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left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 12:42 PM Nov 2021

Woman caught on video throwing soup in face of restaurant manager

A restaurant manager's describes having soup thrown in her face by an angry customer. The incident was captured on surveillance video. The interaction took place on the afternoon of Nov. 7 at Sol de Jalisco in Temple, Texas. Police said that a woman first called the restaurant to complain about the soup she ordered.

The woman was complaining that the soup was too hot and had melted the lid of the container it was in, according to police. Jannelle Broland, the manager who was attacked, said on TikTok that the woman had cursed at her on the phone, and Broland had offered her a replacement and a free meal. "All she wanted to do was yell and cuss," Broland said in her video. "She called me names and the kitchen staff names. I told her, 'Ma’am I can still help you, all I’m asking is you do not yell and curse at me.' She says ‘Oh no, honey, you haven’t heard attitude yet, and I will talk to you any which way I f---ing want. I said, 'No ma'am you will not,' and I hung up the phone."

Broland said the woman called back and asked to speak with a manager but hung up after being put on hold. Later, the woman came into to the restaurant, where she argued with Broland for several minutes, swearing and complaining without accepting offers of a refund or replacement meal. "I said, 'If you do not leave or calm down I’m going to call the police,' and she said, 'I don’t give a f---. … I said, 'Ma’am, I can still help you, I just need you to not curse and yell at me.' That is when she made the split decision to grab (the soup) and throw it in my face," said Broland.

Charges are pending against the woman and she has been banned from the restaurant. She has not been identified publicly.



