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orleans

(34,062 posts)
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 01:49 PM Dec 2021

crumbley questions questions questions

who owned the building they were hiding in?
who let them in the building?
why didn't the school insist they take their kid home for the day?
why didn't the school search the locker and backpack?
was there a counselor present at the parent meeting on friday morning?
did a school rep ask the parents if there were guns in their household?

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crumbley questions questions questions (Original Post) orleans Dec 2021 OP
Why wasn't the kid IVCd for a full psych eval? SheltieLover Dec 2021 #1
IVC? mwmisses4289 Dec 2021 #4
Prob an involuntary psych hold. Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #8
Sorry. Involuntary commitment to psych ward SheltieLover Dec 2021 #9
My hubby is a retired high school teacher Diamond_Dog Dec 2021 #14
Yup! SheltieLover Dec 2021 #17
When I was called to my client's school fof a similar incident, I thought SheltieLover Dec 2021 #22
Absolutely! Diamond_Dog Dec 2021 #24
+1 H2O Man Dec 2021 #15
Standard procedure SheltieLover Dec 2021 #18
Not even a question. H2O Man Dec 2021 #43
Right! SheltieLover Dec 2021 #44
One of my best friends H2O Man Dec 2021 #46
This message was self-deleted by its author SheltieLover Dec 2021 #19
+111111 Jilly_in_VA Dec 2021 #25
Does Michigan not have red flag laws? gldstwmn Dec 2021 #27
No idea at all SheltieLover Dec 2021 #38
+1000 Sunsky Dec 2021 #37
Agreed! SheltieLover Dec 2021 #40
As I understand it the owner of the building recognized their car and reported it to the police. Floyd R. Turbo Dec 2021 #2
the building held art studios iemanja Dec 2021 #3
so,will the kid like the rittenhouse fool get off scott free. AllaN01Bear Dec 2021 #5
Times have changed; gab13by13 Dec 2021 #6
I disagree iemanja Dec 2021 #7
This wasn't a case of someone gab13by13 Dec 2021 #12
Okay, I took your post to mean police should be called iemanja Dec 2021 #35
I agree, but not in this case SheltieLover Dec 2021 #13
This kid Jilly_in_VA Dec 2021 #26
I agree 100% SheltieLover Dec 2021 #33
There first has to be EndlessWire Dec 2021 #32
From what I've read, SheltieLover Dec 2021 #36
Absolutely! SheltieLover Dec 2021 #10
Criminalizing a cry for help is not the answer. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2021 #11
Didn't say criminalize a cry for help, gab13by13 Dec 2021 #16
Bringing cops to every parent-kid meeting definitey sets a criminalization tone. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2021 #21
Never said bring cops to every meeting, gab13by13 Dec 2021 #29
One thing that could change, without "criminalizing a cry for help," is this. LAS14 Dec 2021 #20
"Cry for help" Jilly_in_VA Dec 2021 #28
I was talking to the people up thread who used this term. I'm just saying... LAS14 Dec 2021 #42
He literally asked for help iemanja Dec 2021 #45
School personnel are back on their heels these days. Frasier Balzov Dec 2021 #23
Yes, gab13by13 Dec 2021 #31
I think the school did not see Ethan as an imminent threat. SYFROYH Dec 2021 #30
Don't know if this was the first parent call leftstreet Dec 2021 #34
The Superintendent said iemanja Dec 2021 #41
As far as the backpack is concerned... MontanaMama Dec 2021 #39
this is from michigan state u - law school (on searches of backpacks and lockers) orleans Dec 2021 #47

mwmisses4289

(81 posts)
4. IVC?
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 01:55 PM
Dec 2021

What is this, please? When I looked it up, i got something to do with a heart procedure, or a college in California.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
9. Sorry. Involuntary commitment to psych ward
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:08 PM
Dec 2021

I had a client once whose teacher found similar drawings.

Guess who got a quick ride with lights to a psych ward?

That is absolutely the ONLY ethically responsible action to take.

That said, this anti-social kid would most likely have erupted violently in another time & place. But it would not have happened at school that day.

The 2 onsite cops should have confisgated backpack, made him empty all pockets & IVCd him.

If parents would not get on board with IVC, they should have called children's protective services & they would have done it.

They have staff for this sort of thing. Often, parents do not pick kids up from psych wards upon discharge, most often because they are terrified of their kid. So children's protective services takes custody & brings abandonment charges against parents. Just another example, not related because nobody bothered to admit this sociopath for a psych eval & stabilization meds.

This is a ridiculous situation with a horribly tragic outcome.

Diamond_Dog

(32,015 posts)
14. My hubby is a retired high school teacher
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:21 PM
Dec 2021

He couldn’t believe they just let that kid go back to class and didn’t look in his backpack, no suspension, no discipline.

Said even if the parents made a stink they should have said, too bad, so sue us. They should have called a cop to take a look inside or at the very LEAST he should have been sent home or as Sheltie Lover said, for a psych evaluation.

So many fails here.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
17. Yup!
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:23 PM
Dec 2021

This sociopath clearly had murder on his mind, as evidenced by the images he drew which 2 teachers saw.

