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Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 12:51 PM Feb 2022

Got a birthday greeting this morning from Jimmy Choo

If he really wanted me to have a happy birthday, he should have sent those low heel pumps I've been eyeing.

Recently I've been looking at plain black dresses and plain black shoes. Over the last several months there have been multiple deaths in my family and as I am the youngest of the first cousins, and I'm no spring chicken, I figure I'll need a few more outfits before much longer.

Yesterday it did occur to me that I might just be buying my own burial togs instead of dressing myself for the funeral of others.

The potential irony of the situation was not lost on me. I laughed at myself. Grimly.

Before anyone bust a gut - No. I am not paying several hundred dollars (plus) on a pair of shoes. Not even with that not-so-tempting "$50.00" off birthday discount.

But I don't skimp on shoes either. I need my feet.

I'll happily wear second-hand clothing and do, but I coddle my tootsies.

My feet have gotten me this far and I need them to get me on down the road a few more decades.

I abused my feet with 6-inch heels in my teens and early twenties and it shows. I've spent the years in between pampering them with flats, long soaks, and Vaseline.

I didn't see my shadow this morning, as I stood out on the grass, cold and damp, in my stocking feet.

While wiggling my toes in the still wet grass, remnant of the rain the night before, I thought about the years of living on those old feet.

The story they tell and the stories they could tell if they could talk.

Every year on this day I look for my shadow.

And every year on this day I think six weeks is six weeks away but today is the day I have, so today is the day I'll experience.

With a little help from my feet.



Wishing you all the best day ever and the happiest feet ever.


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Got a birthday greeting this morning from Jimmy Choo (Original Post) Solly Mack Feb 2022 OP
Happy birthday from me! pandr32 Feb 2022 #1
Thank you so much, pandr32! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #33
Happy Birthday, Solly Mack! iemanja Feb 2022 #2
Thank you, iemanja Solly Mack Feb 2022 #32
Never skimp on shoes! Layzeebeaver Feb 2022 #3
I agree. Solly Mack Feb 2022 #31
Happy Birthday, Solly Mack! 🎂 🎈 crickets Feb 2022 #4
Thank you, crickets! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #30
Have a Happy Birthday! ...and happy feet! nt 2 Meow Momma Feb 2022 #5
So happy they do the happy feet dance! Thank you, 2 Meow Momma. Solly Mack Feb 2022 #29
Wishing you and your tootsies a very Happy Birthday. LoisB Feb 2022 #6
My tootsies and I thank you, LoisB! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #28
Happy birthday ! MyNameIsKhan Feb 2022 #7
Thank you, MyNameIsKhan Solly Mack Feb 2022 #27
Happy Birthday! panader0 Feb 2022 #8
Thanks, panader0. Solly Mack Feb 2022 #26
Happy, happy birthday, Solly! babylonsister Feb 2022 #9
Thank you, babylonsister! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #25
Happy Birthday! spicysista Feb 2022 #10
Thank you, spicysista! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #24
I hope you have a fantastic birth remembrance.....♥️ a kennedy Feb 2022 #11
If I actually do remember my birth I'd have to apologize to my mother. Solly Mack Feb 2022 #23
😂 🤣 😂 a kennedy Feb 2022 #58
Have a wonderful birthday, Solly Mack! greatauntoftriplets Feb 2022 #12
May your day be a great one, too, greatauntoftriplets. Thank you! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #21
Happy Birthday Solly Mack malaise Feb 2022 #13
Thank you, malaise! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #20
Happy birthday, Solly Mack, and many more Hekate Feb 2022 #14
Thanks, Hekate! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #19
Happy Birthday, Solly! mnhtnbb Feb 2022 #15
Thank you, mnhtnbb. Solly Mack Feb 2022 #18
♥️HAPPY BIRTHDAY Solly Mack♥️ spanone Feb 2022 #16
Thank you, spanone! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #17
I love this.....Happy Birthday, my friend! 🎂🍾 Nevilledog Feb 2022 #22
Thank you, Nevilledog Solly Mack Feb 2022 #35
Happy birthday! cate94 Feb 2022 #34
Thank you, cate94 Solly Mack Feb 2022 #36
I bet you looked fabulous in your 6 inch heels, Happy Birthday Cozmo Feb 2022 #37
I certainly looked taller than my usual 5'3. :) Solly Mack Feb 2022 #38
We all do what we gotta do! Cozmo Feb 2022 #40
Been there. Done that. LOVE this post! calimary Feb 2022 #39
I'll splurge if something I like is on sale. A really good sale. I mean, really good. Solly Mack Feb 2022 #44
Yep. Right there with ya! Always searched for the sales! calimary Feb 2022 #53
Thanks for the deep thoughts, Solly Mack slightlv Feb 2022 #41
Thank you and Happy Early Birthday to you both! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #46
Happy Birthday! barbtries Feb 2022 #42
Thank you, barbtries! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #47
Happy Birthday, my dear Solly Mack! And YES: Many more! CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2022 #43
Thank you, CaliforniaPeggy! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #49
You have a beautiful spirit, Solly! BeckyDem Feb 2022 #45
Thank you, BeckyDem! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #50
Happy Birthday from someone who hates high-heels and got chowder66 Feb 2022 #48
Thank you, chowder66 Solly Mack Feb 2022 #51
I love high heeled Mary Jane's. chowder66 Feb 2022 #57
Happy! Happy! Joy! Joy! 🥳 sprinkleeninow Feb 2022 #52
Thank you, sprinkleeninow! Solly Mack Feb 2022 #54
Happy Birthday to you! liberalla Feb 2022 #55
Thank you, liberalla. Solly Mack Feb 2022 #56
Happy Groundhog Birthday, Solly Mack! Totally Tunsie Feb 2022 #59
Thank you, Totally Tunsie. Solly Mack Feb 2022 #61
Happy Birthday Solly Mack! Lars39 Feb 2022 #60
Thanks, Lars39 Solly Mack Feb 2022 #62
I think I'm one of the youngest of my generation of a ton of cousins. Lars39 Feb 2022 #63

