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snort

(2,334 posts)
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:15 AM Oct 2021

Hello Everybody! Time for old Snorty snort to check out.

Last edited Thu Oct 14, 2021, 11:39 AM - Edit history (1)

I have been diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer.

I've enjoyed being here for the past 13+ years.

Hug your family. Hug your pets. Fight the good fight and make good trouble.

I am sorry that I will not be here to help.

Good luck to you all.

snort (Pat)



Updating this thread just to let everyone know that I am absolutely floored by all the well wishes and encouragement coming from you guys. I WILL post the good and the bad over the next few (or perhaps several) days. Fingers crossed!

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Hello Everybody! Time for old Snorty snort to check out. (Original Post) snort Oct 2021 OP
Hoping you could be one of the lucky ones who beat it Walleye Oct 2021 #1
I haven't quite said goodbye yet. snort Oct 2021 #2
Snort, I don't know you but I Polly Hennessey Oct 2021 #51
Best wishes to you! n/t PoliticAverse Oct 2021 #3
Oh my goodness malaise Oct 2021 #4
Thank you malaise. snort Oct 2021 #5
Sending vibes for best possible outcome for your brother-in-law. Here if you need us. niyad Oct 2021 #12
Thanks malaise Oct 2021 #29
I wish you well OLDMDDEM Oct 2021 #6
Oh, boy, that's tough stuff babylonsister Oct 2021 #7
Keep a positive attitude. sinkingfeeling Oct 2021 #8
Wishing you peace and love. peacefreak2.0 Oct 2021 #9
Thank you. snort Oct 2021 #11
((((((Pat)))))) Sending vibes that you be as comfortable as possible. Please know that niyad Oct 2021 #10
Yes snort Oct 2021 #13
Godspeed Xoan Oct 2021 #14
I am sorry to hear this news. I hope things go as well as possible. yardwork Oct 2021 #15
Thats a rough one. Were it me, I'd hope to address it the same way. NNadir Oct 2021 #16
I wanted to live long enough to see the SOB taking a dirt bath. snort Oct 2021 #27
"Going out with dignity" has its value, but we'd much rather see you 70sEraVet Oct 2021 #58
Good luck. You've been dealt a bad hand... but it is survivable. NurseJackie Oct 2021 #17
Sending good vibes for you and your family and badhair77 Oct 2021 #18
I will not leave you guys hanging if it can be avoided. snort Oct 2021 #28
I hope that over the distance you can feel and find comfort in all the Tanuki Oct 2021 #19
So sorry you're having to deal with this. IrishAfricanAmerican Oct 2021 #20
You might want to check out this website snort KS Toronado Oct 2021 #21
I'll be fenbendazole is the next touted cure for COVID, too. n/t Ms. Toad Oct 2021 #139
I greatly admire your dignity and grace. Sending more peace and love your way. Irish_Dem Oct 2021 #22
From one Irish to another snort Oct 2021 #31
.... Irish_Dem Oct 2021 #48
One of my very best friends had pancreatic cancer. PatrickforB Oct 2021 #23
You sound like a fighter to me. hamsterjill Oct 2021 #24
((((((HUGS)))))) UpInArms Oct 2021 #25
I admire your attitude Djuiceman Oct 2021 #26
So sorry for this diagnosis. Cancer of any type is not good news. Lonestarblue Oct 2021 #30
Hoping that treatment works for you Bettie Oct 2021 #32
I'm so sorry JustAnotherGen Oct 2021 #33
I hope you fight the good fight and WIN. Peace. LoisB Oct 2021 #34
There are different types of Pancreatic cancer. lagomorph777 Oct 2021 #35
May you defy the odds and thrill your doctors blogslug Oct 2021 #36
Alive & well 5 years later Desert_Leslie Oct 2021 #37
I will be away from the comp for a while. snort Oct 2021 #38
When it's my turn, I'll go looking for you. There's just gotta be a DU in heaven ... marble falls Oct 2021 #39
I should be easy to find, I'll be the good looking one. snort Oct 2021 #91
I'll hate taking your crown, but it's out of my hands! marble falls Oct 2021 #132
I wish I could rec this reply Lisa0825 Oct 2021 #151
I miss xchrome and so many others so much. I never realized how connected one could feel ... marble falls Oct 2021 #152
Wishing you strength during this difficult time. Grumpy Old Guy Oct 2021 #40
