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Demovictory9

(32,621 posts)
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 05:51 AM Dec 2021

Madison Cawthorn and wife to divorce after 8 months marriage. 30 accusations of sex harassment

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10338831/Rep-Madison-Cawthorn-divorcing-wife-eight-months-marriage.html



Congressman Madison Cawthorn, 26,and his CrossFit athlete wife to divorce after an eight-month marriage and allegations he sexually harassed more than 30 women: Cites pressure of 'hectic and difficult' job

North Carolina Rep. Madison Cawthorn and his wife, Cristina Bayardelle Cawthorn, are divorcing after eight months of marriage
Cawthorn announced their separation Wednesday, citing his job as a Congress member as a factor in their split

He claimed the couple was 'committed to make things work' but quickly realized they were unable to balance his role as a public servant and their marriage

The couple wed in an intimate April ceremony after sharing a whirlwind romance; Bayardelle said she knew he 'was the one' after four months of dating

Their wedding followed an about six-month engagement
During their engagement, about 30 people accused Cawthorn of making unwanted sexual advances while he attended a Christian college in 2016

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In February, it was revealed that Cawthorn's ex-classmates claimed he sexually harassed women at Patrick Henry College in northern Virginia.

The alleged victims said they were warned not to go on so-called 'fun drives' with him in his white Dodge Challenger 'because bad things happened'.
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Madison Cawthorn and wife to divorce after 8 months marriage. 30 accusations of sex harassment (Original Post) Demovictory9 Dec 2021 OP
Oh, I remember him and the "fun drives" quote Sherman A1 Dec 2021 #1
They were "unable to balance his role" as a lying, despicable POS and their fake marriage. sop Dec 2021 #2
Oh, Lord, he blames True Blue American Dec 2021 #12
So he passes off sexual harassment claims because he's a member of Congress? Poiuyt Dec 2021 #3
I think the sexual harassment happened while he was (briefly) in college. ShazzieB Dec 2021 #4
Yup. And she knew when she married him. He probably convinced Laura PourMeADrink Dec 2021 #16
I am thinking that he did this precisely because of his philandering. OldBaldy1701E Dec 2021 #58
LOL, he's the real victim here! Pressure of being a public servant! FSogol Dec 2021 #21
He and Josh Duggar North Shore Chicago Dec 2021 #5
They could commiserate w/ each other & whine that women are to blame for their sad, sad lives. nt Hekate Dec 2021 #46
Consecrated before a christian cross, "till death do you part". He swore an oath. Was that missing? Bernardo de La Paz Dec 2021 #6
Guess the former Mrs.Cawthorne won't be birthing "Monsters" ProudMNDemocrat Dec 2021 #7
Yep. Monster. He damn sure isn't a public servant Walleye Dec 2021 #9
He's been advocating for a Civil War . . .. Lovie777 Dec 2021 #8
It is early, no caffeine yet, but several thoughts: so he can stand, and walk, apparently. niyad Dec 2021 #10
Hardly walking.He has full leg braces on each leg. So he would be swinging his legs w the walker. nt Bernardo de La Paz Dec 2021 #17
Thank you. As I said, no caffeine. I only saw what looked like him using a cane. niyad Dec 2021 #31
Oops. I apparently misjudged her too kindly. PC Intern (below) went and googled her... Hekate Dec 2021 #47
It Doesn't RobinA Dec 2021 #49
21.8 Scaramuccis LetMyPeopleVote Dec 2021 #11
I did a Google search on her... PCIntern Dec 2021 #13
Instagram fitness influencer viva la Dec 2021 #25
who???? Cryptoad Dec 2021 #14
Try google!!!! USALiberal Dec 2021 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author USALiberal Dec 2021 #39
No surprise here BillyBobBrilliant Dec 2021 #15
Hold on. rownesheck Dec 2021 #18
Same thought occured to me. What's the odds?😂 634-5789 Dec 2021 #20
he couldn't balance work and marriage! Skittles Dec 2021 #55
'Cites pressure of 'hectic and difficult' job' ... that bullshit is adorable! 634-5789 Dec 2021 #19
Hectic and difficult job, huh? tanyev Dec 2021 #22
"they were unable to balance his role as a public servant and their marriage" milestogo Dec 2021 #23
Recently he called women earthen vessels viva la Dec 2021 #24
Madison Cawthorn is probably impotent....... Stainless Dec 2021 #26
I can't get over the chewing tobacco and spitting into a cup on TV vanlassie Dec 2021 #27
He was already mentally f***ed up a-hole before the accident. Crowman2009 Dec 2021 #33
A paralyzing accident is no excuse for his behavior. Pinback Dec 2021 #44
There goes his "earthen vessel"... nt Gore1FL Dec 2021 #28
I hope she learns from her mistake and find happiness. Midnight Writer Dec 2021 #29
According to Cawthorn, he was mysteriously set up with his wife *in Russia* DesertRat Dec 2021 #30
His overall health can't be good. Darwin lurking. Captain Zero Dec 2021 #32
With any luck (ou4s, not his), not a day past. .27 or 28. niyad Dec 2021 #51
So... hurple Dec 2021 #34
" pressure of 'hectic and difficult' job" - So 434 people should be in the same position. Patterson Dec 2021 #35
He's basically a great representation of the new generation of GOP in the house Johonny Dec 2021 #36
Madison Cawthorn's wife files for divorce. Aristus Dec 2021 #38
Let's address the tiny elephant in the room. BannonsLiver Dec 2021 #40
Yep... Hmongliberal Dec 2021 #52
LOL! Mickju Dec 2021 #41
Will the divorce be finalized on 3 April as well? Jimbo S Dec 2021 #42
I know this is shallow, but I have two questions: rsdsharp Dec 2021 #43
You'd be surprised at the degree to which guys, no matter how much they may aspire to being Aristus Dec 2021 #54
Wow..50 pairs!! Demovictory9 Dec 2021 #56
Womp womp geardaddy Dec 2021 #45
Cawthorn is going to be questioned by the J6 committee, She can talk to them, if she wishes to. irisblue Dec 2021 #48
Absolutely he's a pig and a horrible piece of sh*t. davsand Dec 2021 #50
Job before marriage keithbvadu2 Dec 2021 #53
No sane woman will put up with this monster malaise Dec 2021 #57
He probably was a monster to live with! kimbutgar Dec 2021 #59