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
23. If I actually do remember my birth I'd have to apologize to my mother.
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 02:33 PM
Feb 2022

Growing up, I heard how "I knew you were going to be stubborn when you came out feet first".

My feet, always testing the waters.

Thanks!

greatauntoftriplets

(175,731 posts)
12. Have a wonderful birthday, Solly Mack!
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 01:54 PM
Feb 2022

My favorite flats ever are Tieks. They're quite pricey, but are so comfortable that it's almost like not wearing shoes.

mnhtnbb

(31,384 posts)
15. Happy Birthday, Solly!
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 02:10 PM
Feb 2022

Nothing but kitten heels for me anymore, too. Not that there has been anywhere to wear them for the last two years.

All it takes is a colorful scarf or artsy jewelry to turn that black dress and black shoes into something to wear for a night out. I hope there will be more of those events in your future than the ones you are envisioning now. And I'm sorry you have lost so much family recently.

Carpe diem.

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
18. Thank you, mnhtnbb.
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 02:27 PM
Feb 2022

I got some artsy earrings for my birthday from my other half. He took the obvious hints I gave him and did good. I love scarves and have a collection of them.

Later today I am going to venture out for a little fun. In jeans, mind you. lol

calimary

(81,220 posts)
39. Been there. Done that. LOVE this post!
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:11 PM
Feb 2022

You’re speaking my language, Solly Mack. I’ll see your Jimmy Choos and raise you a coupla Manolos.

And Happy Birthday, btw. A unique day, by the numbers: 2/2/22!

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
44. I'll splurge if something I like is on sale. A really good sale. I mean, really good.
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:24 PM
Feb 2022

And I'll get multiple wears from the item. Otherwise, I think of my days of youth, sigh, and move on.

I miss Barneys.

