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MissMillie

(39,652 posts)
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:46 AM Dec 2021

My granddaughter, and probably my son & his wife have COVID

Lily is 4. Looks like she caught it at a play date w/ her cousin.

Son & his wife are fully vaxxed and boosted.


I'm suffering from COVID fatigue.

My mom had it, and although she tested negative before she died, I firmly believe that it damaged her already sick heart enough to hasten her death.

This all could have been over by now if people had acted differently--and if we had had better leadership.

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My granddaughter, and probably my son & his wife have COVID (Original Post) MissMillie Dec 2021 OP
Nothing good can happen here any more because there are too many nazis everywhere. onecaliberal Dec 2021 #1
I look at our numbers at the beginning of June & compare to today & it makes me sick. CrispyQ Dec 2021 #2
I live in Arizona and count on marybourg to post daily on our numbers. StarryNite Dec 2021 #10
I can tell you what my records show for Michigan. llmart Dec 2021 #22
Horrific backslide! We were well on our way. CrispyQ Dec 2021 #28
The New York Times has a daily covid tracker with excellent graphs. femmedem Dec 2021 #32
I am sorry for you and your family member. I hope they will recover without any complications. Claustrum Dec 2021 #3
I'm sorry, Miss Millie. peacefreak2.0 Dec 2021 #4
I hope their cases are mild - it sounds like they took the proper precautions. Jim__ Dec 2021 #5
Not getting vaccinated is just another way to proudly vote for Donald Trump DURHAM D Dec 2021 #6
Well, my granddaughter is too young for vaccination MissMillie Dec 2021 #8
plenty of parents have been letting their kids do play dates orleans Dec 2021 #24
The world is looking like a damn zombie movie SCantiGOP Dec 2021 #7
Oh, poor baby. I hope it is mild and she recovers quickly and fully with no long term effects. I LoisB Dec 2021 #9
Healing vibes on the way to you & yours, MissMillie💓💓💓 SheltieLover Dec 2021 #11
Just want to send you POSITIVE VIBES missMillie. bluestarone Dec 2021 #12
Thoughts with You. I hope you don't mean President Biden's leadership has been at fault here. Tommymac Dec 2021 #13
Sarcastic jokes about testing kits isn't leadership leftstreet Dec 2021 #15
Please link press secretary comments in context. Tommymac Dec 2021 #16
Seriously? leftstreet Dec 2021 #19
Sarcasm not needed or appreciated. Tommymac Dec 2021 #25
I'm triple vaxxed but... AkFemDem Dec 2021 #23
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2021 #39
No, not Biden MissMillie Dec 2021 #26
TFG make a big noise about stopping the testing yellowdogintexas Dec 2021 #27
Thanks for the clarification. Again, wish you well. Tommymac Dec 2021 #29
Oh, dear. I hope they all easily recover fully! electric_blue68 Dec 2021 #14
Hope your Rebl2 Dec 2021 #17
Hope they all do fine! Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #18
I hope your granddaughter has a mild case brer cat Dec 2021 #20
Better leadership PJMcK Dec 2021 #21
I am sorry for your situation. But - your assumption might be false. RandomNumbers Dec 2021 #30
I just dont care MFM008 Dec 2021 #31
What? You don't care that her vaxxed family and too-young-to-be-vaxxed granddaughter femmedem Dec 2021 #34
no MFM008 Dec 2021 #35
I'm sorry to hear you're not doing well. femmedem Dec 2021 #38
I'm so sorry, Miss Millie. iemanja Dec 2021 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author malaise Dec 2021 #36
You've had a rough time with Covid malaise Dec 2021 #37
Good luck to your grandbaby and family mahina Dec 2021 #40
 

onecaliberal

(36,594 posts)
1. Nothing good can happen here any more because there are too many nazis everywhere.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:48 AM
Dec 2021

I’m so sorry, I hope your Grand baby and kids recover.

CrispyQ

(40,970 posts)
2. I look at our numbers at the beginning of June & compare to today & it makes me sick.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:50 AM
Dec 2021

We were approaching a 7-day average of 10,000 new cases a day for the entire nation at the beginning of June. Now, Arizona does 10K cases every few days. I wish someone in every state had kept track of covid cases like marybourg did. The Arizona home page is quite telling.

https://democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1038

llmart

(17,623 posts)
22. I can tell you what my records show for Michigan.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:16 PM
Dec 2021

I've been keeping a notebook since the beginning. On June 2nd, Michigan had 287 new cases from the day before. This past week,we averaged between 6,000 and 8,000 new cases. We have had a total of 25,080 deaths since the onset.

