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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWould you buy a gun for your son if you knew he was torturing animals?
The parents of a teenager charged with killing four fellow students at a Michigan school knew that he was depressed, fascinated with guns and had tortured animals, even keeping a bird's head in a jar, prosecutors said Thursday.
The court filing was in opposition to an effort by James and Jennifer Crumbley to get out of jail on a lower bond. They're charged with involuntary manslaughter in the Oxford High School shooting under a theory that they had chances to prevent the bloodshed and made a gun available to their son.
https://apnews.com/e04c0c09563772b377df7219409d3033
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,394 posts)the more I feel sorry for him.
mopinko
(70,197 posts)But we'll never know if he could have ever recovered from the damage his parents caused, because it will be a miracle if he finds anything other than further cruelty and trauma in prison.
msongs
(67,433 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(11,632 posts)With those parents he never had a chance. This doesn't mean I condone what he did and I think he should still be punished.
malaise
(269,157 posts)Horrible parents
Demovictory9
(32,468 posts)Faux pas
(14,690 posts)created him and nurtured the madness. They deserve nothing good.
greatauntoftriplets
(175,749 posts)If I had a son, I wouldn't buy him a gun at all.
ProfessorGAC
(65,141 posts)I was going to tell Malaise she could have stopped the question after "gun".
malaise
(269,157 posts)Happy Holidays
greatauntoftriplets
(175,749 posts)My father never owned guns, even though he qualified as a sharpshooter when in the Army.
Diamond_Dog
(32,045 posts)I raised 3 boys, never bought them a toy gun ever
Peregrine Took
(7,417 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(9,994 posts)buy a gun for my son under any circumstances. If he is living under my roof and wants to go humting with us, he'll use one of ours. Otherwise guns are off limits. Period.
Raine
(30,540 posts)for him IMMEDIATELY!
whathehell
(29,082 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(11,632 posts)Ferryboat
(923 posts)Torturing animals is one of the key indicators of a future serial killer.
womanofthehills
(8,755 posts)No empathy.
misanthrope
(7,421 posts)Does that qualify? Because if it does, we have way, way more in this nation who might meet the standard.
femmedem
(8,205 posts)at an animal shelter, was a vegan for ethical reasons and sprouted angel wings between his shoulder blades.
Strelnikov_
(7,772 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(11,632 posts)MissMillie
(38,574 posts)It was a Nerf gun.
That's as far as I'm willing to go.
Solly Mack
(90,779 posts)The kid never had a chance. If only he had well parents...if only someone had intervened...if only...if only...if only...people wouldn't be dead now.
Tragic and sad.
They all three need to be held accountable. Because having bad parents doesn't excuse his actions. Because they created and encouraged his sickness with their own sickness and there is no "if only" that will change anything.
An abusive household that fed on itself until it exploded, killing others in the process.
Makes me wonder how many more such households are out there.
malaise
(269,157 posts)He never had a chance
Happy Holidays- heres hoping the hurricanes stay away from you for 2022
Solly Mack
(90,779 posts)Well, it's that or move.
I_UndergroundPanther
(12,480 posts)There are a lot of dark triad personalities out there.
cagefreesoylentgreen
(838 posts)They probably bought him the gun hoping hed kill himself and save them the trouble.
ForgedCrank
(1,782 posts)draw a conclusion based on the words of the prosecutors, or anything reported by the media. All of this information is derived from the people charged with prosecuting them, and it is formed in the context they wish the public to view it.
Most of us should have learned a valuable lesson from several recent very high profile cases. You cannot trust what you hear from these people (media especially) until they are in court and bound to follow the rules and tell the truth.
And no, I'm not taking a side here with anyone. I just know better than to trust the people who have lied to me repeatedly in the past.
Aristus
(66,440 posts)Its not like they need any excuse.
I_UndergroundPanther
(12,480 posts)I would beat the tar out of him if I caught him torturing an animals he would wish he was dead when I got through with him. And then I'd hand him a razorblade and say get to it asshole. Hurry up and die you waste of skin,psychopath.
womanofthehills
(8,755 posts)believe psychopathy can be inherited, can be from how the child is raised or can be a brain disorder or combos of lots of things. Some parents have all normal kids and one psychopath. A good book on the subject is The Sociopath Next Door by Martha Stout. My neighborhood actually had a sociopath next doorwho did really creepy things like leaving objects in peoples yards to freak them out -knowing someone was at their place when they werent home.
I_UndergroundPanther
(12,480 posts)I think inheritance is a way it can happen
because not all sociopaths are abused but they still are the sociopath they always were.
When kids get abused they can identify with the asswipe abusing them, or they can never be like the abuser is.
I think most people do not identify themselves with thier abuser.
Because as much abuse going on in homes in this country we would be over run and the majority of people would be sociopaths identifying with abusive sociopaths.