https://www.yahoo.com/news/woman-caught-video-throwing-soup-195000566.html
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Woman caught on video throwing soup in face of restaurant manager (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Nov 2021 OP
Clear cut assault and battery on video. Prof. Toru Tanaka Nov 2021 #1
A year or two in the slammer makes sense. Lucky Luciano Nov 2021 #13
There really are a lot of mental health issues in the US IMO with some individuals. n/t RKP5637 Nov 2021 #2
Well, Hell yes charges should be filed. Deuxcents Nov 2021 #3
Identify her publicly, please. paleotn Nov 2021 #4
She has been identified! Nt USALiberal Nov 2021 #6
Good news. Her tantrum was light years beyond the pale. paleotn Nov 2021 #7
Yes, it was. Prof. Toru Tanaka Nov 2021 #32
She has been identified!!! Nt USALiberal Nov 2021 #5
"Considering charges?" Whut? LakeArenal Nov 2021 #8
I asked a nurse yesterday, how the past year & a half had been, CrispyQ Nov 2021 #9
The woman is a nurse??? peggysue2 Nov 2021 #10
She is not. LisaL Nov 2021 #27
That's good to know peggysue2 Nov 2021 #29
Come on, internet; do your thing! Aristus Nov 2021 #11
Being a nurse in Texas, maybe she's hit her breaking point. The soup shouldn't be so hot it could Doodley Nov 2021 #12
Really? Other than someone pursuing you and trying to assault you or murder you, ratchiweenie Nov 2021 #14
I did say she shouldn't have thrown the soup. Doodley Nov 2021 #38
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2021 #109
The OP and video explained how the complaint was handled left-of-center2012 Nov 2021 #16
Not from start to finish. Doodley Nov 2021 #39
Okie dokie smokey left-of-center2012 Nov 2021 #47
Nothing justifies that behavior Sympthsical Nov 2021 #17
I said she shouldn't have thrown the soup! Doodley Nov 2021 #40
Um, what? yardwork Nov 2021 #22
Sorry but I don't care HOW the complaint was handled this is assault! Peregrine Took Nov 2021 #23
What is the excuse for giving somebody soup so hot it could burn them? Doodley Nov 2021 #42
Fast service? NutmegYankee Nov 2021 #46
Having to wait ten minutes until you can eat soup because it is too hot defeats the purpose of fast Doodley Nov 2021 #62
If you're in that much of a hurry, you don't order hot soup. SMC22307 Nov 2021 #92
Good points. Doodley Nov 2021 #98
If the deformation is a concern, eating from plastic in general should be. NutmegYankee Nov 2021 #101
I returned soup to the waitress yesterday it wasn't hot enough tenderfoot Nov 2021 #48
Cold soup is unlikely to cause burning. We have one side possibly being negligent and risking Doodley Nov 2021 #49
Spare me tenderfoot Nov 2021 #51
She was offered an apology Texasgal Nov 2021 #57
According to the woman at the shop. I agree it should have settled it. I agree she shouldn't have Doodley Nov 2021 #59
I'm judging the fuck out of someone who throws soup in a worker's face. SMC22307 Nov 2021 #61
I am more concerned about toxic levels of melted plastic and risk of third degree burns. Some Doodley Nov 2021 #63
Oh, you're "concerned" alright. SMC22307 Nov 2021 #65
Yes I am concerned about the plastics we are putting in our bodies. Aren't you? Doodley Nov 2021 #67
The customer wasn't concerned about plastics or she wouldn't have purchased the soup... SMC22307 Nov 2021 #79
From the looks of the woman who threw the soup it doesn't look she is concerned about her health. cinematicdiversions Nov 2021 #106
Right? Texasgal Nov 2021 #69
Yep. She went to the restaurant itchin' for a fight... SMC22307 Nov 2021 #83
She didn't seem concerned about how hot it was if she was throwing it in someone's face JI7 Nov 2021 #68
That was after she left the shop and came back. Doodley Nov 2021 #71
What fucking difference does that make ? JI7 Nov 2021 #73
Time for the soup to cool down a bit. Doodley Nov 2021 #76
Then why didn't she eat the soup instead of throwing it in someone's face ? JI7 Nov 2021 #77
I don't know. Maybe she was drunk or on drugs or just another "Karen." At least there wasn't a fly! Doodley Nov 2021 #82
LOL! Never order hot food from doordash - the lid may be melted somewhat by the time it arrives tenderfoot Nov 2021 #75
Yes, I hope she doesn't decide to get soup delivered now! Doodley Nov 2021 #78
Are you kidding me? Texasgal Nov 2021 #66
While you judge the restaurant staff all over this thread? alphafemale Nov 2021 #102
Yes that's the Godilocks amendment 48656c6c6f20 Nov 2021 #60
This woman has elevated a serious health risk. Low-grade plastics that easily contaminate food Doodley Nov 2021 #64
Sounds like something a smarmy personal injury attorney would say. SMC22307 Nov 2021 #70
Common sense doesn't prevail much these days. If you need a case to sue, it helps to be a dumbass! Doodley Nov 2021 #74
Oh dear jeebus 48656c6c6f20 Nov 2021 #93
Wow! I don't see how I can argue with that. Doodley Nov 2021 #97
Blaming the woman behind the counter 48656c6c6f20 Nov 2021 #99
Her breaking point? Her response was inexcusable. LiberalFighter Nov 2021 #25
What is the excuse for giving customers soup so hot that it could burn them? Doodley Nov 2021 #43
She is not a nurse. LisaL Nov 2021 #26
I can judge that throwing soup into a manager's face is NEVER acceptable. NutmegYankee Nov 2021 #31
I said she shouldn't have thrown the soup! Doodley Nov 2021 #41
It turns out she's not a nurse MustLoveBeagles Nov 2021 #35
If this is typical and she's a "Karen," then I have little sympathy. If it is Doodley Nov 2021 #44
Okay MustLoveBeagles Nov 2021 #45
there's no "full context" that justifies assault. The full context doesn't matter. Takket Nov 2021 #53
Suppose she had a child who had been burnt by the soup and the woman in the shop said "F...k off" Doodley Nov 2021 #58
you would talk to a manager and a lawyer Skittles Nov 2021 #81
I agree. That restaurant worker should not have been attacked. Doodley Nov 2021 #84
You wouldn't blame her? LuckyCharms Nov 2021 #85
I wouldn't blame her in the unlikely scenario I described. But now I see she wasn't wearing a mask, Doodley Nov 2021 #87
See, here's the thing. LuckyCharms Nov 2021 #90
I said in my very first post about this and many others that she shouldn't throw the soup! I wasn't Doodley Nov 2021 #95
The scenario you described is quite, um, creative? Here's the soup-thrower flipping the bird... SMC22307 Nov 2021 #94
It took me a bit of time to come around to it, but I agree! Doodley Nov 2021 #96
I'll judge her then. LuckyCharms Nov 2021 #72
I agree, and I note the soup thrower wasn't wearing a mask. A complete Doodley Nov 2021 #86
sorry, that is ridiculous Skittles Nov 2021 #80
I agree and I would have said so to her if I was there. Doodley Nov 2021 #88
Hot soup can burn you, it's the chance you take when you buy it Polybius Nov 2021 #91
POS is not a nurse dalton99a Nov 2021 #15
yep catsudon Nov 2021 #19
+1 dalton99a Nov 2021 #20
tyvm catsudon Nov 2021 #21
lock her up Demovictory9 Nov 2021 #33
Apparently "whats important" is soup at the exact temperature she wants, and not grammar. Takket Nov 2021 #54
How cute. skypilot Nov 2021 #34
Bullies bullies everywhere. KentuckyWoman Nov 2021 #18
What kind of racist crap is this????? cinematicdiversions Nov 2021 #107
Oh I'm sure KentuckyWoman Nov 2021 #110
She came into the restaurant intending to throw the soup Klaralven Nov 2021 #24
Absolutely MustLoveBeagles Nov 2021 #36
And "intent" Prof. Toru Tanaka Nov 2021 #100
Disgusting piece of humanity marieo1 Nov 2021 #28
While there is no doubt way too much undiagnosed and untreated... 3catwoman3 Nov 2021 #30
Mental Illness is not an excuse. cinematicdiversions Nov 2021 #108
I quite agree. 3catwoman3 Nov 2021 #111
She should be denied service to all restaurants nationally for a year. n/t Judi Lynn Nov 2021 #37
that will be easy enough, since she'll be in prison. Takket Nov 2021 #56
Plexiglass barriers are looking pretty good right about now. phylny Nov 2021 #50
anyone have any idea why the service industry is struggling to find people to hire these days? Takket Nov 2021 #52
What's more shitty Texasgal Nov 2021 #55
Americans who wonder why the service industry can't find workers... SMC22307 Nov 2021 #89
Soup is generally kept at ready all day and needs to be kept very hot. alphafemale Nov 2021 #103
There was a solution for her hot soup. North Shore Chicago Nov 2021 #104
Soup Nazi! yellowcanine Nov 2021 #105
Annie Wilkes was a nurse, too. misanthrope Nov 2021 #112