Sending healing prayers your way. redwitch Oct 2021 #41
Thank You. snort Oct 2021 #92
All I can say is..hoping for the best for you. mountain grammy Oct 2021 #42
Sending you my best DU vibes Wicked Blue Oct 2021 #43
May you not be in pain. Haggard Celine Oct 2021 #44
Peace kentuck Oct 2021 #45
God bless. It's been a pleasure. (nt) Paladin Oct 2021 #46
My problems suddenly seem insignificant now. God Bless! Pepsidog Oct 2021 #47
Hang in there, snort. WinstonSmith4740 Oct 2021 #49
Thank You. This is encouraging. snort Oct 2021 #93
One of my neighbor's mother was diagnosed malaise Oct 2021 #180
Best wishes and love, Pat and thanks for sharing with the DU family. KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2021 #50
Whatever the road ahead, may peace be with you and those you hold dear. Fla Dem Oct 2021 #52
My dear Pat cate94 Oct 2021 #53
Peace and comfort to you. And please stick around. Buns_of_Fire Oct 2021 #54
Ohhh! Your courageous humor in such adversity is heart-warming. I wish you hlthe2b Oct 2021 #55
Peace to you and all your Dr. Shepper Oct 2021 #56
I wish you peace and easy passage, whenever it may be. nolabear Oct 2021 #57
All the best to you wryter2000 Oct 2021 #59
Peace and love to you and your loved ones. onecaliberal Oct 2021 #60
Hopefully you have a loved one to support you. Tribetime Oct 2021 #61
Anything is possible. You might beat it yet. If not, you have a great attitude and we would ratchiweenie Oct 2021 #62
So sorry for this and hope Submariner Oct 2021 #63
Cheers my friend berniesandersmittens Oct 2021 #64
I Wonder WHITT Oct 2021 #65
Best of luck angrychair Oct 2021 #66
I hope you beat it, damn cancer. BeckyDem Oct 2021 #67
Sending healing vibes, positive thoughts your way, and hopes for the best possible outcome. nt woodsprite Oct 2021 #68
I wish you the best Marthe48 Oct 2021 #69
Sending you warm wishes for peace in whatever path lays ahead. NH Ethylene Oct 2021 #70
(((((Snort))))) Aristus Oct 2021 #71
Please take care of yourself seta1950 Oct 2021 #72
Damn, cancer sure sucks. ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ a kennedy Oct 2021 #73
Kindest thoughts to you. Duppers Oct 2021 #74
JFC Cancer sucks rambler_american Oct 2021 #75
Sending vibes for strength and peace and comfort for you and your daughter. niyad Oct 2021 #90
Deep breath, good vibes to you Pat. Bluethroughu Oct 2021 #76
Damn sorry to hear that. Stay strong alfredo Oct 2021 #77
((((((( snort ))))))) Keep the faith and know you are loved. ancianita Oct 2021 #78
Best wishes coming at you. And Good Trouble is all of our jobs now. Hope you get some Evolve Dammit Oct 2021 #79
Sending you good vibes and kind thoughts. MLAA Oct 2021 #80
Best of luck SCantiGOP Oct 2021 #81
Well fuck. Nevilledog Oct 2021 #82
We should give snort a whole thread... berniesandersmittens Oct 2021 #113
So Sorry Beringia Oct 2021 #83
Sending you healing light and hugs, snort; together with all Backseat Driver Oct 2021 #84
Peace and light to you Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #85
I am so sorry. StarryNite Oct 2021 #86
Good luck. And fuck cancer. GoneOffShore Oct 2021 #87
May the outcome be positive, the journey as long as you desire and the end free of regrets. Moostache Oct 2021 #88
Best wishes, snort. Lars39 Oct 2021 #89
My sympathy for a tough diagnosis. mn9driver Oct 2021 #94
Words aren't enough. Love and blessings LakeArenal Oct 2021 #95
So sorry to hear this, Snort. I hope you can overcome and prevail, but no matter what.. Celerity Oct 2021 #96
Go in peace Champp Oct 2021 #97
Sending good vibes and hopes for a positive outcome. brer cat Oct 2021 #98
Oh, boy. My heart and my thoughts are with you. Scrivener7 Oct 2021 #99
Positive waves, your way, all the way. yonder Oct 2021 #100
F*ck Cancer! Deep State Witch Oct 2021 #101
Good luck! BlueJac Oct 2021 #102
My very best thoughts coming your way, Pat! boston bean Oct 2021 #103
hoping for a peaceful journey for you. EOM tiredtoo Oct 2021 #104
NOT ready to see you go, snort. calimary Oct 2021 #105
Tough one, but I do have a friend who was told moonscape Oct 2021 #106
