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malaise

(269,157 posts)
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 07:56 PM Dec 2021

Would you buy a gun for your son if you knew he was torturing animals?

The parents of a teenager charged with killing four fellow students at a Michigan school knew that he was depressed, fascinated with guns and had tortured animals, even keeping a bird's head in a jar, prosecutors said Thursday.

The court filing was in opposition to an effort by James and Jennifer Crumbley to get out of jail on a lower bond. They're charged with involuntary manslaughter in the Oxford High School shooting under a theory that they had chances to prevent the bloodshed and made a gun available to their son.

https://apnews.com/e04c0c09563772b377df7219409d3033

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Would you buy a gun for your son if you knew he was torturing animals? (Original Post) malaise Dec 2021 OP
Being hurt doesn't mean you can hurt other people, but the more I learn about this kid's parents, WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2021 #1
he rly is still a kid. mopinko Dec 2021 #2
+1. femmedem Dec 2021 #12
and he is a killer apparently. being a kid is no excuse nt msongs Dec 2021 #20
I feel very sorry for him MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #16
Agree malaise Dec 2021 #21
No Demovictory9 Dec 2021 #3
They Faux pas Dec 2021 #4
No. greatauntoftriplets Dec 2021 #5
Beat Me To It! ProfessorGAC Dec 2021 #15
Lol malaise Dec 2021 #22
I never bought toys guns for any of the boys in the family. greatauntoftriplets Dec 2021 #24
Me neither Diamond_Dog Dec 2021 #25
Only if you were both insane. n/t Peregrine Took Dec 2021 #6
I wouldn't Jilly_in_VA Dec 2021 #7
If I found my son was hurting animals I would get therapy Raine Dec 2021 #8
, +1,000 n/t whathehell Dec 2021 #9
This MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #14
According to FBI profiling of serial killers Ferryboat Dec 2021 #17
And - an early sign of psychopathy womanofthehills Dec 2021 #32
What about killing for entertainment without the explicit torture? misanthrope Dec 2021 #35
Good god, no. But then again I wouldn't buy my son a gun if he volunteered femmedem Dec 2021 #10
.. Strelnikov_ Dec 2021 #11
If I had a son I wouldn't by him a gun period MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #13
I bought my son a gun once MissMillie Dec 2021 #18
That family's story gets sicker and sicker. Solly Mack Dec 2021 #19
Indeed malaise Dec 2021 #27
And to you, malaise! I figure we'll get hit again and best to prepare now as much as possible. Solly Mack Dec 2021 #29
A lot of homes are abusive. I_UndergroundPanther Dec 2021 #31
They probably cagefreesoylentgreen Dec 2021 #23
I'm not going to ForgedCrank Dec 2021 #26
If you're a brainless, gun-crazed redneck, sure. Aristus Dec 2021 #28
Nope no guns for torturer of animals I_UndergroundPanther Dec 2021 #30
Because toddlers can exhibit psychopathic behavior - some scientists womanofthehills Dec 2021 #33
I read the sociopath next door. Its an awesome book I_UndergroundPanther Dec 2021 #34

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,394 posts)
1. Being hurt doesn't mean you can hurt other people, but the more I learn about this kid's parents,
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 08:00 PM
Dec 2021

the more I feel sorry for him.

femmedem

(8,205 posts)
12. +1.
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 08:27 PM
Dec 2021

But we'll never know if he could have ever recovered from the damage his parents caused, because it will be a miracle if he finds anything other than further cruelty and trauma in prison.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,632 posts)
16. I feel very sorry for him
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 08:33 PM
Dec 2021

With those parents he never had a chance. This doesn't mean I condone what he did and I think he should still be punished.

greatauntoftriplets

(175,749 posts)
24. I never bought toys guns for any of the boys in the family.
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 09:23 PM
Dec 2021

My father never owned guns, even though he qualified as a sharpshooter when in the Army.

Jilly_in_VA

(9,994 posts)
7. I wouldn't
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 08:05 PM
Dec 2021

buy a gun for my son under any circumstances. If he is living under my roof and wants to go humting with us, he'll use one of ours. Otherwise guns are off limits. Period.

Ferryboat

(923 posts)
17. According to FBI profiling of serial killers
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 08:51 PM
Dec 2021

Torturing animals is one of the key indicators of a future serial killer.

misanthrope

(7,421 posts)
35. What about killing for entertainment without the explicit torture?
Sat Dec 25, 2021, 02:48 AM
Dec 2021

Does that qualify? Because if it does, we have way, way more in this nation who might meet the standard.

femmedem

(8,205 posts)
10. Good god, no. But then again I wouldn't buy my son a gun if he volunteered
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 08:22 PM
Dec 2021

at an animal shelter, was a vegan for ethical reasons and sprouted angel wings between his shoulder blades.

Solly Mack

(90,779 posts)
19. That family's story gets sicker and sicker.
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 08:57 PM
Dec 2021

The kid never had a chance. If only he had well parents...if only someone had intervened...if only...if only...if only...people wouldn't be dead now.

Tragic and sad.

They all three need to be held accountable. Because having bad parents doesn't excuse his actions. Because they created and encouraged his sickness with their own sickness and there is no "if only" that will change anything.

An abusive household that fed on itself until it exploded, killing others in the process.

Makes me wonder how many more such households are out there.





malaise

(269,157 posts)
27. Indeed
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 09:41 PM
Dec 2021

He never had a chance
Happy Holidays- here’s hoping the hurricanes stay away from you for 2022

Solly Mack

(90,779 posts)
29. And to you, malaise! I figure we'll get hit again and best to prepare now as much as possible.
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 09:44 PM
Dec 2021

Well, it's that or move.

ForgedCrank

(1,782 posts)
26. I'm not going to
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 09:39 PM
Dec 2021

draw a conclusion based on the words of the prosecutors, or anything reported by the media. All of this information is derived from the people charged with prosecuting them, and it is formed in the context they wish the public to view it.
Most of us should have learned a valuable lesson from several recent very high profile cases. You cannot trust what you hear from these people (media especially) until they are in court and bound to follow the rules and tell the truth.
And no, I'm not taking a side here with anyone. I just know better than to trust the people who have lied to me repeatedly in the past.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,480 posts)
30. Nope no guns for torturer of animals
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 10:09 PM
Dec 2021

I would beat the tar out of him if I caught him torturing an animals he would wish he was dead when I got through with him. And then I'd hand him a razorblade and say get to it asshole. Hurry up and die you waste of skin,psychopath.

womanofthehills

(8,755 posts)
33. Because toddlers can exhibit psychopathic behavior - some scientists
Fri Dec 24, 2021, 11:23 PM
Dec 2021

believe psychopathy can be inherited, can be from how the child is raised or can be a brain disorder or combos of lots of things. Some parents have all normal kids and one psychopath. A good book on the subject is The Sociopath Next Door by Martha Stout. My neighborhood actually had “a sociopath next door”who did really creepy things like leaving objects in people’s yards to freak them out -knowing someone was at their place when they weren’t home.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,480 posts)
34. I read the sociopath next door. Its an awesome book
Sat Dec 25, 2021, 02:39 AM
Dec 2021

I think inheritance is a way it can happen
because not all sociopaths are abused but they still are the sociopath they always were.

When kids get abused they can identify with the asswipe abusing them, or they can never be like the abuser is.

I think most people do not identify themselves with thier abuser.

Because as much abuse going on in homes in this country we would be over run and the majority of people would be sociopaths identifying with abusive sociopaths.

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