Prof. Toru Tanaka

(2,925 posts)
1. Clear cut assault and battery on video.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 12:46 PM
Nov 2021


I'd say a year or two in the slammer might help teach her some respect for others.

And it would be just fitting if she was assigned kitchen duty during her stay. Making soup.

Lucky Luciano

(11,860 posts)
13. A year or two in the slammer makes sense.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 01:32 PM
Nov 2021

I wonder what a seditionist should get. I would think worse.

paleotn

(22,181 posts)
4. Identify her publicly, please.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 12:50 PM
Nov 2021

If she was one of mine, HR and I would be walking her to the door after a quick, Monday morning confab. There would probably be a history of bad behavior, so I wouldn't be all the surprised.

Prof. Toru Tanaka

(2,925 posts)
32. Yes, it was.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 05:27 PM
Nov 2021


She could simply have had her money refunded or received a new container of soup.

Chances are if she had been decent and civil about it, they might have given her something extra as a way of apologizing and to keep her as a future customer.

CrispyQ

(40,945 posts)
9. I asked a nurse yesterday, how the past year & a half had been,
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 01:09 PM
Nov 2021

she said that the rudeness of people is what has surprised her the most. Then she thanked me for my kindness & really, all I did was chat while she took my vitals, & said thank you on the way out.

peggysue2

(12,529 posts)
10. The woman is a nurse???
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 01:19 PM
Nov 2021

Good God! Too many Americans are running around giving green-lights to their worst impulses, acting like spoiled, nasty children.

This was an assault. She should be charged accordingly.

peggysue2

(12,529 posts)
29. That's good to know
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 03:44 PM
Nov 2021

I found the detail shocking.

But nurse or no, the woman should be charged for that attack.

Aristus

(72,131 posts)
11. Come on, internet; do your thing!
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 01:28 PM
Nov 2021

I want everyone in the country to know this walking garbage heap's name. I want her employer to know what kind of a shambling waste of human protoplasm she is. Even if her employer is just like her, I want them to feel pressured to fire her without severance or a reference. I want her family to disown her. If they are just like her, I want them to disown her in order not to have any competition. I want law enforcement personnel to know who she is, and throw her under the jail for verbal and physical assault.

Come on, internet; do your thing!

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
12. Being a nurse in Texas, maybe she's hit her breaking point. The soup shouldn't be so hot it could
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 01:29 PM
Nov 2021

Last edited Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:48 PM - Edit history (1)

cause injury. No, she shouldn't have thrown the soup, but without knowing the full context of how her complaint was handled, I'm not going to judge her.

