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MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:24 PM Mar 2022

DU Has a National Reach - Here's an Example:

Sometimes, what someone posts here on DU goes beyond the readership of this discussion forum. Why? Because Google includes DU in its collection of Internet data and stores everything that is posted here in its enormous database. From time to time, postings on DU get picked up by reporters and published nationally.

Last Summer, I posted here about FEMA's COVID-19 Funeral Benefit. I did that, because I had applied for and received that benefit after my parents died in January. My father died of COVID. My mother died the same day, from advanced Alzheimer's disease. I posted about my experience because the FEMA program did not get a lot of coverage and I wanted DUers to know how the program worked and what was involved in applying and qualifying for the benefit.

Last month, EarlG forwarded an email to me. It was from Kevin McCoy, a reporter for USA Today, who had found one of my DU posts about the FEMA program and wanted to contact me. Since DU's administrators never give information about DUers to anyone, that was how EarlG handled it. So, I contacted the reporter.

The reporter wanted to interview someone who had successfully navigated the process of getting that benefit. I was happy to answer his questions. The process is more complicated than it might be, so I knew it might be difficult for others to apply for and receive it. That's why I detailed the program in my DU post.

After I answered his questions and agreed that he could use my name in the article he was writing, he asked if I could send him a photo of my late parents, with me in the photo looking at their picture. I said OK and had my wife take the picture, which I sent to the reporter.

The article in USA Today can be viewed at the link below. This link has the article without the USA Today firewall:

https://news.yahoo.com/federal-funeral-benefits-covid-19-090046139.html

My reason for posting this today is to let people here know that what gets posted here on DU can sometimes find its way to others and be seen by a much wider audience. So, when you post, please keep that in mind. If you want that to happen, be sure to include likely search keywords in your post title. This is not the first time that posts here on DU have gotten national notice and it won't be the last..

