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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsA man will be executed today.
https://www.cnn.com/2021/11/18/us/julius-jones-oklahoma-execution-decision/index.htmlState sanctioned murder is a disgrace to this country.
marble falls
(57,077 posts)Celerity
(43,328 posts)BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Did white power feed off that too?
Celerity
(43,328 posts)BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)My goodness.
Devil Child
(2,728 posts)Celerity
(43,328 posts)Polybius
(15,385 posts)Celerity
(43,328 posts)mitigate and muddy the waters of my original broad statement
I truly fail to see how that would be controversial on a Democratic chat board, especially given the history of the American justice system and also long history of slavery, Jim Crow, and white supremacy in the US animating so much of the zeitgeist, both historically and at the present time.
Polybius
(15,385 posts)The other wasn't.
Celerity
(43,328 posts)as to the validity of my simple statement.
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)The fellow yesterday waived all appeals, and had not been recommended for clemency by a review board which seldom recommends it.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)a progressive forum where many here do not identify as sirs or maams to be presumptuous, if not rude.
No idea why you assigned me a masculine title, but you got it wrong.
Decoy of Fenris
(1,954 posts)A LOT of people don't identify as either gender nowadays and find it grievously insulting for others to assume their genders. Just going around calling people whatever you want doesn't fly in modern progressive society.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Life today must be very difficult for someone who has to have people in neat little labeled boxes.
Decoy of Fenris
(1,954 posts)Like the racists of the 40s and 50s, eventually they'll be forgotten, only realizing that they've been "Obsoleted" on their deathbeds, if that.
And likewise as an aside, I don't believe Magistrate has a single ill-meaning bone in their body, but the times have changed. Gender identity, too, has changed, and the simple "Sir/Ma'am" no longer flies in polite dialogue.
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)People who take umbrage over trifles can be left to one side without loss.
Devil Child
(2,728 posts)Stopping your own misgendering behaviors and encouraging others to do so is an easy and effective way to support the trans people in your life.
Here are a few things you can do to prevent misgendering and affirm a persons identity:
1. Dont make assumptions.
You might think you know how someone identifies, but you can never know for certain unless you ask.
2. Always ask what words you should use!
You can ask people specifically or ask people who know a given person. Or, you can simply get in the habit of asking everyone their pronouns and terms they use for themselves.
3. Use the right name and pronouns for the trans people in your life.
You should do this all the time, not just when theyre around. This signals the proper way to refer to your trans friends to other people. It also helps you get accustomed to saying the right thing.
4. Avoid using gendered language to speak to or describe people unless you know its the language that a particular person prefers.
Examples of gendered language include:
honorifics such as sir or maam
terms like ladies, guys, or ladies and gentlemen to refer to a group of people
typically gendered adjectives such as handsome and beautiful
Practice using these gender-neutral terms and forms of address instead. You can say things like my friend instead of sir or maam, and refer to groups of people as folks, yall, or guests.
5. Dont default to gender-neutral language if you know how a person wishes to be addressed.
It can seem like using the singular they to describe everyone is a safe bet, and sometimes thats actually a good way to navigate a situation where youre uncertain how a person identifies. But, its important to respect the wishes of people who have specific gendered language that they want you to use.
6. Avoid using passive language.
Instead ofsaying: X identifies as a woman or Y prefers he/him/his pronouns, say things like X is a woman or Ys pronouns are he/him/his.
At the end of the day, know that its fine to make a mistake here or there so long as you dont make a habit of it. If you do make a mistake, just apologize and move on.
If you need to correct yourself, do it and move on, said Louis, a 29-year-old nonbinary person. Dont apologize profusely unless thats what the other person wants. Its not the trans persons job to accept your apology or make you feel better for your misgendering them.
https://www.healthline.com/health/transgender/misgendering
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)Devil Child
(2,728 posts)Keep digging.
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)I did not look, and ought to have.
Should we interact in future, I will remember.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Some just dont get it, do they?
Devil Child
(2,728 posts)Not surprising with the double-downs. Raking yards was probably more productive than sharing feedback on being misgendered after being misgendered.
Decoy of Fenris
(1,954 posts)I can likely never experience the discomfort or pain of being purposefully and maliciously misgendered and "Othered", but your existence matters and you are worth more than those who would devalue you could ever hope to be.
o/ Never alone. And to paraphrase a Reddit meme, "Apes together strong". You matter, as do your experiences. Cheers, mate.
Decoy of Fenris
(1,954 posts)Nowadays, gender identity is no small thing; In the workplace, you will lose your job for not respecting it. In the political arena, you'll be ousted for not considering it. In the social arena, you'll lose friends over it. And in the modern, advanced times of the Internet and mass-messaging, you'll be excoriated and remembered for it if you so much as question it.
Don't call me Sir. Nor Ma'am. Nor anything gendered. You've not earned the respect or the right, and will not until you take the time to consider the people around you compassionately and thoughtfully.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)That brings to mind all sort of unpleasantness from the last century.