EDIT: I take onboard that it is reported that she may not be a nurse. Also, after watching the video again and seeing she isn't wearing a face mask, I conclude that she obviously lacks respect for all those who are trying to protect themselves and others from covid, and I will now judge her in a very negative way.

ratchiweenie

(8,210 posts)
14. Really? Other than someone pursuing you and trying to assault you or murder you,
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 01:36 PM
Nov 2021

under what circumstances is it okay to throw hot soup in someone's face? Inquiring minds want to know.

Response to ratchiweenie (Reply #14)

Sympthsical

(10,960 posts)
17. Nothing justifies that behavior
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 01:39 PM
Nov 2021

That behavior is only tolerable if a high chair is involved.

It's assault.

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
46. Fast service?
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 09:29 PM
Nov 2021

It's not uncommon for the lids to deform on fresh soup. It happens when I order hot and sour soup from time to time.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
62. Having to wait ten minutes until you can eat soup because it is too hot defeats the purpose of fast
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:13 PM
Nov 2021

food or fast service, especially if you only have a short window to eat it. Also, I would be concerned about the toxicity of plastics that deform due to food and drink being so hot.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
92. If you're in that much of a hurry, you don't order hot soup.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 12:02 AM
Nov 2021

Common sense. Fast service didn't seem to be the issue. A customer with anger-management issues was the problem.

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
101. If the deformation is a concern, eating from plastic in general should be.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 09:11 AM
Nov 2021

That said, the lid was probably plastic #5, which is considered food safe. When you say too hot, keep in mind that the soup can only get to 212°F before it boils to steam. Typically soup is served between 190°F to 210°F depending on type according to the food industry’s standards.

It can’t get much hotter.

 

tenderfoot

(8,982 posts)
48. I returned soup to the waitress yesterday it wasn't hot enough
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 09:51 PM
Nov 2021

I didn't have to throw it at her.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
49. Cold soup is unlikely to cause burning. We have one side possibly being negligent and risking
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 10:05 PM
Nov 2021

third degree burns to customers, or worse. The other side, presumably pissed about this and throwing soup. I'm not taking either side. I have said she shouldn't have thrown the soup, but if it is true that the soup was so hot that it melted the plastic lid, that is way more serious and could lead to permanent injury through a basic lack of due care.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
59. According to the woman at the shop. I agree it should have settled it. I agree she shouldn't have
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:01 PM
Nov 2021

thrown the soup, but who are we to judge others without knowing the full facts?

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
61. I'm judging the fuck out of someone who throws soup in a worker's face.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:12 PM
Nov 2021

You're too clever by half.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
63. I am more concerned about toxic levels of melted plastic and risk of third degree burns. Some
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:16 PM
Nov 2021

perspective is needed.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
65. Oh, you're "concerned" alright.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:22 PM
Nov 2021

Perhaps the customer should have called EMS for transport to the nearest burn center rather than go to the restaurant to make a scene, the poor dear.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
79. The customer wasn't concerned about plastics or she wouldn't have purchased the soup...
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:33 PM
Nov 2021

in the first place. You're conflating issues.

 

cinematicdiversions

(1,969 posts)
106. From the looks of the woman who threw the soup it doesn't look she is concerned about her health.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 01:14 PM
Nov 2021

Just a nasty piece of work who needs some cooling off time in custody. No excuses for such behavior from an adult.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
83. Yep. She went to the restaurant itchin' for a fight...
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:37 PM
Nov 2021

hope she *enjoys* whatever is coming her way. I've purchased HOT DANGEROUS SOUP before. I just let it, you know, cool down a bit before I even attempt to open it... durrr!

JI7

(93,568 posts)
68. She didn't seem concerned about how hot it was if she was throwing it in someone's face
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:25 PM
Nov 2021

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
82. I don't know. Maybe she was drunk or on drugs or just another "Karen." At least there wasn't a fly!
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:36 PM
Nov 2021
 

tenderfoot

(8,982 posts)
75. LOL! Never order hot food from doordash - the lid may be melted somewhat by the time it arrives
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:29 PM
Nov 2021

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
66. Are you kidding me?
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:22 PM
Nov 2021

We have the facts! The video shows the facts!

I don't care that you snapped because your food was too hot.. There is absolutely NO EXCUSE for this type of behavior PERIOD.

