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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:40 PM Nov 2021

So, we Democrats are in the process of winning the New Jersey governor election, the special House

seat election in Ohio and the mayoral race in New York City. But, since we are likely losing the governorship of Virginia, that proves our policies are bad and we are destined to lose both houses of Congress in '22 and Trump will be reelected in '24?

This is BULLSHIT, people, UNLESS you believe it!

If we allow talking heads whose checks are signed by mega-corporation CEOs to predict our certain failure on a daily basis, we can either allow their prophecy to become reality or we can THINK for ourselves and deny them the smug satisfaction of another "We told you so!"

Virginia has apparently elected a governor whose primary campaign promise was that he would "ban the teaching of critical race theory" in Virginia. CRT has never been taught in Virginia schools. But, the cowardly white people allowed Youngkin to play HIS race card and they rewarded his racism with the governorship of their state.

As far as I am concerned, Virginia ignorantly reclaimed its status as a Confederate state today, but that's on them, not us.

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So, we Democrats are in the process of winning the New Jersey governor election, the special House (Original Post) Atticus Nov 2021 OP
Great post malaise Nov 2021 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author malaise Nov 2021 #2
I'd love to stick my head in the sand with you FBaggins Nov 2021 #3
The R just took the lead in NJ former9thward Nov 2021 #4
let's take those one at a time qazplm135 Nov 2021 #5
GOP currently in the lead Lawrence454 Nov 2021 #6
It won't hold Sugarcoated Nov 2021 #11
OK. But Democrats STILL NEED TO GET TO WORK ON THEIR DAMN MESSAGING... CousinIT Nov 2021 #7
Yes. That is the real lesson from VA. n/t Mister Ed Nov 2021 #15
Been saying this for years. We're too damned erudite. We have to fire people up instead of JudyM Nov 2021 #20
In my city, we kept the MAGATS off our local School Board TheRealNorth Nov 2021 #8
We are winning the safe Democratic seats. We are losing the competitive seats. brooklynite Nov 2021 #9
I see a UnderThisLaw Nov 2021 #10
Thank you mcar Nov 2021 #12
Comes down to tepid voter turnout. Dems dont show up at the polls onetexan Nov 2021 #16
Yep mcar Nov 2021 #17
It should be a clean sweep. The fact that it's not shows something ecstatic Nov 2021 #13
Because they are still mad about stay at home orders ,masks and vaccines nt maryellen99 Nov 2021 #18
Exactly, thank you! nt 2 Meow Momma Nov 2021 #14
Congrats to New Jersey Dems! Cha Nov 2021 #19
Let this be a lesson to all of us. Shamefully, I didn't vote nor did the 5 other democrats in my Pepsidog Nov 2021 #21
Are we going to win NJ? SYFROYH Nov 2021 #22
No votes in from Newark. brooklynite Nov 2021 #23
True, a bunch of Essex County just posted and shrunk the lead to 1.2% SYFROYH Nov 2021 #24
It just got a lot tighter.. mvd Nov 2021 #25
Less that 6,000 votes difference now Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Nov 2021 #26
Yes, I believe so. apcalc Nov 2021 #34
This thread is not sensible, its apples and oranges. Jon King Nov 2021 #27
I would actually argue that it proves that running on our policy pays dividends ColinC Nov 2021 #28
Democrats Need Younger Blood DallasNE Nov 2021 #29
Tinkerbellism doesn't work Sympthsical Nov 2021 #30
What websites do you read? Sugarcoated Nov 2021 #31
A lot of it Sympthsical Nov 2021 #32
it's the soccer moms all over again. mopinko Nov 2021 #36
K&R betsuni Nov 2021 #33
K&R n/t Greybnk48 Nov 2021 #35

Response to Atticus (Original post)

FBaggins

(28,763 posts)
3. I'd love to stick my head in the sand with you
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:46 PM
Nov 2021

Biden won NJ by 16%. If we win by 5% that's still evidence of a tectonic shift politically.

qazplm135

(7,654 posts)
5. let's take those one at a time
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:48 PM
Nov 2021

1. Very blue state
2. Very blue district
3. Very blue city

VA was purple. It's a microcosm of the country in that respect.

