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I just lost my brother to the dark side. (Original Post) Cartoonist Dec 2021 OP
I am very sorry nt usedtobedemgurl Dec 2021 #1
It's been over 20 years since I last spoke with my brother. NNadir Dec 2021 #2
I understand Duncanpup Dec 2021 #3
My sympathies. CrispyQ Dec 2021 #4
Same here Texaswitchy Dec 2021 #5
My three snowybirdie Dec 2021 #6
While my bil was in hospital with vivid related pneumonia blueinredohio Dec 2021 #7
I so understand and sympathize. NH Ethylene Dec 2021 #8
Count yourself lucky. You'll get over it. I did. JanMichael Dec 2021 #9
There are worse things The Blue Flower Dec 2021 #10
SO sorry to hear that. InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2021 #11
The day after my mother's burial I ceased all contact with my siblings and their spouses. To a Floyd R. Turbo Dec 2021 #12
I am sorry LetMyPeopleVote Dec 2021 #13
I don't understand how someone could become a Repuke now FakeNoose Dec 2021 #14
Nor to me Cartoonist Dec 2021 #15
I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #16

NNadir

(33,538 posts)
2. It's been over 20 years since I last spoke with my brother.
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 10:34 AM
Dec 2021

I know it's tough, and sometimes it hurts, but really, it's just something you need to accept.

Best wishes to you.

CrispyQ

(36,492 posts)
4. My sympathies.
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 10:37 AM
Dec 2021

I've lost two family members to trumpism. I don't talk to either one of them & one I'll never forgive for the hateful things he said.

Texaswitchy

(2,962 posts)
5. Same here
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 10:39 AM
Dec 2021

A lot of people are like your brother.

Maybe one day he will change.

All you can do now is to get on with your life.

I haven't talked to a certain family member for years.

Your mental health is more important.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
7. While my bil was in hospital with vivid related pneumonia
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 10:50 AM
Dec 2021

his wife said she believed if you take it soon enough Ivermectin works. A very reliable smart person told her this.Said the only reason hospitals don't give it is because its not patented for that. I really liked her too. Pretty soon there will be very few people to talk to.

NH Ethylene

(30,814 posts)
8. I so understand and sympathize.
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 10:55 AM
Dec 2021

My adult son shifted over a few years ago, which was both horrifying and sad. He's not stupid either. It's like a cult.

JanMichael

(24,890 posts)
9. Count yourself lucky. You'll get over it. I did.
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 10:59 AM
Dec 2021

My immediate family on my side is all Dem and unfortunately almost every one of them is on the dark side. Passive aggressive, narcissistic, able to lie over tall buildings with a single word, and just nicely toxic.

Sometimes you have to cut the cord to save yourself.

EDIT - what I meant by count yourself lucky is assuming the "dark side" you mentioned is Trumpy or Q'y. Making it a little bit easier (subjective) to let go. Mine are not Trumpy, just douchy.

The Blue Flower

(5,444 posts)
10. There are worse things
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 11:03 AM
Dec 2021

I've had to stop contact with my toxic sisters, and I'm saner for it. Having those unhinged people in your life would be worse than having them gone.

Floyd R. Turbo

(26,549 posts)
12. The day after my mother's burial I ceased all contact with my siblings and their spouses. To a
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 11:16 AM
Dec 2021

person they are RW scammers and mooches. It’s been a great and peaceful 12 years!

Wishing you well!

FakeNoose

(32,706 posts)
14. I don't understand how someone could become a Repuke now
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 03:55 PM
Dec 2021

After 2020 and after 2021, how could anyone decide they prefer Repukes over solid American Democrats?
I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!

I'm sorry for your loss, but it doesn't make sense to me.

Cartoonist

(7,320 posts)
15. Nor to me
Sat Dec 18, 2021, 04:10 PM
Dec 2021

We were like twins. And this change was so sudden. He's now posting shit from Dinesh D., So you know he's gone to the bottom.

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