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DU Has a National Reach - Here's an Example: (Original Post) MineralMan Mar 2022 OP
Impressive!!!! PCIntern Mar 2022 #1
Cool! Elessar Zappa Mar 2022 #2
Your parents were beautiful. tblue37 Mar 2022 #3
Yes. They never made the news beyond their home town. MineralMan Mar 2022 #7
Excellent point. I often see DU cited in Google searches. nolabear Mar 2022 #4
Yes. Google is constantly cataloging DU. MineralMan Mar 2022 #11
Agree. I'd like to see opinion and fact separated. nolabear Mar 2022 #58
Nice job MM! Blues Heron Mar 2022 #5
Noting committed to keystrokes ever goes away Chainfire Mar 2022 #6
Everything under the Sun is in tune. lagomorph777 Mar 2022 #15
That something good could come from your loss and from something as seemingly ordinary as a DU post hlthe2b Mar 2022 #8
Well, I hope that article leads people to that FEMA benefit, MineralMan Mar 2022 #9
Great job exposing the benefit. Pantagruel Mar 2022 #10
Such important information. mzmolly Mar 2022 #12
Viagra, sex, porn, MAGA, Jewish Space Lasers, George Soros, QAnon usonian Mar 2022 #13
That's quite a story. RIP your folks (same day :( yikes ) Glad the reporter and you got the info... electric_blue68 Mar 2022 #14
Wow--that's awesome! pandr32 Mar 2022 #16
You always provide such good information to us on DU. SalviaBlue Mar 2022 #17
You're very kind! MineralMan Mar 2022 #18
My brother died this past June 9th. He had been in a home for premature Alzheimer's ( he was 73) panader0 Mar 2022 #19
COVID-19 must appear as the cause of death on the death certificate MineralMan Mar 2022 #20
Thanks, MM KS Toronado Mar 2022 #21
What a nice photo of you all, MM. Nice eyes. :) Hortensis Mar 2022 #22
Post removed Post removed Mar 2022 #23
Hi! Bye! MineralMan Mar 2022 #26
Oh man, it was gone before I could respond. This Blue Team Fool salutes you! NBachers Mar 2022 #31
Yes. Here and gone in a flash. MineralMan Mar 2022 #35
ahhh, did I miss a troll? niyad Mar 2022 #69
Yup. Not a very clever one, though. MineralMan Mar 2022 #70
Awright! It helps others. keithbvadu2 Mar 2022 #24
Post removed Post removed Mar 2022 #25
If you read thru the series of responses here, you will see how many people appreciated MM's posts Hekate Mar 2022 #49
Kudos! dchill Mar 2022 #27
Most people haven't. Maybe more will. MineralMan Mar 2022 #30
You are a good MineralMan! dchill Mar 2022 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author highplainsdem Mar 2022 #28
A global reach, think of all the hackers in 2016 /nt bucolic_frolic Mar 2022 #29
MM, love the picture of your folks.. Peacetrain Mar 2022 #33
They were amazing people. MineralMan Mar 2022 #34
A true love story!! Peacetrain Mar 2022 #36
Yup! MineralMan Mar 2022 #38
Congratulations. I bookmarked what you wrote at the time on the process of settling their estate... Hekate Mar 2022 #37
Thanks MineralMan Mar 2022 #39
Very good stuff, MM. jaxexpat Mar 2022 #40
There are many DUers who try to help others. I salute them all. MineralMan Mar 2022 #41
Bartcop gave me awareness of DU in January of 2001. It was on his list of websites. jaxexpat Mar 2022 #45
fond memories of bartcop 90-percent Mar 2022 #74
Susie cream cheese? Is that you, Soozie? jaxexpat Mar 2022 #76
we can out wit terrorists by using our excellent American brains 90-percent Mar 2022 #78
very interesting liberal internet archaeology 90-percent Mar 2022 #77
I had a post go "viral". Mosby Mar 2022 #42
Amazing, isn't it? I remember that post. MineralMan Mar 2022 #44
It's nice that "Name Removed" even put in an appearance Hekate Mar 2022 #47
Kudos, MineralMan, for helping that journalist! And what a wonderful family photo! highplainsdem Mar 2022 #43
You post really informative stuff malaise Mar 2022 #46
I try to, for sure. MineralMan Mar 2022 #48
Great work MM spanone Mar 2022 #50
Nicely done, MineralMan! Permanut Mar 2022 #51
I remember your post from last summer, in fact I even bookmarked it FakeNoose Mar 2022 #52
Recommended. H2O Man Mar 2022 #53
Awesome MM...yes I believe people read us...my sis lurks but read the GD forum and lounge Demsrule86 Mar 2022 #54
Good one on you, MM peggysue2 Mar 2022 #55
Well done, MM! SergeStorms Mar 2022 #56
What a wonderful article! Tadpole Raisin Mar 2022 #57
Some incredibly smart people on DU. I go right to the the comments for Pepsidog Mar 2022 #59
Recently I read a different DU post which said Malcolm Nance uses this site BigmanPigman Mar 2022 #60
definately Thom Hartmann 90-percent Mar 2022 #75
Nance was telling Joy Reid that he was in Ukraine BigmanPigman Mar 2022 #84
You look almost exactly as I had pictured you. Thank you so much for being able niyad Mar 2022 #61
Yup. MineralMan Mar 2022 #66
Thank you for posting this- It says a lot about Quakerfriend Mar 2022 #62
I'm glad the information helped you. MineralMan Mar 2022 #67
Good on you for helping other people sarge43 Mar 2022 #63
You're a good man, MineralMan. sarchasm Mar 2022 #64
You're very kind to say so. MineralMan Mar 2022 #68
What a lovely picture of your parents & you. SheltieLover Mar 2022 #65
That is so cool, MineralMan! BComplex Mar 2022 #71
Well done! SleeplessinSoCal Mar 2022 #72
Words to the VERY wise! calimary Mar 2022 #73
Your mother and father died on the same day. The Jungle 1 Mar 2022 #79
Yes. My father had COVID Pneumonia and my mother MineralMan Mar 2022 #81
This can help so many people MM! AllyCat Mar 2022 #80
That is always my hope. MineralMan Mar 2022 #82
(((Hugs))) AllyCat Mar 2022 #83

nolabear

(43,850 posts)
4. Excellent point. I often see DU cited in Google searches.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:33 PM
Mar 2022

Mind you I’m searching for details on something posted here but you’re right; anyone looking for current events is likely to have DU discussions come up.