So just like the folks saying it's all over forever are vastly off, so is the, everything is fine no worries you are trying to sell.

CousinIT

(12,747 posts)
7. OK. But Democrats STILL NEED TO GET TO WORK ON THEIR DAMN MESSAGING...
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:53 PM
Nov 2021

....LIKE - ACTUALLY *HAVE SOME* AND NOT ONLY HAVE SOME -- BUT HAVE SOME THAT IS *FIRE*.

JudyM

(29,785 posts)
20. Been saying this for years. We're too damned erudite. We have to fire people up instead of
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 10:17 PM
Nov 2021

assuming the righteousness of our side is self-evident and will prevail.

TheRealNorth

(9,647 posts)
8. In my city, we kept the MAGATS off our local School Board
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:55 PM
Nov 2021

Last edited Wed Nov 3, 2021, 12:31 AM - Edit history (1)

so at least that is something.

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
9. We are winning the safe Democratic seats. We are losing the competitive seats.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:56 PM
Nov 2021
but that's on them, not us.


Until we need to win them again.

mcar

(46,360 posts)
12. Thank you
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 10:04 PM
Nov 2021

This is 100% on the media. They focused on nothing but VA and pushed and misreported because they have to have their "Democrats in disarray" meme.

VA is a huge disappointment - if the results hold true. Otherwise, it's not been a bad night thus far.

onetexan

(13,913 posts)
16. Comes down to tepid voter turnout. Dems dont show up at the polls
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 10:10 PM
Nov 2021

Or mail in their ballots, this is what happens. How soon ppl forget. SMH

mcar

(46,360 posts)
17. Yep
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 10:11 PM
Nov 2021

When Democrats vote, Democrats win. Any D who didn't vote has this on their hands.

ecstatic

(35,135 posts)
13. It should be a clean sweep. The fact that it's not shows something
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 10:05 PM
Nov 2021

is really wrong with our messaging strategy, accomplishments, etc. Why are people voting for repugs with everything they're doing? Are they not seeing what happened in Texas? Did we not mention it??? And if not, why not?

Pepsidog

(6,366 posts)
21. Let this be a lesson to all of us. Shamefully, I didn't vote nor did the 5 other democrats in my
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 11:19 PM
Nov 2021

home because Murphy was a lock to win so why bother. So because of my apathetic attitude today there were 6 fewer votes for democrats. I blame myself and the media who influence our decisions on election days.

SYFROYH

(34,214 posts)
24. True, a bunch of Essex County just posted and shrunk the lead to 1.2%
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 11:26 PM
Nov 2021

Sadly my old home county, Bergen, is going Red.

mvd

(65,953 posts)
25. It just got a lot tighter..
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 11:30 PM
Nov 2021

and according to the posts I see, Murphy should be ok.

Jon King

(1,910 posts)
27. This thread is not sensible, its apples and oranges.
Wed Nov 3, 2021, 12:09 AM
Nov 2021

The special election was in a heavy Dem area so a no brainer. NJ is very close. Of course NY City was not going to vote for the former guardian angel who is a heavy Trumper.

That has nothing to do with the mess in VA. Biden's approval among independents is gone. VA is gone. The House is going to be gone in 2022, redistricting alone will take 5 seats.

Why pretend? Our message is failing with white suburban women. We lost the excitement with people of color as nothing happened with voting rights. The watered down bills will not help. The young did not get their community college or full student loan forgiveness.

The Repugs have a great plan, bash Dems on open borders, crime, China, with a little the radical left will be deciding what your kids will learn sprinkled in.

We are in deep, deep doo doo for 2022 and 2024. And the fact is if not for Covid, Trump would still be President.

ColinC

(11,098 posts)
28. I would actually argue that it proves that running on our policy pays dividends
Wed Nov 3, 2021, 12:24 AM
Nov 2021

Far more than gambling on personality or trying to run against Trump.

DallasNE

(8,019 posts)
29. Democrats Need Younger Blood
Wed Nov 3, 2021, 02:07 AM
Nov 2021

And they need to tackle the culture wars head on. The fact that Youngkin ran on the big lie theory shows that you don't attack the lie because nobody cares. You attack what the lie represents.