Peaceful Journey, Snort rurallib Oct 2021 #107
Best wishes to you alphafemale Oct 2021 #108
Hey man, best DU vibes Snorty snort! denbot Oct 2021 #109
May you have peace lillypaddle Oct 2021 #110
Stay strong. Take care. lucca18 Oct 2021 #111
Hoping plcdude Oct 2021 #112
Two of my friends beat it. You can, too! Efilroft Sul Oct 2021 #114
I'm so sorry for the diagnosis MissB Oct 2021 #115
Here is a snort for a positive out come. grantcart Oct 2021 #116
Be Strong marieo1 Oct 2021 #117
Best wishes to you & your healthcare team in fighting this dreaded cancer. My thoughts are with you. ARPad95 Oct 2021 #118
Its a scary one. BoomaofBandM Oct 2021 #119
I am sorry mgardener Oct 2021 #120
Hang tough, man. I've survived melanoma, throat cancer, and prostate cancer ... 11 Bravo Oct 2021 #121
.... Spazito Oct 2021 #122
sending you and your family peaceful healing vibes nt steve2470 Oct 2021 #123
Best wishes. Hamlette Oct 2021 #124
Pat, sending you and your family Alliepoo Oct 2021 #125
Aw snort... MontanaMama Oct 2021 #126
Oh no, I hope it does not mean there is no hope of survival. TeamProg Oct 2021 #127
stay as positive as you can and wring every single drop out of every day. NewHendoLib Oct 2021 #128
Wow, I just don't know what to say. Lunabell Oct 2021 #129
Hang In There, Pat ProfessorGAC Oct 2021 #130
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2021 #131
Hoping,wishing,praying,sending luvallpeeps Oct 2021 #133
Oh my Fpj Oct 2021 #134
Fare thee well Lasher Oct 2021 #135
Peace be with you voteearlyvoteoften Oct 2021 #136
I'm SO sorry 😣. live love laugh Oct 2021 #137
oh, snort! I'm so sorry. cheri010353 Oct 2021 #138
Sending you Faux pas Oct 2021 #140
Fingers crossed, Pat. I'll be watching for you. Hortensis Oct 2021 #141
Go find some RBG magic! n/t Ms. Toad Oct 2021 #142
Blessings of peace and gentleness majdrfrtim Oct 2021 #143
Pat,,,please don't give up! Texasgal Oct 2021 #144
Wishing the best for you. bluewater Oct 2021 #145
I'm so so sorry and sad. I wish you a gentle passing to the other side. LiberalLoner Oct 2021 #146
(((snort))) sarge43 Oct 2021 #147
Take good care of yourself. AmBlue Oct 2021 #148
My dad had that DFW Oct 2021 #149
Love to you... gldstwmn Oct 2021 #150
best wishes to you - thank you for being here nt spooky3 Oct 2021 #153
I am sorry to hear that. I hope it was caught early. JanMichael Oct 2021 #154
You had me at "make good trouble." 2Gingersnaps Oct 2021 #155
Sending whatever good vibes and wishes I can oldtime dfl_er Oct 2021 #156
I'm so sorry and I wish you all the best. Solly Mack Oct 2021 #157
Science will do its best raising2moredems Oct 2021 #158
Best wishes, shorty. catrose Oct 2021 #159
💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡 spanone Oct 2021 #160
Good luck to you Snort dflprincess Oct 2021 #161
I'm sorry to here this MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #162
Miracles DO HAPPEN, & I'm praying one happens for you. n/t napi21 Oct 2021 #163
Never knew ya Snort canetoad Oct 2021 #164
Much love ♥️ and positive thoughts 🌹 and prayers 🙏 I'm sending out to you Raine Oct 2021 #165
Gonna go down fighting with ya! czarjak Oct 2021 #166
My best to you. nt Progressive Jones Oct 2021 #167
Thinking positive for you JudyM Oct 2021 #168
My heat to yours tonight. herding cats Oct 2021 #169
My Mom had pancreatic cancer and lived 6 years after diagnosis. Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2021 #170
Praying for a miracle samplegirl Oct 2021 #171
Sending healing thoughts your way bdjhawk Oct 2021 #172
Wishing you the best. FuzzyRabbit Oct 2021 #173
Wishing you ALL the best Withywindle Oct 2021 #174
ALL my BlueMTexpat Oct 2021 #175
Yes, you had me at "...make good trouble...." duhneece Oct 2021 #176
I hope it's okay to say LittleGirl Oct 2021 #177
My heart is so with you, please take care 🥰 arthritisR_US Oct 2021 #178
I hope you are one of the lucky ones. 3Hotdogs Oct 2021 #179
❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ Lucinda Oct 2021 #181
Wishing you a miracle. Roisin Ni Fiachra Oct 2021 #182