Such a terrible thing, losing your parents that way. I hope somehow you made something of it with meaning for you via that article.

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
11. Yes. Google is constantly cataloging DU.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:41 PM
Mar 2022

So, DU reaches beyond the people who come here. That's a great reason to try to make posts here as clear and meaningful as possible, I think.

nolabear

(43,850 posts)
58. Agree. I'd like to see opinion and fact separated.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 04:40 PM
Mar 2022

I appreciate the need to communicate and work through things with like minds but it can work against us when we discuss opinions and reactions as fact before checking them. And I’m far from perfect here.

But I like the fact DU is on top of so much. We just need to be careful how we say things, so people know we’re stating feeling or opinion and don’t pass on those as facts.

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
6. Noting committed to keystrokes ever goes away
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:34 PM
Mar 2022

All that you touch
And all that you see
All that you taste
All you feel
And all that you type...

hlthe2b

(113,973 posts)
8. That something good could come from your loss and from something as seemingly ordinary as a DU post
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:35 PM
Mar 2022

is a very positive thing to see today. We could all use a bit of that--a tiny bit of positive from all that going on now that is decidedly... not.

Good on you and to EarlG for facilitating this in a very appropriate manner.

may your parents RIP

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
9. Well, I hope that article leads people to that FEMA benefit,
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:39 PM
Mar 2022

which is still available to anyone who has lost someone to COVID-19. That was my goal in posting about it here. Now others will see it, too.

mzmolly

(52,793 posts)
12. Such important information.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:43 PM
Mar 2022

Thanks for sharing here and getting national attention, so others can benefit.

usonian

(25,326 posts)
13. Viagra, sex, porn, MAGA, Jewish Space Lasers, George Soros, QAnon
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:43 PM
Mar 2022

Thank you.

Kindly share my page on
WAYS TO DONATE TO UKRAINE HUMANITARIAN AID.
https://democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=16468885

Included here for much needed visibility.

Thanks to Hekate, who relayed links from this source:
https://snyder.substack.com/p/a-few-ways-to-help-ukrainians?utm_source=url

NGO that arranges life-saving equipment for Ukrainian soldiers: https://savelife.in.ua/en/donate

Hospitallers working at the frontline: https://www.facebook.com/hospitallers/posts/2953630548255167

Ukrainian Women’s Veteran Movement: https://www.uwvm.org.ua/?page_id=3437&lang=en

NGO that assists internal refugees: https://unitedhelpukraine.org/

NGO that assistants internal refugees, especially from Crimea: https://www.peaceinsight.org/en/organisations/crimea-sos/?location=ukraine&theme

NGO that aids traumatised children: https://voices.org.ua/en/

Foundation that assists healthcare and education in eastern Ukraine: https://razomforukraine.org/projects/zhadan/


CharityWatch has a list
https://www.charitywatch.org/charity-donating-articles/watch-here-top-rated-charities-providing-aid-to-ukrainians
Go to the URL above for links to these highly-rated organizations!
CARE USA
Catholic Relief Services
Direct Relief & Direct Relief Foundation
International Medical Corps
Medical Teams International
Mercy Corps
Operation USA
Project HOPE
Save the Children
United Methodist Committee on Relief (UMCOR)
United States Fund for UNICEF

NPR has a list of organizations
https://www.npr.org/2022/02/25/1082992947/ukraine-support-help
Go to the above URL for links.
UNICEF
Médecins Sans Frontieres/Doctors Without Borders
Voices of Children
Sunflower of Peace
International Committee of the Red Cross
Save the Children
UN Refugee Agency (UNHCR)
CARE
International Medical Corps


IFAW
Thanks, Paula Sims for posting.
https://www.ifaw.org/news/emergency-aid-ukraine
IFAW continues to expand our support to local partners in Ukraine who are helping animals amidst ongoing and violent attacks from Russia.
Donate: https://secure.ifaw.org/united-states/emergency-ukraine