Wtf???

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
22. When I was called to my client's school fof a similar incident, I thought
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:28 PM
Dec 2021

Holy fucking shit! Not on my watch you don't!

Grotesque, graphic images & a "hit list! Nope. Ride with lights!

That is absolutely THE ONLY ethical response in such a situation.

Why admin didn't react that way, we will likely never know.

Diamond_Dog

(32,015 posts)
24. Absolutely!
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:35 PM
Dec 2021

I’ll bet the parents made a big stink and those school officials were scared of a lawsuit.

H2O Man

(73,573 posts)
46. One of my best friends
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 05:37 PM
Dec 2021

stopped by a couple of hours ago. He and I did "community crises response" -- among other tasks -- for the county mental health clinic. Now, this was decades ago, and in our very rural county, we needed to see a gun before calling upon police to assist us in our evaluations. But they'd almost always be called to do the transport to the hospitals in two other counties. We had a couple of gun incidents, including one cranky old, personality-disordered fellow who greeted us with a shotgun. Within 30 seconds, we were gone -- about the fastest I ever moved! -- and ten minutes later, there were six police vehicles there. Off he went.

That was one of two times I have had a shotgun aimed uncomfortably close to my head. There were other episodes of aggression with weapons -- a fellow who brought a 2-by-4 in the clinic to attack a co-worker, a person who attempted to stab a co-worker in his office, and a guy who had a knife and threatened the director of community services. The staff counted on me to provide safety until police arrived, and I got a few injuries doing so. I could go on and on.


My son works in a pretty good school as a crisis counselor. It's different today, in part -- in my opinion -- because he is dealing with the kids and grandkids of the people I worked with at the clinic and in community crises. It is, in my opinion, a more dangerous job today. I worry about him on good days, and more when events like Oxford unfold.

I used to teach community crises response at the state university in our region in upstate NY for the town, county, and state police recruits. Also for the graduate students in social work at two universities. The #1 rule is trust your instincts. So my friend and I were wondering why the heck that kid wasn't hospitalized? There was so much there.

Response to H2O Man (Reply #15)

Sunsky

(1,737 posts)
37. +1000
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:54 PM
Dec 2021

I agree with every word. I'm shocked they would let a kid with this presentation back into the general school population because the parents refused to take him home If this kid doesn't scream RED FLAG potential school shooter, who does?
I'm definitely not shifting blame from the shooter but there are plenty of missteps happening in this case.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
40. Agreed!
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 03:08 PM
Dec 2021

I'm not shifting blame either, but had admin functioned responsibly & ethically, the murders that day at that school would not have happened because the weapon & ammo would have been confusgated & the kid sent non-stop to a psych ward for a full eval & meds, if necessary.

This sociopath would most likely have erupted violently another time imho. From what I've read, this kid had murder on his mind.

Floyd R. Turbo

(26,549 posts)
2. As I understand it the owner of the building recognized their car and reported it to the police.
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 01:51 PM
Dec 2021

Can’t comment on your other queries.

iemanja

(53,035 posts)
3. the building held art studios
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 01:51 PM
Dec 2021

according to the police spokesman last night. Evidently it had a private owner. The police are investigating the person who let them in so wouldn't disclose any details.

My sense is that the school dropped the ball on all of those questions you raise.

AllaN01Bear

(18,275 posts)
5. so,will the kid like the rittenhouse fool get off scott free.
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 01:56 PM
Dec 2021

no and i wont say you know who as i dont want to insult lord voldimort.

iemanja

(53,035 posts)
7. I disagree
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 01:59 PM
Dec 2021

There is enough criminalization of childhood. Most cases are relatively minor.
This is an exception. The school needed better procedures, for sure.

gab13by13

(21,364 posts)
12. This wasn't a case of someone
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:20 PM
Dec 2021

smoking in the boy's room.

I was opposed to putting cops in schools, still am, but this situation was different, times are different.

Back in the 60's when we got mad at one another we went out a side door and had a fist fight, did it pretty regularly right before study hall. Back then teachers were free to discipline us though, we had a contest to see who got paddled the most, until we had to do drawers down, then the contest ended. No one called the cops back in the 60's, the schools did the discipline but those days are over because little Johnny's mom and dad complained.

iemanja

(53,035 posts)
35. Okay, I took your post to mean police should be called
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:52 PM
Dec 2021

into all parent student meetings with potential misconduct. I can see doing so when a student is suspected of being a shooter.
I heard the Oxford Sheriff talking about how they have protocols for investigating potential school shootings and that the police should have been called in this case.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
13. I agree, but not in this case
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:20 PM
Dec 2021

With violent images & phrases found by teachers.

Had the 2 onsite cops searched this kid's backpack & pockets, 4 students would be alive & the rest would not be mourning their loss in terror.

I believe both mental health professionals & police involvement would have at least pevented the massacre that day.

Jilly_in_VA

(9,984 posts)
26. This kid
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:37 PM
Dec 2021

is a straight up sociopath with serious criminal tendencies which he carried out within minutes of being told to "go back to class". No mercy. Psychiatric hold wouldn't help him one little bit.

