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sheshe2

(83,746 posts) Wed Feb 16, 2022, 12:36 AM Feb 2022

About those Hearts...

The Glory Of Love.

They are sweet to receive, they are wonderful to give.

This has been one hard year for all of us. COVID, yes. It has hit us hard. On top of that many DUers have lost loved ones, not just COVID. We lost those we loved to aging. My heart goes out to all of you.

It is hard to say goodbye. It will take us all some time to get use to the idea.

Be kind to each other.

Hearts~

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About those Hearts... (Original Post) sheshe2 Feb 2022 OP

♥️♥️♥️K&R♥️♥️♥️ spanone Feb 2022 #1

I love you, spanone. sheshe2 Feb 2022 #2

Great Post sheshe2 spanone Feb 2022 #3

What a beautiful message, sheshe2...and with beautiful music! highplainsdem Feb 2022 #4

So many of us lost family this year and past year. sheshe2 Feb 2022 #7

Yes, you did -- your care gave your mom all the extra time anyone could have highplainsdem Feb 2022 #8

I know. sheshe2 Feb 2022 #9

Oh, sheshe2... highplainsdem Feb 2022 #11

KnR Hekate Feb 2022 #5

... sprinkleeninow Feb 2022 #6

I love you too. sheshe2 Feb 2022 #10

Thank you. This past year sucked losing a family member AllyCat Feb 2022 #12

Beautiful post, sheshe. brer cat Feb 2022 #13

spanone

(135,827 posts)

1. ♥️♥️♥️K&R♥️♥️♥️

Reply to sheshe2 (Original post)

Wed Feb 16, 2022, 12:43 AM

Feb 2022

sheshe2

(83,746 posts)

2. I love you, spanone.

Reply to spanone (Reply #1)

Wed Feb 16, 2022, 12:46 AM

Feb 2022

You are good peeps.

spanone

(135,827 posts)

3. Great Post sheshe2

Reply to spanone (Reply #1)

Wed Feb 16, 2022, 12:49 AM

Feb 2022

highplainsdem

(48,970 posts)

4. What a beautiful message, sheshe2...and with beautiful music!

Reply to sheshe2 (Original post)

Wed Feb 16, 2022, 12:59 AM

Feb 2022

Thank you for posting this!

sheshe2

(83,746 posts)

7. So many of us lost family this year and past year.

Reply to highplainsdem (Reply #4)

Wed Feb 16, 2022, 01:12 AM

Feb 2022

Not COVID.

Yet under COVID rules... All of us had to be so careful. We were careful.

I kept it away from mom.

highplainsdem

(48,970 posts)

8. Yes, you did -- your care gave your mom all the extra time anyone could have

Reply to sheshe2 (Reply #7)

Wed Feb 16, 2022, 01:21 AM

Feb 2022

given her.

Everything you did helped her. And she'll never, ever forget.

sheshe2

(83,746 posts)

9. I know.

Reply to highplainsdem (Reply #8)

Wed Feb 16, 2022, 01:32 AM

Feb 2022

Just having a hard time tonight. She died as we were shifting her to a more comfortable position.

My sister gave me the blood pressure cuff as she reached for the phone. It was zero. Then she called and we waited for the police and hearse.

highplainsdem

(48,970 posts)

11. Oh, sheshe2...

Reply to sheshe2 (Reply #9)

Wed Feb 16, 2022, 01:47 AM

Feb 2022

That's such a painful memory. I wish I could give you a hug in person.

I can't, but I can remind you of that beautiful sign you already received from your mom, who'd want you to remember all the happy, loving times with her, rather than those final moments. And she'd want you to picture her young and healthy again.

All the caregiving was hard on you, but it was a blessing for her to have you there. And it made you stronger, even if you might not feel that way right now.

Sending love and hugs...