Chef Andrés World Central Kitchen
https://wck.org/
WCK serving thousands of fresh meals to Ukrainian families fleeing home as well as those who remain in the country
Donate: https://donate.wck.org/give/396273/#!/donation/checkout

Doctors Without Borders (Medecins Sans Frontieres, MSF)
https://democraticunderground.com/100216474631
https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/what-we-do/news-stories/story/how-msf-responding-war-ukraine
Donate: https://donate.doctorswithoutborders.org/secure/monthly

On March 6, an MSF shipment of emergency medical supplies was delivered to the Ukrainian Ministry of Health in Kyiv. The shipment contained 1,400 cubic feet of supplies, including surgical kits, trauma kits, and basic necessities for intensive care units, emergency rooms, and surgical operating theaters. These supplies are now being sent on to hospitals in the city and other towns further east where they are urgently needed. We are sending additional supplies to the country.

Thank you, Totally Tunsie for posting this.

orangecrush posted:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100216472913
Paypal link for direct Ukraine contributions
No fees charged.
Money goes direct to the charities.
I will sleep better tonight.
SLAVA UKRAINI

You can select which charity too!
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https://democraticunderground.com/100216468133
Omaha Steve's ActBlue Ukraine donation page.
We have now raised OVER $1,500 for Ukraine!!!
Make your tax deductible donation here: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/duforukraine


Here are 11 verified charities working to help Ukrainians amid invasion
https://news.yahoo.com/5-verified-charities-working-help-185109710.html
Clicking on the link gets you a page with active URLS. to the organizations.
Global Empowerment Mission
World Central Kitchen
Americares
United Way Worldwide
World Health Organization
USA for UNHCR
Global Giving Ukraine Crisis Relief Fund
International Rescue Committee
Save the Children
Razom for Ukraine
The International Committee of the Red Cross

Please share relief info you have
here, and more generally, of course.



electric_blue68

(26,856 posts)
14. That's quite a story. RIP your folks (same day :( yikes ) Glad the reporter and you got the info...
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 01:45 PM
Mar 2022

out to others! 👍

Lovely photo of your folks, as well.

SalviaBlue

(3,109 posts)
17. You always provide such good information to us on DU.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:03 PM
Mar 2022

I’m glad it’s also gotten out to the wider world. You do us proud!

panader0

(25,816 posts)
19. My brother died this past June 9th. He had been in a home for premature Alzheimer's ( he was 73)
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:18 PM
Mar 2022

in Tucson. There was an outbreak of Covid-19 at his facility and I was prevented from any
visitation. I was finally able to visit after having been vaccinated, and after the facility lifted
the restrictions. His death was listed as due to dementia. I requested that he be cremated
and later his ashes were sent to me in Sierra Vista, Az. Am I eligible for the FEMA benefits? Also,
could you include a link to your earlier OP on the subject? Thanks, and congrats on the write-up.

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
20. COVID-19 must appear as the cause of death on the death certificate
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:23 PM
Mar 2022

to qualify for the benefit. Unfortunately, some states tried to hide COVID deaths by not naming it as the cause.

Here's one of the first posts where I describe the process. I think it's probably the one the reporter saw:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100215860591#post8

KS Toronado

(23,727 posts)
21. Thanks, MM
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:24 PM
Mar 2022

Kinda like Jimmy Stewart in "It's a Wonderful Life", we never know how our ideas might impact society.
So keep posting everyone.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
22. What a nice photo of you all, MM. Nice eyes. :)
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:29 PM
Mar 2022

As for national reach, it should always be as worth readers' attention.

Response to MineralMan (Original post)

Response to MineralMan (Original post)

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
49. If you read thru the series of responses here, you will see how many people appreciated MM's posts
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 03:34 PM
Mar 2022

… on the subject. I am sure I am not the only one who bookmarked them or printed them out for reference, nightwing1240.

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
30. Most people haven't. Maybe more will.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:42 PM
Mar 2022

Funerals are hugely expensive, and the funeral industry works hard to shame people into spending more than they can afford to bury their beloved relatives. This benefit could help many recover those costs. Sadly the people who need it the most probably don't know about the benefit.

