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cali

(114,904 posts)
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 08:21 AM Oct 2012

Women pregnant from rape are no more deserving of access to safe, legal abortion

than those who become pregnant through consensual sex.

With all the emphasis on the small number of women who become pregnant from being raped, I worry that we're marginalizing women who seek an abortion for all the other reasons.

All women are entitled to access to safe, legal abortion services.

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Women pregnant from rape are no more deserving of access to safe, legal abortion (Original Post) cali Oct 2012 OP
Exactly n/t RainDog Oct 2012 #1
My personal view on abortion is irrelevant! MAD Dave Oct 2012 #2
It gets on my nerves too deadbrokediva Oct 2012 #3
Well said--and welcome to DU! classof56 Oct 2012 #8
She pushes that because this is the first time CitizenPatriot Oct 2012 #14
It is simply a wedge used to split the anti choice crowd. Motown_Johnny Oct 2012 #4
That is a very good point. redqueen Oct 2012 #19
Like the old "donkey" joke: First, you get its attention. WinkyDink Oct 2012 #5
republican rape panels mgardener Oct 2012 #6
Yes Sadiedog Oct 2012 #7
Absolutely right handsomebwonderful Oct 2012 #9
That's the whole reason why Republicans have been CitizenPatriot Oct 2012 #16
We cannot fight for womens rights overseas SCVDem Oct 2012 #10
May I have your permission to use that on twitter? (Nt) Doodler71 Oct 2012 #28
Please do. nt SCVDem Oct 2012 #29
Hell, the Dem party platform makes me worry that we're marginalizing women, full stop. redqueen Oct 2012 #11
+1 leftstreet Oct 2012 #13
agreed. PeaceNikki Oct 2012 #12
It just shows how far right the debate has moved. morningfog Oct 2012 #15
I think EC Oct 2012 #17
exactly. women on birth control for medical reasons are no more entitled than those PeaceNikki Oct 2012 #18
Excellent idea. redqueen Oct 2012 #20
This is exactly what the GOP wants us doing justiceischeap Oct 2012 #21
Agree. SalviaBlue Oct 2012 #22
Women own their bodies gollygee Oct 2012 #23
I think that any woman facing an unintended pregnancy should have the choice of Grammy23 Oct 2012 #24
wong as could possibly be. cali Oct 2012 #27
"All women are entitled to access to safe, legal abortion services."... SidDithers Oct 2012 #25
Bravo! AzDar Oct 2012 #26

MAD Dave

(204 posts)
2. My personal view on abortion is irrelevant!
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 09:16 AM
Oct 2012

All women should have access to affordable contraception and abortion services. It is a simple equality issue - Women must have the choice to bear children.

deadbrokediva

(48 posts)
3. It gets on my nerves too
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 09:17 AM
Oct 2012

when everyone points out these insidious "exceptions" to abortion. Either we own or bodies outright or we rent them out to the fucking government on a "need" basis - which is it going to be, ladies?

I'd like to think that one of the reasons people like Rachel Maddow (who I love) continues to push the exception bit is to point out just how vile and misogynistic these assholes like Akin, Ryan, Mourdock, and all the other scum like them are when it comes to respecting women. Which is a big fat ZERO.

classof56

(5,376 posts)
8. Well said--and welcome to DU!
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 10:49 AM
Oct 2012

A lot of battles were fought for women's rights that I never anticipated we would fight again. Those of us who lived through the pre-Roe v Wade days know what's at stake and we will not let the likes of Akin, Ryan, Mourdock, etc. prevail. If they can't respect us, let them fear us!

OBAMA/BIDEN 2012

CitizenPatriot

(3,783 posts)
14. She pushes that because this is the first time
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:20 AM
Oct 2012

since Roe v Wade that Democrats have been on the mainstream side of the issue not playing defense. Ever since RvW, Republicans have been pushing back with the morality angle. When confronted with exceptions, even mainstream America balks. I agree with you that it's an issue of freedom, but this is a good way to peel off the independent voters. If discussed properly, it also highlights the personal part of the decision, which can be broadened out to all abortion/health issues.

Politically it's smart, but I agree that it irks me to hear it over and over again instead of hearing that it's a matter of personal liberty. Frankly I can't believe we even have to have these discussions anymore. state mandated birth for God? Really, America?

 

Motown_Johnny

(22,308 posts)
4. It is simply a wedge used to split the anti choice crowd.
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 09:19 AM
Oct 2012

We all agree with you but we need to get people who don't agree with you/us to vote as if they did.

mgardener

(2,360 posts)
6. republican rape panels
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 10:41 AM
Oct 2012

yes.
We need to drive the argument and not constantly respond to these religious people.
Their argument is religious based and has no place in our country.
We also nee to make sure they do not touch women's access to contraceptives.