Poiuyt

(18,153 posts)
3. So he passes off sexual harassment claims because he's a member of Congress?
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 06:16 AM
Dec 2021

A lot of people have stressful jobs who don't harass women.

ShazzieB

(16,964 posts)
4. I think the sexual harassment happened while he was (briefly) in college.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 06:42 AM
Dec 2021

Although I'd say it's highly likely he's still sexually harassing women. Sexual harassment leopards don't usually change their spots.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
16. Yup. And she knew when she married him. He probably convinced
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 08:40 AM
Dec 2021

her he had changed - in the unlikely event he confessed guilt.

OldBaldy1701E

(5,338 posts)
58. I am thinking that he did this precisely because of his philandering.
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 09:56 AM
Dec 2021

I think he has realized that now, as a psycho rethug Congressperson, he has plenty of women who will throw themselves at him because of his position and connection to that orange gibbon. I think he started to realize that they stopped flirting because he is now married, and he does not like that. But, what do I know?

FSogol

(45,692 posts)
21. LOL, he's the real victim here! Pressure of being a public servant!
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 09:26 AM
Dec 2021
Why does the GOP scum always rise?

Lovie777

(12,754 posts)
8. He's been advocating for a Civil War . . ..
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 07:41 AM
Dec 2021

A whole lot of GQP are doing the same, i.e. Flynn, Bannon, Gatez, Greene, Boebert, Meadows, Gosar, etc.

niyad

(114,903 posts)
10. It is early, no caffeine yet, but several thoughts: so he can stand, and walk, apparently.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 07:55 AM
Dec 2021

Last edited Thu Dec 23, 2021, 10:57 AM - Edit history (1)

Does that mean that the wheelchair is a prop? (I know that some people use both, legitimately, but I wonder if his is not a cynical calculation.) I believe that many members of Congress manage to be married (even for years), and still do their jobs. She married him knowing about all those allegations??? 30 in the year he was at that school??? Busy little predator. And, finally, that cross. Something a bit unsettling about that pic.

niyad

(114,903 posts)
31. Thank you. As I said, no caffeine. I only saw what looked like him using a cane.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 11:00 AM
Dec 2021

The rest of the observations stand.