EndlessWire

(6,546 posts)
32. There first has to be
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:44 PM
Dec 2021

a shield law for the school officials to take action that doesn't get them sued. I certainly would have sent the kid off to the doc that day. But then, the kid has 1st Amendment rights. And, I think that the kid did not have the weapon in his backpack that particular day. Why? He would have used it that very day. I think he went home and got it from wherever he hid it to use the next day when he realized his opportunity to use it was fading. It doesn't seem much like self defense to me. It seems like a calculated plan. But, I don't really know.

I don't think searching his backpack that day would have produced the gun. I think NOT letting him back in school until he talked to a doc would have been appropriate. He should not have been allowed back in school. He could have been placed on a home school program. What rules does Michigan have?

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
36. From what I've read,
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:53 PM
Dec 2021

A teacher observed him shopping for ammo the day before on a device.

But on ghe day of the murders, he was at school, a teacher observed threatening images the kid had created, sent him to the office, then he was released back to class. I believe it is presumed he had the gun at that time, whether in his bag or hidden in the building.

Police & mental health involvement would have prevented the tragedy that occured minutes after the sociopath returned to class.

gab13by13

(21,364 posts)
16. Didn't say criminalize a cry for help,
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:22 PM
Dec 2021

if law enforcement had been present at the meeting maybe 4 people would be alive today?

gab13by13

(21,364 posts)
29. Never said bring cops to every meeting,
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:41 PM
Dec 2021

I said they needed to be present at this meeting.

Times have changed, back in the 60's it wasn't that easy to get a permit to carry a hand gun, especially concealed. Guns weren't allowed in the school parking lot. Automatic weapons were banned, high capacity magazines were banned. We are way beyond setting a tone, we have a culture in America that is obsessed with guns. People I know openly admit to me that they keep loaded guns in their houses, numerous people, and I live in rural Pa. where there is little crime. Why are people in my region so afraid that they feel the need to keep loaded guns everywhere? Those people, who are law abiding as far as I know, are the people who scare me. Millions of people in America live their lives in fear when they shouldn't. I don't even lock my doors but my neighbor has loaded guns, why is that?

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
20. One thing that could change, without "criminalizing a cry for help," is this.
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:24 PM
Dec 2021

If internet posts or pictures or writing of the sort found connected to Crumbley are found, there should be a standing rule that back packs and lockers are searched. No implication that the student is guilty of worse. It's just a policy that had been made public from the start of school.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
42. I was talking to the people up thread who used this term. I'm just saying...
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 03:09 PM
Dec 2021

... that you can avoid debates about what are "cries" and what are "threats" by having it be a neutral policy. Disturbing stuff leads to locker and back pack searches. End of story.

iemanja

(53,035 posts)
45. He literally asked for help
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 04:54 PM
Dec 2021

and talked about intrusive thoughts in his head. Sure, it was a signal of what he was going to do, but it is also potentially symptomatic of a schizoid mental illness. And the parents did nothing about that cry.

Frasier Balzov

(2,659 posts)
23. School personnel are back on their heels these days.
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:30 PM
Dec 2021

With the trending "parents rule!" sentiment sweeping the nation.

gab13by13

(21,364 posts)
31. Yes,
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:43 PM
Dec 2021

I drove by a local middle school and saw these people with flags and posters protesting the terrible law that their darlings had to wear masks in school to protect them from being owned by the Libs.

leftstreet

(36,109 posts)
34. Don't know if this was the first parent call
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 02:47 PM
Dec 2021

Haven't read much, but I suspect many, many lawyers will be doing lots of investigating

MontanaMama

(23,324 posts)
39. As far as the backpack is concerned...
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 03:06 PM
Dec 2021

There are actually very restrictive laws on searching a student backpack. Law-enforcement could've done it but school officials cannot. They can ask a student to empty their own backpack and they definitely should have done that…and of course the parents should have done it as well and they should have removed him from school that day. It sounds like the investigation is ongoing and we will eventually find out if school officials asked the parents if there were firearms in the home.

orleans

(34,062 posts)
47. this is from michigan state u - law school (on searches of backpacks and lockers)
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 09:00 PM
Dec 2021

Students have a privacy right in their personal belongings, such as backpacks, and school officials must have “reasonable suspicion” before searching a student’s items. Lockers, on the other hand, are owned by the school, so the school can search those without having “reasonable suspicion.” So you better not have any contraband in your locker, like joints. To be safe, don’t keep it in your backpack or car either. Don’t bring it anywhere near your school!

Students have privacy rights while in school, but these privacy rights are limited compared to the privacy rights people have outside of schools. This means that although you do have rights as a student, your school has the power to limit them. So if you have drugs, drug paraphernalia, or really anything embarrassing that you don’t want your school principal to see, like zit cream or condoms, do NOT keep it in your locker.

https://mclellan.law.msu.edu/questions/searching-student-belongings

imo that drawing of someone getting shot and "blood everywhere" would be a reasonable suspicion to search that backpack.
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