If they do get elected, then what will they have, rape panels? Women will have to prove rape?
Good God, how can women refuse to believe that the republicans are not declaring war on women?

 
9. Absolutely right
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 10:51 AM
Oct 2012

I'm so tired and angered by "what about rape?" questions. The question of "why only rape" is never asked, to hear it in their own words; however we know it is fueled by anti-women belief, where only good, married women have sex.

Further, if one believes in exceptions for rape, think of the problems that could arise from that. What is the rapist says it was consensual? (And hey, what if it's your wife or daughter?) But they probably wouldn't bother anwering "hypotheticals" like these.

CitizenPatriot

(3,783 posts)
16. That's the whole reason why Republicans have been
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:24 AM
Oct 2012

redefining rape over the past 2 years. It's the basis for "legitimate rape" because no woman will be able to prove she was raped, and therefor they can deny her an abortion.

This is already a problem for low income women who need an abortion after being raped, records show that they can't prove they were raped and they give up trying to get the funds due to the restrictive proof needed. This assault has been going on for years, it's just getting press now. They have also already come for contraception (personhood amendment and obamacare "religious liberty" etc) and Romney wants to defund PP.

 

SCVDem

(5,103 posts)
10. We cannot fight for womens rights overseas
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:03 AM
Oct 2012

while we legislate them away at home!

This cannot stand!

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
11. Hell, the Dem party platform makes me worry that we're marginalizing women, full stop.
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:07 AM
Oct 2012

All that wording about how it's an 'intensely' personal between her (and her family, and her doctor, and her clergy)... wtf?

How is that personal anymore? If her family members, her doctor, and her clergy are already invited (by other people!) to 'help' her decide, well why not politicians and the government, too?

EC

(12,287 posts)
17. I think
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:27 AM
Oct 2012

it shouldn't even stop at abortion. I think we should be telling these men to stay out of our health care, period. No one is telling them which health services men can or cannot have. They are attempting more than just stopping abortion rights. For whatever reason they want to take away the very idea of a right to privacy, as in Connecticut vs Griswold (the pill and privacy)...that is what decided our right to abortion - a woman's right to privacy. So it wouldn't be just abortion rights they'd overturn - it would be our rights to privacy, which in turn will give the state a right to rule our lives.

We should be framing this as a privacy matter and a responsibility for our own health matter.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
18. exactly. women on birth control for medical reasons are no more entitled than those
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:28 AM
Oct 2012

Who take it to prevent pregnancy

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
20. Excellent idea.
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:31 AM
Oct 2012

How many other health issues would people like the radical right to get involved in?

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
21. This is exactly what the GOP wants us doing
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:38 AM
Oct 2012

If we all are in agreement that "abortion should only be for victims of rape or incest" then we aren't talking about that abortion is legal in ALL instances. They are winning the battle of framing this discussion and we must stop it now. It's like the anti-choice/pro-life discussion. By saying pro-life it intimates that pro-choice people are also pro-death.

So, though we should continue to have the discussion about these idiotic remarks, we also need to continue stating that all abortions are legal and should stay that way.

Grammy23

(6,123 posts)
24. I think that any woman facing an unintended pregnancy should have the choice of
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:51 AM
Oct 2012

whether to continue the pregnancy or not. However, people who believe that there are NO exceptions to allowing abortion are firm in their beliefs, too. Many of them base it on FAITH which is a powerful motivator for them. The whole subject is laden with emotion and, for many of them, is reinforced by a faith that they have practiced since childhood. In addition, many of them have ZERO capacity for thinking critically. So how do you get through to them to even begin the conversation of why individual CHOICE should be the law of the land?

You have to approach the subject with an equally powerful emotional argument to get past all the walls they have built up to deflect anything that conflicts with their view of the world and how it SHOULD be. It is when you bring a situation like pregnancy as a result of rape that you may begin to have a starting point for them. You have to demonstrate to them that it is possible that there might be a situation that IS the exception for when abortion might be allowable.

Once you get them accustomed to the idea that we do not live in a black and white world, one rule applies to all, then you might have a chance to suggest that CHOICE for the individual is the LOGICAL path. But you cannot do that until you've knocked down some of their barriers to this argument.

I know that some would go straight to the argument that CHOICE is the best path, but if you're failing to get them to hear you, your words are wasted and sometimes only reinforce the very beliefs you are asking them to question.

And finally, if you can convince them there really are exceptions to the rule of no abortions---period----then you can move on to the idea that CHOICE in all situations should be the law of the land.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
27. wong as could possibly be.
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 12:12 PM
Oct 2012

buying into the right wing frame is a losing proposition- and we should know that by now.

SidDithers

(44,333 posts)
25. "All women are entitled to access to safe, legal abortion services."...
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 12:03 PM
Oct 2012

Abso-freakin-lutely.



Sid

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