snort

(2,334 posts)
2. I haven't quite said goodbye yet.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:20 AM
Oct 2021

I understand there is a slim chance I could be around for a bit longer, but I know the reality of the situation.

Thank you for your response.

Polly Hennessey

(6,793 posts)
51. Snort, I don't know you but I
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:46 AM
Oct 2021

believe it would be an honor to know you. Fight the good fight and stay here as long as possible.

malaise

(268,871 posts)
4. Oh my goodness
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:21 AM
Oct 2021

Truth be told we're all heading for the same destination - just different routes to life's ultimate eventuality - death.
One of my brothers-in-law is having open heart surgery today today. The last thing he told me last night was ''it is what it is".
Hope you are as comfortable as possible. We must also HUG our DU friends

babylonsister

(171,050 posts)
7. Oh, boy, that's tough stuff
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:28 AM
Oct 2021

right there. I wish you all the best and hope there is some hope to hang your hat on.

Oh, and FUCK CANCER.

snort

(2,334 posts)
11. Thank you.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:39 AM
Oct 2021

And thanks to everyone who responds. I will be going to the hospital in a couple of hours and I want you all to know that I appreciate you very much.

If I can I will post again later.

Love

niyad

(113,216 posts)
10. ((((((Pat)))))) Sending vibes that you be as comfortable as possible. Please know that
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:38 AM
Oct 2021

your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as you need. Do you have a good support system at home?

NNadir

(33,512 posts)
16. Thats a rough one. Were it me, I'd hope to address it the same way.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:49 AM
Oct 2021

May you live long enough to see Trump arrested, and perhaps, imprisoned.

snort

(2,334 posts)
27. I wanted to live long enough to see the SOB taking a dirt bath.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:07 AM
Oct 2021

Oh well. I am going to fight but it is my intention to go out with dignity. Thank you.

70sEraVet

(3,483 posts)
58. "Going out with dignity" has its value, but we'd much rather see you
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:56 AM
Oct 2021

"hanging around with tenacity"!
Good luck.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
17. Good luck. You've been dealt a bad hand... but it is survivable.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:49 AM
Oct 2021

You didn't mention your age, but I can share with you that a former colleague of mine is now in his late 60's and he's a 7-year survivor of pancreatic cancer. It's been tough for him, but he's a fighter. Chemo, radiation, surgery. The cancer-free for a few years... then some "quick" chemo. He's again cancer-free. Not easy, but doable. Sending strength and courage your way.

badhair77

(4,214 posts)
18. Sending good vibes for you and your family and
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:50 AM
Oct 2021

your health care providers. Wishing you the best. Please update us if you can.

Tanuki

(14,917 posts)
19. I hope that over the distance you can feel and find comfort in all the
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:51 AM
Oct 2021

love and good wishes coming your way from your DU family. We are all in this together and are pulling for you every step of the way. You are never alone, not even for one second! Thank you for letting us know about this. I am saying a prayer and sending every good wish.