That's why I was happy to talk to that reporter and to share information here.

Response to MineralMan (Original post)

Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
33. MM, love the picture of your folks..
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:45 PM
Mar 2022

You know I have thought for years you were someone I knew many years ago who lived in St. Paul.. but now that I see your picture, you of course are not him.. but I am so sorry about the loss of your parents.. especially so close together.. that is a lot to take in.. My last parent, my Mom died in October.. no matter how old we get, the time is never enough..

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
34. They were amazing people.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:48 PM
Mar 2022

If we live long enough, we have to bury our parents. And our parents always hope we live long enough to do that. My parents were both 96 years old, and had been married for 75 years. Sadly, both were in failing health by the time they died. My father's greatest fear was that he would outlive my mother, so he could keep caring for her. She died about an hour before he did. He didn't know that, but he would have been glad.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
37. Congratulations. I bookmarked what you wrote at the time on the process of settling their estate...
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:51 PM
Mar 2022

Your career as a writer comes through so clearly in your ability to bring clarity to a complicated series of processes. Your generally calm demeanor in the face of the occasional idiot is an example to us all — I’m serious about that, by the way. When frustrated, it’s all too easy to take everything very personally indeed.

Nice to see your actual face and name — and that of your parents.

 

jaxexpat

(7,794 posts)
40. Very good stuff, MM.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 02:56 PM
Mar 2022

I remember the meticulous description you had for that process. Thanks for being who you are here.

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
41. There are many DUers who try to help others. I salute them all.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 03:06 PM
Mar 2022

I made DU my home for all things politics in 2008.

 

jaxexpat

(7,794 posts)
45. Bartcop gave me awareness of DU in January of 2001. It was on his list of websites.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 03:17 PM
Mar 2022

Lurked for years. Pretty much my primary source for "in depth" news. I guess that makes me an out and out "liberal" in some eyes.

90-percent

(6,956 posts)
74. fond memories of bartcop
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 05:35 AM
Mar 2022

pretty sure I stumbled onto DU from a bartcop link. I sent Terry content now and then and he actually published it. He was Mad magazine in their truth to power sixties heyday (back then mad accepted no advertising AT ALL so as not to have their POV corrupted, publisher Gaines was front and center at the fifties during mcCarthy style DC witch hunts that posited that horror comics caused juvenile delinquency and thus the "comics code seal of approval" published on the covers) and had a cynical humorous well informed and expressed outrage about the morbidly wealthy that own and run everything. a corrupt and stupid lot. putin is a shakespearean tragedy and tfg is an archie comics tragedy.


from: bartcop
To: jimi*******
Sent: Wed, Jul 24, 2013 10:45 am
Subject: Re: unsolicited BC content

Jim, thanks - I'll run that,
bart


> Dear Bart - you recently posted one of my DU posts on BC. I got some more potential content for you
>
> https://www.facebook.com/groups/77801446709/permalink/10151458336626710/
>
> above link is about Zappa and the MIC that I have never seen before, and I've been studying Frank since 1971!
>
> It prompted me to write the most rec'ced original post on DU I ever created in my 8 or so years on DU:
>
> http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023305032
>
> in line with my concept that Americans have a hell of a lot more to fear FROM THEIR OWN GOVERNMENT than they do from many terrorist.
>
> it still fucking amazes me that so many frightened and stupid american would give up their constitutional rights to be protected from fucking terrorism, when fucking bathroom accidents are statistically much more likely to kill them than a terrorist ever will. in my opinion, the GWOT has utterly nothing to do with keeping us safe, and everything to do with the justification for building the infrastructure for a totalitarian fascist police state!
>
> enjoy and dont feel obliged to run this if its not suitable.
>
> -jim

 

jaxexpat

(7,794 posts)
76. Susie cream cheese? Is that you, Soozie?
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 06:19 AM
Mar 2022

That's why I retiled my shower floor with non-skid tiles. Damn terrorists! Not in my bathroom, not on my watch.