Thanks!



slightlv

(2,787 posts)
41. Thanks for the deep thoughts, Solly Mack
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:16 PM
Feb 2022

and Happy Birthday. My Hubby's is tomorrow... and my birthday is Feb 4th (the day after) at least he can never forget MY birthday! (LOL). We don't really do the outside toesie thing on our birthdays, as it's usually covered with snow, as it is this year! But last night, we sat down and signed up for burial insurance and I talked him into doing a Legal Zoom for a Will. Also discussed funerals and we got all that straightened out between us. Great birthday talk, ain't it? Do our aging birthdays bring it out in all of us?! At least we both agreed on Natural Burials if I can find a cemetery close we can be buried in.

Today is Imbolc and we're both frolicking like calves, along with the puppy who would be a pony. She in the snow, we in the house with 10 cats. Later this afternoon, we'll salute Brigid and leave a saucer of milk and one of bread for Her, and any passing feral or wayward soul who should need it on this day of rebirth. May the year of the Tiger bring you much luck, love, and prosperity! May adversity flee from the very nature of your strength!






Note: Editing of typos due to cats walking over wrists!

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
46. Thank you and Happy Early Birthday to you both!
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:31 PM
Feb 2022

There are 4 February birthdays in my immediate family. The previous May was a good month, I guess.

Getting older means those talks are a must and that's OK. As much as I didn't like the planning, we still managed to laugh our way through it.

Thank you again!



chowder66

(9,067 posts)
48. Happy Birthday from someone who hates high-heels and got
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:32 PM
Feb 2022

a good amount of grief for it. They look good but I never took to them. Chunky boot heels are doable, the highest I got was maybe 3 inches otherwise I will topple over. Wedges are interesting. Still working on mastering those but my favorites are slides. I live in L.A. and I rarely wear "shoes" except for working out or for special occasions and even then it might be slides.

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
51. Thank you, chowder66
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:39 PM
Feb 2022

I used to wear hiking boots with dresses as a child, much to my mom's embarrassment, and then got into heels. Left those behind for flats.

I do love a heeled Mary Jane though.



chowder66

(9,067 posts)
57. I love high heeled Mary Jane's.
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 04:24 PM
Feb 2022

I bought a pair of nude ones that they sold for tap dancing when I was younger. I nearly forgot about those.

sprinkleeninow

(20,237 posts)
52. Happy! Happy! Joy! Joy! 🥳
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:45 PM
Feb 2022

I also wore way high heels in my younger days. Not for years now, tho.

The foot docs would 'love' to reprimand this: Me wearing rubber beach type flip-flops year round inside. And out on property when warm. I won't drive in them tho'. Dangerous.

My feet expanded. Was size 6 1/2 decades ago, transitioned into 7, now size 8, sometimes 8 1/2. Blech.

I did buy a jewelry gift for someone recently on Amazon and clicked on a sweatshirt type top. It was by a designer and selling at $300+!!! Originally $700+. Yikes. Yah, it's cool, but no thanx. I hear yah re: Jimmy Choo!

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
54. Thank you, sprinkleeninow!
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:58 PM
Feb 2022

I love flip-flops. I need garden/rain boots for outside though. Live near the woods and need added protection from things slithering about.

I might pay 6 bucks for a sweatshirt. Maybe more for an event sweatshirt but not much more.


liberalla

(9,242 posts)
55. Happy Birthday to you!
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 03:59 PM
Feb 2022

All that was very interesting... but, 6 inch heels??? Wow.

I liked the 3 1/2 - 4 inch height, but even those became too much.
But the memories are still fun.

You have a GREAT day!


Lars39

(26,109 posts)
60. Happy Birthday Solly Mack!
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 05:36 PM
Feb 2022

Lesson learned from Grandma…I’ll be wearing the prettiest dress I own to my funeral!
I’m sorry you’re losing your cousins.

Solly Mack

(90,762 posts)
62. Thanks, Lars39
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 06:57 PM
Feb 2022

My husband asked me what I wanted to being wearing at that time and I said, "Surprise me".

It sucks. Though I'm closer in age to my second cousins, younger than some of them even, I'm more connected to my first cousins.

Thanks, again.



Lars39

(26,109 posts)
63. I think I'm one of the youngest of my generation of a ton of cousins.
Wed Feb 2, 2022, 07:36 PM
Feb 2022

Closer to first cousins, too. Each generation born smaller.

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