KS Toronado

(17,187 posts)
21. You might want to check out this website snort
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:56 AM
Oct 2021

This gentleman was given 3 or 6 months to live and beat cancer using over the counter drugs,
and per his facebook blog, his method is helping others beat it. Good luck!

https://www.mycancerstory.rocks/single-post/2016/08/22/Shake-up-your-life-how-to-change-your-own-perspective

Irish_Dem

(46,859 posts)
22. I greatly admire your dignity and grace. Sending more peace and love your way.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:57 AM
Oct 2021

Throwing some prayers for you in the mix.

I don't think I could handle the situation with as much dignity, grace and maturity as you are showing.
And your ability to send a gracious thank you to a group which meant something to you.

You are a class act Pat. I am wishing you peace and comfort.

Irish_Dem

(46,859 posts)
48. ....
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:39 AM
Oct 2021

Sending you Hail Marys right now.

I am not a practicing Catholic any more, but still believe in the Blessed Mother.
May she be by your side if that is your wish.

PatrickforB

(14,569 posts)
23. One of my very best friends had pancreatic cancer.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:59 AM
Oct 2021

I'm sorry.

As others have said, you may be one of the ones for whom treatment works. Let's hope so.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
24. You sound like a fighter to me.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:03 AM
Oct 2021

So I wish you strength and resolve to fight in whatever way you choose for as long as you choose.

Beyond that, I wish you peace. We will need a DU chapter on the other side of the rainbow bridge.

Djuiceman

(3 posts)
26. I admire your attitude
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:06 AM
Oct 2021

Your have encouraged me to face life with a positive but very practical approach - I thank you for that

Lonestarblue

(9,963 posts)
30. So sorry for this diagnosis. Cancer of any type is not good news.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:10 AM
Oct 2021

I’m wishing you much strength as you fight this nasty disease, and hoping you’re one of the ones to survive it.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
35. There are different types of Pancreatic cancer.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:16 AM
Oct 2021

I sure hope you have the lesser one, but it sounds like the docs have told you otherwise.

Desert_Leslie

(131 posts)
37. Alive & well 5 years later
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:16 AM
Oct 2021

I've had two clients with pancreatic cancer. One did pass away. BUT ... the second client had the Whipple surgical procedure and is alive and well 5 years later. Best of luck to you!

snort

(2,334 posts)
38. I will be away from the comp for a while.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:17 AM
Oct 2021

Please know that I am reading and appreciate every post.

marble falls

(57,063 posts)
39. When it's my turn, I'll go looking for you. There's just gotta be a DU in heaven ...
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:19 AM
Oct 2021

... there's a lot of us up there.

marble falls

(57,063 posts)
152. I miss xchrome and so many others so much. I never realized how connected one could feel ...
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:24 PM
Oct 2021

... for people one never met in person.

redwitch

(14,944 posts)
41. Sending healing prayers your way.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:22 AM
Oct 2021

Sister in law has it too. Is doing well enough that she’s gone back to work after a year of treatment. She is still dealing with chemo but feels better. I hope you stay with us a good, long time!

Wicked Blue

(5,829 posts)
43. Sending you my best DU vibes
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:33 AM
Oct 2021

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
49. Hang in there, snort.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:39 AM
Oct 2021

When my husband was going through treatment, I got to do a lot of reading. One of the articles was about how you need to ignore "survival rates". It doesn't matter what the survival rate of any particular cancer is, 5%, 50%, or whatever. What's important is that if you're part of that percentage, YOUR survival rate is 100%. You easily could be. Stay strong. Besides, you want to be here with us when Trump goes down for good. We've got you.

malaise

(268,871 posts)
180. One of my neighbor's mother was diagnosed
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 08:27 AM
Oct 2021

with pancreatic cancer six years ago - she is still doing very well. You are so right.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,489 posts)
50. Best wishes and love, Pat and thanks for sharing with the DU family.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:43 AM
Oct 2021

Perhaps you can share some parts of your journey that might help folks here recognize signs of that disease early to improve their chances of survival.