Curious as why you feel the need to sort people?
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Response to The Magistrate (Reply #37)
USALiberal This message was self-deleted by its author.
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)I should think that would be obvious....
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)If I were to look awfully hard for some hours I might find some concern for your opinion of me and my speech or behavior somewhere, but I doubt it, and it would be a waste of effort even if a smidge of such turned up.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Devil Child
(2,728 posts)That is one approach.
FBaggins
(26,729 posts)I doubt very seriously that a simple "I prefer 'X'" would be met with anything other than an attempt to use that in the future.
Getting one's dander up at a poster being unable to identify your gender on a message board is childish at best. If a poster feels strongly about it, they can certainly list their preferred forms of address in a signature line.
Devil Child
(2,728 posts)FBaggins
(26,729 posts)How hard is it to say "I prefer to be called..._____" when someone is clearly trying to be polite?
This is an online forum. We don't submit photos of ourselves. I've been misgendered here many times and never even cared to correct the person. I'm just text on a page.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Response to BlackSkimmer (Reply #52)
FBaggins This message was self-deleted by its author.
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)We are all an undifferentiated blob, and have equal claim to your attention, or provide in all instances essentially identical benefit or lack thereof?
What a world. I have friends, I have enemies, I have family, I have lovers, I have chance encounters, some of which have become any or all of the above. I definitely sort the wheat from the chaff in dealing with humanity --- there's an awful lot of the latter about.
"Rest assured, a walk in the ocean of most souls would scarcely wet your feet."
FBaggins
(26,729 posts)I think they may actually hold the record for most commutations.
They did over 500 in one day just two years ago.
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)I do not doubt your report, and acknowledge I may have leapt to a conclusion based on geography.
I have no decided opinion on the man's guilt or innocence, from what I have read the evidence is mixed at best.
FBaggins
(26,729 posts)527 Oklahomans to walk free in historic commutation move by Gov. Stitt and Pardon & Parole Board
https://www.city-sentinel.com/criminal_justice/527-oklahomans-to-walk-free-in-historic-commutation-move-by-gov-stitt-and-pardon-parole/article_92dd3ba8-60cd-539f-a815-1ae0eab80d2b.html
I may have leapt to a conclusion based on geography.
I admit that I had the same initial reaction.
I have little doubt of his guilt. DNA testing was done by a lab of his choosing just a couple of years ago. It would take quite an interesting set of conspiracy/coincidences for him not to be the murderer. Not impossible, but well beyond "reasonable doubt" for me.
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)Live and learn.
Calculating
(2,955 posts)As a white person this kind of stuff offends me. Imagine if someone said the opposite on here?
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Besides the fact it just sounds like a sound bite phrase no idea what its meaning is.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)one racially aligned faction or another supposedly "winning" another victim depending on the race of the person executed, is so screwed. Of course reversing the races doesn't change that a person has died.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,327 posts)BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Did you post about that as well?
Tomconroy
(7,611 posts)BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Ah well.
FBaggins
(26,729 posts)A complete disregard for human life makes it hard to feel compassion. If the governor wants to commute the sentence to life in prison without the possibility of parole... it wouldn't break my heart. But I doubt that I'll lose sleep if he doesn't.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)The state should not be killing people, because the state always makes mistakes. Far better to imprison murderers, etc. for the rest of their lives. A prisoner can be released if later found innocent of the crime. A dead person cannot.
End the death penalty!
spanone
(135,826 posts)Decoy of Fenris
(1,954 posts)Need to expand the options for life without parole; Child molesters and sexual abusers/rapists, mass murderers, domestic abusers, die-hard druggies, et cet.
Just divert the funds from the defense budget and keep those unstable psychopaths locked up for life with minimal chance of parole, keep them out of society where they belong. If they turn over a new leaf over the course of a few decades, great. If not, nothing lost and society is kept safe from them.
Devil Child
(2,728 posts)BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Will his white power increase with the death of the man who took his life?
Devil Child
(2,728 posts)Frustrating that the true victim here, Paul Scott Howell, is largely forgotten or minimally discussed.
Regarding your question, I guess we will have to await twitter/social media's judgement.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)And those convinced of his innocence seem to have no suggestions as to who IS guilty.
Funnily enough, I dont recall any of these posters advocating for this condemned man at anytime previous during the time Ive been on DU. Curious.
roody
(10,849 posts)Decoy of Fenris
(1,954 posts)You say "Innocent" and my first reaction is "If he's innocent, why is he there?" I've tried to do my own homework, but all I can come up with is "His friends say he's innocent" and that holds as much water as a sieve.
Still, you say he's innocent and I trust you, I'm just curious as to the "How did it go wrong". As in, what evidence (Not proof) is there that he was wrongfully convicted, if any?