90-percent

(6,956 posts)
78. we can out wit terrorists by using our excellent American brains
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 06:42 AM
Mar 2022

Your concerns are well founded. yes, a walk down the Home Depot shower floor tile aisle has been infiltrated with aerosol cans of anthrax.

zappa wrote a song called "the dangerous kitchen", if you want to expand your irrational fears to another room


(attempted humor)

more bartcop stuff. lots of info from google. triggers lots of nostalgia. patriotic pioneer of populist journalism

Secret Zappa dog whistle reference in BC # 2257
Mon, Dec 8, 2008 5:12 pm
(@aol.com)To:bartcop Details
Help I'm a duck is using lyrics from "Help I'm a Rock", from Freak Out, the Mothers first album.

Just thought you'd want to know that, as your site is very Zappa friendly.

Regards,

Jim B******
Barkhamsted, CT

90-percent

(6,956 posts)
77. very interesting liberal internet archaeology
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 06:25 AM
Mar 2022

Last edited Wed Mar 16, 2022, 09:57 PM - Edit history (1)

brings back memories. the 2000 corrupt hyper partisan SC election decree and the invasion of Iraq in 2003 confirmed autocratic corrupt far right ideology would crush Democracy. How much corruption the PTB's has been accelerating since that 2000 un American SC decree is dark history we have all lived through.

Hopefully Putin's Hitleresque and incompetent invasion will shine a light on Republicans who are financially supported by Russia and useful idiots that allowed Putin to infiltrate America with divisive propaganda. The root cause of our current civil war Putin invading America from within. those Republicans have betrayed every American citizen and every Oath of their lifetimes.

-90% Jimmy

https://truthout.org/articles/in-memory-of-bartcop-seedcorn-pioneer-patriot/

 

Mosby

(19,491 posts)
42. I had a post go "viral".
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 03:12 PM
Mar 2022

The Republicans were lying about what PBO said in his book, so I posted the relevant section. It has just over 62,000 page views.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/11025883

FakeNoose

(41,637 posts)
52. I remember your post from last summer, in fact I even bookmarked it
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 04:05 PM
Mar 2022

How nice that this reporter followed up and wrote the nice article. Love the photo of you and your parents!

Demsrule86

(71,542 posts)
54. Awesome MM...yes I believe people read us...my sis lurks but read the GD forum and lounge
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 04:10 PM
Mar 2022

everyday.

peggysue2

(12,533 posts)
55. Good one on you, MM
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 04:16 PM
Mar 2022

Nicely done. Must say your avatar/sketch looks exactly like the photo in the news article.

And yes, to agree with the response above, your parents were certainly a handsome couple.

SergeStorms

(20,591 posts)
56. Well done, MM!
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 04:17 PM
Mar 2022

Thanks for posting. I'm sure you did many people a great service by providing the information necessary to start navigating the process. I'm sure the vast majority of Americans weren't aware of this programs existence.

Again, my most sincere condolences for the loss of your Mom and Dad. To lose one parent at a time is difficult, but to lose both.....

Apart from that, great article and photo. You don't look a day over 60.

Tadpole Raisin

(1,977 posts)
57. What a wonderful article!
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 04:21 PM
Mar 2022

I’m sure this information will help many people and it was nice you were able to talk with the reporter.

Great picture of your parents too!

Pepsidog

(6,365 posts)
59. Some incredibly smart people on DU. I go right to the the comments for
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 05:21 PM
Mar 2022

explanations and additional information.

BigmanPigman

(55,160 posts)
60. Recently I read a different DU post which said Malcolm Nance uses this site
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 06:53 PM
Mar 2022

and even mentioned it a few times.

90-percent

(6,956 posts)
75. definately Thom Hartmann
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 05:58 AM
Mar 2022

He quotes from DU all the time. Du has been my springboard in my efforts to be a "well informed citizen", which is a civic duty if you want a Democracy of, by, and for the people.