CrispyQ

(40,970 posts)
28. Horrific backslide! We were well on our way.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 03:00 PM
Dec 2021

The CDC lifted the mask mandate too soon, IMO. My own county has gone back to mask mandates, but the stores no longer police it like they did last year, when many stores had someone at the door making sure everyone was masked. Not anymore. Unmasked people are allowed in, although my husband tells me they avoid eye contact.

femmedem

(8,561 posts)
32. The New York Times has a daily covid tracker with excellent graphs.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 07:25 PM
Dec 2021

You can check your county or state and see the daily cases, hospitalizations, deaths, seven-day case averages, and graphs that show how the data has changed over time. Just google New York Times covid-19 tracker and your county and it comes right up.

Here's mine. You can see how severe the recent spike in my section of Connecticut is. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/us/new-london-connecticut-covid-cases.html

Claustrum

(5,058 posts)
3. I am sorry for you and your family member. I hope they will recover without any complications.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:51 AM
Dec 2021

Unfortunately, COVID was always going to keep coming back unless the whole world is vaxxed. If a variant pops up anywhere in the world, it would travel to everywhere rather quickly and it's bound to have a variant that's resistant to the previous vaccines. Given, the impact would be a lot less if the republicans took COVID seriously. Less spread = less death = less variants.

DURHAM D

(33,054 posts)
6. Not getting vaccinated is just another way to proudly vote for Donald Trump
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 12:03 PM
Dec 2021

over and over again.

MissMillie

(39,652 posts)
8. Well, my granddaughter is too young for vaccination
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 12:09 PM
Dec 2021

Which makes me wonder why she was out on a play date. (Which makes me hate myself because I'm insinuating that there is blame to be cast... )

Lily is an only child. After more than a year and a half, I can understand the desire to get the kids out socializing.

orleans

(36,921 posts)
24. plenty of parents have been letting their kids do play dates
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:29 PM
Dec 2021

i work around a lot of kids and this has been going on since last year after that initial lockdown in illinois ended.
i've had kids in my classes tell me they had covid, or that they weren't in one of my classes because they had to quarantine, even having play dates while doing one of my zoom classes with a friend!
(this was before kids were able to get vaxed -- but even with the under five age group there were still plenty of play dates going on)

i don't know what people were thinking, or what they continue to think.

a couple tweenagers (one was absent one week, the other three weeks) were out with covid after they had gotten their first shot. i think a lot of people/teens feel they are safe after that one shot. they are not.

i'm sorry about your mom and what you're going through with your family.

LoisB

(13,030 posts)
9. Oh, poor baby. I hope it is mild and she recovers quickly and fully with no long term effects. I
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 12:21 PM
Dec 2021

am so sorry.

bluestarone

(22,179 posts)
12. Just want to send you POSITIVE VIBES missMillie.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 12:41 PM
Dec 2021

Especially for your Grand daughter. I'm sure those that are boosted will be fine! Take care there!

Tommymac

(7,334 posts)
13. Thoughts with You. I hope you don't mean President Biden's leadership has been at fault here.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 12:43 PM
Dec 2021

TFG and the Rethuglican Party of Insurrection are the reason this is still a thing.

President Biden and the Democrats have been doing everything they can to alleviate the mess - but until the unvaxxed and unmasked idiots relent this is going to be with us for a long time and will mutate to who know;s what extent.



leftstreet

(40,683 posts)
15. Sarcastic jokes about testing kits isn't leadership
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 12:48 PM
Dec 2021

And that came right from the WH press secretary

Letting the CDC drop a mask requirement when Delta was already circulating isn't leadership

It's not necessarily about Biden but those agencies and people around him who could do a better job representing his plans

Tommymac

(7,334 posts)
16. Please link press secretary comments in context.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 12:55 PM
Dec 2021

I have not seen those.

But you are suggesting the President Biden is not doing enough. I disagree strongly.

It is not the administration's fault that crazy people LEFT and RIGHT are refusing to get vaccinated for un scientific reasons.