FBaggins
(26,729 posts)The two threads of the debate are far too often intertwined. It's one thing to oppose the death penalty, but quite another to constantly assume that those who receive it are actually innocent.
The red bandana that was described by one of the witnesses was found wrapped around the murder weapon and hidden in the ceiling above his bedroom closet. A few years ago he begged for DNA testing to be done on the bandana and it came back (from a lab of his choosing) conclusively matching the defendant. Stories that he was a model citizen and student on a college basketball scholarship are broadly invented. He was convicted of multiple previous felonies and had been involved in at least two prior carjackings and robbery with that same firearm less than a week prior to the murder.
Feel free to oppose the death penalty - particularly on the grounds that killing an innocent person cannot be undone later... but this was no innocent man.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Well stated.
The Magistrate
(95,244 posts)These are two separate things, and ought not be blended.
I have grown leery of execution because human systems are fallible, and there have been sufficient exonerations of persons convicted of murder who received long prison terms to leave little doubt persons have been executed for crimes they were innocent of.
This is far from asserting all persons sentenced to death are innocent, and it is in my view illegitimate to hijack the claim of innocence in support of the general objection to a lawful sentence.
One argument I reject utterly is the 'state should not kill' line. Killing is pretty much what states do --- any government claims a monopoly on legitimate use of violence where its writ runs, it does not govern otherwise.
obamanut2012
(26,068 posts)I have no idea if this guy is innocent or not, but your statement reeks of privilege and not being educated on the amount of innocent people in prison, including folks who ahve been executed.
Decoy of Fenris
(1,954 posts)Given the statistical chance of there being a 1-5% chance of this random fellow being "Innocent", it's a safe bet to assume that he is NOT innocent. 1/20 odds at best are pretty solid bets, especially given that this particular fellow doesn't seem to be innocent by any stretch of the imagination (outside of pure delusion and conspiracy theories.)
xmas74
(29,674 posts)I haven't from a pretty young age. A classmate in elementary school was murdered. Her killer was eventually executed. I still don't believe in using it.
colsohlibgal
(5,275 posts)Death is final and more than one innocent person had been executed.
Life in Prison is no picnic and leaves room for some correction of convicting someone not guilty.
The State shouldnt be in the Murder business.
And on a financial level it's far more expensive to execute than to maintain life in prison.
And if anyone is interested this was my classmate:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alton_Coleman
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)What human scum.
xmas74
(29,674 posts)Keep him alive. Give him no freedom and no protection in Gen Pop. It's cheaper and there are definitely prisoners who'd love nothing more than to get hold of a child killer.
Wisconsin, where Vernita was abducted, has no death penalty. Our most famous serial killer, Jeff Dahmer, received life in prison. As you noticed it didn't last long.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)xmas74
(29,674 posts)But I also don't want to be part of a death penalty ruling. My current governor in Missouri has enthusiastically expressed his support of it.
I'm in favor of life in prison.
XanaDUer2
(10,643 posts)Sympthsical
(9,072 posts)We've seen far too many examples of where the state has played loose with the law and evidence to falsely condemn people to death and prison on sometimes the flimsiest of pretexts.
An execution of innocent is a mistake that cannot be undone.
This person may be guilty. Certainly seems that way. But even if he is, the state shouldn't have the ability because of the others who are not.
JMO.
USALiberal
(10,877 posts)BumRushDaShow
(128,867 posts)By Kim Bellware
Yesterday at 5:47 p.m. EST|Updated today at 1:25 p.m. EST
Okla. Gov. Kevin Stitt (R) commuted the death sentence of Julius Jones on Thursday, intervening just hours before his scheduled execution. Jones, 41, has spent nearly 20 years on death row for the 1999 slaying of a suburban Oklahoma City businessman. Jones, who has maintained his innocence since his arrest at age 19, was recommended for a commutation and later clemency by the states Pardon and Parole Board.
Joness claims that a former friend committed the murder and implicated him were featured in the 2018 ABC documentary The Last Defense, broadening awareness of the case and drawing in high-profile supporters from around the country. The battle over Joness execution comes amid scrutiny of Oklahoma death-penalty protocol. The state resumed executions in October after a six-year hiatus following a string of botched lethal injections in 2014 and 2015.
After prayerful consideration and reviewing materials presented by all sides of this case, I have determined to commute Julius Jones sentence to life imprisonment without the possibility of parole, Stitt said in a statement.
Jones, 41, has served nearly 20 years on death row since being convicted in the 1999 slaying of Paul Howell in nearby Edmond, Okla. Joness long-standing assertion of innocence has in recent years attracted worldwide attention, drawing in notable supporters such as Kim Kardashian West and members of the National Basketball Association who had ties to Jones from his time as a youth basketball star.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2021/11/17/julius-jones-execution-stitt/
Tomconroy
(7,611 posts)Tomconroy
(7,611 posts)as the murderer.
LetMyPeopleVote
(145,130 posts)There was an act of mercy that surprised me