 

48656c6c6f20

(7,638 posts)
60. Yes that's the Godilocks amendment
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:11 PM
Nov 2021

That guarantees the right to have soup at temperature that is just right.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
64. This woman has elevated a serious health risk. Low-grade plastics that easily contaminate food
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:20 PM
Nov 2021

that is too hot, obviously outside manufacturer's safely recommendations, presenting high levels of toxicity and increased risks of cancer, not to mention the risk of third degree burns.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
70. Sounds like something a smarmy personal injury attorney would say.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:27 PM
Nov 2021

Can't wait to see if charges are filed against the soup-thrower. I've had hot soup delivered before. I let it sit on the counter to cool down rather than attempt to open the container. You know, common sense.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
74. Common sense doesn't prevail much these days. If you need a case to sue, it helps to be a dumbass!
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:29 PM
Nov 2021
 

48656c6c6f20

(7,638 posts)
93. Oh dear jeebus
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 12:10 AM
Nov 2021

The woman had nothing to do with the fucking soup. Godamn soup gets hot. It melts lids sometimes. It's not fucking rocket science the shit happens. Take your fucking refund and get the fuck out. There is fucking zero nada zilch and nothing forever and ever and 20 minutes after we all die for her to throw the motherfucking soup. Get a fucking grip. You've lost grip with reality

 

48656c6c6f20

(7,638 posts)
99. Blaming the woman behind the counter
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 01:29 AM
Nov 2021

Is a hard thing to argue. Glad you gave up on defending the indefensible.

LiberalFighter

(53,544 posts)
25. Her breaking point? Her response was inexcusable.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 03:36 PM
Nov 2021

The manager attempted to make it right.

The customer had no right to present that behavior.

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
31. I can judge that throwing soup into a manager's face is NEVER acceptable.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 04:56 PM
Nov 2021

That action must be judged, and assigned punishment.

MustLoveBeagles

(16,261 posts)
35. It turns out she's not a nurse
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 08:48 PM
Nov 2021

Even if she was that behavior isn't acceptable. I read the story at the link and watched the video. It seemed like the manager was going out of her way to accommodate the customer and the woman chose to behave like an entitled ass. Fortunately for the manager the soup wasn't as hot in temperature as it could've been so she avoided serious burns and possible blindness. She still suffered an allergic reaction to the spices in the soup being thrown her eyes and developed a nose bleed. I appreciate that you were trying to fair to the customer but in this case it's unwarranted.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
44. If this is typical and she's a "Karen," then I have little sympathy. If it is
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 09:13 PM
Nov 2021

out of character and she snapped, then I have to think back to the few times I have snapped. Yes, I have done something similar, but there were many extenuating circumstances in which I was being abused. Not really the same situation, but I would be a hypocrite to outright condemn her.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
58. Suppose she had a child who had been burnt by the soup and the woman in the shop said "F...k off"
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 10:58 PM
Nov 2021

I wouldn't blame her for throwing the soup. I'm not saying that happened, and I think it extremely unlikely, but without being there and not knowing the full facts, I am not going to be one to judge. "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone."

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
87. I wouldn't blame her in the unlikely scenario I described. But now I see she wasn't wearing a mask,
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:42 PM
Nov 2021

I can see that she seems to be another "Karen."

LuckyCharms

(22,591 posts)
90. See, here's the thing.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:54 PM
Nov 2021

You are now saying that you think that's she's a "Karen" because she wasn't wearing a mask.

So which is it?

It's ok to judge her because she appears to be a "Karen" because she was not wearing a mask?

or

It's understandable if she threw the soup in retaliation for the unlikely circumstance that her kid got burned by the soup?

or

The color of her shirt indicates that throwing the soup was indeed indicative of lugrheignriuqehgpqewgnoibnq1234567----oooobleppppp, etc.

It's quite simple why you are getting some pushback against your initial comment.

What people are telling you is this. Unless it is a true act of self-defense, it is illegal and wrong to throw soup into someone's face. Period. There are several different ways to solve problems that you are having with people, especially when they mean no malice towards you.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
95. I said in my very first post about this and many others that she shouldn't throw the soup! I wasn't
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 12:24 AM
Nov 2021

prepared to be her judge and jury and call her a POS, etc like some have because I know that people can breakdown, they can lose it, they can do things that are out of character, they can jump off bridges. That isn't to excuse her. However, I am so over people who don't give a f..k about those who are trying to stop the spread of covid, and all their BS excuses. She appears to be one of them. She obviously has a general lack of respect for other people. Throwing the soup AND not wearing a mask. F..k her!