It is not the administration's fault that Covid and mask wearing was politicized by TFG.

Are you saying Dr. Fauci is wrong? He has made mistakes, but admitted them. He is THE EXPERT on this. I trust his judgement, I trust President Biden, I trust the Democrats dealing with this problem

I do not trust those on the fringes that believe in junk science and causes promoted by ignorant celebrities and QAnon sources.



leftstreet

(40,683 posts)
19. Seriously?
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:08 PM
Dec 2021

You're so well informed, I'm surprised you hadn't heard about it. Major gaffe for the WH

If you don't like this particular link, just google the story


?s=20

Tommymac

(7,334 posts)
25. Sarcasm not needed or appreciated.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:31 PM
Dec 2021

I don't see every story. That is why I asked for the link.

 

AkFemDem

(2,508 posts)
23. I'm triple vaxxed but...
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:25 PM
Dec 2021

Given the HUGE % of people I know who are fully or even fully plus booster vaxxed, who have since gotten Covid I’m not sure that refusal to vax is why it’s still spreading. It seems to me the best argument for vax at this point is a significant decrease in risk of serious illness/death, but it’s not going to stop spread.

Response to AkFemDem (Reply #23)

MissMillie

(39,652 posts)
26. No, not Biden
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:39 PM
Dec 2021

Infectious Disease 101: test, trace, isolate.

TFG pretty much skipped all of them.

And the rest of the GOP mocked Fauci for pushing mitigation efforts.

yellowdogintexas

(23,695 posts)
27. TFG make a big noise about stopping the testing
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:58 PM
Dec 2021

Remember this one: If there is no testing, there will be fewer cases.......
I lay it all on him and his total ineptitude

Rebl2

(17,743 posts)
17. Hope your
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:00 PM
Dec 2021

granddaughter recovers quickly.
Our local children’s hospital on 11/22 said they had 153 positive cases. On December 6, the number of positive cases had jumped to 426 positive cases. I didn’t read how many were in the hospital though.

brer cat

(27,588 posts)
20. I hope your granddaughter has a mild case
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:11 PM
Dec 2021

and recovers quickly. Sending healing vibes to your family.

PJMcK

(25,048 posts)
21. Better leadership
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 01:13 PM
Dec 2021

Trump.

DeSantis.

Abbott.

Noem.

Totally lacking in "leadership." I don't understand how anyone can look to these clowns for leadership.

I hope your family will be okay and I'm very sorry to hear that your mother passed away.

Covid fatigue afflicts all of us.

RandomNumbers

(19,156 posts)
30. I am sorry for your situation. But - your assumption might be false.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 05:37 PM
Dec 2021

I despise the "vulgar talking yam" (thanks Charlie Pierce) as much as anyone here.

But many countries with decent leadership - or at least not nearly as pathetic as TFG - are really struggling, still, with the covid variant rebounds. Would the USA having its shit together have made enough of a difference in how this played out around the world? I seriously doubt it.

Yes, there would be fewer dead and maimed (long covid) here, any maybe a lower curve. But we don't matter as much to the global picture as some might want to think.

I think we should continue to loudly blame TFG for his many, many failures. But downplaying the inherent danger of this virus - beyond anyone's ability to predict or control - will only confirm in some people's mind that Biden / Dems are just as incompetent. Which we know is not true. But in both cases we need to attribute a large part of the damage to the nature of the problem.

femmedem

(8,561 posts)
34. What? You don't care that her vaxxed family and too-young-to-be-vaxxed granddaughter
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 07:33 PM
Dec 2021

caught covid?

I can understand compassion fatigue for the unvaxxed, but for Miss Millie's family?

Are you ok? I'm asking seriously because I'm wondering if you're responding that way because you are suffering from a major depression.

MFM008

(20,042 posts)
35. no
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 08:46 PM
Dec 2021

i dont care about this virus at all anymore.
done.
no probably not doing well at all.

femmedem

(8,561 posts)
38. I'm sorry to hear you're not doing well.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 09:57 PM
Dec 2021

Although it doesn't surprise me, partly because your response sounded like it was coming from pain and also because so many people are suffering. The isolation is awful, especially for people who live alone.

I wish I knew what to say, but I hope it helps a little to know that someone heard you.

I have to ask because I lost someone dear to me who died by suicide: are you having thoughts of hurting yourself?

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