KY..........

Fla Dem

(23,635 posts)
52. Whatever the road ahead, may peace be with you and those you hold dear.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:47 AM
Oct 2021

Last edited Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:36 PM - Edit history (1)

cate94

(2,810 posts)
53. My dear Pat
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:50 AM
Oct 2021

That’s a tough diagnosis. I will keep you in my thoughts and hope for the best outcome for you. Everything about that cancer is how early they find it, I hope it just came to being yesterday.

Buns_of_Fire

(17,173 posts)
54. Peace and comfort to you. And please stick around.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:50 AM
Oct 2021

You don't want to miss the party when all 81 million of us drench Mar-a-Lago with our respect for TFG (date TBA). I've contracted for the beer concession in sector C-18. Bring this message for a free beverage of your choice. I'll be looking for you.

hlthe2b

(102,197 posts)
55. Ohhh! Your courageous humor in such adversity is heart-warming. I wish you
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:51 AM
Oct 2021

the best result to therapy possible. May you be surprised with an unprecedented good outcome.

I hope you will continue to check in with us as you can. You are in my thoughts with the warmest of good wishes.

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
57. I wish you peace and easy passage, whenever it may be.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:56 AM
Oct 2021

I hope you’re around for some time to come, but since we all do go into the mystery someday I’ll wish you all the ease and love you need. Thank you for everything. ❤️

Tribetime

(4,684 posts)
61. Hopefully you have a loved one to support you.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:09 AM
Oct 2021

And I'm sure most everyone here is here to support you however they can

ratchiweenie

(7,754 posts)
62. Anything is possible. You might beat it yet. If not, you have a great attitude and we would
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:13 AM
Oct 2021

love to hear from you when you need to bend a few ears.

WHITT

(2,868 posts)
65. I Wonder
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:17 AM
Oct 2021

if there are any clinical trials? Worth a shot.

All of my best wishes for you and your family.

BeckyDem

(8,361 posts)
67. I hope you beat it, damn cancer.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:24 AM
Oct 2021

You be sure everyone here is sending all the best thoughts possible. Hugs to you, Pat.

NH Ethylene

(30,807 posts)
70. Sending you warm wishes for peace in whatever path lays ahead.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:26 AM
Oct 2021

And remember, much as everyone likens cancer to a battle that must be fought, you actually are sick with an illness.

It is not in your control to win or lose a war against some evil enemy. These are your own cells that accidentally went awry. You can't let people insist that you must 'fight' them off by sheer willpower.

You can choose to undergo treatments, or not. The errant cells will either respond to treatments, or not.

Very best of luck to you, and I hope today goes well.

Aristus

(66,310 posts)
71. (((((Snort)))))
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:27 AM
Oct 2021

I know what you’re facing. My father had pancreatic cancer.

Are you going to be undergoing chemo? If so, a prescription for dronabinol as an anti-emetic and appetite stimulant could be helpful.

Hang in there…

rambler_american

(789 posts)
75. JFC Cancer sucks
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:32 AM
Oct 2021

I am so sorry about your diagnosis.
I hope some day that we will find a way to beat cancer once and for all. It killed my mother, my best friend and now my daughter is facing death from brain cancer.

Bluethroughu

(5,148 posts)
76. Deep breath, good vibes to you Pat.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:33 AM
Oct 2021

Refresh each day with good energy coming your way from all directions leading back to here.

Evolve Dammit

(16,723 posts)
79. Best wishes coming at you. And Good Trouble is all of our jobs now. Hope you get some
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:38 AM
Oct 2021

of the best treatment available, and you can prevail.

Nevilledog

(51,063 posts)
82. Well fuck.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:43 AM
Oct 2021



Hoping your Dr. is a miracle worker.



P.S. Don't trust anyone who tells you Ivermectin cures cancer.