Malcolm is a NATIONAL TREASURE and he is well informed, courageous and goes to the hot zones when actual combat happens. I think he recently came back from an entire MONTH in Ukraine. And he thrives on military life, which I respect because I'm a lover not a fighter and would get shell shock at my induction physical. His communication skills are magnificent. Always well informed, articulate and understandable and well explained. He is simply UNTOUCHABLE.

I think democracynow mentions DU? Not sure.

may be others but cant think of any right now. and wondering how many liberal public figures and journalists peruse DU?

-90% Jimmy

BigmanPigman

(55,160 posts)
84. Nance was telling Joy Reid that he was in Ukraine
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 06:17 PM
Mar 2022

having pizza with friends then a week later the war started. This made him realize what really good and tough and prepared the Ukrainians are when it comes to fighting. That made me sad over how quickly it changed.

niyad

(132,446 posts)
61. You look almost exactly as I had pictured you. Thank you so much for being able
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 07:01 PM
Mar 2022

and willing to share part of your grief and processing with the public. You may well impact many lives out there in the most positive way.

To your other point: there have been many times over the years that I have gone to google (and whatever came before) and found that the first item returned in the search (and sometimes second and third as well) was a DU post. It always makes me proud to be a member of this amazing community.

Quakerfriend

(5,882 posts)
62. Thank you for posting this- It says a lot about
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 07:39 PM
Mar 2022

The value of DU.

And, thanks too for your post about Covid death benefits-
I was able to share with the family when our cousin died of Covid & provide them with the FEMA requirements.

And, btw, your parents are just gorgeous! Love the pic of you with them!

SheltieLover

(80,483 posts)
65. What a lovely picture of your parents & you.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 08:26 PM
Mar 2022

Congrats on your DU post being picked up by the media.

Ty for sharing your daunting experience to help others.

BComplex

(9,914 posts)
71. That is so cool, MineralMan!
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 10:18 PM
Mar 2022

Your parents look like lovebirds!

Glad to know DU posts educate people well beyond our virtual walls!

calimary

(90,021 posts)
73. Words to the VERY wise!
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 02:00 AM
Mar 2022

Good advice to keep in mind! (And here’s lookin’ at you, kid!)

 

The Jungle 1

(4,552 posts)
79. Your mother and father died on the same day.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 08:14 AM
Mar 2022

That is hard to wrap my head around. I am not sure if that is good or bad. Perhaps their love was that deep?

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
81. Yes. My father had COVID Pneumonia and my mother
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 09:22 AM
Mar 2022

had very advanced Alzheimer's and was under hospice care at their home. Neither thing was survivable. I did not, however, expect two phone calls just an hour apart. It was very strange, since they were in California and I was in Minnesota and unable to travel, since California was in the midst of a major COVID period and quarantines were in place if you traveled there.

Oddly enough, though, it turned out to be easier to deal with all of the necessary arrangements at a long distance. Between the phone, internet, and emails, everything got arranged very quickly, and there was a lot to do. Had I been there, I might have been tempted to go to places to make arrangements, which would have taken an enormous amount of time.

Fortunately, my sister and her husband still live in the same town as my parents. My sister also has Alzheimer's and her husband is her full-time caregiver, so he was not available to get everything going.

All the same, it was a chaotic period of my life. My parents' estate was fairly complicated and I was their executor. All of that had to be done from a distance, as well. Fortunately, they had a very competent attorney and I have some familiarity with legal stuff. So, everything happened quickly, and I helped with a number of legal processes to help speed things up.

All in all, though, I don't recommend a year like last year to anyone. Very, very trying.

AllyCat

(18,846 posts)
80. This can help so many people MM!
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 09:15 AM
Mar 2022

So sorry about your parents. I remember you talking about them and I lost my mom the same time as you lost both of your parents. She also had dementia.

Thank you for posting this story about you and your beautiful family.

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
82. That is always my hope.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 09:26 AM
Mar 2022

The COVID-19 pandemic led to many, many stories like mine and yours and many others. It tried everyone's patience, finances, and abilities. I tried to share my experiences and solutions in the hope that they would help others find their way through a terrible time. Writing about it also helped me to deal with it.

My adult career has always been in writing instructional and informational material on a number of topics. That's what I do.

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