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majdrfrtim

(340 posts)
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 02:10 AM Mar 2022

I heard from one of my UKR paratrooper buddies Tuesday.

We were deployed to the same base overseas in '09 - '10, I with a Battalion from the U.S., they were a Company of Airborne Soldiers from Ukraine. I wound up teaching English to many of them (as well as to some Polish, Slovenian, Armenian, and Turkish personnel). As I was in my 50s I felt pretty avuncular toward them; yet since I'd just joined the military ~2.5 years earlier (no prior service), many of them had many more years of military service under their belts, so I felt they were mentoring me. I've stayed in touch with a number of those guys, and with one in particular, a senior NCO. Out of an overabundance of caution, I'll not name him here.

Anyway, for most of the rest of my times being deployed I sent him money every month to help him and his growing family so they could buy an apartment. Just after the invasion two weeks ago he sent me a photo of his military kit (rucksack, sleeping bag, bedroll, etc.) with the caption, "All your presents are at work again." That took my breath away. Since then, I've been checking that platform several times daily looking for word from him, his wife, or any of the other guys I know. As the situation over there has worsened, I have engaged every resilience option at my disposal to just get through each day.

Yesterday, I received another message: "Hand granade rolled down to the foxhole, I thew the dude out and covered by myself. Dude alive with no scratches. I've got only small one in left hand (does not affect shooting in any way, so good). And, I instantly got battlefield promotion from 1LT to CPT" (His English is so much better than my Ukrainian!)

He's a fucking HERO. I've known for years that he's an awesome Soldier and a stellar human being, so I'm not surprised that he went head-to-head with a live grenade, and won! I suspect that he's grossly downplaying the injuries to his left hand; that would just be his style. I just now remembered that about seven years ago when he won some military competition in Ukraine which allowed him to come to the States for five months of language training in San Antonio followed by five months of training with the USMC at Camp Lejeune, he called me one day and said that the Marines had started calling him "Beast!" and he wasn't sure how to take that. He is, certainly, one of the strongest men I've ever met.

That said, the dread that's been shadowing me seems even greater now than before. Oh how I wish, were I not now closer to 70 than to 60, that I could be over there to support him and his buddies. If you've made it this far in reading this, I humbly ask that you send good thoughts or prayers to him, his lovely family, his buddies, and Ukraine, if you'd be so inclined.

Thanks for letting me share this.

Слава Україні!

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I heard from one of my UKR paratrooper buddies Tuesday. (Original Post) majdrfrtim Mar 2022 OP
Slava Ukraini denbot Mar 2022 #1
These people show unimaginable courage... orwell Mar 2022 #2
Not only am I incredibly proud of the fight these brave people are putting up Otto_Harper Mar 2022 #3
Thank you for sharing a part of your life nd his with us. My prayers have been niyad Mar 2022 #4
Thank you for sharing this story of your brave friend. SharonClark Mar 2022 #5
Thanks for your story canetoad Mar 2022 #6
"Beast" is a huge compliment in the military. Baitball Blogger Mar 2022 #7
Amazing! Duppers Mar 2022 #8
Thanks for sharing! cate94 Mar 2022 #9
Your friend is a hero. gademocrat7 Mar 2022 #10
Thank you for sharing this DarthDem Mar 2022 #11
Wonderful story... Soooo appreciate your sharing it with us. Please keep us updated!!! Karadeniz Mar 2022 #12
being called "beast " by the grunts is a compliment . AllaN01Bear Mar 2022 #13
There are two groups I would not want to fight. roamer65 Mar 2022 #14
I say this mantra a few times a day: Strong Ukraine, Ukraine Strong MLAA Mar 2022 #15
How great for you to have such a friend. Thank you for sharing your story. Lonestarblue Mar 2022 #16
Bookmarking. What an extraordinary story about 2 brave souls. Boomerproud Mar 2022 #17
I am holding your friend in my thoughts... AmBlue Mar 2022 #18
What a story... electric_blue68 Mar 2022 #19
Thank you for posting this great story! Poiuyt Mar 2022 #20
Holding Cpt Friend and his buddies in the Ukraine in my prayers. n/t TygrBright Mar 2022 #21
Thank you for the story Jarqui Mar 2022 #22
I will. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2022 #23
Bless you & your brave friend onetexan Mar 2022 #24

orwell

(8,003 posts)
2. These people show unimaginable courage...
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 02:16 AM
Mar 2022

...every moment of every day.

It really is inspiring as was your story.

Thank you for sharing it.

Godspeed to you friend and all those that are fighting for our future.

Otto_Harper

(822 posts)
3. Not only am I incredibly proud of the fight these brave people are putting up
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 02:28 AM
Mar 2022

but I also think of them as "my boys", in a patriotic sense, even though our country is not (yet) involved in direct combat.

niyad

(130,488 posts)
4. Thank you for sharing a part of your life nd his with us. My prayers have been
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 02:41 AM
Mar 2022

wth Ukraine and her people and supporters since this most recent insanity hit the news.

Duppers

(28,469 posts)
8. Amazing!
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 04:15 AM
Mar 2022

We thank YOU for sharing here.

Yes, Slava Ukrain! May her flag fly forever! And may your friend stay safe.

DarthDem

(5,449 posts)
11. Thank you for sharing this
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 06:55 AM
Mar 2022

You write wonderfully. Your friend sounds like an amazing person and is a hero without doubt. I'll keep him in my thoughts for certain. My best to him and his compatriots.

AllaN01Bear

(28,897 posts)
13. being called "beast " by the grunts is a compliment .
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 08:40 PM
Mar 2022

he has more balls than our socalled hem malitia fools or the idiots who tried to overun the capital. theyd shrink at this , so would i.

roamer65

(37,852 posts)
14. There are two groups I would not want to fight.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 09:00 PM
Mar 2022

Ukrainians and Sikhs.

They’ll give us the shirt off their backs, but don’t pick a fight with them.

Slava Ukraini!

MLAA

(19,678 posts)
15. I say this mantra a few times a day: Strong Ukraine, Ukraine Strong
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 09:51 PM
Mar 2022

I will add good thoughts for your buddies and the brave ‘Beast’

And hugs for you,

Lonestarblue

(13,343 posts)
16. How great for you to have such a friend. Thank you for sharing your story.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 09:53 PM
Mar 2022

I have kept the Ukrainians in my prayers ever since Putin attacked. I have such admiration for their bravery their spirit, and their ingenuity in fighting an army that is depriving them of life and their way of life. May Putin and his generals rot in hell—and may their descent to that netherworld be very soon.

AmBlue

(3,460 posts)
18. I am holding your friend in my thoughts...
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 10:37 PM
Mar 2022

...and prayers, along with all the courageous souls fighting in Ukraine. May they emerge victorious!!

SLAVA UKRAINI!! 🇺🇦 🌻 🇺🇦

electric_blue68

(26,416 posts)
19. What a story...
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 10:40 PM
Mar 2022

As a 2nd Gen half Ukrainian-American (who may have unknown cousins over there near Kyiv) I've certainly been praying in general, for Pres Zelenskyy, his family, and his top people in particular.

Now I'll add your friend, his family, and his buddies in particular.


Slava Unkraini! 🌻🇺🇦🌻

Jarqui

(10,860 posts)
22. Thank you for the story
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 11:27 PM
Mar 2022

I'm sick with worry for these Ukrainians.
I am so impressed with their resolve, ideals, courage, etc.
The attacks on their civilians are so distressing.
I would very much like to see them get a lot more help.
Like you, I'm a lot closer to 70. Not good enough physically to be of much use.
I'm pulling for them every day.

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