You agree that there is no place for the study of critical race theory in elementary and high school but point out that that is not what your opponent is really saying. He is using it as code for not teaching history in elementary and high school and you then say that teaching history as a core subject is critical to understanding just who we are as a nation and how we got there.

Only 2 counties in Virginia voted 80% or more for the Democrat while 20 counties voted 80% or more for the Republican. This shows how Republicans now have a stronger hold on the white vote than Democrats do on the black vote. This trend is what is going to keep Texas Republican for several more years or until well after Texas has has gone majority, minority.

Sympthsical

(11,114 posts)
30. Tinkerbellism doesn't work
Wed Nov 3, 2021, 02:22 AM
Nov 2021

I see this all the time. If we just believe enough, we'll win! And when we don't, well, this or that segment of the party just didn't clap sufficiently hard.

That is not how any of this works.

First off, McAuliffe was the best we could do there? The man was awful. Enough with the Clinton era. It's over.

Secondly, people do not understand how much voters do not like to be lectured about what goes on with their children. Republicans just learned this CRT stuff can swing suburbs and independents.

Third, the most partisan people do not seem to know what goes on with voters. What they're seeing, reading, and listening to. I knew this was coming months ago. Why? Because I read other websites that don't agree with me. I've been banging this damn drum for months. If you never read ideas different from your own, you will have no idea where other people are coming from. And no, posting Twitter links to the most ridiculous shit some random Republican does is not reading the other side. Look at that Dallas Q-Anon story. Some small group of people do stupid shit, and that's what we preoccupied ourselves with half the day. The story was friggin everywhere.

Those people aren't even slightly representative of the average Republican voter. And they are absolutely not what independents are like.

There have been studies done on this. I don't have the one I'm thinking of in front of me, but it was discussed in Ezra Klein's book about polarization. The more partisan you are, the less you actually know about the other side.

And the reactions I'm seeing. It's like watching Michael Scott from the Office react to Pam after she learned he was dating her mom. "I'm just going to start calling you racist even harder."

The Bubble is going to be the death of us in a year, and people will blame everyone but themselves, because self-awareness and reflection is becoming increasingly impossible in a polarized, partisan echo chamber that subsists mainly on cable news and social media.

Sympthsical

(11,114 posts)
32. A lot of it
Wed Nov 3, 2021, 02:56 AM
Nov 2021

You have your National Reviews or the Bulwark or the Dispatch or what have you. But those are the "polite" conservatives who generally socialize with liberal people in the NY/DC axis. They're usually the ones going on about policy.

I also go into the shit. Breitbart, Town Hall, Hot Air, Red State. There's a bunch of blogs I glance into once a week or so where they're just full on Trumpists.

The disconnect is here. On our side, we're seeing, "They don't know what CRT is. CRT is just teaching about racism in history!" (er, it's more complicated than that). You know what their side sees? Stories about that one teacher separating white students from non-whites calling them the oppressors and the oppressed. Stories about HR departments forcing employees into training about internalized white supremacy.

The Right gets a steady diet of this stuff from their chosen forms of media. They see it all the time.

Would those stories get posted here? No. They wouldn't come close to lasting. So when this CRT stuff suddenly arrived, it wasn't sudden. It's been percolating for years now. Trump unleashed it more starkly into the open, but it's been there for quite awhile. Making CRT an educational issue and going after school boards is the Republicans finally finding and seizing on a way to insinuate the narrative they see into a broader part of the electorate by making it just palatable enough to . . . suburbanites and independents. Just like we saw.

"They're coming for your children," taps into a deep, primal fear. The stuff going on in Virginia with Education was barely alighted on here. It was all over the Right. Not just what McAuliffe said, but the Loudon school board covering a sexual assault, to books in a middle school library that were so graphic, TV stations literally wouldn't run campaign ads about them - they were too obscene.

That's what they see everyday. So when people are shocked by this stuff, I just sigh. If we'd just read what the other side is actually doing, actually talking about instead of relying on the extreme examples and the stuff so dumb it defies parody, this stuff wouldn't catch us off guard as it seems to have here.

mopinko

(73,935 posts)
36. it's the soccer moms all over again.
Wed Nov 3, 2021, 12:44 PM
Nov 2021

nutcases start showing up at schools, and they are yours for the taking. just push the button.

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