulipsandroses Oct 2021 #28
I am so, so sorry for your loss Withywindle Oct 2021 #29
Sorry for your loss Stuart G Oct 2021 #31

maxsolomon

(33,400 posts)
2. The 2nd Amendment is part of what is wrong.
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 09:21 PM
Oct 2021

It has resulted in the most heavily armed populace in history. More guns, more shootings.

Jerry2144

(2,111 posts)
14. It is exactly the problem
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 10:21 PM
Oct 2021

The poor writing of 2nd amendment is the problem, in addition to an activist SCOTUS. A well-regulated militia means a well-practiced and trained militia sanctioned by the state. Being necessary to the security of a free state means that a militia is necessary to protect from slave rebellions, from native American uprisings, and from attack from outsiders. This was needed before we created a standing military and should have been tossed out when slavery was abolished.

You want to keep a muzzle-loader, a revolver, or a pump/lever/bolts action weapon - then OK, that is within the bounds of the intent of the 2nd amendment. But you want to keep a weapon of war, a weapon that can pump out more than one round per minute, or is not practical for hunting, protecting against wild-life (wolves, bears, etc.) then you better be trained, have your weapon registered, and be subject to a thorough background check. Otherwise no mega-death for you.

Most of these "pro-second amendment" men with their high-caliber, PP X-10-DRs or PNS N-large-rs (sound them out) and multi-round clips would not last 5 seconds against the BSA, let alone our modern, militarized police or any true military force. They just choose to ignore the more important clause of the amendment and the history behind it. This is yet another grain of sand on the beach of reasons to teach a true, unvarnished, unbiased history of this nation.

former9thward

(32,077 posts)
20. Almost all killings take place with the weapons you say are OK.
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 11:32 PM
Oct 2021

Very, very few happen with what you are calling "high caliber" weapons. Your version of the intent of the 2nd amendment is very strange. If we follow your logic then the 1st amendment goes out the window also. The founders never wrote the 1st with the "intention" of the internet or any other modern methods of communication. So I guess we go back to quills and ink pots.

wnylib

(21,606 posts)
25. The history of the 2nd amendment that you are
Mon Oct 4, 2021, 12:33 AM
Oct 2021

objecting to is accurate. Throughout colonial times, during the Revolution, and for decades afterward, communities protected themselves from raids by Native tribes and from Native alliances with other nations (France, especially) by forming local militias. They also protected themselves from wild animals with their home-owned guns.

Since every family had at least one gun, people who joined militias were expected to provide their own weapons when they gathered for training. During genealogical tracing of my colonial ancestors, I found that several of them had been soldiers and officers in colonial and Revolutionary militias.

That is what the phrase in the 2nd amendment refers to when it says, "A well-regulated militia being necessary ..." It was necessary for households to maintain firearms and ammunition in order to join militias and be ready when called to action.

With the modern National Guard, that is no longer necessary. But, people who want to hunt or protect themselves from animals, particularly people in rural areas, should be allowed to own guns. But for the safety of society, gun ownership needs to be regulated.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
4. It's so senseless.
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 09:23 PM
Oct 2021

I'm sorry you and your loved ones have to deal with this horrible tragedy. All so a bunch of people can fetishize and play with guns. All these guns floating around make it too easy to just shoot someone rather than have any kind of discussion to try and resolve any differences.

Walleye

(31,045 posts)
9. What happened to fist fighting indeed?
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 09:33 PM
Oct 2021

Is it just ordinary cowardice?I have often asked that. You end up with a good work out and years later you can look back on it and laugh. A gun fight seems very unsatisfying way too permanent. I am so sorry you had to experience this in your family

Demobrat

(8,989 posts)
13. I have wondered about this for so long.
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 09:48 PM
Oct 2021

I grew up in a somewhat rough part of Chicago where fighting was an inescapable part of growing up, even for a bookish little girl like me.

The worst that happened was somebody got a bloody nose.

This - what happened to this young man



It’s just so wrong. The person who did it should never be allowed to be part of society again.

But we know how that goes.

It’s just so awful. So sorry.

brer cat

(24,605 posts)
18. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 11:09 PM
Oct 2021

Such a senseless tragedy must be horrific for the family to comprehend and accept.

spanone

(135,873 posts)
24. After Sandy Hook, I knew American politicians cared more about guns than children
Mon Oct 4, 2021, 12:02 AM
Oct 2021

I'm still sickened to know that not a thing changed

so sorry....

wnylib

(21,606 posts)
26. Yes, the aftermath of Sandy Hook
Mon Oct 4, 2021, 12:42 AM
Oct 2021

was soul crushingly sad. When it became obvious that even the deaths of elementary children did not move people enough to address the gun problem, I was depressed.

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