Hekate

(91,623 posts)
47. Oops. I apparently misjudged her too kindly. PC Intern (below) went and googled her...
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 03:56 PM
Dec 2021

My original post, which I pretty much retract:

His ex-wife is not the first naive Christian girl to be taken in by a "reformed" sociopath...

I can’t explain it any better than that. The desire of a young impressionable woman to believe that a combination of Jesus and a good woman will turn around a bad man is really powerful. Even older women fall for it.

As for him — I doubt he saw her as anything more than a beard for his politics and his predations.

I applaud her instinct for survival — and that she got the hell out before there were any kids.

**********

RobinA

(9,958 posts)
49. It Doesn't
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 04:12 PM
Dec 2021

require Jesus. When I was in college a million years ago there was this guy who was a known date rapist. Women continued to date him. And get date raped. I was friends with a girl who did. They definitely think it won't happen to them, because - reasons

PCIntern

(25,844 posts)
13. I did a Google search on her...
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 08:02 AM
Dec 2021

I will admit mostly images which are fairly “intriguing”… I’ll leave it at that. In my humble opinion the only reason a woman of this type would marry a guy like this is for personal advancement. She probably realized that she wasn’t going anywhere and that he was an absolute catastrophe in every way shape and form. I don’t think she will have any problems finding a second husband, so don’t worry too much about her. 😀

Response to Cryptoad (Reply #14)

rownesheck

(2,343 posts)
18. Hold on.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 09:08 AM
Dec 2021

You mean to tell me they put in a solid 4 months of dating, and the guy is an absolute piece of shit, and they couldn't make it work?! What chance do the rest of us have?!

634-5789

(4,175 posts)
19. 'Cites pressure of 'hectic and difficult' job' ... that bullshit is adorable!
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 09:21 AM
Dec 2021

He is his own worst enemy, screw that MAGAt clown

tanyev

(42,936 posts)
22. Hectic and difficult job, huh?
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 09:29 AM
Dec 2021

Seems like the family values choice would be to keep the marriage and ditch the job. Also, lots of other people in the same job somehow manage to keep a marriage going. Of course, they're probably not sociopathic a$$holes.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
23. "they were unable to balance his role as a public servant and their marriage"
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 09:47 AM
Dec 2021

Yeah that's never been done before.

Stainless

(719 posts)
26. Madison Cawthorn is probably impotent.......
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 10:21 AM
Dec 2021

He was partially paralyzed in a traffic accident at age 18. That accident and the resulting physical and emotional trauma has created what you see. He compensates for his inadequacy by bullying and bluster. He's one sad dude.

Pinback

(12,197 posts)
44. A paralyzing accident is no excuse for his behavior.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 03:28 PM
Dec 2021

I think it's safe to assume that the majority of people who undergo such trauma are not toxic, bullying assholes. Cawthorn was almost certainly a shithead before his accident.

Midnight Writer

(22,084 posts)
29. I hope she learns from her mistake and find happiness.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 10:51 AM
Dec 2021

Him? He will never change, never admit a mistake, never be in a loving relationship. It is beyond him.

DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
30. According to Cawthorn, he was mysteriously set up with his wife *in Russia*
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 10:54 AM
Dec 2021

...by a stranger claiming to be an Army Ranger


hurple

(1,307 posts)
34. So...
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 12:23 PM
Dec 2021

He is just as big an asshole in everyday life, to the people he supposedly "loves" as he is at his job and on TV.

What a shock. Not.

Johonny

(21,195 posts)
36. He's basically a great representation of the new generation of GOP in the house
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 12:48 PM
Dec 2021

uneducated openly white nationalists that fakes a love of ultra-RW Christianity, but violate their Christian oaths as soon as possible, and shows no ability to govern at all.


