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vercetti2021

(10,481 posts)
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 02:53 PM Feb 2022

Our cousin passed away this afternoon

She was only 36. One week away from a bone marrow transplant. Sadly it had to be delayed since the donor contracted covid. 36. 36 years old and left behind a child. This is a big conflict of how grieving is. Shutting down from shock.

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Our cousin passed away this afternoon (Original Post) vercetti2021 Feb 2022 OP
I'm so sorry 😢. live love laugh Feb 2022 #1
Sorry for your loss. ChazII Feb 2022 #2
I'm sorry for your loss. gldstwmn Feb 2022 #3
So sorry to hear this, and for your loss Sienna86 Feb 2022 #4
That's awful. Take care JohnSJ Feb 2022 #5
In honor of your cousin - may she rest in peace FakeNoose Feb 2022 #6
I'm very sorry for your loss. brer cat Feb 2022 #7
I am so sorry for your loss. Maraya1969 Feb 2022 #8
I am so sorry vercetti2021. So young. Condolences to you and your family. LoisB Feb 2022 #9
How very heartbreaking. Sending love, vercetti2021. MLAA Feb 2022 #10
I'm so very sorry for your loss. phylny Feb 2022 #11
My deepest sympathies, vercetti. dixiechiken1 Feb 2022 #12
Take the time you need, V. Hugin Feb 2022 #13
So very sorry for your loss. SheilaAnn Feb 2022 #14
My deepest condolences. I know words are largely empty. Coventina Feb 2022 #15
Deepest Condolences, V SheltieLover Feb 2022 #16
Very sorry for your loss. ramen Feb 2022 #17
Condolences on the loss of your cousin. gademocrat7 Feb 2022 #18
That is so sad Wicked Blue Feb 2022 #19
My condolences Ohio Joe Feb 2022 #20
Terrible, terrible Yanicosco Feb 2022 #21
I'm so very sorry. cate94 Feb 2022 #22
My sincerest condolences, vercetti. majdrfrtim Feb 2022 #23
I'm so sorry to read that. MineralMan Feb 2022 #24
So sorry for you and for her child people Feb 2022 #25
I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Feb 2022 #26
Dreadful news - may peace be with you at this difficult time. waterwatcher123 Feb 2022 #27
This is a Covid-related death, IMO. LisaM Feb 2022 #28
Honestly I could punch one or two antivaxxers in the face today vercetti2021 Feb 2022 #31
I'm very sorry. sinkingfeeling Feb 2022 #29
I'm so sorry essaynnc Feb 2022 #30
You are in my thoughts mercuryblues Feb 2022 #32
Uh...oh...good luck for Mon! electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #37
You are in my thoughts mercuryblues Feb 2022 #33
peace and love to you and yours SYFROYH Feb 2022 #34
There are no words of course, Vercetti, but we are so sorry. Hortensis Feb 2022 #35
Oh, dear... so close. So sorry, vercerti. (short rant below) electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #36
So sorry for your loss. applegrove Feb 2022 #38

Sienna86

(2,153 posts)
4. So sorry to hear this, and for your loss
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 02:58 PM
Feb 2022

I hope the family rallies around the family left. I'm so sorry.

FakeNoose

(41,634 posts)
6. In honor of your cousin - may she rest in peace
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 03:03 PM
Feb 2022


And may you and your family find solace in your memories of her from happier times.

Coventina

(29,731 posts)
15. My deepest condolences. I know words are largely empty.
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 03:31 PM
Feb 2022

Please know that the love and empathy are real.

majdrfrtim

(340 posts)
23. My sincerest condolences, vercetti.
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 04:11 PM
Feb 2022

Grief is not a mental illness, even though it can too often *feel* like one — probably because every new grief has the potential to reawaken any (or every) old grief. Please be gentle with yourself.

people

(844 posts)
25. So sorry for you and for her child
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 04:15 PM
Feb 2022

That's terrible. Please over time pay lots of good attention to her child. She will need a lot of love.

LisaM

(29,634 posts)
28. This is a Covid-related death, IMO.
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 04:39 PM
Feb 2022

First, I am terribly sorry for your loss. It sounds unbearable.

Second, I wish we could drum it into the heads of people like the fake truckers that there are all these ancillary consequences to their selfishness.

 

vercetti2021

(10,481 posts)
31. Honestly I could punch one or two antivaxxers in the face today
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 05:44 PM
Feb 2022

I'm upset and angry enough to broke someone's nose

mercuryblues

(16,413 posts)
32. You are in my thoughts
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 07:26 PM
Feb 2022

I deeply emphasize and can relate with you.

My BMT unit shut down last month, because of Covid, delaying my transplant.
I found out last week I will be getting it on Monday.
I found out yesterday I am no longer in remission.

Covid is killing us more ways than one.

electric_blue68

(26,856 posts)
37. Uh...oh...good luck for Mon!
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 01:07 AM
Feb 2022

A very dear friend about 25+ yrs ago "disappeared" from our several times a year long letters to each other (she was waaaay overseas).

Finally 1 1/2 yrs later I get a letter. She had to go help her brother ( 4 siblings in all) who had gotten one of the blood cancers - seriousy cleaning the place down every day type thing for anti infection protocol.

Anyway he recovered, and is still with his family all these years later!


The best of luck, and good health again!

mercuryblues

(16,413 posts)
33. You are in my thoughts
Sat Feb 12, 2022, 07:28 PM
Feb 2022

I deeply emphasize and can relate with you.

My BMT unit shut down last month, because of Covid, delaying my transplant.
I found out last week I will be getting it on Monday.
I found out yesterday I am no longer in remission.

Covid is killing us more ways than one.

electric_blue68

(26,856 posts)
36. Oh, dear... so close. So sorry, vercerti. (short rant below)
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 12:56 AM
Feb 2022

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.🤬 Anti-vaxxers (in general) dragging this damn thing out, getting more people sick, filling up hospitals much of last year, and this. Taking beds away from other people w/o covid who need help!

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