Backseat Driver

(4,385 posts)
84. Sending you healing light and hugs, snort; together with all
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:49 AM
Oct 2021

DUers hugs with whom you've shared and the energy of our thoughts for your care going forward. I lost my brother last month, but his pancreatic cancer situation was compounded by DM and advanced liver disease, NAFLD/NASH. To treat one would have made the other worse...toxins, like chemo and/or the inflammation of radiation, you know, and so he entered hospice care. Already advanced, liver transplantation was not an option. Despite that, a miracle did occur, because we were reconciled, visited, and talked on the phone after a long estrangement. The way it worked out, his passing may mean a better, easier, longer life for another younger leaf on our family tree...so hang in there, snort, and be well...you're on our team as we fight it together with love and hope in our hearts for you.

Jilly_in_VA

(9,962 posts)
85. Peace and light to you
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:51 AM
Oct 2021

I don't know you well as I am a comparative newcomer. But you fight the good fight until your time comes.

Do not go gentle into that good night.

StarryNite

(9,442 posts)
86. I am so sorry.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 11:05 AM
Oct 2021

Some beat it, hoping you will be one of those. Sending you good thoughts and vibes and hugs.

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
88. May the outcome be positive, the journey as long as you desire and the end free of regrets.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 11:21 AM
Oct 2021
“A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles.” – Tim Cahill


By the responses here and certainly in the real world, your journey is one of true wealth and impact and may its inevitable end greet you and call you 'friend'.

Vaya con dios.

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
95. Words aren't enough. Love and blessings
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 11:40 AM
Oct 2021

My dear friend’s husband currently has four different cancers. Pancreatic is one.

He has been putting up the fight over three years. He’s home and doing well they say

Best of medicine to you, too.

Celerity

(43,262 posts)
96. So sorry to hear this, Snort. I hope you can overcome and prevail, but no matter what..
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 11:41 AM
Oct 2021

make the most, live the most, love the most, today and in each and every day you have on this mortal coil.

Hugs,

Cel

Deep State Witch

(10,422 posts)
101. F*ck Cancer!
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 12:08 PM
Oct 2021

Snort, please don't give up. You can beat this thing. We DU-ers love you and want you around for many more years.

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
106. Tough one, but I do have a friend who was told
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 12:31 PM
Oct 2021

she had a 1% survival chance. That was close to 20 years ago. Have learned with my own cancer that statistics don't tell us much about what our story will be. I've been on the right, and wrong, side of statistics so much - and I'm talking in the 1-5% range.

You sound like you have coexisting fight and peace, which is as close to perfect a place to be as I can think of. Profound journey, wherever it takes you. We, of course, hope it takes you to the voting booth! Should it not, please use whatever pull you have on the other side for us - we'll see you soon.

plcdude

(5,309 posts)
112. Hoping
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 01:06 PM
Oct 2021

For your recovery but knowing it may not happen. Peace to you and your loved ones. A very remarkable post Pat. Just lost a friend last week who was a straight shooter like you. Hang in there as long as you can and then get some long deserved rest.

MissB

(15,805 posts)
115. I'm so sorry for the diagnosis
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 01:22 PM
Oct 2021

And I’m hoping things go well with you, regardless of the path the cancer takes.

ARPad95

(1,671 posts)
118. Best wishes to you & your healthcare team in fighting this dreaded cancer. My thoughts are with you.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 02:06 PM
Oct 2021

BoomaofBandM

(1,770 posts)
119. Its a scary one.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 02:09 PM
Oct 2021

My little sister (56 years old) was diagnosed with same about 2 weeks ago..They are not messing around. She has asked for us to be positive for her, and I would like to share that positivity with you. Stay strong.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
121. Hang tough, man. I've survived melanoma, throat cancer, and prostate cancer ...
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 02:19 PM
Oct 2021

and while I'm missing a few parts, I'm still on the right side of the dirt.
I know that pancreatic C is one particularly nasty motherfucker, but sometimes the good guys win.
I don't know where you stand on prayers, but I'll keep you in mine.
It can't hurt.

All the best, 11B.

Alliepoo

(2,215 posts)
125. Pat, sending you and your family
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 02:48 PM
Oct 2021

A huge (((((HUG))))). I wish I could deliver it in person. I’m sending every good vibe for peace and healing! Your DU fam loves you and we are here-we’ve got you!!❤️❤️

TeamProg

(6,101 posts)
127. Oh no, I hope it does not mean there is no hope of survival.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 03:20 PM
Oct 2021

As a realist I would want to hold no illusions and try to enjoy what time I have left, but man, please have some hope.