It seems like gone is the day you see a legacy Ivy League education on these people. They're all college drop outs, high school drop outs. Most from upper middle class families, and none seem to have taken a civics class in their life. I can't imagine how hard it will be to run the house if the GOP win in 2022. The last two GOP speakers left the job in complete disgust. Herding idiots isn't easy.

BannonsLiver

(16,675 posts)
40. Let's address the tiny elephant in the room.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 01:29 PM
Dec 2021

His penis probably doesn’t work and she’s got a lotta life ahead.

rsdsharp

(9,328 posts)
43. I know this is shallow, but I have two questions:
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 02:12 PM
Dec 2021

1. Who wears scuffed shoes to their wedding?

2. How does someone in a wheelchair GET scuffed shoes?

Aristus

(66,819 posts)
54. You'd be surprised at the degree to which guys, no matter how much they may aspire to being
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 08:16 PM
Dec 2021

well-dressed, totally fail when it comes to shoes.

I confess I'm an extreme example going the other way; I own about fifty pairs of shoes. A pair for almost any occasion, and/or outfit imaginable.

But I've seen guys wearing fine suits or other excellent tailored clothing with the rattiest shoes in the world.

Before COVID-19, I was a regular at Seattle Opera. Now Seattle is a pretty egalitarian place. I see guys at the opera wearing anything from black tie to cargo shorts and Birkenstocks.

But I'll never forget the time I saw a guy wearing a superb tuxedo; impeccable black tie and all the accessories. And on his feet, a pair of faded, scuffed black loafers! Seriously? After all that effort expended on everything else.

IMO, a man is not truly a detail-oriented dresser unless he sports a good pair of shoes.

Anyway, this is Madison Cawthorn we're talking about. He's a total loss, no matter what he's wearing.

irisblue

(33,149 posts)
48. Cawthorn is going to be questioned by the J6 committee, She can talk to them, if she wishes to.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 04:10 PM
Dec 2021

Source-https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-news/exclusive-jan-6-organizers-met-congress-white-house-1245289/
snip--"Along with Greene, the conspiratorial pro-Trump Republican from Georgia who took office earlier this year, the pair both say the members who participated in these conversations or had top staffers join in included Rep. Paul Gosar (R-Ariz.), Rep. Lauren Boebert (R-Colo.), Rep. Mo Brooks (R-Ala.), Rep. Madison Cawthorn (R-N.C.), Rep. Andy Biggs (R-Ariz.), and Rep. Louie Gohmert (R-Texas).

“We would talk to Boebert’s team, Cawthorn’s team, Gosar’s team like back to back to back to back,” says the organizer."

much more there

davsand

(13,421 posts)
50. Absolutely he's a pig and a horrible piece of sh*t.
Thu Dec 23, 2021, 05:44 PM
Dec 2021

Having clearly established that, I have wondered about how difficult it is to be newlyweds dealing with the stuff he's been associated with since they got married. That first year after we were married saw more fights than we'd had the entire three years we dated and lived together. Imagine that coupled with the public humliation of your new husband being publicly accused of being a sexual predator AND the knowledge he's viewed by many to be a traitor. I can see how it would be too much to deal with. Now, imagine thinking about LIVING with all that for the rest of your life...

I'd leave skid marks getting away from that, and I'd bet a lot of other women would too.

I have no idea what she's like as a human being, but I do hold a certain sympathy for her at this point. Clearly, she made a poor decision to marry him, but I really wonder how well she knew him before the wedding. My mom is fond of saying, "Marry in haste and then repent at your leisure." Mom is a pretty smart lady.



Laura

malaise

(270,635 posts)
57. No sane woman will put up with this monster
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 08:05 AM
Dec 2021

for long.
He has more baggage than a hub airport carousel

kimbutgar

(21,470 posts)
59. He probably was a monster to live with!
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 12:10 PM
Dec 2021

She got out of that marriage before she became his “vessel”.

The guy is evil,and probably said some bad stuff to her and treated her disrespectfully. She can put him behind her and move on.

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