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
94. The scenario you described is quite, um, creative? Here's the soup-thrower flipping the bird...
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 12:10 AM
Nov 2021

after assaulting the manager:

https://www.tmz.com/2021/11/09/tx-restaurant-manager-pressing-charges-angry-soup-thrower/

She's a POS with anger-management issues.

LuckyCharms

(22,591 posts)
72. I'll judge her then.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:28 PM
Nov 2021

No matter the context, you cannot throw soup into someone's face.

The soup thrower is a fucking low life.

And I haven't even watched the video before typing this.

Doodley

(11,880 posts)
86. I agree, and I note the soup thrower wasn't wearing a mask. A complete
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:40 PM
Nov 2021

lack of respect for other people.

Skittles

(171,620 posts)
80. sorry, that is ridiculous
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:36 PM
Nov 2021

there is NO good reason to throw soup in a worker's face - NONE

Polybius

(21,879 posts)
91. Hot soup can burn you, it's the chance you take when you buy it
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:57 PM
Nov 2021

Excuses like these are why we lose elections.

Takket

(23,703 posts)
54. Apparently "whats important" is soup at the exact temperature she wants, and not grammar.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 10:53 PM
Nov 2021

KentuckyWoman

(7,398 posts)
18. Bullies bullies everywhere.
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 01:42 PM
Nov 2021

I'm not at all saying all whites are bullies but it seems to be the bullies are always white.

I'm not talking about gangs or drug cartels or wars genocides ... people of all sorts can be violent. I'm talking about the every day garden variety "I'm superior and you are beneath me" bully who just gets off on treating other people like shit.

The internet is full of it. It was before the TFG made it "cool". Retail and restaurant has always has some of it but it seems off the charts now. To the point I won't eat out, even outdoors because every time someone at another table is treating "the servants" like garbage.

If you want to know why people don't want these jobs ... this is it.

 

cinematicdiversions

(1,969 posts)
107. What kind of racist crap is this?????
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 01:20 PM
Nov 2021

This incident has nothing to do with race or privilege (With the exception of the employee being thinner and more attractive than the assailant)

If you want to see simular incidents with POC bullies attacking service workers YouTube is your friend. There is certainly no shortage of POC's attacking and belittling people they feel are inferior.

KentuckyWoman

(7,398 posts)
110. Oh I'm sure
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 02:37 PM
Nov 2021

if you look hard enough you can even find reports of Canadians acting like this - maybe even some who aren't white.

Of course people of all types are bullies. My view on this is from a wider perspective than simply attacking people behind the counter. I view this behavior as a symptom of a larger problem.



 

Klaralven

(7,510 posts)
24. She came into the restaurant intending to throw the soup
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 03:32 PM
Nov 2021

The way she casually takes off the lid? Clearly getting ready to throw it.

marieo1

(1,402 posts)
28. Disgusting piece of humanity
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 03:42 PM
Nov 2021

What a disgusting human being...........she needs to be locked up NOW!!

3catwoman3

(29,355 posts)
30. While there is no doubt way too much undiagnosed and untreated...
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 04:50 PM
Nov 2021

Last edited Sun Nov 14, 2021, 03:25 PM - Edit history (1)

...mental illness, this is just shitty behavior from a chronological adult who is behaving like a toddler.

 

cinematicdiversions

(1,969 posts)
108. Mental Illness is not an excuse.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 01:21 PM
Nov 2021

If you cannot behave yourself as an adult you should not be interacting with the public. Mental illness or not.

Takket

(23,703 posts)
52. anyone have any idea why the service industry is struggling to find people to hire these days?
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 10:36 PM
Nov 2021

It is a mystery..............

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
55. What's more shitty
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 10:54 PM
Nov 2021

is that this soup was menudo which is very spicy. Poor girl had that stuck in eyes and face!

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
89. Americans who wonder why the service industry can't find workers...
Sat Nov 13, 2021, 11:47 PM
Nov 2021

need to watch this video. Spicy soup to the eyes and nasal passages is bad enough -- I'm just thankful it wasn't worse for that poor manager!

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
103. Soup is generally kept at ready all day and needs to be kept very hot.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 09:24 AM
Nov 2021

Otherwise it would breed bacteria and be risking getting people very sick.

North Shore Chicago

(4,238 posts)
104. There was a solution for her hot soup.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 11:41 AM
Nov 2021

".....You just put your lips together and blow."


Lauren Bacall knows best.

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