NewHendoLib

(60,013 posts)
128. stay as positive as you can and wring every single drop out of every day.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 03:23 PM
Oct 2021

My fervent wish is for you to beat this thing. Thanks for sharing your news, tough at it is. Each of us here will eventually go through some bad stuff. A demonstration of grace is very powerful and appreciated.

Lunabell

(6,075 posts)
129. Wow, I just don't know what to say.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 03:30 PM
Oct 2021

I hope you can stay pain free and have the love of family and friends surrounding you.

ProfessorGAC

(64,983 posts)
130. Hang In There, Pat
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 03:34 PM
Oct 2021

Sending whatever good vibes I can.
Hopefully you'll be one of the more fortunate for whom treatments work well.
Take care.

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cheri010353

(127 posts)
138. oh, snort! I'm so sorry.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 05:22 PM
Oct 2021

I lost a close friend to pancreatic cancer several years ago only 6 months after her diagnosis, but RBG lived 10 years after hers. Sending you healing Vibes and lots of hugs.

LiberalLoner

(9,761 posts)
146. I'm so so sorry and sad. I wish you a gentle passing to the other side.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 05:36 PM
Oct 2021

Thank you for being a force for good while you were here.

😭🙏

DFW

(54,330 posts)
149. My dad had that
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 07:25 PM
Oct 2021

He put up a fight and stuck around way longer than any of his doctors gave him a chance of doing.

If that gives you any inspiration to do likewise, make some good trouble of your own while you can!

JanMichael

(24,881 posts)
154. I am sorry to hear that. I hope it was caught early.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 08:34 PM
Oct 2021

If caught early you may have more time. Good luck.

raising2moredems

(632 posts)
158. Science will do its best
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:29 PM
Oct 2021

A good circle of people will also do their best for you. Good karma, good ju-ju's to you.

spanone

(135,815 posts)
160. 💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:51 PM
Oct 2021

thanks for posting, were sending all the light possible...

dflprincess

(28,075 posts)
161. Good luck to you Snort
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 11:00 PM
Oct 2021

and, as Irish Dem said above, sending a few Hail Marys you way. Funny how we can leave the church, but some things never leave us.

My friend's husband was diagnosed with stage 4 a few years ago, his had spread to the liver. He chose treatments and Mayo Clinic bought him 3 years. The best part being, they were good years, the treatments were not hard on him & he was able to stay active until about 3 weeks before the end. It's a tough diagnosis but some progress is being made.

Whether you choose treatments or pallitave care, I wish you the best.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
165. Much love ♥️ and positive thoughts 🌹 and prayers 🙏 I'm sending out to you
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 12:06 AM
Oct 2021

and a great big hug.

JudyM

(29,225 posts)
168. Thinking positive for you
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 01:44 AM
Oct 2021

and wishing for the best of whatever is to come.
Thanks for the perspective, and really good luck.

herding cats

(19,558 posts)
169. My heat to yours tonight.
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 02:03 AM
Oct 2021

I'm wishing you a much peace, joy and love in this moment of your journey through life. ❤️

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
170. My Mom had pancreatic cancer and lived 6 years after diagnosis.
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 02:11 AM
Oct 2021

So stay strong! Ya never know what could happen tomorrow.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
174. Wishing you ALL the best
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 04:25 AM
Oct 2021

I'm so sorry for this tough diagnosis. Thank you for all you are, and have done. We're here with you and not giving up on you just yet.

duhneece

(4,112 posts)
176. Yes, you had me at "...make good trouble...."
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 05:40 AM
Oct 2021

I will honor that.
I will honor that today as I put up signs for our Democratic school board candidate against a right wing horror.
You lift me up.

LittleGirl

(8,282 posts)
177. I hope it's okay to say
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 06:24 AM
Oct 2021

I hope it won’t be horrible. My Mother passed last month and spent her last couple of days in hospice. My best wishes to you and yours.

3Hotdogs

(12,365 posts)
179. I hope you are one of the lucky ones.
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 08:02 AM
Oct 2021

--- and if anyone recommends you try Ivermectin, don't listen to 'em. You ain't a horse.

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